Category Archives: Boston

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Canada Drag Race viewing party
FRIDAY: Bar open with music (no kitchen or DJ)
SATURDAY: Christmas buffet @4PM & Bar open with music (no DJ)
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Karaoke Night @8PM

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THURSDAY: Queen of the Universe Music Show @8PM
FRIDAY: Closed
SATURDAY: Closed
SUNDAY: Closed

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Open – no programming
FRIDAY: Open – no programming
SATURDAY: Open starting @7PM (no kitchen)
SUNDAY: Open – brunch served starting @11AM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Queens of the Universe viewing party @8PM, DJ Aga & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Closed
SATURDAY: Closed
SUNDAY: Tea Dance w/ DJ Brian Derrick @5PM

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FRIDAY: Closed
SATURDAY: Closed
SUNDAY: Open – Brunch @11AM & Iced Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! w/ Crystal Crawford & Amanda Playwith @8PM
FRIDAY: Closed
SATURDAY: Closed
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic @7PM

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Dahli Live! & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Closed
SATURDAY: Christmas at Legacy w/ DJ Gustavo Mascari no cover all night
SUNDAY: It’s a Holiday Hot Mess w/ DJ Richie LaDue & FrenchY at Candibar no cover all night

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Open – no programming
FRIDAY: Open – no kitchen / no programming
SATURDAY: Open – no kitchen / no programming
SUNDAY: Brunch served all day

LGBTQ+ nights & events

THURSDAY: Onsie Themed Queeraoke at Midway Cafe Thursday at 8PM

SATURDAY: Christmas @Legacy w/ DJ Gustavo Mascari door open at 10PM – No Cover all night

SATURDAY: Xmas dance party w/ DJ La Nena & host Tatiana at La Makina

SUNDAY: It’s a holiday Hot Mess w/ DJs Richie LaDue & Frenchy at Candi Bar (No Cover all night)

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE w/ music by Penitence @9PM leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Imagine Van Gogh opens in Boston

Imagine Van Gogh is a self-described “immersive exhibition” of some of the artist’s most famous work reimagined. The exhibit is hosted at the SoWa Power Station and opened yesterday. The show will run through March 19, 2022 and tickets still remain although they are selling quickly. Tickets start at $40 for adults ($35 if purchasing four or more tickets).

To purchase tickets or to learn more about this exhibition that takes approximately one hour to view in Boston’s beautiful new event venue, the SoWa Power Station, click the link below.

Imagine Van Gogh Boston
December 21, 2021 – March 19, 2022
@ SoWa Power Station at 550 Harrison Ave, Boston

Boston Mayor Michelle Wu calls for proof of vaccination for access to many indoor businesses

Yesterday, Mayor Michelle Wu called for stronger action to fight the COVID-19 pandemic and to protect public health. Starting next month, to enter many Boston businesses, proof of vaccination will be required.

While I believe nobody should be forced to get medical treatment, I also believe public health is more important than individual rights. Access to these public establishments is not a right, it’s a priviledge and one that you lose if you won’t take the necessary precautions to protect your community.

Today, The Boston Globe also reported nearly 97% of residents who have been vaccinated averted hospitalization and death from COVID-19. These findings illustrate the cost savings achieved by hospitalizations averted and (more importantly) the human suffering of individuals and their loved ones that was avoided. Apparently, vaccines not only save lives, they also save a lot of money. I’m unsure how that squares with fiscal conservatives who refuse to get vaccinated.

Bravo and thank you Mayor Wu

Stonewall Boston Billiards registration open until December 24th

For all of you who may be contemplating New Year’s resolutions that push you to meet more people in 2022, Stonewall Sports Boston’s announcement that they are bringing back their billiards league in January might be the perfect way to do just that.

Team up with friends or register on your own as a “free agent”. Members of the league are there to have fun, meet people and make friends. All skill levels are welcome. Games will be played on Monday nights at Scholars in Downtown Crossing.

