Category Archives: Poltics

Gun control

Gun control

I feel like this woman’s sign articulates the logic of gun control. I recognize I’m in the distinct minority of Americans who believe nobody should have a gun unless it is for hunting or you are in the military or police.  Incidentally, the list below details the number of school shootings since Newtown, CT’s tragedy in Dec 2012. What a sad indictment of America.  Makes me really wonder if we are truly the home of the brave if we can’t stand up to the N.R.A.

gun controlNot sure if there has actually been a school shooting since I wrote this post on 15-Jan.

Nevada A.G. claims marriage equality is like bigamy and incest

Nevada Attorney GeneralNevada Attorney General Catherine Cortez Masto (D) has backed off of the brief she submitted for the Sevick v. Sandoval case that is challenging Nevada’s ban on same sex marriage.  In her brief response, filed last Tuesday, the A.G. suggested that allowing gay couples to being married is tantamount to bigamy and incest.

While I firmly believe all arguments are highly suspect and hypocritical, it seems even more obscene considering Nevada’s reputation for ridiculing the institution of marriage. Perhaps the Nevada A.G. might like to consider Ms. Spear’s mockery of a marriage to Jason Alexander that lasted 50+ hours or the circus-like atmosphere perpetuated by the countless number of “wedding chapels” in Nevada before she postulates about the sanctity of marriage and the values of  Nevada residents.

You can read more about here inane comments on Towleroad here

Dear Annie, This is How Indiana’s Gay Marriage Ban Will Affect Me

raanntPeter Monn and Alex Paredes are a couple who live in Indianapolis. I first chatted with them a few years ago on Twitter and check in with them via their blog from time to time.

Last week they wrote a post that I thought I’d share. Click the link below to to get the perspective of a married gay couple living in red state in the Midwest.

Dear Annie, This is How Indiana’s Gay Marriage Ban Will Affect Me.

Mike Huckabee’s comments about women in America

Mike HuckabeeMike Huckabee, former Governor of Arkansas and current FOX News host, had this to say about Democrats and women yesterday.  Rumor has it Huckabee is contemplating another Presidential run. With drivel like this I’m sure many Democrats hope he runs again as well.

“If the Democrats want to insult the women of America by making them believe that they are hopeless without Uncle Sugar coming in and providing them with their prescription each month for birth control because they cannot control their libido or their reproductive system without the help of the government, then so be it”

What a schmuck. Want to read more about this? Link Here.

Chris Remmes runs for State Representative open seat

Chris RemmesLast month I wrote about my friend Chris Remmes who was considering challenging Eugene O’Flaherty 2nd Suffolk State Representative seat. Recently Rep. O’Flaherty has announced he will be stepping down in February to join Mayor Walsh’s administration opening the door for a special election.

I wanted to give Chris another shout out and wish him luck.  He’s lived in Charlestown for 20 years.  He has been a longtime civic activist and currently serves as Charlestown’s Democratic Ward Chair.  If you’d like to learn more or reach out and help Chris in his effort to win this open seat, please visit,

Oklahoma marriage law is unconstitutional

oklahoma marriage equalityAnother red state has been told their marriage ban is unconstitutional. Yesterday,  a federal judge said the ban is  “an arbitrary, irrational exclusion of just one class of Oklahoma citizens from a governmental benefit.”

Judge Terence C. Kern of United States District Court for the Northern District of Oklahoma said the state’s amendment, is based on “moral disapproval” and does not advance the state’s asserted interests in promoting heterosexual marriage or the welfare of children.

First Utah, now Oklahoma? These are some of the most conservative states in the US.  Those opposing marriage equality must be foaming at the mouth and I’m kind of loving it.  You can read the NYT article here.

US Government will recognize Utah’s same sex marriages

Utah Same Sex MarriagesOn Wednesday this week Utah Gov. Gary Herbert’s office announced the state will not recognize same-sex marriages performed in Utah since last month.  In possibly the best F.U. I’ve seen in recent memory, today the U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder said the United States federal government WILL recognize those marriages.

“I am confirming today that, for purposes of federal law, these marriages will be recognized as lawful and considered eligible for all relevant federal benefits on the same terms as other same-sex marriages,” U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder.

Think elections don’t matter? I doubt a President Romney administration would have supported those LGBT couples.

Check Governor Herbert – now it is your turn and historians are recording your every move.

The Dennis Rodman and North Korea news cycle

Kim Jong Un

Apparently he didn’t get the black suit memo

One more example of why I watch PBS News Hour and have practically shunned all major news networks is their ‘reporting’ on Dennis Rodman’s visits to N. Korea. Major news networks and their cable news spinoffs  pretend this is newsworthy, knowing there is no news value other than it feeds two monsters’ egos.

Nearly nobody on earth has any relations with Kim Jong Un of North Korea because of his (and his father’s) repressive regime. In a world of bad guys, his government is gunning for the gold. Yet, when a has-been NBA star craving the spotlight visits North Korea our news outlets feel compelled to report on his trips with a level of detail even our US Secretary of State, John Kerry, would envy.

What do you want to bet that Rodman’s relationship with North Korea’s Supreme Leader, Kim Jon Un, would end the minute nobody reported on his ‘diplomatic’ visit? This is a relationship based on two megalomaniacs. If the cameras stopped taping, this relationship would whither.

Stop giving both these jerks the attention they crave. The only people who would be upset if you stopped reporting on these fake diplomatic meetings would be the short, fat dictator of North Korea and this idiot former NBA player struggling to find relevance in a world that is tired of his antics.

