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What to do this weekend

handsome, hunk, sexy manLots of fun things happening this weekend including Boston Spirit Magazine’s Drag Idol contest at The Oberon, FUZZ returns to The Alley, Legacy Saturdays has the hunky and talented Aussie DJ Dan Slater and both sip at Jacques a the Retro Tea Dance at Club Cafe are this Sunday.

FRIDAY

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston Spirit Magazine’s Drag Idol show at the Oberon in Cambridge on Friday will be great fun and will raise proceeds to benefit Victory Programs

FUZZ is a fun monthly dance party this Friday hosted at The Alley with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy

DespeloteX Fall Edition – An LGBTQ Afro Latin Dance (18+) Get ready for Boston’s LGBTQ Afro-Latin dance event presented by friends of the Boston Salsa/Bachata Community – for a night of beginner to intermediate lessons in Bachata and Salsa, performances, and dancing to DJ LaNena and DJ Condori at the Hard Rock Cafe in Boston starting at 8PM

The David Bowie Experience fuses the sounds of Bowie with stunning visuals under the Charles Hayden Planetarium dome at the MoS on Friday starting at 8:30PM

Serving Face is your monthly queer chill-out dance and drag party at Jacques Underground – doors open at 9PM in Bay Village

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

After Midnite show at the Coolidge will be playing Sam Raimi’s horror classic Evil Dead in Brookline on Friday at 11:59PM

gay boston, nightlife, clubsSATURDAY

Sips with a Somm is a great way to spend time with friends if you love wine – join Boston Chops beverage Director and Advanced Sommelier Nick Daddona to explore the wines of Italy, Spain, France, and more starting Saturday at 4PM

Alley Gaymer Party is a 21+ night of Board games, switch gaming, and socializing on Saturday from 6PM – 11PM in DTX

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Celebrate the Music! Decades Month is at dbar and this Saturday is 70s theme and music starting at 10PM with music from DJ Jay Ine in Dorchester

Silver bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend in Dorchester

Legacy Saturdays this week will have music from the very handsome Australian DJ Dan Slater doors open at 10PM in the Theater District

MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy is hosted downstairs at the Middle East the second Saturday of the month in Central Square

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

After Midnite show at the Coolidge will be playing Haus of Oni: Evil Dead showcase alternative drag, this show aims to be inclusive and celebratory of unapologetic queer art in Brookline on Saturday at 11:45PM

handsome man in bedSUNDAY

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

sip Sundays are for sipping and sliding with DJ Brian Halligan and special guest performer Teasha Boo! Ronnie on the bar at Jacques starting at 6PM

Sunday Retro Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Take CMI’s annual LGBT travel survey

travel, handsome, hunkCommunity Marketing Insights 23rd Annual LGBT Travel survey is live and they are looking for members of the LGBT community to share with them your travel preferences. The survey will remain open through Sunday, November 10th.

Your responses are anonymous and aggregated to better understand LGBT traveler trends and preferences.  The organizers say that the survey will take approximately 10-12 minutes but it took me even less time.

www.LGBTQsurvey.com 

About CMI: In 1992, Thomas Roth and David Paisley conceived of the idea of forming a marketing research company to help companies and brands better understand the emerging LGBTQ community and include it as a viable market segment.  More than 25 years later, CMI is no the world’s leading and most-respected LGBTQ research firm.

Vintage gay

first gay prom, aaron fricke, paul guilbertlDo you recognize this photograph? Aaron Fricke (left) made history when he filed suit in U.S. District court after his high school in Pawtucket, RI told him he could not bring his date, Paul Guilbert (right) to his prom in 1980 in the court case, Fricke v. Lynch. For those who are interested in learning more about this ballsy teenager who challenged the status quo you can read  his autobiography Reflections of a Rock Lobster in which he details growing up gay culminating at that high school dance. Read more about it here.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Men in kilts

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What to do this week: November 4 -10

Looking for something to do this week but unsure what is happening? Check out this list I’ve compiled of LGBTQ+ themed events and programming for our community. If there is a program or event that I’ve overlooked, leave a message in the comments section and I’ll add it to this list of 30+ options below.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter this Monday upstairs with a kooky theme,  at Jacques with no theme, where anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Boston Drag Gauntlet Cycle 3 Challenge #6: The Roast of Violencia! is at Jacques this Tuesday Doors 6:30PM – Pre Show with Rhonda and Foxy is at 7PM – Show 7:30PM

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Men Board Game Speed Dating has returned to the Friendly Toast in Cambridge this Wednesday from 7-9PM

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

Dollar Dumpling Thursdays is for anyone on a tight budget but who still wants to get out for a bite with friends – head over to Red Lantern where $1 dumplings are served all night

