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This week on Instagram: bearscubsandbeards1

The name of this Instagram account more or less says it all. But just in case you need more details, their account description says this is an account for bears, cubs, bearded men, and natural men to celebrate the diversity of beauty.

For those of you who identify with or appreciate men from these gay tribes,  it is an account you may enjoy following or possibly submitting a photo or of yourself.

You can follow this week’s featured account on Instagram here, and you can check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Monday morning mancandy

May this post help distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning. 

The Hanky Code: Sexual signaling

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This post is a republishing of Hanky Panky: An Abridged History of the Hanky Code, initially published in April 2019 by J. Raúl Cornier on Boston’s History Project website. I thought some might find this nostalgic while others born after the heyday of public cruising might find it interesting. In some ways, the hanky code could be considered a very early precursor to online “dating” apps like Grindr and Scruff which essentially moved people’s sexual predilictions online.

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The hanky code was a covert sartorial code used predominately by queer men in the 1970s and into the 1980s. Simply put, a bandana is worn in one’s back pocket for the purposes of sexual signaling. The color of the bandana was associated with a specific sexual practice or fetish, and the wearer’s sexual role was indicated by which back pocket the bandana resided in (tops wore bandanas in their left pocket; bottoms wore bandanas in their right pocket). The hanky code initially began with the use of red bandanas to discreetly identify practitioners of fisting. A decoder list was created as other color/fetish associations were added. (In many early hanky codes, red typically appears as the first color.) Queer businesses printed the hanky code decoder lists for distribution. Erotica shops, bookstores, and catalogs provided decoder lists with the purchase of bandanas, while gay bars printed the lists with location information as a form of marketing. The origin of the hanky code exists like myth or urban legend, with two or three main stories surrounded by a variety of altered details, depending on the source.

You can read the full article here.

About The History Project
The History Project is the only organization focused exclusively on documenting and preserving the history of New England’s LGBTQ communities and sharing that history with LGBTQ individuals, organizations, allies, and the public. Visit their website to learn more about The History Project.

Monday morning mancandy

May this post help distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning. 

Happy New Year BTW

2021 Worldwide Roar calendar

I want to give the WR 2021 calendar a plug. Readers of this blog (I assume) are well aware of this calendar which started in 2009 to raise funds for the rowing program at the University of Warwick. The calendar is comprised of mostly heterosexual athletes who get naked and pose to send a very specific message for gay men: let’s celebrate your sexuality and show that you are welcome in the world of sports.

Starting in 2014 funds raised from past sales were used to form, Sport Allies, a U.K. registered charity. The mission of this charity is to make sport a more inclusive environment for everyone, and the Worldwide Roar remains the charity’s key funder. 

If wall calendars are not your thing, but you like the idea of purchasing merchandise to support this group, check out the link below for other items such as apparel, books, prints and more.

Monday morning mancandy

May this post help distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning. 

Monday morning mancandy

Knock. Knock.
Who is there?
Orange.
Orange who?
Orange you glad I posted this?

Monday morning mancandy

May this post help distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning. 

Monday morning mancandy

May this post help distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning. 

Monday morning mancandy

May this morning’s post distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning. Much thanks to the Fearsome Beard blog for this great photo.

Monday morning mancandy

I’m posting this photo of Billy Gleeson who lives in Sydney, Australia to help motivate and distract you from the fact that it is Monday morning.  

Monday morning mancandy

May this morning’s post distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning.

Monday morning mancandy

May this morning’s post distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning.

Monday morning mancandy

This guy’s long torso is so well defined it will certainly distract you from the fact that it is sadly Monday morning all over again. Hope you have a great week.

Dominic Thiem’s ass distracts us again

Dominic Thiem is a top ranked tennis player from Austria who won his first Grand Slam title, The US Open, earlier this year. However, one might say it is his assets off the tennis court that continue to get my attention.

Back in 2017 my post Dominic Thiem butt distracts TV commentators got a lot of attention from readers so I’m assuming that the photos of Thiem’s lime green derriere as shared by the Instagram atpdudes will have a similar affect on my readers and possibly result in creating a few more tennis fans.