Billiards registration closes on December 24th! To register or for more details about the league which starts January 24th is available on Stonewall Boston’s website.

Stonewall Boston Billiards League

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Canada Drag Race viewing party @7PM and Trivia Night
FRIDAY: Jim Beam Promo 7-9PM & DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Wicked Pah (puppy play group) 7-10PM & Gear Night w/ DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Karaoke Night @8PM

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THURSDAY: Queen of the Universe Music Show @8PM
FRIDAY: SUPERNATURE w/ DJ Brian Derrick and host Penny Tentiary & Lilly Rose @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Mizery Loves Company Drag Brunch (SOLD OUT) @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Islanders @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics host the Warriors @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Celtics host the Knicks @7PM, the Bruins play the Canadiens @7PM, and the Patriots (9-4) play Indy (7-6) @8:20PM
SUNDAY: Brunch served starting @11AM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Queens of the Universe viewing party @8PM, DJ Andrea Stamas & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Sexy Santa Bear Tea w/ DJ Begbick @5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturday come dressed naughty or nice w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: “Iced” Tea w/ DJ Cole Slaw & host Pristine Christine @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! w/ Crystal Crawford & Amanda Playwith @8PM
FRIDAY: Jacques Underground – Another Evening with Patty Bourrée: “Dear Santa, Get me on Drag Race” @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage w/ Destiny @10PM
SATURDAY: Jacques Underground – $h!tfaced Standup. hosted by Worcester’s Sweetheart, Niki Luparelli @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage w/ Dee Dee DeRay @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic @7PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Hoso Live! & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays “Pajama Party” w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: FurBall – Bad Santa clothes check & music by The Perry Twins @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candi Bar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Islanders @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics host the Warriors @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Celtics host the Knicks @7PM, the Bruins play the Canadiens @7PM, and the Patriots (9-4) play Indy (7-6) @8:20PM
SUNDAY: Brunch served all day

LGBTQ+ nights & events

Ryan Landry and his cast of misfits, The Gold Dust Orphans return with their annual holiday show after a two year absence. A Grinchley Christmas Carol runs Thursday thru Sunday December 2 – 19th.

Purchase your tickets here.

THURSDAY: DotOUT hosts Ugly Sweater Party at Harp & Bard Thursday at 8PM

FRIDAY: Gumdrops and the Funny Uncle cabaret show is at Club Cafe this Friday at 7PM

FRIDAY: Wicked PAH’s Alley Pups social returns to The Alley at 7-10PM

FRIDAY: Slay LGBTQIA night with DJ Michael Giller is at La Makina at 9PM

FRIDAY & SATURDAY: Diva Royale Drag Show Upstairs at Hennessey’s starting at 7:30PM

SATURDAY: Pissi RUINS Christmas Drag Comedian, Pissi Myles, from NJ brings her holiday spectacular to Club Cafe for one night only – doors open at 6:30PM

SATURDAY: The Ultimate Drag Pop Up is at Warehouse XI at 7PM

SATURDAY: Divas Latinas Night with host Gia Martinez & D’Witches at La Makina

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence w/ music by ShyTalk Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Heels & Mimosas Drag Brunch
Sunday @11AM
at Premiere Broadway (Somerville)

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12PM – 4PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Boston Pride Hockey Winter/Spring season

Photo from Boston Pride Hockey Instagram

The BPH Inclusive Hockey League (IHL) was formed this past fall and it has been a tremendous success thus far. The first season of this new league will begin next month on January 2, 2022. For those who would like to learn more or to sign up, be sure to check the link below and share with friends who may also be interested. Sign up deadline is Sunday, Dec. 19th.

