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What to do this weekend

gay bostonThere are a lot of things you can do this Memorial Day Weekend – more than forty happen to be listed below.

Included in the mix of suggestions are several tea dances, drag shows, free admissions at the MFA, ICA & JFK Presidential Library as well as some pretty amazing parties – particularly on Saturday and Sunday night so get out and enjoy yourself no matter where you may be this holiday weekend: Boston, Provincetown, Ogunquit or Providence.

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Join Boston’s Gay Beer Club for Thirsty Thursday at the Cambridge Brewing Co.


ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Thirsty Thursday with Boston’s Gay Beer Club is from 8-11PM at the Cambridge Brewing Company in Kendall Square, Cambridge

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Thump! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

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Tea Dance at the ‘Slip parties start up this weekend with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

NoH8 Open Photo Shoot returns to Boston again at the W Hotel starting at 5PM (click on the link for details) in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Kate Clinton: Zombie Apocalypse (Opening Night) you can watch Kate’s show all summer at the Crown and Anchor in Provincetown

Miss Richfield 1981: 2020 Vision (Opening Night) you can see Miss Richfield’s show all summer at the Crown and Anchor in Provincetown

RuPaul Drag Race viewing party is every Friday at 8PM (dancing starts at 9PM) at the Alley Bar in Boston  

Rise Up! dance party at the Paramount Night Club to kick off Memorial Day weekend in Provincetown

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques from 9-12 every 2nd Monday and every 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: The Devil’s Backbone shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

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Purgatory underwear Party in Provincetown is every Saturday night


SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston  

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Melissa Ferrick performs at 5PM  Saturday at the Art House in Provincetown

Gears & Garters: Boston Pride Pageant starts at 6PM at Club Cafe in Boston

Varla Jean Merman (Opening Night) is performing her one woman show starting at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

So Hot Saturdaes: Ugly Skank Tank Party is at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

Underwear Party is every Saturday night starting at 9:30 at Club Purgatory in Provincetown

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

The Coolidge After Midnight: Pan’s Labyrinth starring Keanu Reeves shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

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SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston  

Glam Brunch returns again this Sunday starting at 12:30 at The Trophy Room

Gay Men 50+ MeetUp is having their monthly brunch meet up at Club Cafe ($23 covers all your food) starting at 1PM at Club Cafe in Boston

“Brawl” a Ptown Bar Crawl join The Welcoming Committee for their first Ptown event starting at 1PM (meeting at Town Hall) 

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance starts at 4PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Melissa Ferrick performs at 5PM  Sunday at the Art House in Provincetown

Varla Jean Merman is performing her one woman show starting at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

White Party the annual white party to celebrate the start of summer is at Mainestreet starting at 9PM in Ogunquit

Chris Harris Presents: Military Ball with DJ Aron starts at 10PM at Royale in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston


MFA Boston Open House means that Boston’s largest museum is open and free to the public on Memorial Day so come down and check it out

JFK Presidential Library celebrates 100 Years of JFK by offering free admission (they’re also giving out cake) starting at 9AM in Dorchester

ICA Boston Open House also means that the Institute of Contemporary Art museum will be open and free to the public

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Gay Bowl XVII comes to Boston Oct. 5-8, 2017

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Gay Bowl XVII Boston || October 5-8, 2017

This past Saturday night, Boston’s LGBT Flag Football group announced at their annual spring awards banquet that the New England Patriots will be a sponsor of the Gay Bowl 17 and the announcement was confirmed by Outsports. 

The Gay Bowl is the national LGBT flag football tournament, put on every Columbus Day weekend by the National Gay Flag Football League (NGFFL). For more information visit the website Gay Bowl XVII.

One thing I have to say about Boston’s Flag Football group is that they know how to have a lot of fun. I always like their videos like this most recent compilation. If you would like to learn more about this Boston gay inclusive sports league, visit their Facebook page, here

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I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Daddyhunt: The Right Choice

gilead, co-pay cardWith Memorial Day Weekend starting in just a few days and the 2017 summer season starting I wanted to share this P.S.A. that Daddyhunt released recently which discusses the merits of taking PREP. While taking PREP may not be for everyone, it is something all sexually active gay men should think about.

Fenway Health ClinicTalk to your husband, your partner and your friends to help you decide what is right for you. And if you decide that you’d like to learn more about PREP or find a healthcare provider you can talk to who is near you visit, preplocator.org.

This week on Instagram: kevinmcdnyc

Todd Sanfield, photography, handsome, hunk, bath tubThis week I’m featuring a photographer who I’ve mentioned on this blog in the past. Kevin McDermott is a NYC-based photographer who spends a lot of time photographing beautiful men like Todd Sanfield (shown above).

Kevin first came to my attention when he collaborated with Todd Sanfield to create the book Virgin Island: Todd Sanfield by Kevin McDermott. His Instagram account is chalk-filled with men just as gorgeous as Todd.

Willie in the desert from our 2016 calendar #blackandwhite #williecalendar #dancer #heatwave #stretch #nude

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Follow him on Instagram here, instagram.com/kevinmcdnyc.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.


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gay humorEach Wednesday morning I post a photograph and ask readers to offer a funny caption.  Hopefully the caption below inspires you to share a few of your own.

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Ogunquit 2017 summer entertainment

Earlier this week I shared the lineup of performances in Provincetown this summer. Another popular gay destination is Ogunquit, Maine. While this tiny seaside village doesn’t have quite as much happening as Ptown, it is still an amazing place to visit and because it caters to the gay community there are great entertainment options. Below are some of the shows in OGT this summer.

In addition to the shows listed below, The Front Porch provides cabaret style entertainment upstairs daily once the summer is in full swing. You can check their schedule of performers here.

May 17 – Jul 1       Mama Mia at the Ogunquit Playhouse
May 20*                 Dueling Drag Divas (Friday & Saturday) at Mainestreet
May 26                   Suede with Fred Boyle at Jonathan’s OGT
May 27 – May 28  Varla Jean Merman at Mainestreet
Jun 1                       Cabaret Dinner: Black on Broadway at Front Porch
Jun 3                       Nick Fradiani at Jonathan’s OGT
Jun 15                     Cabaret Dinner: Thru the Decades at Front Porch
Jun 16                     An Evening with Griffin House at Jonathan’s OGT
Jun 16                     Bob Marley Comedy Show at Jonathan’s OGT
Jul 1 – Jul 2           Hedda Lettuce at Mainestreet
Jul 5 – Jul 29         Bullets Over Broadway at the Ogunquit Playhouse
Jul 13                       Comedy with Lenny Clarke at Jonathan’s OGT
Jul 15 – Jul 16        Comedy with Paula Poundstone at Jonathan’s OGT
Jul 21 – Jul 22       Sutton Lee Seymour at Mainestreet
Aug 2 – Aug 26      Ragtime at the Ogunquit Playhouse
Aug 4                       Randy Rainbow at the Leavit Theater
Aug 30 – Sep 30    Heartbreak Hotel at the Ogunquit Playhouse
Sep 1 – Sep 2          Sutton Lee Seymour at Mainestreet
Sep 3                        Adam Ezra Band at Jonathan’s OGT

NOTE:  * means that the Dueling Divas will be performing every Friday and Saturday through the 2017 summer season.