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

Todrick: Haus Party Tour pulls into Boston’s Wilbur Theater this Thursday starting at 8PM in Boston

RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, Machine and Club Cafe  each Thursday in Boston

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Houseboi has moved to Thursdays at the Middlesex so come out and check them out on their new night in Central Square

Sissy That Walk: Round 3 is this Thursday at Club Cafe with the theme of 90s Hip Hop – if you think you’d like to give this monthly competition a try sign up before it fills up here: Sissy That Walk Application

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

handsome, hunk, man in bedTHE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston Spirit Magazine’s Drag Idol show at the Oberon in Cambridge on Friday will be great fun and will raise proceeds to benefit Victory Programs

FUZZ is a fun monthly dance party this Friday hosted at The Alley with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy

Serving Face is your monthly queer chill-out dance and drag party at Jacques Underground – doors open at 9PM in Bay Village

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Mayhem Saturdays bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend in Dorchester

Alley Gaymer Party is a 21+ night of Board games, switch gaming, and socializing on Saturday from 6PM – 11PM in DTX

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Celebrate the Music! Decades Month is at dbar and this Saturday is 70s theme and music starting at 10PM with music from DJ Jay Ine in Dorchester

Legacy Saturdays this week will have music from the very handsome Australian DJ Dan Slater doors open at 10PM in the Theater District

MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy is hosted downstairs at the Middle East the second Saturday of the month in Central Square

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

sip Sundays are for sipping and sliding with DJ Brian Halligan and special guest performer Teasha Boo! Ronnie on the bar at Jacques starting at 6PM

Sunday Retrro Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

men in bed, handsome men in bedI wonder what these two guys have in mind?

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Saturday morning coffee

I can’t help but feel like I’d enjoy having my morning cup of coffee with this guy.

Furry Friday

muscles, muscular hairy guy, incognito“Incognito”

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Vintage gay

1970s castro neighbohood, San Francisco

Photos: Crawford Barton, Gay and Lesbian Historical Society of Northern California

According to the Historical Society of Northern California, this photo was taken in San Francisco’s Castro neighborhood in the 1970s. For more images check out the article The Castro: The rise of a gay neighborhood.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Men in kilts

handsome man in kilt, Stephen Clarke naked, kilted coachesEarlier this year I featured Rab Shields (one half of the Kilted Coaches) as a Furry Friday (you can see him here) so I figured I should feature the equally handsome other half of that duo, Stephen Clarke.

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What to do this week: October 28 – November 3

Chelsea, gay bars NYCThere are a ton of halloween themed events and parties this week including Spooky Bear WeekendProvincetown’s nod to Halloween. If dressing up isn’t your thing you can check out Underbear this Saturday where the monthly underwear dance party will have everyone stripping down.

I’d also like to give a shout out to Harpoon Brewery who will giving out free candy and popcorn on Monday night and showing Hocus Pocus starting at 6PM or on Tuesday check out Salem’s Lot showing at Club Cafe.

Salem, MAMONDAY – THURSDAY

LGBTQ Fall Job Fair is this Monday from 4:30 – 7PM hosted by the MA LGBTQ chamber of commerce

Boston Gay Men’s Book Club is meeting on Monday at 7PM at the Boston Public Library cafe to discuss this month’s book, Before Night Falls by Cuban writer Reinaldo Arenas – all are welcome but do please RSVP

Hocus Pocus at Harpoon will be showing at their brewery with free popcorn and candy in the Seaport starting at 6PM on Monday

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter this Monday upstairs with a kooky theme,  at Jacques with no theme, where anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Boston Pride Fall Open House is this Tuesday starting at 6:30PM at the Boston Pride offices in Fort Point Channel / Southie

Halloween Horror Movie Night – Salem’s Lot head to Club Cafe on Tuesday night starting at 7PM to see this Stephen King classic

Mass Bears and Cubs Social starts at 7:30PM at Cathedral Station this Tuesday – all welcome – come down to meet and mingle with this friendly bunch

Halloween Trivia night is this Tuesday starting at 8PM at Club Cafe

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Lucky 13 Halloween show tunes hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM  Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

Halloween Eve at Latino Wednesdays is at Legacy in the Theater District  with a $1,000 costume contest – doors open at 10PM

Spooky Bear Weekend is happening in Provincetown so come down and enjoy the fun – events take place Thursday through Sunday

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

Boulet Brothers Halloween Spooktacular w/Trixie&Katya open to all ages at Royale on Halloween night from 7-11PM in Boston

RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, Machine and Club Cafe  each Thursday in Boston

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Queeraoke Halloween BASH spend Halloween at Midway Cafe for this fun karaoke night starting at 9PM in JP

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Shea Couleé’s “killer” Halloween Party head over to Candibar for this Halloween party that is certain to fill to capacity

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

scary, salemTHE WEEKEND

First Fridays want an alternative to Halloween parties – check out SoWa’s 1st Fridays checking out new shows at n’hood art galleries and meeting artists in their SoWa studios from 5-9PM on Friday

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Phyllis Diller Believes in Me Friday evening at Club Cafe watch Phyllis Gordon who is on the verge of quitting stand-up, she is visited by the comic legend Phyllis Diller.  Tix required.