IHL 2022 Winter/Spring Season
January 2nd – April 3rd
$150 or monthly payment plan
(sign up deadline is December 19th)



What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Canada Drag Race viewing party @7PM and Trivia Night
FRIDAY: FUZZ w/ DJ Brent Covington & DJ Taffy @10PM
SATURDAY: Guest DJ Wayne Michael from A-House @9PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: Queen of the Universe Music Show @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ DJ Begbick and host Penny Tentiary @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Andrea Stamas @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Oilers @9PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Suns @10PM
SATURDAY: Holiday Stocking Drive @4PM then watch the Bruins play the Flames @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch served starting @11AM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: 90s Night w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Throwback Tea Dance w/ DJ Brian Derrick @5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @10PM
SATURDAY: “Slay” Saturday w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: Tea w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Jacques Underground High School Dragsical @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic @7PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Tammie Brown Live! & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: The handsome German DJ Ben Backson comes to Legacy @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candi Bar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Oilers @9PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Suns @10PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Flames @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch served all day

LGBTQ+ nights & events

Ryan Landry and his cast of misfits, The Gold Dust Orphans return with their annual holiday show after a two year absence. A Grinchley Christmas Carol runs Thursday thru Sunday December 2 – 19th.

Purchase your tickets here.

THURSDAY: Queeraoke Thursdays is back at Midway Cafe in JP every Thursday at 10PM

FRIDAY: Gumdrops and the Funny Uncle cabaret show is at Club Cafe this Friday at 7PM

FRIDAY: A John Waters Christmas returns to Boston at the Berklee Performance Center at 8PM

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FRIDAY: Fuzz with DJ Brent Covington & DJ Taffy returns to The Alley at 9PM

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller at La Makina on Revere Beach

FRIDAY & SATURDAY: Diva Royale Drag Show Upstairs at Hennessey’s starting at 7:30PM

SATURDAY: Stonewall Sports & Boston Alliance for Gay Sports (BAGS) Holiday Stocking Drive is at Cathedral Station at 4PM

SATURDAY: Latin Night with host Jazmine Skies at La Makina on Revere Beach

SUNDAY: Bears, Brews & Boys Holiday Edition is at Dorchester Brewing Co at 4PM

SUNDAY: Boston Gay Basketball League: Meet Your Team is at the Harp + Bard

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence w/ music by ShyTalk Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Holiday Dragtacular Brunch
Sunday, December 12 @11AM
Hosted at Laugh Boston in the Seaport

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12PM – 4PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party @7PM and Trivia Night
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SATURDAY: Underbear with DJ Taffy @9PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: Queen of the Universe Music Show @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam and host Penny Tentiary @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Pop Brunch: Mariah, Nikki Minaj w/ host Harlow Havoc & Lilly Rose @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Predators @8PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Jazz @9PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Bruins host the Lightening @7PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Trail Blazers @10PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Broadway Trivia @7PM & Dance Party w/ host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Taylor Swift “Red Party” w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: EDM | Latino Night | Top 40 w/ DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Tea Dance w/ DJ BEGBICK @5PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: Celebrate dbar’s Sweet 16 w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: “Iced Tea” w/ DJ Joe Bermudez and host Pristine Christine @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Comedy Underground w/ host Kandi Dishe @7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @10PM
SATURDAY: Basement Babes: Burlesque Takeover @7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic @7PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Aja Live! & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Ranny @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candi Bar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Predators @8PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Jazz @9PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Bruins host the Lightening @7PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Trail Blazers @10PM

LGBTQ+ nights & events

Ryan Landry and his cast of misfits, The Gold Dust Orphans return with their annual holiday show after a two year absence. A Grinchley Christmas Carol runs Thursday thru Sunday December 2 – 19th.

Purchase your tickets here.

