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Men in kilts

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What to do this week: December 10 – 16

Christmas cheerNo surprise that there is a lot happening this week. Below is a listing of events and parties for Boston’s LGBTQ community. If I’ve missed anything you’d like to see shared feel free to email me directly or leave it as a comment in this post.

I’d like to give a shout out to a few events that caught my eye including, Equality Brews on Wednesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company; Brass Bows & Boys Holiday Concert Boston Gay Men’s Chorus perform Friday, Saturday and Sunday; Don’t Tell Boston (Seaport)  on Saturday; as well as Gay Beer Club Annual Mad About Plaid Holiday Party on Sunday.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Holiday Movie Night: National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation is at the Dorchester Brewing Co. starting at 6:30PM, but come early for free pizza starting at 5pm while it lasts in Dorchester 

Sister Santa Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

The History Project’s 2018 Holiday Party is this Tuesday, starting at 6PM at Club Cafe – all are welcome ($20 suggested donation at the door) in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Equality Brews is this Wednesday, starting at 6PM – hosted by HRC New England at the Dorchester Brewing Company – General Admission tickets are $25 and VIP tickets are $40 

Siren Trivia is every Wednesday at 9PM at the Trophy Room bar in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Cambridge Center Foyer in Kendall Square

MOVIE: Elf is showing at 7PM at the Coolidge Theater followed by karaoke, beer, cider and sushi at Osaka on Thursday in Brookline

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays presents: Sissy That Walk weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Beer Club Mad About Plaid Holiday Party is on Sunday

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Brass Bows & Boys Holiday Concert Boston Gay Men’s Chorus will be performing at the beautiful Jordan Hall Friday, Saturday and Sunday

35 Years of Fritz Take a trip down memory lane and celebrate 35 years of Fritz on Friday at Cathedral Station from 7-10PM

Queer Country Social and Dancing is Saturday at 7PM at the First JP Unitarian Universalist church (cost is $15, no alcohol allowed, all welcome)

Don’t Tell Boston (Seaport) is a secret comedy show that hosts some of the best and brightest comedians in the country. Tickets must be purchased to get the exact location in the Seaport (BYOB) || showtime is 7:30 in the Seaport

Serving Face: Opening Night is anew monthly queer party conveniently located downstairs at Jacques Underground on Saturday starting at 8PM

Mass Bears & Cub: Naughty or Nice through Dec 15 you can bring an unwrapped children’s toy to Alley Bar and Jacques Cabaret then join us for our grand finale this Saturday at the Alley, starting at 9PM

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted the second Friday of each month with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Blend Saturdays with DJ Aga bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Beer Club Annual Mad About Plaid Holiday Party is Sunday starting at 7PM at the Cambridge Brewing Company in Kendall Sq – All are welcome

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

handsome, hunk, hairy, men in bed, gay couple in bedLex Abramov + platter of donuts in bed = a dream Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

muscular guy, handsome, hunk, man candySkip the cream and sugar, I’ll take my coffee with a hint of abdominal definition.

Furry Friday

richieThis week I’m happy to share a photo of our friend Richie taken at the Boatslip in Provincetown. Richie is a sweetheart with a nice hairy chest as you can see, which makes him an ideal Furry Friday.

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What to do this weekend

Steve Grand, ChristmasThere is a lot happening this weekend in and around Boston including SoWa First Friday and the SoWa Winter Festival.

There are plenty of parties, although the biggest party this weekend will be the 10th Annual Toys for Joys Gift Gala. If you happen to be in the Back Bay on Saturday check out Boston’s holiday tradition, Santa Speedo Run. If you’re still looking for something to help get you in the holiday spirit the Boston Gay Men’s Chorus has two performances of Brass & Bows & Boys on Sunday.

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

10th Annual Toys for Joys Gift Gala did you get your tickets and presents yet – if not get to it the party is this Friday at The Revere Hotel in Boston

La Boum Queer Dance Party is hosted the first Friday of each month starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JP

Guerrilla Queer Bar goes to the Hong Kong in Harvard Square this Friday

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays: RuPaul Holi-Slay Spectacular Viewing Party and weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Mainestreet Community Holiday Party is this Friday up in Ogunquit

Santa Speedo Run takes place once again in Back Bay on Saturday at 12PM with proceeds raised going to the play ball foundation

Blend Saturdays with DJ Aga bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Gay Beer Club Runs the Yulefest 5K starting at 9:30 AM followed by a power brunch for friends and runners in Cambridge

Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch starts at 1PM this Sunday at Trophy Room (all are welcome)

Brass & Bows & Boys Boston Gay Men’s Chorus performs two shows on Sunday at 3PM and 7PM at Jordan Hall in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Les Dieux du Stade 2019 calendar

gay calendarLooking to bring a gift to your upcoming Yankee swap, make your colleagues blush at the office holiday party or maybe give yourself a gift this holiday season? Check out Dieux Stade’s latest calendar (and of course all the other accompanying materials).

