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Furry Friday

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What to do this weekend

I’d like to give a shout out to the following events that will take place this weekend starting with Boston’s Annual Donna Summer Outdoor Roller Disco Party which takes place tonight and the 6th Boston Jerkfest and Caribbean Food Festival which runs all weekend.

There are plenty of show openings this weekend that you might want to check out as well including Wicked Mean Gurlz (Boston),  Star Boys: A Sci-Fi Burlesque (Ptown) Male Call (Ptown) and Raja from RPDR  (Ptown).

Lastly, be sure to  head over to the DotOUT Annual Summer Solstice Tea Dance  at dbar, which starts at 4PM on Sunday.

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston’s Annual Donna Summer Outdoor Roller Disco Party  get your groove on at Boston’s annual roller disco party honoring Boston native, Donna Summer from 6-10PM at Government Center / City Hall

Wicked Mean Gurlz runs through Sunday at Club Cafe, this Sing-A-Long drag Cabaret, blends the music and storyline from WICKED with Mean Girls

Northshore Pride Kick Off Sunset Cruise leaves from Salem’s Pickering Wharf Marina at 7PM (don’t be late)

6th Boston Jerkfest and Caribbean Food Festival starts Friday and runs through the weekend at the Ben Franklin Institute in the South End  – GET DISCOUNTED TICKETS HERE (WHILE THEY LAST)

Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every Friday and Saturday at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers – Board Games and BBQ is on Saturday starting at 11AM (please RSVP by Thursday)

Naked @Rock River  is a gay, nude swimming area near Brattleboro, VT. The Meetup will gather at 11AM at the parking area on SR30 – be prepared for a 20 minute hike to the swimming hole

Saturday at M Street Beach – follow the disco music and look for the Speedos

Kiki Beach is back for its third year and Southie’s M Street Beach has never looked so fabulous – look for the speedos and listen for the good music; starting at 11ish in Boston

Portsmouth Pride has events all day on Saturday from 12PM – 11PM in Portsmouth

Taste of Allston runs from 12-3PM and includes 20 restaurants, live music and lawn games over at the Harvard Murr Center in Allston

QTPOC Community Pride Potluck this welcoming social takes place from 1-3PM in Jamaica Plain

DADT Beach Party is Saturday starting at 10PM at Great Scott in Allston

Jackie Beat performs Saturday and Sunday at the Post Office in Provincetown

H E R O E S Saturday (New Venue) Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Beyonce Brunch starts at 11:30 in Downtown Crossing at Scholars on Sunday – note that tickets are required

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Glam Bingo Brunch starts at 1PM on Sunday at the Trophy Room

Gay Men 50+ Brunch Meet Up is on Sunday and for men 50 or older who come together regularly for brunch at Club Cafe – visit the link for more details

DotOUT’s Annual Summer Solstice Tea Dance at dbar is Sunday from 4-8PM in Dorchester

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Brokelahomo! (Opening Night) opens in Ptown on Sunday and will run through the summer season in Provincetown

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Vintage gay

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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What does L.G.B.T. activism look like today?

boston pride, gay prideThe New York Times is asking the LGBTQ community a few questions about the priorities and challenges facing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans. Take a few moments to share your thoughts and the NYT will  publish a selection of responses this month.

What does L.G.B.T. activism look like today?

Love your labels

lgbtqLove Your Labels is a movement that is meant to celebrate diversity, dismantle activities that suppress equality for all, and inspire young people and others to live as their truest selves. The group invites everyone to share their story and help build a community that “embraces individuality through the labels we choose for ourselves and to stand together to affect change.”

You are invited to share your story on their website, loveyourlabels.me and learn more about this organization by liking their page on Facebook and follow them on Instagram at @Love.Your.Labels.

Men in kilts

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Scruffy Sunday

handsome dad, man in bed, hunkHappy Father’s Day to all the Dads out there.

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Saturday morning coffee

joe putignano, handsome, hunk, muscles, sexy guyThis week’s Saturday morning coffee is inspired by this photo of Massachusetts native, Joe Putignano, who now lives in NYC where he tends bar, is a personal trainer and more. His contortions and sexy photos (like this one) make for an interesting Instagram account to follow.

Why we celebrate Pride

Pride is much more than parties and parades. What I think some people fail to recognize is in the face of hostility, legislated discrimination and violence, focusing on love and celebrating that love can be a far more effective tonic than channeling negative emotions. That is why Pride is and always will be at its core a political message: We’re here and we’re not going anywhere. #KillTheCloset

Furry Friday

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This week’s post is for all of you with a Daddy-complex, you’re welcome.

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What to do this weekend

handsome guyLooking for more Pride festivities and fun? Check out RI Pride with their unique Illuminated Night Parade, as well as the Neon Jungle- The Stable Pride Block Party  and Sunday’s Big Gay Tea Dance Pride Weekend Block Party 

Ptown and OGT have a bunch of things happening too, but I’d like to give these two events a shout out: Provincetown Film Festival runs through the weekend and in Ogunquit check out Heels and Harness Pride Tea Dance at Mainestreet on Sunday.

If you’re staying in Boston be sure to check out Boyfriends Last Call They are hosting their final party this Friday at 10PM at the MilkyWay in JP.