THURSDAY: Queeraoke Thursdays is back at Midway Cafe in JP every Thursday at 10PM

FRIDAY & SATURDAY: Diva Royale Drag Show Upstairs at Hennessey’s starting at 7:30PM

FRIDAY: HEROES (18+) with DJ Chris Ewen in Central Square at Sonia at 10PM

FRIDAY: Taylor Swift Red Party with DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller at La Makina on Revere Beach

SATURDAY: Latin Night with host Jazmine Skies at La Makina on Revere Beach

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SATURDAY: Underbear with DJ Taffy returns to The Alley this Saturday at 9PM

SUNDAY: Brunch & Sip – Naughty or Nice edition w/ music by Natural Vybez at Fort Hill Bar & Grill and co-presented by Boston Urban Pride & Queer Nightlife / Events Boston (tickets required)

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence w/ music by ShyTalk Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Girls Day Brunch Drag Show
Saturday @10AM
The Point Boston (North End)

Tipsy Tea Brunch – Drag Show
Saturday @1PM
Ghost Pepper Taco & Tequila Bar – Savin Hill

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Brunch w/ host Amanda Playwith
Sunday @11AM
Premiere on Broadway

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12PM – 4PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown This Weekend

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Friday – Sunday, Dec 3 – 5th is Holly Folly Weekend. For more information about events and programming visit, ptown.org/calendar/holly-folly.

What to do this weekend (Thanksgiving ed.)

The weekend starts one day early this week. Have a happy and safe Thanksgiving. Below is a list of events and parties planned. Check ahead since many places will be closed Thursday night. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
WEDNESDAY: Closed
THURSDAY: Closed
FRIDAY: RPDR @7PM & Casual Friday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Special Guest DJ Aga from Mainestreet @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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WEDNESDAY: ThanksGAGA Eve w/ music by Twisted Gleam @10PM
THURSDAY: Closed
FRIDAY: Music by Twisted Gleam w host Penny Tentiary & Lilly Rose @10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch @11AM

Cathedral Station
WEDNESDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Sabres @7PM
Watch the Celtics host the Nets @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Bruins host the Rangers @3:30PM
Watch the Celtics play the Spurs @8:30PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Patriots (7-4) host the Titans (8-3) @1PM
Watch the Cetltics play the Raptors @6PM
Watch the Bruins host the Canucks @7PM

Club Cafe
WEDNESDAY: Blackout Party w/ DJ Steve Sidewalk from NYC @10PM
THURSDAY: Closed
FRIDAY: Disco Betch w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: Leather Night w/ DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Tea Dance w/ DJ Mary Alice @5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: “Slay” Saturday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Final Tea Dance of 2021 w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Closed for the weekend

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
WEDNESDAY: Thanksgiving Eve w/ DJs Alex Costa, Richie Ladue & FrenchY
THURSDAY: Closed
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: Gay Mafia presents DJ Ranny @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
WEDNESDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Sabres @7PM & the Celtics host the Nets @7:30PM
THURSDAY: Open but no programming
FRIDAY: Watch the Bruins host the Rangers @3:30PM & the Celtics play the Spurs @8:30PM
SATURDAY: Open but no programming
SUNDAY: Drag Queen Bingo 1-3PM then watch the Cetltics play the Raptors @6PM & the Bruins host the Canucks @7PM

WEDNESDAY: DaRk MeEt” w/ DJ Chris Ewen at the Middle East @10PM

WEDNESDAY: DJ Natsh D’ Wishes & host Penny Tentiary at La Makina @9PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke “Thanksgiving Edition” is at Midway Cafe in JP @10PM

FRIDAY: Circuit Party w/ DJ Michael Giller comes to La Makina @9PM

SATURDAY: Latin Night w/ DJ Kenny at La Makina nightclub @9PM

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence w/ music by ShyTalk Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

