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Furry Friday

handsome, hot, hunk, hairy, cute gay cub

My first thought was what a cute baby otter; so appropriate for Bear Week. WDYT?

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What to do this weekend

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Bear Week roars into Ptown starting Saturday, July 7th

Just as Independence Week comes to an end Bear Week 2018 roars to life in Ptown, but if you are staying in Boston there is still plenty to do. If you love pizza, be sure to check out the two-day Boston Pizza Festival in Gov’t Center or catch one of the free outdoor movies playing this weekend, Field of Dreams  and The Lion King.

Of course there are plenty of parties this weekend, but I’d like to give a special shout out to The Alley’s  Bear Week Kick Off Party (no cover), which starts at 2PM on Friday.

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Casual Friday’s Bear Week Kick Off Party starts at 9PM at The Alley on Friday and is always a great way to start Bear Week celebrations

SoWa First Fridays includes more than 200 studios, galleries and shops and runs from 5-9PM along Harrison Avenue in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Levi Kreis performs his show Piano Men at Mainestreet on Friday and Saturday at 8PM in Ogunquit

Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every Friday and Saturday at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

MOVIE: Field of Dreams plays outside, starting at dusk on Friday at Rowes Wharf

EXTRA at Machine is invaded by Montreal this Friday with shows by: Miss Butterfly, Rita Baga, Marc-André Vachon, Emma Dejavu, & Phoenix Vyxen

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Kiki Beach is back for its third year and Southie’s M Street Beach has never looked so fabulous – look for the speedos and listen for the good music; starting at 11ish in Boston

Boston Pizza Festival is on Saturday and Sunday from 12PM-8PM

Boston Pizza Festival is on Saturday and Sunday from 12PM-8PM at City Hall Plaza – pre sale tickets are $35

Summer Block Party runs from 12PM-9PM on Saturday down by the Lawn on D and includes a ridiculous number of games, events and music – oh yeah and the bar will be open throughout in the Seaport

MOVIE: The Lion King plays outside for free at the Prudential Mall on Saturday night

Underbear is at The Alley on Saturday, starting at 9PM in Boston

Underwear Bear Week Party is Saturday at Club Purgatory – doors open at 9PM in Provincetown

H E R O E S Saturday (New Venue) Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Underbear is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Open Newbury Street is back – the street will become the city’s largest pedestrian walk way on Sunday from 10AM – 6PM

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

BRUT Bear Week 2018 party is at the Paramount at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Vintage gay

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Men in kilts

handsome guy This is what I imagine a Scottish Prince Charming might look like.

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What to do this week: July 2 – 8

This week the circuit hits Provincetown with Independence Week, but if you are staying in Boston there is plenty happening here. I’d like to give the Boston Pops Fireworks Spectacular on Wednesday a shout out. This year they have an excellent line up of special guests before the fireworks display and Boston Pizza Festival on Saturday and Sunday is always delicious.

The great weather also means that there are ton of free outdoor movies you can check out this week, including: Hocus PocusArtificial IntelligenceField of Dreams  and The Lion King.

Check out everything below, pick a few events / parties to check out and then share this post with your friends. Word of mouth and sharing on Facebook and Twitter is always appreciated.

Fourth of July in Boston

Boston Pops Fireworks Spectacular is Wednesday, July 4th

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Independence Week is in full swing all week in Provincetown with multiple events each day in Ptown

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Queer Boston Board Gamers field trip to Aeronaut Brewery is on Monday, starting at 6PM in Somerville

Musical Theater Trivia is hosted in the Napolean Room on Monday starting at 7PM at Club Cafe in Boston

ShowGirls weekly talent show hosted each Monday at the AHouse in Ptown

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

gay boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Boston Pops Fireworks Spectacular takes over the Esplanade on Wednesday when the gates open at 5PM – this year’s entertainers joining the Boston Pops includes: Rachel Platten, Indigo Girls, Broadway star Natalie Cortez and the legendary, Rita Moreno in Boston

Boston Pops Fireworks Party is being hosted at Cathedral Station from 8-11PM so you can avoid the lines and get a front row seat (so to speak) on Wednesday in Boston

Boston Calling Weekly Block Party is hosted every Thursday with live bands, great beer & wine from 5-8PM in Dewey Square by South Station

Comedy Open Mic night is Thursday from 7-8:30PM in the Napolean Room at Club Cafe in Boston

MOVIE: Hocus Pocus plays starting around dusk (check for details) at Kelly’s Roast Beef in Revere

MOVIE: Artificial Intelligence plays outside at the Lawn on D starting at 8PM on Thursday in the Seaport

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Bear Week Provincetown

Bear Week hits Provincetown

THE WEEKEND

SoWa First Fridays includes more than 200 studios, galleries and shops and runs from 5-9PM along Harrison Avenue in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Levi Kreis performs his show Piano Men at Mainestreet on Friday and Saturday at 8PM in Ogunquit

Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every Friday and Saturday at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

MOVIE: Field of Dreams plays outside, starting at dusk on Friday at Rowes Wharf

Underbear is hosting two parties this month thanks to the start of Bear Week in Ptown the following day, come to The Alley on Friday night as the unofficial kickoff for Ptown Bear Week 2018

EXTRA at Machine is invaded by Montreal this Friday with shows by: Miss Butterfly, Rita Baga, Marc-André Vachon, Emma Dejavu, & Phoenix Vyxen

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Kiki Beach is back for its third year and Southie’s M Street Beach has never looked so fabulous – look for the speedos and listen for the good music; starting at 11ish in Boston

Boston Pizza Festival is on Saturday and Sunday from 12PM-8PM

Boston Pizza Festival is on Saturday and Sunday from 12PM-8PM at City Hall Plaza – pre sale tickets are $35

Summer Block Party runs from 12PM-9PM on Saturday down by the Lawn on D and includes a ridiculous number of games, events and music – oh yeah and the bar will be open throughout in the Seaport

MOVIE: The Lion King plays outside for free at the Prudential Mall on Saturday night

Muscle Bear Party for Bear Week 2018 at the Crown & Anchor in Ptown

Underwear Bear Week Party is Saturday at Club Purgatory – doors open at 9PM in Provincetown

H E R O E S Saturday (New Venue) Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

gay bostonGrunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Open Newbury Street is back – the street will become the city’s largest pedestrian walk way on Sunday from 10AM – 6PM

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

BRUT Bear Week 2018 party is at the Paramount at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

handsome, hunk, man in bed

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Saturday morning coffee

hairy, hunk, man drinking coffee, underwearEnjoy your morning cup of joe or whatever you may want to call him.

Furry Friday

handsome, hairy, hunk, cute guy

This guy is the perfect mix of handsome, sexy and cute. I bet Moms love him and boyfriends need to stay well hydrated.

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What to do this weekend

Ptown Independence 2013Independence Week opens in Provincetown with the Independence 2018 Opening Night party on Friday. The weekend forecast calls for plenty of sun so if  you’re not heading to the Cape you may want to consider a day trip to Ogunquit or if you want to stay closer to home, join Sergio and me this Saturday at Kiki Beach.

Saturday night the city will have fireworks over Boston harbor, starting at 9PM to celebrate summer. There are also several outdoor movies playing for free in Boston this weekend, including Saving Private Ryan and Jaws (both playing at Lawn on D) and Grease at Rowes Wharf. Whatever you do, make the most of your time and enjoy the great weather. Hopefully Sergio and I will see you out and about.

Independence Week hits Provincetown for a complete listing of all the parties at The Crown be sure to check out this link and get your tickets while they last

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every Friday and Saturday at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

free stuff to do in Boston

Summer in the City presents Grease free to watch outdoors at the Boston Harbor Hotel at dusk but arrive early, seating can be tricky at Rowes Wharf

Movies at Lawn On D presents Jaws 8-10PM on Friday in the Seaport

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

gay boston, m street gay beach

Kiki Beach is back for its third year and Southie’s M Street Beach has never looked so fabulous – look for the speedos and listen for the good music; starting at 11ish in Boston

Saturday Drag Brunch with Neon Calypso hosted by The Welcoming Committee is Saturday from 12-3PM at the Lansdowne Pub (tix required) in Boston

QPOC Takeover of the Boston Common is hosted by the LGBTQ men of color group, Men of Melanin Magic, on Saturday starting at 1PM in Boston

Big Gay Night at Canobie Lake Park is an unofficial takeover starting at 5PM on Saturday check the Facebook page for more details

Gay Wine Soirée Tasting has been organized the by the group, Gay Wine Soirée, is on Saturday at Benedetto from 5-7PM in Harvard Square

Sutton Lee Seymour performs Saturday and Sunday evening at Mainestreet starting at 8PM in Ogunquit

Fireworks over Boston Harbor will take place on Saturday night starting at 9PM; head over to Christopher Columbus Park for the best viewing

peggy o'neils, gay boston, mermen party

So Hot Saturdaes: Mermen is at Peggy’s on Saturday – doors open at 10PM in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

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Trophy Room’s 90s Brunch starts at 1PM on Saturday

Back to the 90s Brunch starts at 1PM at Trophy Room on Sunday in Boston

Sunday Retro Tea Dance no cover and always has great music from 70s, 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Vintage gay

gay male portrait

What a handsome and happy photo. Any thoughts on when this may have been taken? I’m going to guess late 70s with all that wavy hair action.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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New York Times: Queer Love in Color

gay men of color, gay african american coupleThe New York Times published an excellent article that I wanted to share and encourage people to read entitled, Queer Love in Color

The opening of the article features a call out by Jamal Jordan a black digital director at the Times who wondered why doesn’t anyone gay look like me when he was growing up? Jordan goes on to say, “I spent most of my teenage years believing that love between two black men wasn’t even possible. To my queer white peers, an entire world of change was unfolding: Public support for same-gender marriage eventually led to its legalization nationwide, and queer people were appearing as the leads in more TV shows than I could ever watch. People even won Oscars for directing movies about gay white cowboys. But none of these people looked like me. In the decade since, the wave of change has continued. And yet: I can’t think of a single high-profile example of a loving relationship between two queer people of color.”

