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Furry Friday

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What to do this weekend

This weekend check out the Hightea Benefit for Fenway Health AIDS Action Committee at the Encore Casino. The outdoor party starts at 3PM on Saturday. What I believe is a new gay night called The BACK ROOM will take place upstairs at the Middle East on Saturday. And on Sunday Game 4, Patriots vs Bills will be broadcast at Cathedral Station for the 1pm game.

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Hightea Benefit for Fenway Health AIDS Action Committee is at the Encore Casino starting from 3PM – 8PM in Everett

Queer Tango Boston’s 3rd Annual Milonga & Workshops starts at 3PM and run til 1AM at the West Medford Community Center

Start of Fall Gaymer Party is this Friday at the Alley Bar from 7 – 11:30PM

gay bostonBlend Saturdaes: Disco Ball bring your friends for a fun night out with great music at Blend in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

DONT ASK DONT TELL: 80’s Vs 90’s is this Saturday at Great Scott in Allston starting at 10PM – creative attire encouraged

The BACK ROOM is upstairs at the Middle East this Saturday – come out and show your support for DJs Chris Ewen & Scott Heim in Cambridge

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

sports, sports humor, football, gayGame 4, Patriots vs Bills viewing party is at Cathedral Station this Sunday – game time is 1PM – get there early this place fills quickly

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Vintage gay

Thanks to Buzzfeed, I can tell you that this photo was taken at the 1980 New York City Pride. Little did these men know that a virus called AIDS would ravage their community while most of America pretended not to notice (if they were polite) while the rest openly gloated calling it ‘god’s will’.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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“97, 98, 99, 100 — ready or not here I come!”

Men in kilts

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What to do this week: September 23 – 29

Lots happening in Boston for the last full week of September. The Mass Bears and Cubs  are hosting their monthly social at Cathedral tonight. Boston Drag Gauntlet is back on Tuesday with their 3rd program, Boston’s Men of Melanin are hosting a social called Boys Night Out in the South End on Thursday – just to name a few options this week.

This weekend check out the Hightea Benefit for Fenway Health AIDS Action Committee at the Encore Casino. The outdoor party starts at 3PM on Saturday. What I believe is a new gay night called The BACK ROOM will take place upstairs at the Middle East on Saturday. And on Sunday Game 4, Patriots vs Bills will be broadcast at Cathedral Station for the 1pm game.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter every first Monday of the month upstairs with a kooky theme, and every third Friday of the month downstairs at Jacques with no theme, where anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Mass Bears and Cubs social is this Tuesday at Cathedral Station from 7:30PM – 10PM – all are welcome

Boston Drag Gauntlet Cycle 3: Steam Punked is this Tuesday starting at 7:30PM at Jacques in Bay Village

Drag Bingo is this Tuesday with Boston’s Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence starting at 8PM at Democracy Brewing in Boston

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Return to Oz Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

Boys Night Out hosted by the Men of Melanin Magic is a social starting at 7:30PM at Southern Proper (space is limited so RSVP) this Thursday

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

BRASH | Queer Party is hosted every fourth Thursday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Gay Bash’d is this Thursday at the Milky Way in JP starting at 10PM

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

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High Tea Dance to benefit AAC is this Saturday at the Encore

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Hightea Benefit for Fenway Health AIDS Action Committee is at the Encore Casino starting from 3PM – 8PM in Everett

Queer Tango Boston’s 3rd Annual Milonga & Workshops starts at 3PM and run til 1AM at the West Medford Community Center

Start of Fall Gaymer Party is this Friday at the Alley Bar from 7 – 11:30PM

Blend Saturdaes: Disco Ball bring your friends for a fun night out with great music at Blend in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

DONT ASK DONT TELL: 80’s Vs 90’s is this Saturday at Great Scott in Allston starting at 10PM – creative attire encouraged

The BACK ROOM is upstairs at the Middle East this Saturday – come out and show your support for DJs Chris Ewen & Scott Heim in Cambridge

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Game 4, Patriots vs Bills viewing party is at Cathedral Station this Sunday – game time is 1PM – get there early this place fills quickly

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

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Furry Friday

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This guy looks like he is thinking, Thank god it’s Furry Friday.

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What to do this weekend

There is a lot to look forward to this weekend so make sure you get out. A few programs that I’d like to give a shout out to consider if you’ve not already made plans include: FREE Museum Day, Phantom Gourmet Food Festival and  Fluff Fesitval are on Saturday,  St. John the Baptist Greek Food Festival and SoWa Open Studios (both on Saturday and Sunday).

If you’have an event or program you’d like me to promote and add to this weekly post send me an email at bosguymail@gmail.com or leave information as a comment.

