BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

HINT: People are taking this riddle literally, think of a play on words that might be the longest in the English language.

This week’s brain teaser:

What’s the longest English word?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend


SLEAZE presents a night of Madonna at The Alley on Saturday starting at 10PM

This weekend: The Gay Men’s Camping club heads north of town on Friday, a Northern New England Rave called Fairies & Rainbows: Mermaid Rave takes place in White River Junction, VT.

Closer to home check out the Cubs in Paradise Jockstrap Party, Boyfriends, and SLEAZE: Immaculate Ed. Finish your weekend at CC’s monthly Bearz Tea Dance.

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Don’t miss Carnival’s final Tea Dance at The Boatslip


Gay Men’s Camping Club goes to Harold Parker State Forest this weekend in North Andover

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip parties start up this weekend with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

The Broads of Broadway (Opening Night) are performing at Mainestreet at 8PM in Ogunquit

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: Speed shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

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Mass Bears & Cubs are hosting at jockstrap party at Paradise


SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

The Broads of Broadway (FINAL SHOW) are performing at Mainestreet at 8PM in Ogunquit

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Fairies & Rainbows – The Mermaid Rave starts at 9PM at DeVote (can you say road trip?) waaaaaay up in White River Junction VT

Underwear Party is every Saturday night starting at 9:30 at Club Purgatory in Provincetown

SLEAZE: Immaculate Edition starts at 10PM at the Alley Bar

Cubs in Paradise Jockstrap Party hosted by the Mass Bears and Cubs starts at 10PM at Paradise in Cambridge

Boyfriends monthly dance party at the Milky Way Lounge starts at 10PM in JP

The Coolidge After Midnight: Broken Arrow shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Bear Tea Dance, gay boston

Bears Tea Dance starts at 5pm today


SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Bearz  Tea Dance is the third Sunday of the month and always has great music, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance starts at 4PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

One year ago

Kyle Szarzy, Provincetown, Ptown, CarnivalOne year ago, during Ptown’s Carnival Parade our friend Kyle took this picture of Sergio and me on Commercial Street.  Last year’s theme was the 1980s; not that you’d be able to tell from what we were wearing.

Below is a quick video I posted on Instagram of one of the 1980s themed house parties we attended before the parade.

Just checked into The Betty Ford Clinic Provincetown.

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I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at

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Facing America’s racist present

The title of this post was intentionally a play on words and could easily have read “Facing America’s racist President”. Make of that observation what you will, but his comments regarding recent events in Charlottesville, VA are an embarrassment and more reminiscent of the 1960s than present day.

IMO President Trump’s sympathetic response to white supremacists  is not particularly surprising considering how consistently he has courted this group. What is surprising is how many people chose to either abstain from our Presidential election or voted for Trump despite his ongoing flirtations with the KKK and white supremacist leaders.

I’m left wondering if America has become so polarized that there is no line that cannot be crossed – No behavior that cannot be overlooked – No action that warrants a response: Provided those who cross that line, exhibit bad behavior or act inappropriately identify with your political philosophy. It is laughable to think most American’s claim not to identify with a political party because how easily we write off behavior (on both sides) indicates quite the opposite.

This week on Instagram: chuando_chuandoandfrey

chuando, chuandoandfreyThis week on Instagram I’m featuring a profile I first saw on Unicorn Booty. ChuanDo Tan is from Singapore, a former model turned photographer who is 50 but has a body better than most 20 year old guys.

ChuanDo’s photos are a combination of flirty selfies (not all as revealing as the one above) and pictures from his photography business, Chuando & Frey, known for its edgy fashion photos. I love that Chuando’s pictures challenge stereotypes about age and race, and I think you’ll like Chuando’s washboard abs.

Follow him on Instagram here,

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

caption this photo, man in a bathHopefully the caption below inspires you to share a caption or two of your own. Bonus points to anyone who can make me laugh with their caption.

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