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What to do this weekend

gay twinkThis weekend there is no end of options ranging from Laughing Liberally w/ Shari Caplan comedy show and the monthly party FUZZ; for those of you with a daddy complex check out  Silver at BLEND or MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy and I’d like to give a special shout out to the return of dbar’s Ultra violet black light party on Saturday.

End the weekend at Trophy Room for the Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch or check out *sip* Tea Dance at Jacques or the weekly Sunday Tea Dance at Club Cafe (both start at 6PM).

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

MaineStreet’s 19th Anniversary Party is this Friday up in Ogunquit – Happy Anniversary Guys!

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted the second Friday of each month with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

Serving Face: New Night – Who dis? is on Friday starting at 9PM at Jacques Underground in Bay Village

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Laughing Liberally w/ Shari Caplan is a political comedy show featuring some of Boston’s top liberal and progressive comedians; doors open at 7:30PM show starts at 8PM at the Armory in Somerville

GayKickball Jersey Party is at Cathedral Station on Saturday starting at 8:30PM

Strapped: Cornhole Tournament is an 18+ night at Machine on Saturday complete with a $100 prize and karaoke in the lounge in Boston

Silver at BLEND is for all of you daddy’s out there and the men who adore them #daddycomplexdanceparty – doors open at 10PM at Blend 

Ultra violet black light party returns to dbar this Saturday starting at 10PM so wear neon and white to cover your bare essentials and enjoy the great music

MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy features Atlanta DJ Seth Breezy this Saturday at the Middle East in Cambridge

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch is back at Trophy Room this Sunday starting at 1PM in Boston

*sip* Tea Dance is back this Sunday with DJ Brian Halligan and guest Amanda Playwith starting at 6PM at Jacques

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

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I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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What to do this week: April 8 – 14

I hope you have a great week. Below are approximately 40 programs and parties catered to the Boston gay community. Make plans and head out to have some fun. I’d like to give a special shout out to Jazzy Mondays at the E’walk this Monday, Homo Shopping Network: Challenge #6 on Tuesday, Atomic Karaoke on Wednesday, and Bear Trivia Night on Thursday.

This weekend there is no end of options ranging from Laughing Liberally w/ Shari Caplan comedy show; for those of you with a daddy complex check out  Silver at BLEND or MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy and I’d like to give a special shout out to the return of dbar’s Ultra violet black light party.

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Don’t Tell Comedy – Boston’s Underground comedy night returns this week

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter every first Monday of the month upstairs with a kooky theme, and every third Friday of the month downstairs at Jacques with no theme, where anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

Jazzy Mondays at the E’walk enjoy jazz music at the Elephant Walk South End the second Monday of each month from 6:30 – 9:30PM in the South End

Sexy Mondays join showgirl Lucille and host Teashaboo for a night of shenanigans on Monday starting at 10:30PM at Jacques in Bay Village

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Homo Shopping Network: Challenge #6 contestants will be auditioning to be a spokesperson for the Homo Shopping Network on Tuesday at Jacques

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, and Club Cafe  each Thursday in Boston

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Make It New with Project Pablo is this Thursday starting at 9PM at the Middlesex Lounge in Cambridge

BRASH | Queer Party is hosted every fourth Thursday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Don’t Tell Comedy Night in Back Bay this roving underground comedy night requires you to RSVP to find out the precise location on Thursday at 9:30 but don’t wait too long since these shows sell out in Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

MaineStreet’s 19th Anniversary Party is this Friday up in Ogunquit – Happy Anniversary Guys!

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted the second Friday of each month with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

Serving Face: New Night – Who dis? is on Friday starting at 9PM at Jacques Underground in Bay Village

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Laughing Liberally w/ Shari Caplan is a political comedy show featuring some of Boston’s top liberal and progressive comedians; doors open at 7:30PM show starts at 8PM at the Armory in Somerville

GayKickball Jersey Party is at Cathedral Station on Saturday starting at 8:30PM

Strapped: Cornhole Tournament is an 18+ night at Machine on Saturday complete with a $100 prize and karaoke in the lounge in Boston

Silver at BLEND is for all of you daddy’s out there and the men who adore them #daddycomplexdanceparty – doors open at 10PM at Blend 

Ultra violet black light party returns to dbar this Saturday starting at 10PM so wear neon and white to cover your bare essentials and enjoy the great music

MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy features Atlanta DJ Seth Breezy this Saturday at the Middle East in Cambridge

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch is back at Trophy Room this Sunday starting at 1PM in Boston

*sip* Tea Dance is back this Sunday with DJ Brian Halligan and guest Amanda Playwith starting at 6PM at Jacques

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Alcohol & decision-making study for gay / bisexual men

alcohol consumption, gay men, single gay men drinkingWANTED: Single gay or bisexual men 21-50  

Researchers at Boston University are seeking gay and bisexual men who are social drinkers for a study on the effects of alcohol on judgment and decision-making. Those who are eligible will first participate in a two session study which involves the completion of several questionnaires and the evaluation of interactive videos. Those who complete this phase may be eligible for the next phase of the study that involves monitoring behaviors and completing computerized surveys over a 6 week period.