What to do this weekend

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Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: RPDR UK followed by Bear Trivia w/ Dave Sawyer
FRIDAY: DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Supernature w/ DJ Brian Derrick & host Penny Tentiary and Lilly Rose @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturday w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Mizery Loves Company Drag Brunch @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Patriots (6-4) play the Falcons (4-5) @8:20PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics host the Lakers @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Flyers @7PM & Celtics host the Thunder @7:30PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Weekly dance party w/ DJ Joe Bermudez & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Varla Jean “Little Prick” & DJ Stevie Psyclone w/ host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: Varla Jean “Little Prick” & Mainframe Underground w/ DJ Curtis Atchison @10PM
SUNDAY: Pup & Gear Party Tea Dance w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: “Slay” Saturday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage
SUNDAY: Comedy Open Mic Night @7PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Adore Delano, host Violencia & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays “No Theme November” w/ DJ Problematic Beats @10PM
SATURDAY: Gay Mafia presents DJ Aron @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

THURSDAY: Movie: No Ordinary Man as part of Emerson’s free Bright Lights Series and Trans Awareness Week watch this online screening and discussion with directors starting at 7PM (must register to view).

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe in JP

THURSDAY: Songs from a beloved king: A queer Bible musical is at the Museum of Science

FRIDAY & SATURDAY: Varla Jean Merman brings her show from Ptown “Little Prick” to Club Cafe

FRIDAY: Circuit Party w/ DJ Michael Giller comes to La Makina

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SATURDAY: Gays for Patsy meet up for their monthly dance party in JP (all are welcome)

SATURDAY: Latin Night: Noche de Fuego at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach

SUNDAY: David Sedaris comes to Symphony Hall at 7PM (tickets still available)

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence w/ DJ Brian Halligan Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Brunch of Queens! I love the 90s!
Sunday @11AM
Presented by Henry Paquin at Bell in Hand

Mizery Loves Company Drag Brunch
Sunday 11AM – 4PM
With your host Mizery @blend

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

What to do this weekend

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Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

I’d like to give a shout out to the South End Open Studios (Saturday and Sunday 11AM – 6PM). This is the first Open Studios event since the lockdown in 2020 and is free and open to the public. Check out the artists working in their studios, visit the galleries and enjoy the weekend event.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party followed by Trivia starting @7PM
FRIDAY: FUZZ w/ DJ Brent Covington & DJ Taffy @10PM
SATURDAY: visiting DJ Wayne Michael from A-House in Ptown @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ Twisted Gleam & host Penny Tentiary and Lilly Rose @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturday w/ DJ Andrea Stamas @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch w/ host Harlow Havoc @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins host the Oilers @7PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics host the Bucks @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Devils @1PM & Celtics host the Cavaliers @8:00PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Patriots (5-4) host the Browns (5-4) @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Weekly dance party w/ music by Math3ca & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Join DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Throwback Tea Dance w/ Brian Derrick @5PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: “Slay” Saturday (dress like royalty) w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Serve-Vivor LIVE! @8PM
SATURDAY: Basement Babes Burlesque @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SUNDAY: Comedy Open Mic Night @7PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Gay Mafia presents Furball w/ Shane Marcus (clothes check available) @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe in JP

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FRIDAY: Fuzz returns with DJs Brent Covington & Taffy at the Alley @10PM

SATURDAY: Tipsy Tea, Brunch & Drag Show @1PM (Reservations Req’d) at Ghost Pepper in Savin Hill

SATURDAY: Gay Mafia Boston presents Furball w/ Shane Marcus at Legacy @10PM

SATURDAY: GRUNT returns to The Alley Bar w/ special guest DJ Wayne Michael from the A-House @10PM

SATURDAY: Latin Night: Noche de Fuego at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

SUNDAY: Yoga w/ Chuck (GBTQ Men’s Day Retreat) from 10:30AM – 4PM

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence w/ DJ Brian Halligan Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing at 9PM

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Sex In The City
Sunday @11AM
Hosted by Burd Events at Laugh Boston

