Category Archives: Gay

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

This photo captures how I feel when I have my second cup of coffee on a Saturday.

Furry Friday

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What to do this weekend

Check out what’s happening in and around Boston this weekend.
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BOSTON GAY BARS

Below are links to some of Boston’s busiest LGBTQ+ bars and event organizers

Alley Bar in Downtown Crossing
Friday & Saturday dance parties w/ Bearaoke each Sunday

blend in Dorchester
Friday & Saturday dance parties and Sunday drag/disco brunches

Gay Mafia Boston (entertainment organizer – various locations)
Weekly Wednesday – Sunday dance parties

Cathedral Station in South End
Gay sports bar & kitchen w/ patio and free parking

Club Cafe in South End
Thurs-Sun dance parties, nightly cabaret & Sunday tea dance

dbar in Dorchester
Friday Karaoke, Saturday dance parties, Sunday tea dance

Jacques Cabaret in Bay Village
Nightly drag performances by Boston’s best drag queens

LGBTQ NightLife (event organizer – various locations)
Events: Sapphic Nights, EMO Pity Party, Issa Vibe & more

ManRay / Campus in Central Square
Thursday 19+, Friday (creative dress) & Saturday (80s New Wave)

Frolic (Formerly Men of Melanin Magic, event organizer – various locations)
Events: BussDown Fridays, Sunday Brunch DragTease & more

Trophy Room in South End
Neighborhood & sports bar & kitchen

WEEKEND PROGRAMMING

Here are a few more events/parties to which I wanted to shout out.

THURSDAY: Big Mx Steak Pageant at Club Cafe

THURSDAY: Queeraoke: Drink. Sing. Dance. Repeat in JP

FRIDAY: The Haven presents La Boum queer dance party in JP

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SATURDAY & SUNDAY: More info about Kiki Beach Boston is here.

SATURDAY: Boston LesBiGAy Urban Events hosts DayJaVu Saturdays at YAS Kitchen & Lounge

SATURDAY: Midnight Showing of Female Troubles at The Coolidge

SUNDAY: Bearaoke at The Alley

WHERE TO CATCH A GAME

Watch games at Alley Bar, Cathedral Station & Trophy Room
Thursday, Red Sox are off today so check out the US Open!
Friday, Red Sox play The Orioles @7PM
Saturday, Red Sox play The Orioles @4PM
Sunday, Red Sox play The Orioles @1PM

TEA DANCES

Communi-TEA at Club Cafe

Sunday Tea at dbar

Lesbian Nightlife Monthly Tea at Dorchester Brewing Co.

DRAG BRUNCHES

Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Barbie Drag Brunch
Saturday @11AM and again @2PM
Summer Shack (Boston)

DRAGtacular Beyonce Drag Brunch
Saturday @12PM
Laugh Boston

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

Pop Star Drag Brunch
Sunday @11AM
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Star Wars + Star Trek Drag Brunch
Sunday @11AM and again @2PM
Summer Shack (Cambridge)

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

Are they friends or more? I’m guessing this was taken in the 1980s based on hairstyles and what looks like mid-80s Gap clothing. When do you think these two handsome men were photographed?

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Caption this photo

Please share a caption of your own for this week’s photograph. Hopefully, the caption I’ve shared below will inspire you to leave a funny caption in the comment section. If you don’t see it immediately don’t worry, I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

Shower time with Charles-Laurent Lelievre

Temptation Tuesday

Time to get ready for work. Hopefully, this week’s TemptationTuesday will give you the added boost you may need.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

Much thanks to BosGuy blog reader, Angel, for sharing this photo. It seems like an appropriate kilt post to close out the 2023 summer season. If you’re in the U.S., I hope you’re having as much fun as this guy.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Boston Bear/Cub t-shirt design competition

Mass Bears & Cubs is looking to tap into Boston’s creative community and is calling artists and designers of all persuasions to help design this years Boston Bear/Boston Cub 2024 title competition event t-shirt. The annual event takes place in October, so they are asking anyone interested to submit a design for consideration. This year’s theme is Bears and Cubs/Scrawny, Brawny, Cuddly. 

Designs should be submitted by email to massbearsandcubs@gmail.com before September 25th in a format suitable for reproduction. By submitting a design, you are providing Mass Bears and Cubs with reproduction rights digitally, in print, and on physical merchandise, including but not limited to t-shirts. After community voting has closed, all creatives will receive individual online acknowledgements

If you have questions, email massbearsandcubs@gmail.com or you can reach out to them through their official social media channels Facebook or Instagram.

Monday morning mancandy

handsome, hunk, breakfast in bed

It is Labor Day. I hope you can spend this Monday morning in bed.

Boston gay sports clubs / teams

At the start of each academic year, tens of thousands move into Boston.  Whether you are new to Boston or just looking for an excuse to be more active and make friends, joining one of the many LGBTQ+ sports teams and clubs can be one way to do that.

Some sports leagues welcome beginners while others are more competitive (most are the former – not the latter). Additionally, some of these teams/leagues are seasonal so even though this post has gone live in September, not every league is in session at the moment. Look through the list of 2+ dozen sports leagues and see which one is right for you.

Below, I’ve listed active gay sports clubs/teams. If you see that I am missing one, please let me know and I’ll add it to this list of organizations.