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Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every Friday and Saturday at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Boyfriends Last Call come out to the Milky Way Lounge for the last Boyfriends party as this monthly party in JP celebrates one last time starting at 10PM on Friday in Jamaica Plain

XO Fridays kick off the weekend with resident DJ Stevie Psyclone – No Cover before 11PM at Club Cafe in Boston

Witches Bitches and Divas Christina Pecce makes her Boston debut singing songs from your favorite standards, musicals, and operas starting at 8PM on Friday at Club Cafe in Boston

TRIBE Neon Jungle- The Stable Pride Block Party Friday- Block party starts at 8pm and continues on Saturday from 2-8 for a weekend of uninterrupted dancing at The Stable in Providence

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Kiki Beach is back for its third year and Southie’s M Street Beach has never looked so fabulous – look for the speedos and listen for the good music; starting at 11ish in Boston

43rd Annual PrideFest & Illuminated Night Parade starting at 11AM and running til 9:30PM on Saturday check out how Providence celebrates  Pride with this year’s theme Louder & Prouder

POLLOCK: A Staged Reading by Twenty Summers at the Hawthorne Barn starts at 7PM on Saturday in Provincetown

H E R O E S Saturday (New Venue) Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

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The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Providence Pride

Big Gay Tea Dance Pride Weekend Block Party conclude RI Pride at The Stable’s outdoor pride tea dance from 12PM – 8PM in Providence

Babes Brunch is at Trophy Room this Sunday from 1-4PM in Boston

Heels and Harness Pride Tea Dance Dust off your Heels and strap on your Harness and come down to Mainestreet from 3-7PM on Sunday in Ogunquit

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Vintage gay

gay male couple, 19th century gay menI dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Men in kilts

handsome, hunk, hairy manMuch thanks to my twitter bud, @DamienOz for sharing this photo.

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What to do this week: June 11 – 17

handsome black man, denim jeans, denim dreamsIf you are left wanting more after a week+ of Boston Pride celebrations, head down to Providence this weekend for their 43rd Annual PrideFest & Illuminated Night Parade and their Big Gay Tea Dance Pride Weekend Block Party 

Be sure to check out the full list of events I’ve highlighted below for Boston, Ogunquit, PVD and Ptown. Here are a few local events I’d like to give a special shout out to: Provincetown Film Festival starts Wednesday and runs through Sunday; the gay monthly dance party Boyfriends Last Call hosts their final party this Friday at 10PM – check it out; and Heels and Harness Pride Tea Dance is at Mainestreet from 3-7PM on Sunday in Ogunquit.

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Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Sister Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

 ShowGirls weekly talent show hosted each Monday at the AHouse in Ptown

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

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Provincetown Film Festival starts Wednesday and runs through Sunday – this year Sean Baker recieves PIFF’s 2018 Filmmaker on the Edge and Molly Shannon and Chloe Grace Moretz receive PIFF’s Excellence in Acting awards

Sports Night at Peggy’s  is every Wednesday night at Peggy O’Neil’s pub in Dorchester

Siren Trivia is every Wednesday at 9PM at the Trophy Room bar in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Cambridge Central Foyer in Kendall Square in Cambridge

TransCEND presents: T*Social join the TransCEND team from Fenway for a fun night out w/ performances by Teasha Boo, Mizery, and Fenway’s very own Candace! Light snacks will be provided on Thursday 6-9:30PM at Club Cafe

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

RuPaul’s Drag Race Multiple viewing parties will take place at 8PM on Thursday at Jacques in Bay VillageThe Alley Bar in DTXPeggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester and Trophy Room in South End

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

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THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every Friday and Saturday at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Boyfriends Last Call come out to the Milky Way Lounge for the last Boyfriends party as this monthly party in JP celebrates one last time starting at 10PM on Friday in Jamaica Plain

Witches Bitches and Divas Christina Pecce makes her Boston debut singing songs from your favorite standards, musicals, and operas starting at 8PM on Friday at Club Cafe in Boston

TRIBE Neon Jungle- The Stable Pride Block Party Friday- Block party starts at 8pm and continues on Saturday from 2-8 for a weekend of uninterrupted dancing at The Stable in Providence

Kiki Beach is back for its third year and Southie’s M Street Beach has never looked so fabulous – look for the speedos and listen for the good music; starting at 11ish in Boston

Providence Pride

43rd Annual PrideFest & Illuminated Night Parade starting at 11AM and running til 9:30PM on Saturday check out how Providence celebrates  Pride with this year’s theme Louder & Prouder

POLLOCK: A Staged Reading by Twenty Summers at the Hawthorne Barn starts at 7PM on Saturday in Provincetown

H E R O E S Saturday (New Venue) Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Providence Pride

Big Gay Tea Dance Pride Weekend Block Party conclude RI Pride at The Stable’s outdoor pride tea dance from 12PM – 8PM in Providence

Babes Brunch is at Trophy Room this Sunday from 1-4PM in Boston

Heels and Harness Pride Tea Dance Dust off your Heels and strap on your Harness and come down to Mainestreet from 3-7PM on Sunday in Ogunquit

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Back Bay Boston Pride block party today

gay bostonAlthough the annual Back Bay Boston Pride block party isn’t the official closing party, for many of us who have to work on Monday morning, it signals the end to another Boston Pride.

The outdoor block party runs from 1PM – 9PM. For more information click here. Below are a few photos from years past.

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