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Drag Darling Paige Turner comes to Boston’s Club Cafe on Friday night

Dueling Drag Divas are back this summer at Mainestreet in Ogunquit performing each Friday and Saturday at 9:30PM (Tix required)

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

H E R O E S 80s new wave and punk music plays at Sonia near Central Square on Friday night in Cambridge

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Groove (NEW gay night) is a new monthly gay disco party that takes place the 3rd Friday of the month at Blend in Dorchester

FREE Museum Day participating museums in Boston (and around the country) are open to the public and free on Saturday

St. John the Baptist Greek Food Festival check out this biannual tradition at St. John’s on Union Park Street on Saturday and Sunday the food is ridiculously delicious

SoWa Open Studios returns to the SoWa neighborhood all day Saturday and Sunday visit working artist studios to see them perfecting their artistry and to buy hand crafted and original pieces of work

Phantom Gourmet Food Festival returns on Saturday from 12-4PM over by Fenway Park in Boston

Beacon Hill History Through the LGBTQ Lens The History Project and Historic New England present a walking tour of LGBTQ history on Beacon Hill on Saturday starting at 1PM in Boston

13th Annual Fluff Fesitval is this Saturday from 3PM – 7PM in Union Square (where Fluff was invented) in Somerville

PROUD to Play is a fun day of games and socialization for the Boston Area LGBTQ Sports Leagues at Cathedral Station Saturday from 3PM – 8PM

Queer Board Game Night is this Saturday at the Trident Booksellers & Cafe on Newbury Street from 6-9PM in Boston

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Mayhem Saturdays is at Blend with DJ Andrea at Blend in Dorchester

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Open Charles Street in Beacon Hill will be a pedestrian only walkway on Sunday from 11AM-5PM in Boston

Patriots vs Jets official viewing party is at 1PM at Cathedral Station – arrive early and enjoy a few drinks then cheer on the Patriots

Wicked Queer Official Volunteer Meet & Greet learn more about Wicked Queer. We will be organizing committees to help fill required positions for the festival in 2020 on Sunday from 2-4PM at Abigail’s in Cambridge

*sip* Tea Dance join DJs Gary Carlow and Brian Halligan on Sunday at Jacques starting at 6PM in Boston

Retro Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, on Sunday starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Encore Boston Harbor to host ‘hightea’ outdoor Tea Dance

gay boston, tea dance, AIDS Action Committee, AACCelebration to benefit Fenway Health AIDS Action Committee

Mark your calendars, because next Saturday, September 28th the new Encore Boston Harbor resort will host it’s first tea dance, with proceeds raised going to  benefit Fenway Health AIDS Action Committee.

What: Tea Dance to benefit AAC
When: Saturday, September 28 from 3PM to Sunset
Where: Encore Boston Casino
More Info & RSVP: encorebostonharbor.com/hightea

Encore’s first ever ‘hightea’ outdoor tea dance party will run from 3 p.m. until sunset and will be hosted by Yuhua Hamasaki of RuPaul’s Drag Race, with celebrity DJs Dania Sea of Showtime’s The L Word and L’Duke spinning a unique mix of tunes. A portion of the proceeds from each ‘CommuniTea’ signature cocktail sold will benefit Fenway Health AIDS Action Committee.

Vintage gay

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Caption this photo

handsome men in speedos, pool partyHopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up a caption or two of your own. Leave a witty or funny caption as a comment for this post, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Everyone likes to have options.”

Men in kilts

dapper, handsome man, formal kilt attireThis is exactly the type of guy you take home to meet Mom and Dad. Dapper and cute with some great accessories.

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What to do this week: September 16 – 22

There is a lot to look forward to this week so make sure you get out. If you’have an event or program you’d like me to promote and add to this weekly post send me an email at bosguymail@gmail.com or leave information as a comment.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

BRASH | Queer Party is hosted every fourth Thursday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

gay boston, nightlife, clubsTHE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Drag Darling Paige Turner comes to Boston’s Club Cafe on Friday night

Dueling Drag Divas are back this summer at Mainestreet in Ogunquit performing each Friday and Saturday at 9:30PM (Tix required)

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

H E R O E S 80s new wave and punk music plays at Sonia near Central Square on Friday night in Cambridge

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Groove (NEW gay night) is a new monthly gay disco party that takes place the 3rd Friday of the month at Blend in Dorchester

Participating museums all over Boston are free for Museum Day on Saturday

FREE Museum Day participating museums in Boston (and around the country) are open to the public and free on Saturday

SoWa Open Studios returns to the SoWa neighborhood all day Saturday and Sunday visit working artist studios to see them perfecting their artistry and to buy hand crafted and original pieces of work

Phantom Gourmet Food Festival returns on Saturday from 12-4PM over by Fenway Park in Boston

PROUD to Play is a fun day of games and socialization for the Boston Area LGBTQ Sports Leagues at Cathedral Station Saturday from 3PM – 8PM

Queer Board Game Night is this Saturday at the Trident Booksellers & Cafe on Newbury Street from 6-9PM in Boston

Janeane Garofalo comedian and actress has two shows on Saturday night at WBUR CitySpace near BU in Boston

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Mayhem Saturdays is at Blend with DJ Andrea at Blend in Dorchester

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

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Watch the Patriot’s game at Cathedral Station at 1PM on Sunday

Patriots vs Jets official viewing party is at 1PM at Cathedral Station – arrive early and enjoy a few drinks then cheer on the Patriots

Retro Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, on Sunday starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.