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New England summer destinations

new england summer, gay travel, gay destinations in New England, Martha's Vineyard, Portsmouth, Portland, Newport, MeredithWith summer weather now upon us, I’m often asked for suggestions on day trips or places to visit for an overnight outside of the more obvious gay destinations like Provincetown and Ogunquit.  Below are five destinations that are all within a two hour drive of Boston that are not necessarily gay but are welcoming and beautiful destinations in their own right.

travelMeredith – Lake Winnipesaukee, NH (2 Hour Drive) I grew up spending my summer vacations in Alton Bay at Lake Winnipesaukee and while there are plenty of quaint towns around this lake in the Granite State, Meredith offers plenty to see and do ranging from lake activities, to golfing, hiking, shopping and dining.  Meredith Chamber of Commerce Website

Portland Maine gay travelPortland, ME (2 Hour Drive) Many guys never drive north of Ogunquit when they visit Maine but just another 45 minutes north is Portland, Maine.  Check out the historic waterfront district and do yourself a favor and bring your appetite.  Portland has a well-deserved reputation as a Foodie’s town.  Condé Nast Restaurant Guide to Portland

marthas vineyardMartha’s Vineyard, MA (2 Hours – Drive and Ferry) A year round destination, Martha’s Vineyard may be at its most beautiful in the summer when you can enjoy the island’s spectacular beaches and outdoor activities.   The quaint towns on the Vineyard offer great shopping and dining after spending a day at the beach.  Martha’s Vineyard Online

Newport Rhode Island Cliff WalkNewport, RI (1.5 Hour Drive) One of my favorite destinations in all of New England Newport Harbor offers beautiful views, lovely beaches and a slice of American history that is truly unique and on view when you traverse the 3.5 mile cliff walk.  Newport’s downtown has great dining and shopping as well as a lively night life. Discover Newport

Portsmouth NHPortsmouth, NH (1 Hour Drive) Sandwiched between Boston and Portland, Maine, this quaint seaside village is a quintessential New England town worth the visit.  The Market Square is where all the action in this postage-sized town takes place and is chalk full of restaurants, bars and shops.  Things to do in Portsmouth

If you have other suggestions on things to do at these destinations or other great places to visit, feel free to share in the comments section.


What’s in a name? That which we call a rose…

I heard about this town on a Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me podcast and had to check it out for myself.  The Austrian town actually pronounces the word as Foo-King.

Normally I write about places I’ve visited but if anyone has actually been to this tiny Austrian village, please let me know. I’d love to post a photo of you posing in front of this hilarious town name.Fucking Austria

Hotel review: St. Regis Washington DC

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St Regis Hotel

My day job requires me to travel for a night or two each month.  Typically I end up staying in the same properties, but on a recent business trip to Washington, D.C. earlier this month the properties I usually book were not available so I made a reservation at the St. Regis Hotel in Washington, D.C.

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St Regis hotel lobby

This 182 room property is just blocks from the White House and is centrally located if you are visiting for either business or to check out many of D.C.’s tourist sites.  For gay travelers, the hotel is less than a 5 minute taxi / Uber ride to many of the bars in Dupont Circle and in good weather it is a pleasant walk down 16th Street.

While the St. Regis Hotel chain is undeniably luxurious, it is a little too formal for my personal taste but for those who love old hotel properties like Boston’s Fairmont Copley, NYC’s Penninsula Hotel, The Palmer House in Chicago or The Palace in San Francisco – this is right up your alley.

The lobby provides a glimpse into the old world charm and luxury you can expect in the property’s guest rooms.

I was provided a room overlooking 16th Street which really is nothing much to look at so I kept my drapes closed while I was in the room, but otherwise the room was beautiful – even coming with a TV in the bathroom mirror so I could watch the morning news while I showered to get ready for work – how convenient. Hotel, travel, D.C.There was plenty of space to put away my clothes, a comfortable desk to spread out and work at as well as all the other amenities you would come to expect.  The hotel property doesn’t have adequate gym facilities so guests are able to use the Mint Club and Spa across the street, which is far superior to hotel gyms.

While I haven’t a bad word to say, I won’t likely book here again – preferring a less formal vibe.   For those who may be curious, my preferred hotel property in D.C. is the W Hotel (which is just down the street from the St. Regis).