To get a little more flavor for what you can expect to see in the 2019 Dieux Stade calendar check out the video below and then head over to their online store.

Les Dieux du Stade

Vintage gay

Witter Bynner, Robert Hunt

This week’s photo is of poet Witter Bynner and Robert Hunt taken in the 1920s.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Men in kilts

leather, fetish, handsomeSince Fascination Boston is this Friday, I figured I’d share this photo for anyone thinking of going to this fetish party. This model from Mr S Leather sure looks good, and I’m sure there are a lot of you who could also pull this look off.

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What to do this week: December 3 -9

T4J, gay boston

Toys for Joys is this Friday. Get your tickets ASAP.

This week things start to get crazy so plan accordingly. In addition to The Boston Ballet’s Nutcracker, Gold Dust Orphan’s Nightmare on Elf Street and The Slutcracker (all very different but entertaining holiday shows), on Thursday Berklee will host A John Waters Christmas.

While there are no shortage of options for places to go and parties to check out, I’d like to encourage everyone who can to support the 10th Annual Toys for Joys Gift Gala on Friday and if you happen to be in the Back Bay on Saturday go ahead and check out this Boston holiday tradition, Santa Speedo Run. 

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Holiday Movie Night: Die Hard is at the Dorchester Brewing Co. starting at 6:30PM, but come early for free pizza starting at 5pm while it lasts in Dorchester

Queers With Beers: Holiday Hangz all are welcome to join this friendly group Monday from 6-10 at Aeronaut Brewing Company in Somerville

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter every first Monday of the month upstairs with a kooky theme, and every third Friday of the month downstairs at Jacques with no theme, where anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Secrets of the MFA courtesy of Oscar Wilde Tours is this Wednesday with two tours this week, starting at 6:15PM

Siren Trivia is every Wednesday at 9PM at the Trophy Room bar in Boston

Houseboi w/ Coleslaw, Severity Stone and Queer Cult is this Wednesday starting at 9PM at the Middlesex in Central Square

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Cambridge Center Foyer in Kendall Square

OutRyders Holiday Party is this Thursday at The Alley Bar from 6:30 – 10:30 PM (all are welcome but tickets are required) in Boston

A John Waters Christmas is this Thursday at Berklee Performance Center

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays presents: Sissy That Walk weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston

Saturday is Boston’s 21st annual Santa Speedo Run

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

10th Annual Toys for Joys Gift Gala did you get your tickets and presents yet – if not get to it the party is this Friday at The Revere Hotel in Boston

La Boum Queer Dance Party is hosted the first Friday of each month starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JP

Guerrilla Queer Bar goes to the Hong Kong in Harvard Square this Friday

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays: RuPaul Holi-Slay Spectacular Viewing Party and weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Mainestreet Community Holiday Party is this Friday up in Ogunquit

Santa Speedo Run takes place once again in Back Bay on Saturday at 12PM with proceeds raised going to the play ball foundation

Blend Saturdays with DJ Aga bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Gay Beer Club Runs the Yulefest 5K starting at 9:30 AM followed by a power brunch for friends and runners in Cambridge

Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch starts at 1PM this Sunday at Trophy Room (all are welcome)

Brass & Bows & Boys Boston Gay Men’s Chorus performs two shows on Sunday at 3PM and 7PM at Jordan Hall in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

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World AIDS Day

HIV, Fenway Health Study, Stronger Together

Despite amazing advances there remains no cure for AIDS and new infections continue to be reported.  In honor of World AIDS Day, make a commitment to know your status if you’ve not been tested recently and encourage your friends to do the same. If you’re interested in learning more about Truvada (a.k.a. PrEP) visit Fenway Health’s What is PrEP? website.

AIDS Service Organizations (ASO) around the country and the world, still need your support. Here in Boston, our largest ASO is The AIDS Action Committee of Massachusetts.  Visit their website, make a donation or volunteer.

AIDS Action Committee of MA

Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunk, abs, muscular manThis is a man after my own heart. I too like French Press coffee. We must be soul mates. I’m sure that’s why my good friend @justgngr suggested the photo.

Furry Friday

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