That is astounding and sad to realize. Despite the fact that I can think of famous men and women of color who are out (e.g. RuPaul, Billy Porter and Wanda Sykes first came to mind), I have no idea about their love lives and significant others. Contrast that with a laundry list of gay white celebrities like Neil Patrick Harris & David Burtka, Ellen DeGeneres & Portia de Rossi and Tom Daley & Dustin Lance Black, and I’m left wondering is that because of an inherent racial bias in reporting or are gay couples of color intentionally not seeking the spotlight? I don’t know the answer and I think for the most parts whatever your opinion on the matter it is really hard to prove one way or the other so I thought I’d use the opportunity to share the article.

Queer Love in Color

Men in kilts

handsome group of men wearing kiltsThis looks like a fun group of guys. More people should wear kilts in the US.

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What to do this week: June 25 – July 1

This week has a lot happening ranging from Independence Week hitting Provincetown to a pick up game hosted by Boston Gay Dodgeball to several free movies being shown outside including Saving Private Ryan and Jaws (both playing at Lawn on D) and Grease at Rowes Wharf.

There are also some fun events this week like the Sissy That Walk semi finals this Thursday and an unofficial takeover of Canobie Lake Park on Saturday. Read the full list of activities shared below and then share with your friends.

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MONDAY – THURSDAY

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

 ShowGirls weekly talent show hosted each Monday at the AHouse in Ptown

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sports Night at Peggy’s  is every Wednesday night at Peggy O’Neil’s pub in Dorchester

gay boston, trophy room

Siren Trivia is every Wednesday at 9PM at the Trophy Room bar in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Cambridge Center Foyer in Kendall Square in Cambridge

Boston Gay Dodgeball (pick up game)  Thursday from 7 – 8:30PM is hosted by the Gay Dodgeball league – $5 pick up game for anyone interested in playing the summer league – game is in Dorchester

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Movies at Lawn On D presents Saving Private Ryan 8-10PM on Thursday in the Seaport

Miss Richfield 1981 takes her show on the road to the Vinegar Hill Music Theatre on Thursday (showtime is 8PM) just outside Kennebunkport Maine

BRASH | Queer Party is hosted every fourth Thursday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Sissy That Walk Semi Finals weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston

THE WEEKEND

Independence Week hits Provincetown for a complete listing of all the parties at The Crown be sure to check out this link and get your tickets while they last

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every Friday and Saturday at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Summer in the City presents Grease free to watch outdoors at the Boston Harbor Hotel at dusk but arrive early, seating can be tricky at Rowes Wharf

Movies at Lawn On D presents Jaws 8-10PM on Friday in the Seaport

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Kiki Beach is back for its third year and Southie’s M Street Beach has never looked so fabulous – look for the speedos and listen for the good music; starting at 11ish in Boston

Saturday Drag Brunch with Neon Calypso hosted by The Welcoming Committee is Saturday from 12-3PM at the Lansdowne Pub (tix required) in Boston

QPOC Takeover of the Boston Common is hosted by the LGBTQ men of color group, Men of Melanin Magic, on Saturday starting at 1PM in Boston

Big Gay Night at Canobie Lake Park is an unofficial takeover starting at 5PM on Saturday check the Facebook page for more details

Gay Wine Soirée Tasting has been organized the by the group, Gay Wine Soirée, is on Saturday at Benedetto from 5-7PM in Harvard Square

Sutton Lee Seymour performs Saturday and Sunday evening at Mainestreet starting at 8PM in Ogunquit

peggy o'neils, gay boston, mermen party

So Hot Saturdaes: Mermen is at Peggy’s on Saturday – doors open at 10PM in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Back to the 90s Brunch starts at 1PM at Trophy Room on Sunday in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

handsome, hunk, man in bed, man with a hairy chestWhat an absolute cutie. Looks like he would also make for a great Furry Friday.

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Saturday morning coffee

davor garic, handsome, hunk, shaved head, muscular guy, guy wearing underwear, shirtless guyMuch thanks to my friend @bpmoynihan for suggesting this photo of Croatian entertainer and model, Davor Garić, enjoying his morning cup of joe. Certainly makes me want to spend a Saturday morning in Croatia.