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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brain

Each Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

This week’s brain teaser: What can you catch but never throw?

Leave your best guess below as a comment, and I’ll approve the answers later. This is a tough one so don’t get discouraged!

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Here are 25+ parties, events and activities to consider this weekend in and around Boston. Make plans with friends and enjoy the long holiday weekend for all of you who have MLK day off.


Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

The Diva’s Experience is at the Museum of Science each Friday at 7:30PM at the Hayden Planetarium – tix required and strongly encouraged to purchase in advance – showtime is approximately 40 minutes

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

SWEAT: Leather Daddy Night with DJ James Cerne & offAxis Adam Fearing Leather, Rubber, Fetish, Pup Gear encouraged but not required. Come and be yourself! Pop Up Demos TBA at Machine on Friday starting at 10PM

HEROES Ashes To Ashes Tribute to Bowie with DJ Chris Ewen is this Friday at Sonia in Central Square on Friday in Central Square

Groove Fridays plays disco (new and old,) house, remixes, and more- all with video and amazing visualizers with DJ Brian Derrick every third Friday at blend in Dorchester

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday


Drag Queen Story Hour is every third Saturday in the children’s section from 11AM – 12PM at the Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe in Boston

Saturday afternoon Sips with a Somm is this Saturday at 4PM at Boston Chops (South End) with beverage director and Advanced Sommelier Nick Daddona will include Vino Italiano, The Rhone Rangers, ABC’s of France, Winter Warmers, and American Cabernet – tickets req’d in South End

Queer Board Game Night is at 6PM at the Trident Booksellers & Cafe on Newbury Street in Boston

Mayhem Saturdays with DJ AGA is this weekend so bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at blend in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

GAY BASH’D returns to the Oberon this Saturday with everyone’s favorite DJ Colby Drasher – click for full line up of performers – doors open at 10PM

Legacy Saturday Nights come down and dance to music from Alex Costa starting at 10PM in the Theater District

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

handsome guy, gay boston, what's happening in Boston, LGBTQ BostonSUNDAY

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

Mass Bears & Cubs social is this Sunday from 2-5PM at blend in Dorchester

Bear Tea Dance (Hanky Code) hosted by The History Project with great music from DJ BEGBICK starts at 5PM on Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

SIP presents Come Together (NEW LOCATION) returns this Sunday with DJ Brian Halligan at The Good Life in downtown starting at 6PM in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Gay Beer Club Sundays is at Stoddard’s in DTX, starting at 7PM – all welcome

PRIVATE LIFE (New Gay Night) dancing, drag and dinner at Shore Leave in SoWa with James Cerne and Char starting at 8PM

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

DREAM with Ralphi Rosario presented by The Gay Mafia is at Royale on Sunday of MLK weekend in the Theater District

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

The Cake: I ate up this play and so will you

Last week I wrote a post about Boston Lyric Stage latest production, The Cake, and after seeing the show, I wanted to encourage you to get tickets to see if for yourself, but if you need further reason, read The Boston Globe’s review, Humor and humanity are the icing on The Cake.

The Cake uses humor to address a subject that has been grabbing headlines for years. Despite the fact that we’ve all heard more than we probably care about individuals using religion as an excuse to deny service to LGBTQ community, to watch the drama unfold on stage is more compelling than you might think and thanks to the excellent script and solid cast quite funny to watch as well.

I found it very hard to dislike Della, a traditional Southern baker who has a crisis of conscience when her deceased best friend’s daughter, Jen asks her to make her dream wedding cake for her and her future wife. Della is not unlike many millions of Americans who fail to see the hypocrisy in their selective interpretations of The Bible which on one hand condemn homosexuality and in the next condemn people who eat shellfish, pork, etc…  But her love for Jen (or Jenny as she calls her) compels her to reexamine some of her long held beliefs.

Make plans with a friend or another couple and get tickets before it closes on February 9th. Like me, I’m sure that after you see the show, you’ll never look at a pile of mashed potatoes quite the same way again.

The Cake
January 10 – February 9, 2020
Click here for more information or to buy tickets

Vintage gay

dapper gay coupleUnsure when or where this photo may have been taken but this dapper couple caught my eye when I was looking for photos and wanted to share with you.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

This week on Instagram: kyl_e_t

ginger, hot ginger, handsome, man in bedSay hello to Kyle who hails from Fife Scotland but now calls Edinburgh Scotland home. Kyle is an engineer who obviously spends a lot of time at the gym. Most of this ginger’s photos are selfies and shirtless photos. He also has a number of photos goofing around with his buddies in Scotland and elsewhere.

This is definitely a mancandy account and for those of you who are fans of gingers – this one is a must follow.

You can follow this Instagram account at, instagram.com/kyl_e_t.

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Caption this photo

wrestling, wrestlerHopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up a caption or two of your own. Leave a witty or funny caption as a comment for this post, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“You can kiss my ass”

Pre-Broadway run for Neil Simon’s Plaza Suite opens in Boston this February

boston theaterMatthew Broderick & Sarah Jessica Parker: Neil Simon’s Plaza Suite

Two-time Tony Award winner, Matthew Broderick, and two-time Emmy Award winner, Sarah Jessica Parker, perform next month in the pre-Broadway engagement at the Emerson Colonial Theater in Boston.

The famous couple have not performed together on stage in more than 20 years but the Neil Simon comedy, Plaza Suite, seems like a great show to bring them together and Boston is lucky enough to get a first glimpse at how their real life chemistry might translate on stage in this hilarious play about love and marriage. Little known fact that was shared in the release says that the Simon play made its world premiere at The Colonial more than fifty years ago in 1968.

Plaza Suite at the Emerson Colonial
February 5 – 22, 2020
More Information Here