Massachusetts RMV recognizes “Gender X”

non binary gender option in MassachusettsMassachusetts Registry of Motor Vehicles now provides drivers with a third gender option to choose from. The option, “X,” is available for people to select who don’t identify as male or female.

This past Tuesday, during Transgender Awareness Week, Massachusetts state registry of motor vehicles (RMV) started offering residents a non-binary gender designation option for their driver’s licenses and ID cards. This was done as part of a system upgrade at the RMV and makes Massachusetts one of approximately a dozen states in the United States to recognize a third, non binary gender.

Almost on cue Massachusetts GOP Chairman Jim Lyons called this insane and railed against the change. I can appreciate there are people who’s heads spin at the idea of non-binary, but I don’t understand the need to make sure their point of view supersedes others or how decisions like this by the State of Massachusetts impact Mr. Lyons and those who agree with him. It seems like the same failed logic that was applied to opposing same sex marriages.

Scruffy Sunday

man in bed wearing underwearLook at the size of this guy’s legs? I wonder if they got so huge from all the dreams he must be running through every night.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

handsome man enjoying coffeeThis morning I’m serving you coffee with a side of washboard abs – enjoy.

Saturday morning comics

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Furry Friday

handsome, hairy , hunkI’m pretty certain if I looked like this, I’d spend most of my time walking around in my Calvin Klein underwear as well.

Past Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser: You can see me in water, but I never get wet. What am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

boyfriendsNo plans this weekend? No worries, I have you covered. Check out one or more of these 25 events including: OutRyders Season Opening Party at Cathedral Station on Friday, Sasha Velour’s “Smoke & Mirrors” at The Colonial on Saturday, and DotOUTs Harvest Mixer at Ashmont Grill this Sunday are just a few of the things happening in and around Boston. Share this post with your friends and make the most of this weekend.


Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

OutRyders Season Opening Party celebrate the beginning a fabulous and fun filled ski and snowboard season with the Outryders at Cathedral Station from 7-10PM on Friday at Cathedral Station (all are welcome)

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

SWEAT is back at Machine this Friday Leather, Rubber, Fetish, Pup Gear encouraged but not required – doors open at 10PM

H E R O E S will be playing 80s New Wave, Electro, Post-Punk and some Old-School Goth this Friday at Sonia in Central Square – doors open at 10PM

No Filter is downstairs at Jacques with no theme, where anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

handsome, hunk, man drinking coffee in his underwearSATURDAY

History UnErased: LGBT+ History in MA Schools is this Saturday from 9AM – 12PM and is intended to take the mystery out of LGBT+ history for educators, parents, and community members in Lowell, MA

Tea Dance – Stuffed Bear is happening this Saturday starting at 3PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Threads: Woven Together is a youth fashion showcase and exhibit taking place this Saturday from 12-4PM in Worcester

Sasha Velour’s “Smoke & Mirrors” best known for winning RPDR Season 9 brings her show to Boston for one night at the Emerson Colonial Theater

Celebrate the decades month Get Into The Groove with the best of 80s dance music at dbar this Saturday in Dorchester

Mayhem Saturdays is this week at blend with DJ AGA – doors open at 10PM (no cover all night) in  Dorchester

Wicked Pahs Alley Pups & Leather Night converge on The Alley Bar on Saturday with the pups meeting upstairs followed by leather night on Saturday

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

men in bed, hairy, handsome, gay coupleSUNDAY

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

Brunch of Queens: Fall Fiesta is on Sunday at 11 AM and the show begins at Noon at the Bell in Hand Tavern in Boston

DotOUTs Harvest Mixer is this Sunday 3-7PM at Ashmont – all welcome

Boston Bear “Pajama” Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.