Category Archives: Gay

Bachelors needed for Harbor to the Bay auction

harbor to the bay bachelor auctionThe organizers of the Harbor to the Bay Bachelor & Bachelorette Auction are still looking for men willing to step forward as a bachelor to help them with this fun / important fundraiser.

Are you interested or do you have a friend who would like to participate?  Applications (and more information) are available -  email:

All applications must be submitted by this Sunday, July 20th.

Bastille Day

Bastille Day: Vive la France In lieu of my weekly “Monday Blues” post I figured I’d try something that might bring a smile to your face.  Since today is Bastille Day or as the French call it La Fête Nationale, I opted for this bit of French eye-candy.  I trust you approve.

Big Gay Boat Ride tea dance today at 3PM

BGBRNo plans this afternoon? Bummed out that you are missing all the fun at Bear Week in Ptown? Today the Big Gay Boat Ride (BGBR) Tea Dance returns with all the music and fun starting at 2:30 PM; don’t be too fashionably late since the boat leaves at 3PM promptly from 70 Rowes Wharf (Gate C at Boston Harbor Hotel).

As the FB event page says, just look for the boys, boas and balloons.

Buy Your Tickets Here

Event Details Here

Scruffy Sunday

Men in Bed, It seems counterintuitive to get this guy out of bed.

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Olympian Ian Thorpe comes out

Australian Ian Thorpe, GayAustralian swimmer, Ian Thorpe, recently admitted he is gay in an interview in his home, Australia.  In addition to being gay he also happened to break 22 world records, win 5 gold – 3 silver – 1 bronze medal at the Olympic Games.  Welcome to the family Ian. I’m proud to have you on our team.

George Clooney as a Leather Daddy

George Cluny My guess is that this is photoshopped but I just don’t care. I love this.

Bonus Fur

Bonus Fur Ptown BoundSince tomorrow officially starts Bear Week I thought I’d add a bonus fur post this afternoon.  I hope he’s driving to Provincetown.

Maine Street Leather Bear Tea Dance Saturday 3-8PM

Gay menNot heading to Provincetown for Bear Week? No worries, Ogunquit, Maine has you covered.  Check out MAINE STREET LEATHER BEAR TEA DANCE on Saturday, July 12th from 3PM – 8PM.

Later that night check out Maine Street’s INKED PARTY and show off your ink.  Host Matthew Camp will run Maine Street’s annual Tattoo contest and be sure to say hi to special guest. DJ Pornstar.

Furry Friday

Tom MorinTom MorinThis week’s Furry Friday has a definite Daddy theme.  Tom lives in NH but is in Boston often.  He’s a handsome, easy-going guy.

Truth be told, I’ve had my eye on Tom for quite some time.  You’ll notice he caught my eye at the 2011 Carnival Parade in Ptown; he appears at 2:12 in my Carnival 2011 Video.

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Fur & Gold kick off party for Bear Week

Fur and GoldFur & Gold is ready for Bear Week and will host a pre-Bear Week party at Pi Alley tomorrow.

The Friday before Bear Week may well be the busiest day of the year for Pi Alley as guys from all over the country and world fly into Boston a day early so they can take the Saturday morning ferry to Provincetown for the start of Bear Week.  There is always a fun crowd at Pi Alley the Friday before Bear Week and it is worth checking out if you have no other plans.

More information about the Fur & Gold Bear Week pre-Party at Pi Alley in Downtown Crossing can be found here.


Bear Week in Ptown

Bear WeekBear Week officially starts on Saturday, July 12th and this year there seem to be more shows, parties and personalities than ever before.

While nobody should try to see or do everything – leaving Bear Week without checking out some of the fun events that are happening during this theme week would be a shame too. Here are some events I’ve noted that you might want to check out during Bear Week.

Saturday, July 12th Underwear Party at Purgatory

Sunday, July 13th Meet author, Amistead Maupin

Monday, July 14th Kiltbears Tea Dance at Boatslip

Tuesday, July 15th Beers and Bears with Brian Sims

Wednesday, July 16th Ass Wednesday at A-House ($100 prize)

Thursday, July 17th BearMania w/ Horse Meat Disco

Friday, July 18th Fireman’s Ball at Town Hall auditorium

For a more thorough list of events happening at Bear Week in Provincetown be sure to check out


Colorado says “I do” to marriage equality

gay marriage colorado, same sex marriage coloradoOn Wednesday, a district court judge ruled against Colorado’s constitutional amendment banning marriage equality.

Just last week I mentioned six same sex couples had filed a federal lawsuit. I hadn’t expected that I’d be writing so soon that Colorado would become the 23rd state to have ruled in favor of marriage equality advocates in the past 12 months.


Big Gay Boat Ride Tea Dance Sunday 3-6PM

BGBRThis Sunday the Big Gay Boat Ride (BGBR) Tea Dance is back.  The music and fun starts at 2:30 PM – don’t be late since the boat leaves at 3PM promptly at 70 Rowes Wharf (Gate C at Boston Harbor Hotel).  As the FB event page says, just look for the boys, boas and balloons.

Buy Your Tickets Here

Event Details Here


Sand Blast Weekend in Atlantic City

gay NJ, LGBT NJI will admit that I have a soft spot for New Jersey guys. I’m not sure if it is the hair, accent or guido vibe so many of them have, but if you suffer from the same affliction you may want to take a road trip to Atlantic City, New Jersey for Sand Blast Weekend, July 18-20th.  I won’t be able to check out this event but two of my friends, Cole and Hunter – The Maverick Men, will be down there this year.  If you see them tell them BosGuy says, “Hello”.

Sand Blast Weekend – Atlantic City, NJ – July 18-20th

Scruffy Sunday

men in bed, guys spooningLooks like they never made it off the couch from last night and are going to be very sore when they finally wake up this morning. Hope you had a comfy night’s rest and have a great day.

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