Thank you!

Back in 2007, I was inspired to set up a blog called BosGuy Blog on Google’s blogging platform, and in 2011, I moved it to the WordPress platform, where it has resided ever since. What started as an interesting experiment, quickly became a wonderful hobby that introduced me to many kind and interesting people here in Boston and abroad, but after 16+ years, I’m ready to hit the pause button.

For those who may find themselves visiting this blog looking for more information about Boston’s queer nightlife, please check out KikiPedia. The website has current information about gay-themed nights and LGBTQ+ bars in the area.

Additionally, if you’re new to the area, visiting or have questions about Boston or Provincetown, reach out. I’m still here and happy to answer questions or provide tips/suggestions. You can email me at bosguymail@gmail.com or reach out on my Twitter, Instagram, Threads, and/or Bluesky handles.

Thank you to everyone who has visited, commented on, and shared my posts. This has been a tremendous ride. Wishing you all the very best.

Call me maybe?

Sergio and I created this video ‘teaser’ to share with family and friends to highlight our 25th Anniversary which happened at the end of January. The full video release we will share with family and friends on Valentine’s Day 2024.

We also created a longer video (nearly 20 minutes long) that shows the full story about what happened, which you can view here if you like.

Scruffy Sunday

Much thanks to the Fearsome Beard blog for this photo which was posted earlier this year on the blog. I thought it would make for a great way to close out the Scruffy Sunday weekly post for 2023.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Fashioned by Sargent at MFA Boston closes January 15, 2024

Earlier this week I went to the Museum of Fine Arts (MFA) Boston to see the Fashioned by Sargent exhibit, which closes in two weeks. This exhibit from the MFA is one of my favorites in recent memory. Perhaps Bostonians more than most Americans are interested in Sargent because of how much of his work has ended up here but it was apparent this exhibit has been embraced by the city. When I remarked about the crowds the day I visited, one of the MFA employees told me the exhibit had been very well attended.

In this exhibit the MFA looks at some of the artist’s most famous portraits and shares how Sargent meticulously dressed and posed each of his subjects; sometimes quite provocatively. A good example is his scandalous portrait of Virginie Amélie Avegno, a.k.a. Madame X, which caused an uproar when it was shown in Paris in 1884 because it emphasized the sexual allure of a married woman. It’s amazing to think this portrait ruined the reputation of Virginie Amélie Avegno in Parisian society.

In addition to watercolors and his beautiful portraits, the exhibit brings many paintings to life by exhibiting the dresses and in some cases accessories besides the paintings. The MFA has done a lot of work to provide details about which fashion houses in Paris made the dresses and sometimes even when or where the garment was worn as in the case of the 1889 painting of the English actress, Ellen Terry, performing as Lady Macbeth.

However, my favorite portrait on display is of Dr. Pozzi in his home in Paris. Aside from his striking good looks, I can’t get over how the painting seems incredibly modern and so much older than 1881 when it was painted. The MFA describes the painting below as “Sargent’s most dramatic and unconventional male portrait.”

With winter firmly in Boston’s grasp, it can be pretty miserable walking around outside, but the MFA is a great place to spend an hour or two and this exhibit gives you the perfect excuse to visit. Be sure to reserve tickets in advance and check it out. The exhibit closes on Monday, January 15, 2024.

Fashioned by Sargent

Saturday morning coffee

handsome, muscles

It’s the last coffee post of 2023. Drink him up!

Furry Friday

This is the final Furry Friday of the year. I hope you enjoy this week’s selection and have a wonderful weekend.

Past Furry Friday

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brain

Each Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together. Leave your guess in the comment section.

This week’s riddle:

I’m always on the last day of the year,
A fun time – meant to bring cheer.
Celebrate me with your family and friends.
Before this year ends.

What am I?

I’ll approve responses later in the day to allow people to respond without seeing any spoilers.

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Vintage gay

I believe I’ve posted this previously but it is so hard to find photographs of men of color from the past so I thought I’d resurrect this and repost it. Any thoughts on when this may have been taken?

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Caption this photo

Please share a caption of your own for this week’s photograph. Hopefully, the caption I’ve shared below will inspire you to leave a funny caption in the comment section. If you don’t see it immediately don’t worry, I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

New Year’s Eve post-party is at my place

Temptation Tuesday

hairy, hunk

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Merry Christmas

gay boston
Photo Credit: Izzy Berdan

I’ve always enjoyed this photo Izzy Berdan took years ago. I believe it was taken before the Santa Speedo Run (back when that was a thing in Boston), but I can’t quite recall. Regardless, it hits all the buttons for a Christmas holiday post for this blog, and I hope it makes you smile.

Wishing you, your family, and friends a happy, safe, and healthy holiday.

Scruffy Sunday

For those of you who celebrate Christmas, I hope you enjoy today with someone special in matching pajamas.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

The advantage of doing absolutely nothing

Steve Grand, Christmas

Below is a post that I initially wrote back in 2011 when I hosted this blog on Blogspot. I’ve modified it slightly but you can read the original post here.

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It seems to me that aside from health and happiness the thing people are most often wish they had more of is time. We make lists and check off each “to do”, and we schedule personal dates with friends and family much like business meetings; busily tapping these appointments into our phone calendars.

As the average work day / week encroaches into what was traditionally personal or family time, it seems like we’ve started to adopt behaviors from our work life for our personal lives. I see many friends (especially this week) killing themselves to make the most of their time out of the office; scheduling every minute to run errands, see family and friends, etc…

So here we are on the cusp of the final week of the year. The holiday season is chaotic for many people so I thought it might be a good time to remind everyone to take time to do absolutely nothing.

Have you scheduled yourself into oblivion this week? Is your checklist of errands and commitments so long that you’ll need a vacation once the holidays are done? If so, hit the pause button and take time to do absolutely nothing even if it is just for one afternoon – you just might find that the holiday spirit isn’t quite so elusive if you make time for yourself too.

Saturday morning coffee

Merry Christmas

Furry Friday

holiday hunk

Each December I end up posting this photo for a Furry Friday. There is something about this guy which always draws me back for another look and he wears the Santa hat so well.

Past Furry Friday