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

This Weekend in Provincetown

Thursday, November 11th Pilgrim Monument Lighting

What to do this weekend

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Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party followed by Trivia starting @7PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SATURDAY: Underbear w/ DJ Taffy @9PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam & host Penny Tentiary @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturday w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Beyonce Brunch w/ hosts Harlow Havoc & Arabella the Goddess @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins host the Red Wings @7PM & Celtics play the Heat @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Maple Leafs @7PM & Celtics play the Wizards @8:30PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Patriots (4-4) host the Jaqguars (1-6) @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Weekly dance party w/ host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Join DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: Movie Night: Who’s That Girl @7:00PM & DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Tea Dance w/ DJ BEGBICK @5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: “Slay” Saturday w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SATURDAY: Comedy Underground @7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SUNDAY: Comedy Open Mic Night @7PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ SAINT & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: Gay Mafia presents DJ Ranny @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays w/ DJ Richie LaDue at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe in JP

FRIDAY: ROAR Bear Circuit w/ DJ Michael Giller at La Makina on Revere Beach

FRIDAY: HEROES IRL (18+) w/ DJ Chris Ewen at Sonia in Central Square @10PM

FRIDAY: Sapphic Nights w/ DJ Beba & DJ Icy Fevur and your host Lucy at Goodlife Bar @10PM

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SATURDAY: Underbear w/ DJ Taffy returns to The Alley Bar w/ free clothes check @9PM

SATURDAY: Latin Night at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

SUNDAY: La’Diva Monet The Fantasia Impersonator Day Party w/ Urban Pride at Fort Hill Bar & Grill @3PM

SUNDAY: Randy Rainbow: The Pink Glasses Tour comes to Le Chevalier Theater for 2 shows @3PM & @7PM

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing at 9PM

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

This Weekend in Provincetown

Saturday, Nov 6th – Provincetown Food & Wine Festival

Boston Pride Shuts Down: What’s the deal?

Boston Pride

Reverend Irene Monroe has penned an article in the new issue of Boston Spirit Magazine, “Why Shut Down Boston Pride?” (I’d love to include a link but at the time I wrote this Boston Spirit’s website still didn’t have the article online. How is that even possible? But I digress.)

The well written article starts back in June 2020 when Boston Pride hired two consultants to help them address the growing chorus of criticism that Linda DeMarco (President) and the Boston Pride Board was too secretive, inhospitable to new ideas or suggestions, and increasingly tone deaf – especially to the trans and non-white LGBTQ+ members of our community. For many, Boston Pride’s mishandling of and the resulting tepid response to the murder of George Floyd had become a tipping point.

The goal of engaging the consultants was to help Boston Pride transform – empowering and engaging different members of the community as well as to help refocus and reaffirm Pride’s commitment to all of Boston’s LGBTQ community. What happened instead was the President of Boston Pride and the Board unilaterally stepped down and abruptly dissolved the organization. The work, the relationships and the fifty years of history associated with the organization was essentially deleted, leaving many in the community (yours truly included) wondering W-T-F?

Rev. Monroe wrote, “As our community reels from the shock of Boston Pride disbanding, questions remain unanswered around the organization’s finances.” I hate to think like that but it would be naive not to recognize how much money Boston Pride must have recieved in corporate sponsorships. But thus far Linda DeMarco and the Board have remained tightlipped, unwilling to talk to anyone, including Rev. Monroe.

The last response Rev. Monroe received from DeMarco was a few weeks ago via email where she said, “it has been a difficult time with closing down Boston Pride and all that goes with it, but we did it for the betterment of our community and for the future of our leaders.” I find that response difficult to take at face value. I know that Linda and the Boston Pride members have dedicated many hours to helping grow Boston Pride with the hope that they can empower and give voice to the LGBTQ community, but this last chapter of Boston Pride leaves a bitter taste and seems foul.

What’s Next?

It doesn’t seem like any one voice or direction has emerged from the ashes thus far. Time will tell what will happen as members of Boston’s LGBTQ community come together, but I can say that in light of the news that has come out about Boston Pride since its dissolution, it is hard for me to miss the organization.

Vote for mayor: It’s election day in Boston

Two accomplished women with big ideas for how they can help to make Boston a better city are running for mayor and today is election day in the city.