Basketball (Boston Gay Basketball League)

Billiards (Stonewall Sports)

Bowling (Beantown North League) | Monday Night Bowling League | Pride Sports Bowling

Climbing (Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub)

Cornhole League (Pride Sports) | Cornhole League (Stonewall Sports)

Dodgeball (Pride Sports) | Dodgeball (Stonewall Sports)

Football (Boston FLAG Flag Football)

Hockey (Boston Pride Hockey League)

Kickball (Pride Sports) | Kickball (Stonewall Sports)

Pickleball (Pride Sports) | Pickleball (Stonewall Sports)

Rowing (Boston Gay Rowers Club)

Rugby (Boston Ironsides Rugby Club)

Running (Frontrunners Boston) | Running (Gay Urban Running League)

Skiing & Snowboarding (Outryders)

Soccer (Boston Strikers Soccer League)

Softball (Beantown League)

Swimming (Liquid Assets New England Swimming)

Tennis Club (Tennis 4 All)

Volleyball (Cambridge/Boston Volleyball Assoc) | Pride Sports League | Stonewall League

Wrestling (Boston League of Wicked Wrestlers)

 Another great resource is the Facebook group, B.A.G.S. (Boston Alliance of Gay Sports).

Scruffy Sunday

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Making friends in Boston LGBTQ social groups

With the influx of so many new residents at the start of each academic year, I like to update and share this post. If you are new to the area or looking to meet more people outside of a bar setting, the groups listed below might be a good first step. 

If you don’t see relevant or up-to-date information in the links shared below, contact me, and I can help find a contact for that group to learn more. 

BAGLY is a youth-led, adult-supported social support organization committed to social justice, and creating, sustaining, and advocating for programs and policies for gay youth (volunteers are always welcome).

Boston Gay Men’s Chorus is one of New England’s largest and most successful community-based choruses.  Auditions will be held on September 10, 2023.

Boston Gay Men’s Books Club is a monthly book club on MeetUp that focuses on literature by and about gay men. Their next MeetUp is on 9/19 at the BPL to discuss Virology by Joseph Osmundson.

Boston Gaymers, game night at The Alley (photo source @bostongaymers)

Boston Gaymers is a thriving gaymer community, that holds various in-person and virtual events to bring together members and to have fun.

Boston LesBiGay Urban Foundation creates safe spaces for events to help build lasting relationships by breaking the cycle of dysfunction in marginalized communities and helping to make medical and mental health awareness a priority to help lift up the black/brown/Latino LGBTQ+ innercity community. 

Boston Prime Timers is a social organization of mature gay and bisexual men and their friends who join together for educational, support, and social activities.

Boston Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence an areligious Order of Queer, Clown Nuns who pledge to promulgate joy and to eliminate stigmatic guilt by volunteering, activism, entertaining, and educating people.

Boston Sober Gay Sundays is a private FB group that organizes social events for people who identify as sober in the LGBTQIA+ community. Learn more about the group, members, and activities they organize by requesting to join the group.

Dignity Boston is a progressive, inclusive community of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender Catholics and their allies.

Fenway Health has been serving the local LGBT community for more than 40 years; the Fenway and AAC are always looking for volunteers.

Frolic (Formerly Men of Melanin Magic) is an active social group for those who identify as queer men of color. They host an annual Men of Color Weekend in Provincetown called Frolic, and co-host Bussdown Fridays with Gay Mafia Boston at Legacy each Friday night among several other monthly events.

Gay Beer Club is a Bosto-based organization that produces events and gatherings for members of the gay community.

Gay For Good mobilizes the LGBT community to interact with the greater community by volunteering their time with different monthly activities.

Gays for Patsy is a country western dancing club that meets weekly on Sundays at the Calvary Church, 300 Mass. Ave. 6:30-8:30 pm. The first hour is for beginners.

History Project is a volunteer-driven organization established in 1980 that focuses on preserving the history of Boston’s LGBT community to make it accessible to future generations.

Keshet works to ensure the full equality of all LGBTQ Jews and their families. The group also creates spaces in which all queer Jewish youth feel seen and valued and work to advance LGBTQ rights nationwide.

LesbianNightLife is a very active social group that hosts events throughout the month including monthly tea dances at Dorchester Brewing Company, single social nights, harbor cruise parties, and more.

LGBT Elders of Color is a local group that conducts outreach to isolated LGBT older adults of color who build community through events, and creative programs.

Mass Asian & Pacific Islanders (MAP) is a group that provides health counseling & support, referral & screening services, as well as general health promotion and advocacy for APIs in the Boston metro area and beyond.

Mass Bears & Cubs is a non-profit corporation, organized to provide and promote an inclusive LGBT+ community through charitable fund raising and other community events.

Mountain Tops if you like to get out and hike, check out this gay hiking group in Boston that organizes trips and hikes regularly.

Naked Yoga for Men Naked Yoga For Men has been meeting since January 2000. For most of its history, it has met twice per week.

Non-Scene Gay Friends of Greater Boston is a place for the LGBTQ+ community to hang out, make friends, explore Boston, and have fun doing a wide variety of activities typically separate from the gay bar “scene.”

OUTbreath offers a safe space for those who identify as queer, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning to come together to explore the practice of meditation and support each other in the community.

Queer Boston Board Gamers is a friendly LGBTQ+ meet-up group that connects regularly to play board games.

Yankee Cruising Club brings LGBTQ+ boaters together to meet, make friends, and most importantly get out on the water. You don’t need to have a boat to join – just a passion for boating.

Apologies if I have overlooked any gay organizations in the area. Add information in the comments section or reach out to me, and I’ll be happy to add your group to this list.

Saturday morning coffee

Enjoy your morning cup of joe (or whatever you’d like to call him).

Furry Friday

It is the start of Labor Day weekend in the US and the last weekend of the 2023 Summer season here in New England. I hope you’ve had a wonderful summer and can celebrate the long, holiday weekend with family and friends.

Past Furry Friday