US Representative Aaron Schock

Aaron SchockHas conservative US representative, Aaron Schock, had his glass closet shattered? This weekend journalist Itay Hod’s Facebook post caused quite a stir when he wrote, “here’s a hypothetical: what if you know a certain GOP congressman, let’s just say from Illinois, is gay… and you know this because one of your friends, a journalist for a reputable network, told you in no uncertain terms that he caught that GOP congressman and his male roommate in the shower… together.” You can read more on Towleroad here.

Schock has made a career of repeatedly taking aim at the gay community but does he deserve being outed? If the accusations have merit, I say without reserve – absolutely.

Best of 2013: Greatest accomplishments for LGBT community

marriage-equality-infographicThanks to a lot of work on the part of the LGBT community and their allies it became a lot harder to pass or uphold homophobic legislation in 2013.  The Human Rights Campaign has set up a rather inspiring page called Best of 2013.

I modified one HRC infographic and included it above because even though I am concerned about many issues that impact the LGBT community here in the US, marriage equality has been a rallying cry for our community ever since it was first made legal in Massachusetts in 2004. With the ten year anniversary of that landmark decision approaching this May and many other states contemplating legalizing same sex marriage no other LGBT issue will be more discussed this year.

When states like Utah start performing same sex marriages (as they did in December 2013), you know you’ve hit the tipping point. It should be interesting to see how other states with marriage bans fare in 2014 and what other strides and accomplishments will be made. I know I’m greatly encouraged by the progress, and I hope you are too.  If this sort of thing is of interest to you, be certain to check out some of the other ‘accomplishments’ on the HRC page, Best of 2013.

Happy New Year

Capital punishment

Capital PunishmentGenerally, I reserve my blog for more lighthearted topics and areas of interest but from time to time, I’ve been known for the occasional political rant.  After reading this weekend’s NY Times editorial, The Slow Demise of Capital PunishmentI knew I wanted to comment.  The OpEd points out some interestinng stats.  Did you know?

- In 2013 Maryland became the 6th state in 6 years to end capital punishment bringing the total of states to abolish the death penalty to 18 plus the District of Columbia.

- The death penalty is dormant in the federal system and the military.

- 30 states have had no executions in the last 5 years.

The NYT editorial wrote, “As it becomes less frequent, the death penalty also becomes more limited to an extremely small slice of the country, and therefore all the more arbitrary in its application.” This “arbitrary application” becomes all the more apparent when you realize that all 80 death sentences in 2013 came from 2% of counties, and of all 39 executions (more than half occurred in TX and FL) and took place in 1% of all counties.

I echo the editor’s thought and hope our country soon comes to realize that capital punishment is a 20th century experiment that has failed and needs to be made unconstitutional.

Gauge your political outrage guys

Politically Correct Outrage MeterI recognize that our society is obsessed with all things pop culture.  Exhibit A: Phil Robertson of Duck Dynasty – Otherwise known as some hick from some backwater town who happens to have a show on a second tier cable channel garners more than his share of outrage from mainstream media and gay blogs for quoting the Bible and essentially saying he dislikes gays.


Perhaps we might want to stop obsessing over what quacks like Phil Robertson say and start focusing on countries identified as ‘allies’and demand they stop imprisoning, castrating and killing men and women because they happen to be gay.  If even half the mainstream news and gay blogs focused on these stories I think we could say we are making progress and affecting change.

When we do that – then I’ll know America truly is energy independent. It is no coincidence that these OPEC nations Qatar, U.A.E. and Saudi Arabia are given a pass for such atrocious human rights violations while America blusters about some racist, homophobic hick.

Congratulations New Mexico

Marriage equality

Earlier today New Mexico’s State Supreme Court ruled in favor of marriage equality advocates, making them the 17th 16th state (and the District of Columbia) in the US to recognize same sex marriage.

Denying same-gender couples the right to marry and thus depriving them and their families of the rights, protections and responsibilities of civil marriage violates the equality demanded by the equal protection clause of the New Mexico Constitution.”  - Justice Edward Chavez

Well done New Mexico.  Doesn’t it feel great to be on the side of progress and equality. Which state do we think will be the next to join the 21st Century?

Thanks for sharing the quote Ruy!

Chris Remmes explores run for state representative

Chris RemmesLong time friend and resident of Charlestown, Chris Remmes, announced his intention to explore a campaign for the 2nd Suffolk State Representative seat held by Eugene O’Flaherty.

Chris Remmes, Charlestown Democratic Ward Chair and civic activist, to explore run for State Representative

I do not live in Charlestown or Chelsea (the district Chris seeks to represent), but I’ve known Chris for more than a decade.  We first met at The AIDS Action Committee back in 2002 as regular volunteers. While I’m unfamiliar with the issues important to residents of Charlestown and Chelsea, I am familiar with is Chris’ excellent work ethic, his caring nature and great listening skills. He is a hard working, smart man of integrity and when he announced his intention to explore a run for State Representative I wanted to make sure I gave him a shout out on to let others know about Chris’ intentions.

If you live in Charlestown or Chelsea or if you would like to help Chris Remmes as he contemplates a run to unseat Eugene O’Flaherty, get involved / make a donation here.

Mahalo Hawaii

same sex marriageAlthough Hawaiian governor, Neil Abercrombie, signed a bill legalizing gay marriage on November 13th, today is the first day same sex marriages can legally be performed in The Aloha State.

Mahalo Hawaii

Marriage equality was never a question once Massachusetts drew a line in the sand legalizing it in 2004 (more about that here.) The only question was how long would we have to wait? With the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell in 2011,  the US Supreme Court declaring DOMA unconstitutional in 2013 and  public opinion now firmly on our side one can more confidently envision a wave of state legislatures and governors recognizing same sex marriage.

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