Annissa Essaibi George and Michelle Wu are on the ballot and have been campaigning hard to get your vote. In full disclosure, I am (and always have been) supporting Michelle Wu. Her big ideas have drawn criticism as too “pie in the sky” and unrealistic, but I like her vision and how she thinks big. Having said that, no matter who you support, I hope that you will vote in this historic election to send a message that you care and are invested in the future of Boston.

Unsure if you’re registered, here’s how to check your voter registration status.

Unsure where to vote? Here’s how to find your closest voting location.

CITY OF BOSTON – ELECTION DEPARTMENT
POLLING LOCATIONS
November 2, 2021
Polls open from 7:00 am – 8:00 pm

Also, a heartfelt thank you to out-going Mayor Kim Janey for stepping in after Mayor Walsh left to take the role of US Secretary of Labor in Washington, D.C. She had to address significant public health challenges regarding COVID-19, an ongoing scandal with the Boston Police Department, and a challenging economy, but she will be presenting to whomever wins this election a healthier and stronger city than she inherited.

What to do this weekend

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Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party followed by Trivia all the fun starts @7PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Dance Party DJ Brian Halligan @9PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam and hosts Penny Tentiary & Coco Iman @10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes Halloween Edition w/ DJ Stevie Pysclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Spooky brunch w/ music by Twisted Gleam and host Lady German @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Hurricanes @7PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Wizards @5PM & Bruins play the Panthers @7PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Chargers host the Patriots @4PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ BEGBICK & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: Wigged Halloween Cabaret @7:30PM & Halloween Costumer Party w/ DJ Brian Derrick & host Mizery @10PM
SUNDAY: Halloween Tea Dance w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Miss Kris @5PM

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FRIDAY: “Scream Queens” Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: Spook’d Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Another Evening with Patty Bourrée Cabaret downstairs @8PM & Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Serve-Vivor @7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SUNDAY: Comedy Open Mic Night @7PM and Sultry Sunday Halloween Edition w/ Amanda Playwith & Teashaboo @9:30PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Royale (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Landon Cider & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ music by Ranny @10PM
SUNDAY: Dragathon w/ Trixie & Katya and Hot Mess Sundays w/ DJ Richie LaDue at Royale @10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

Featured LGBTQ+ Nights & Events This Weekend

THURSDAY: HRC in ACTION (virtual event) 7PM online reception || 8PM Livestream

THURSDAY: Skip the Small Talk – Speed Friending 7-9PM at Trident Cafe & Booksellers

THURSDAY: Halloween Dinner & Drag Show hosted by Kalysta Kaykes, featuring Zayn X and Raya Sunshine is at World of Beer in East Cambridge starting at 7PM

FRIDAY: Gay Bash’d (18+) with music by Ickarus is at The Sinclair starting at 9:30PM

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller at La Makina on Revere Beach

SATURDAY: Wigged starring Cacophony Daniels & Sutton Lee Seymour comes to Club Cafe Saturday night

SATURDAY: Latin Night Halloween Party at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

SUNDAY: The Road of Rainbows starts at 3PM on the Common (must register first!)

SUNDAY: Lesbian Night Life Halloween Costume Party Tea Dance starts at 4PM at 152 Hampden Street in Nubian Square

SUNDAY: Heroes Halloween Party (18+) w/ DJ Chris Ewen at Sonia – doors open at 8PM

SUNDAY: Dragathon Starring Trixie & Katya comes to Royale for a spooktacular show starting @8PM

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Halloween Party Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing at 9PM

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Hallowqueen “Bewitched” Drag Brunch
Saturday 9:00AM – 11:30AM
House of Blues

Spooky Boots Drag Brunch
Saturday, 12:00PM
Bootleg Special

Lulu’s Drag Brunch
Sunday, seatings @11:00AM & 1:00PM
Lulu’s in Allston

Halloween Drag Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM
Tiger Mama in Fenway

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

This Weekend in Provincetown

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