I can ask any of my girlfriends and they will be able to recite when and where they had their first kiss. For some it was all they hoped (or perhaps their memory is just kind) and for some it was terrible and results in groans or giggles thinking back to that moment.
First Gay Kiss
However, for most gay men and women, there are two first kisses. That first kiss with the member of the opposite sex and then your first kiss with a person of the same sex. While I was perusing YouTube earlier this week, I saw a lot of videos of guys talking about their “first gay kiss” and it got me to thinking…
Do you remember your first kiss with a person of the same sex? Was it all you hoped for? Was it a complete disaster? Do tell.

I was 25 …. It was everything I thought it would be … So much so I cried! LoL! Freaked the poor guy out?
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This is gonna sound horrible, but I don’t remember the first kiss with either gender. But I remember the first sex with both. And I love kissing. 😦
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My first kiss was the goodnight kiss for my female date at her door after the Junior Prom. I know I kiss more than a few men before I had my first meaningful kiss – just like sex.
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SteveA….
I can’t remember my 1st kiss with the same sex….but I do remember having that kiss that mattered years later….
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My first gay kiss came years after my first straight kiss. I was dating girls for long till my first gay kiss. It was everything I expected it to be and more…
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Exactly – it felt right. The excitement and relief of finally taking that step were beyond compare.
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Exactly – it felt right. Finally. The excitement and the relief of finally taking that step were beyond compare.
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My first gay kiss happened a year ago. I was 48; he was a 28 year old hottie. It was fantastic! He began kissing, aggressively, deeply, with a lot of muscle behind them. We kissed with an intensity I’d never experienced before, fuelled by testosterone and lust. After 20 years of heterosexual marriage, I realized, “This is it! This is what it was supposed to feel like!!” It was a life-changing, Aha! moment.
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I was young(ish), he was older. It felt right but clearly I didn’t know what I was doing – even for a kiss. But yeah, I remember.
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Yes, I remember…the excitement and rush of it all, and the fumbling and messiness too. But most of all, it felt right.
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