Hanging with Frenchie and the Yankee in Charlotte


Sipping cocktails from the roofdeck bar and restaurant, Fahrenheit in Charlotte, NC

Last weekend I flew down to visit my good friends David and Mark (a.k.a. Frenchie and the Yankee) who moved to Charlotte approximately 2 years ago from Boston.  The trip was fantastic from start to finish.  It didn’t hurt that the weather in Charlotte last weekend was sunny and in the low 70s and every tree seemed to be blossoming, filling the streets with the heady fragrance of spring.

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Charlotte’s hip South End

For those who don’t know David and Mark, they are spectacular hosts.  In the span of just one weekend we attended a Saturday morning mimosa party that raised funds for Time Out Youth; strolled through the incredibly picturesque Fourth Ward; visited The Duke Mansion in the posh Myers Park neighborhood; rode Charlotte’s light rail system to the 7th Street Public Market where we purchased a bottle of wine and cheese from local shops then sat down – enjoying an urban picnic of sorts in the cute little marketplace; and we even squeezed in a bit of retail therapy, going to their friend’s men’s fashion shop, SILVERFLY.  David and Mark hosted a lovely cocktail / dessert party at their home so I could meet their friends before we headed out to the gay bar Cathode Azure Club for some dancing.

While I enjoyed all that I did, my favorite time was spent together walking through their neighborhood – the South End, chatting over numerous bottles of wine and meeting their friends who are a charming and handsome bunch.

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Charlotte, North Carolina’s Fourth Ward neighborhood

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Out with the boys at Cathode Azure Club


Visiting Frenchie and the Yankee

Frenchie and the YankeeA couple years ago our friends “Frenchie and the Yankee” moved from Boston to Charlotte, NC for a new job opportunity.  While neither Frenchie or The Yankee are from Boston, they certainly succeeded in making it their home and long lasting friendships.  I know Sergio and I are not the only ones to miss this fun couple.

I’ve been remiss in visiting them in Charlotte and am rectifying that by flying down to visit them for the weekend.   Frenchie (shown above with me) and I have talked a few times and it sounds like the weekend will be spent, eating, drinking wine of course, and getting caught up.  I can’t believe I’m saying this, but “I’m really excited to go to Charlotte.

Travel concerns for LGBT community

IpanemaEarlier this week Chicago Tribune journalist, Josh Noel, wrote, LGBT travelers face some of the biggest challengesI think the article is worth reading so I wanted to share it, comment on it and get your thoughts.

gay-travelThe crux of the article is the fact that the LGBT community in the US travels both domestically and internationally more than the general population, but despite that fact there are many parts of the world that are so dangerous that many in our community would not visit out of concerns for personal safety. Noel points out that 78 countries (more than one third of all countries) consider “homosexual acts” illegal and is even punishable by death in seven of those countries. Now in fairness, I assume that many of those countries are probably unsafe for anyone (and especially Americans) but his point is noted.

Both abroad and in parts of the United States, Sergio and I have had to think carefully about our personal safety.  We have also (at least for the time being) ruled out travel to different destinations because of either personal concern or the reputation those country’s governments have treating their gay population.  Places of interest that I’d like to visit but have taken off the list for now include Jamaica, Russia (I would love to see the Hermitage some day) and Egypt to name a few.

Noel’s article got me to thinking.  Have you ever felt unsafe because you are openly gay when traveling either here in the US or abroad?  Have you ever taken a destination off your list of places to visit because of travel safety concerns or your frustration with their local laws making homosexuality tantamount to a crime?

Starwood hotels team up with Uber

travelStarwood Hotels & Resorts loyalty program known as SPG announced a global partnership with Uber earlier this week, allowing members to earn points with each Uber ride they take.

According to the program, within 24 hours of your first stay at a Starwood hotel you can begin earning points if you join your accounts; earning 1 Starpoint per $1USD; Gold and Platinum SPG members can earn up to 4 Starpoints per USD.

And in 5 select cities on Saturday, February 28th from 2PM – 7PM local time, SPG and Uber will be giving riders the opportunity to experience a #SuiteRide with a one-of-a-kind “Starwood car” in Dubai, London, Mexico City, New York City, and San Francisco.

Want to learn more or link your SPG account to your Uber account to start racking up points?  Visit SPG.com/uber.