Category Archives: Provincetown

Spooky Bear 2018 in Provincetown

Ptown HalloweenProvincetown’s annual Spooky Bear Weekend is always a fun way to celebrate Halloween. With the holiday falling in the middle of the week, Spooky Bear is being celebrated this weekend from October 26-28.

There are plenty of parties and events happening throughout the weekend, but I wanted to highlight a few if you happen to be heading to Ptown this weekend.

SpookyBear Friday Events

Halloween House Party at Shipwreck Lounge starts at 5PM
F@GBash presents Bears in Space at Club Purgatory starting at 9PM
HalloWOOF is at The Crown & Anchor starting at 9PM

SpookyBear Saturday Events

Come & Scrum at the Harborside Lounge from 12-3PM
Halloween Tea Dance at the Boatslip starts at 4PM
Halloween at the A-House starting at 9PM
Black & Gold Halloween Ball (Tix Req’d) is at Ptown Town Hall

Have a wonderful time in Ptown this weekend.

Ptown’s Mates Leather Weekend XXII Sept 27-30

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Mates Leather Weekend (MLW) in Provincetown is an annual fetish event that first started in 1996 after the summer season. Over the years it has grown and is an annual event hosted each September for men who want to hang out, socialize, relax or party with other like-minded people in Leather, Rubber and Uniforms. A partial list of events for this year’s MLW include the following.

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Thursday, Sept. 27th
Boot Camp at A-House dance to the beats of Billboard DJ David LaSalle inside, fire up a stogie on the back patio, or get your boots shined by MLW Resident BootBlack Jay Falcon

Friday, Sept. 28th
Waterfront Cocktails at Harbor Lounge drop in from 12:30 – 3:00PM for an afternoon cocktail (or two). Last Year’s Photos.
Uniforms and Cigars at Paramount what’s your favorite uniform? Dance under the stars at this cigar-friendly fetish dance party with DJ Chris Racine and MLW resident bootblack Jay Falcon to shine your boots. Last Year’s Photos.

Saturday, Sept. 29th
Leather Tea & Meet the Meat at A-House from 6-9PM dance to music from DJ Wayne Michael and have fun at “Meet-the-Meat”, a cash-prize contest hosted by First Mate emcee Russell Sweeney.
First Mate Contest at Paramount starts at 9:30PM but contestants must submit their registrations by 2:30PM on Friday. Click here to print your First Mate Contestant registration form.  Last Year’s Photos.

Sunday, Sept. 30th
Cookout and Tattoo Contest at Crown & Anchor from 11:30AM – 2PM the grill will be fired up and serving poolside hot dogs, hamburgers and salads (vegetarian and gluten-free items available) at Crown & Anchor. The annual Tattoo Contest starts at 1:00 PM. Last Year’s Photos.
Lumberjack Party at Paramount from 4-8PM enjoy this sticky, steamy annual favorite fetish party; jockstraps encouraged and clothing check available.

To see a complete listing of official events visit

Register for the upcoming Provincetown Soccer Classic

gay life in Boston, gay provincetown, ptownThe Provincetown Soccer Classic XXII will take place Columbus Day Weekend with the actual tournament taking place on Sunday, October 7th at Motta Field by the Provincetown Monument.

Tournament events include the Welcome Party, Wigs & Heels Tea Dance, Soccer Balls Dance Party, a full day of soccer, Dinner Banquet, and more. The tournament welcomes all players, 18 and over at all skill levels, genders and sexual orientations. For more information about the tournament and to register see the links shared below.

Provincetown Soccer Classic XXII
October 5 – 8 (tournament day, Sunday, October 7th)
More information and registration

Saying goodbye to summer

Ptown, ProvincetownSummer always passes too quickly for my liking. Although fall doesn’t technically start for another few weeks, the season officially ends in the United States with Labor Day. I suppose the summer like temperatures we will experience through this week is a small consolation.

Sergio and I were able to get away for a few fun trips this summer including a fantastic stay in Montreal. We also flew to Brazil to celebrate Sergio’s mother’s 86th birthday, which was followed by a fun weekend with my family on Lake Winnipesaukee in NH. Finally, in August we were able to enjoy an extended stay in Provincetown during Carnival.

I hope you had a wonderful summer and made some great memories as well.

Droning Ptown Carnival 2018 video

For those of you who missed Carnival or for those of you who were there and wishing the fun week was not over, here is a beautiful video courtesy of David Cox who’s videos never disappoint.

Next year’s 41st Provincetown Carnival will start on August 15 and conclude on August 25th with the parade on Thursday, August 22, 2019. The theme will be Enchanted Forest.

Provincetown’s Carnival celebrations

PtownToday is the last full day of 2018 Carnival. Although the weather started stormy it corrected itself and each day was a little more beautiful. For those leaving on the Saturday morning ferries, have an amazing time tonight with your friends.

Below are photos taken during Ptown’s annual Carnival Parade
Much thanks to my friend, Kyle Szary, who does a great job photographing the parade and the masses strolling up and down Commercial Street.

Click on individual photos to enlarge for better viewing

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Miss Richfield 1981 – Grand Marshall

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Chris Marchant makes for a tempting Aquamanchris marchant, aquaman, ptown carnivalptown carnivalptown carnival

And one more photo that I swiped from Sergio’s Instagram feed. Miss Bubble Wrap was one of my favorite floats from this year’s Carnival Parade.ptown carnival

Next year’s 41st Provincetown Carnival will start on August 15 and conclude on August 25th with the parade on Thursday, August 22, 2019, and the theme will be Enchanted Forest so I fully expect to see all sorts of frisky woodland creatures and more than a few unicorns.

This week on Instagram: provincetowncom

ptownSergio and I will be leaving for Provincetown in just a few days to enjoy Carnival Week so it seems appropriate to feature this Instagram account dedicated to showing off how beautiful this tiny town at the tip of Cape Cod really is. I want to also give a shout out to CT-native and photographer, Ryan Zipp who took the photo above (you can follow him at @ryanzipp).

Follow this account on Instagram here,

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