Boudoir x Volvox: Venus In Furs- A Queer Techno Playground starts at 9PM at the Lower Level in Cambridge

“Heroes” Halloween Weekend – All Saints, All Souls is Friday starting at 10PM at Sonia in Cambridge

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

RAW wear your leather and enjoy the great music at Ramrod on Friday – doors open at 10PM in the Fenway

SpeakOUT Fall Speaker Training is an all day program from 8:30 – 6PM — for more details click the link — hosted in JP

Blend Saturdays bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend in Dorchester

Underbear while everyone is dressing up this monthly underwear dance party will have you stripping down and dancing to great music at the Alley on Saturday

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

New England Patriots vs Baltimore Ravens viewing party starts early but gametime is 8:20PM on Sunday at Cathedral Station (free parking in the back if you arrive early enough) in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

sexy man in bed, muscular man in bed, handsome, hunk

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Saturday morning coffee

How is anyone ever this good looking in the morning?

Furry Friday

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What to do this weekend

There are no shortage of options ranging from partying at the Museum of Fine Arts to professional networking opportunities and of course, plenty of dance parties, but I’d like to give a shout out to ManRay XIV – the Fourteen Year ManRay Reunion on Friday and the Mr. Boston Bear and Cub 2020 Competition this Saturday at The Alley.

FRIDAY

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

6th Annual Reach(OUT) LGBTQA+ career conference for students to gain advice and career planning strategies – registration is free for any Boston-area student with a college ID (pre-registration is required) Friday at 6PM at John D. O’Bryant African-American Institute in Roxbury

Boston Gay Professionals Networking is this Friday at Serafina – Financial District location – RSVP required and starts at 6:30PM

MFA Late Nites is this Saturday from 8PM – 2AM  – this always sells out so get your tickets ASAP and have a blast 

ManRay XIV – the Fourteen Year ManRay Reunion is this Friday at Sonia doors open at 10PM, in Central Square 

Fascination Friday is Boston’s fetish/gear/kink night and it returns this Friday at Jacques – doors open at 10PM

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Friday Halloween w/ Mizery and DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe this Friday

Mr. Boston Bear, Mr. Boston Cub

Mr. Boston Bear & Cub competition is at The Alley Bar on Saturday

SATURDAY

6th Annual Reach(OUT) LGBTQA+ career conference for students to gain advice and career planning strategies – registration is free for any Boston-area student with a college ID (pre-registration is required) Saturday at 3:30PM at John D. O’Bryant African-American Institute in Roxbury

Break the Chains giant queer Halloween dance party start your Saturday early with this party in the South End at Make Shift on Columbus Ave 6-10PM

Boston Gaymers HalloQueen host their 2nd annual Boston Gaymers HalloQueen party, costume contest, games and great company at Cathedral Station on Saturday 8PM – 2AM in Boston

Mr. Boston Bear and Cub 2020 Competition come down and cheer on your favorite contestant this Saturday at The Alley Bar starting at 9PM

HallowQueen: A Queer Takeover GQB hosts a “pop-up” takeover costume dance party at Game On this Saturday, starting at 9PM in the Fenway

HalloQueen @Mainestreet head up to Ogunquit for the weekend and check out Mainestreet’s halloween party starting at 9PM

Don’t Ask Don’t Tell: Spooky Ball is this Saturday at Great Scott in Allston – great music and drag show to boot – creative attire strongly recommended

Legacy Saturdays Halloween Party with DJ Paulo come down in your best costumes and dance the night away starting at 10PM in the Theatre District

Bloodfeast Halloween party is this Saturday at Machine with cash prize costume competition doors open at 10PM in the Fenway

So Hot Saturdaes: Monsters Ball have fun at Blend’s costume contests, spooky music selection and guest host Sham Payne in Dorchester

UNITE Saturdays Dirty Disco is at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

handsome man drinking coffee, hairy hunkSUNDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Carving & Cocktails at dbar this Sunday from 2-4:30PM pumpkin, carving tools, cocktail and apps included with prizes for top 3 designs – voting is at 4:30PM (only 40 tickets avail so RSVP now)

Sunday Sip-tual is this Sunday at Jacques starting at 6PM with DJ Brian Halligan and guest DJ Math3ca and a special performance by Binx

Halloween Tea Dance dance to great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover – Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Halloween at Candibar in the Theater District this Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.