Participants may earn up to $600 for completion of all study phases

If interested and curious to learn more to see if you qualify, call 617-353-0962 for more information about the study or email alclab@bu.edu.

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What to do this weekend

There is plenty to do this weekend, but I’d like to give a special shout out to the Wicked Queer Film Festival which will close on Sunday as well as dinnerfest, a wonderful and worthy fundraiser for The Victory Programs. 

SoWa First Friday starts at 5PM and includes 200+ galleries, artist studios shops and showrooms at 450 – 460 Harrison Ave in the South End

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club meets each Friday at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) hosted by The Welcoming Committee is this Friday at Game On in Boston – for details click on the link – All are welcome

Beyonce vs. Rihanna (Tribute // Dance Party) Controversy hosts this fantastic dance party on Friday at the Middle East Nightclub in Central Sq.

La Boum Queer Dance Party is this Friday starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JP

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FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques this  Friday in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party hosted this Friday from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

DotOUT’s Annual Spring Thang Brunch all are welcome on Saturday to join DotOUT for this friendly brunch at the Blarney Stone starting at 11:30 in Dorchester

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Blend Saturdays – Mayhem join DJ AGA at Blend on Saturday for some great music and a lot of fun

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt: Underbear with music from DJ Taffy at this monthly pants-free dance party, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Monthly Members Brunch is at Club Cafe this Sunday starting at 11AM

Boston Gay Kickball Open Playcome down to Moakley Field on Sunday from 12 – 2PM for a FREE game of kickball hosted by Boston’s Gay Kickball 

Victory Programs

dinnerfest Auction and Celebration is this Sunday from 2:30 – 6PM at the City Winery – all proceeds go to benefit the very worthy Victory Programs

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Vintage gay

vintage photos of gay menI dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Mass Bears and Cubs Harbor Cruise is June 9th

mass bears and cubs, gay bostonEarly bird pricing for the Mass Bears and Cubs annual Harbor Cruise ends in a few weeks. Order your tickets this month and pay only $35. 

Dreaming about summer? Be sure to get your tickets for the Mass Bears and Cubs Harbor Cruise that will take place the Sunday after Boston’s Pride Parade, on Sunday, June 9th. The three hour harbor cruise includes music by fantastic DJs, a clothes check for UnderBear cruising, two cash bars for food and drink as well as plenty of fun aboard the Provincetown II. Starting in May ticket prices will increase to $40 for online purchases and $45 the day of the cruise. Following the cruise, all are welcome to meet up at The Alley Bar for Bearoke.

Have questions about the Mass Bears and Cubs Harbor Cruise? email Massbearsandcubs@gmail.com.

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What to do this week: April 1 – 7

This week I’ve compiled a list of 40+ events and programs for you to check out. I’d like to give a special shout out to the Wicked Queer Film Festival which is running all week and will close on Sunday as well as dinnerfest, a wonderful and worthy fundraiser for The Victory Programs.

Below is a more complete listing of everything I’ve compiled. If there is an event that you’d like to see added to this week feel free to leave a description and link as a comment and if you have an upcoming event you’d like me to include, reach out to let me know about it.

gay bostonMONDAY – THURSDAY

Wicked Queer Film Festival Boston’s LGBTQ film festival runs all week, hosting interesting films in various locations throughout the city, ending Sunday, April 7 check it out

A4cade Drag Queen Trivia Night check out this video game trivia night with drag performances in between rounds on Monday from 6-8PM in Cambridge

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter this Monday upstairs at Jacques  10PM-12AM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

gay bostonStump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Houseboi is this Wednesday at Middlesex Lounge, starting at 9PM (creative dress encouraged) in Central Square

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

BRASH | Queer Party is hosted every fourth Thursday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, and Club Cafe  each Thursday in Boston

FUSE hosted by the Men of Melanin Magic is a dance party that will take place on Thursday at Bill’s Bar on Lansdowne Steet starting at 10PM

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Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Beyonce vs. Rihanna (Tribute // Dance Party) Controversy hosts this fantastic dance party on Friday at the Middle East Nightclub in Central Sq.

La Boum Queer Dance Party is this Friday starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JP

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques this  Friday in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party hosted this Friday from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

DotOUT’s Annual Spring Thang Brunch all are welcome on Saturday to join DotOUT for this friendly brunch at the Blarney Stone starting at 11:30 in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Blend Saturdays – Mayhem join DJ AGA at Blend on Saturday for some great music and a lot of fun

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt: Underbear with music from DJ Taffy at this monthly pants-free dance party, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Monthly Members Brunch is at Club Cafe this Sunday starting at 11AM

Boston Gay Kickball Open Playcome down to Moakley Field on Sunday from 12 – 2PM for a FREE game of kickball hosted by Boston’s Gay Kickball 

dinnerfest Auction and Celebration is this Sunday from 2:30 – 6PM at the City Winery – all proceeds go to benefit the very worthy Victory Programs

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

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Saturday morning coffee

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