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Furry Friday

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What to do this weekend

This weekend Fascination returns on Friday. Boston looks to set a new world record for largest human peace sign on Saturday morning on the Boston Common and later that afternoon is the Phantom Gourmet Food Festival. On Sunday check out the SoWa Open Market (there are just 6 left this year) and Club Cafe’s Back to Basics Tea Dance which starts at 5PM on Sunday.

5 to 9 the drag/spoof featuring Ryan Landry and Varla Jean Merman runs through the weekend at Machine in the Fenway (assuming tickets remain)

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Fascination Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Mainestreet, gay ogunquitDueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: Rolling Thunder shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

World’s Largest Human Peace Sign  all are welcome to join on the Boston Common starting at 10AM to set world record at 11AM in Boston

Phantom Gourmet Food Festival is on Saturday from 12-4PM on Lansdowne and Ipswich Streets in the Fenway

PVD WaterFire: Full Lighting starts at 6:30 PM

Water Fire Full Lighting is happening at 6:30PM in downtown Providence

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Dont Ask Dont Tell a monthly queer dance party this Saturday starting at Great Scott in Allston

The Coolidge After Midnight: I Spit on Your Grave  shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Sunday Brunch with Gay Men 50+ is a Meet Up group for mature gay men to connect, chat and enjoy brunch starting at 1PM at Club Cafe on Sunday

gay BostonBack 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Dragapolooza Paint Party + Drag Show Charity Fundraiser is from 4:30 – 9PM at Jacques Cabaret

An Evening with Tom Goss who will be performing starting at 6PM at First Parish Dorchester

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

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Ptown, Provincetown

The “Hat Sisters” at the Esther Williams Water Ballet at Herring Cove 1985

Approximately one year ago on September 24, 2016, John Michael Grey (shown far left) who was one half of The Hat Sisters passed away. Grey is survived by his partner Timothy O’Connor. I wanted to share this photo which is part of a larger grouping of very happy photos of this wonderful couple on a Facebook page dedicated to the legacy of Grey and the Hat Sisters.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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ShowTune Tuesday Turns 10

Happy birthday

No plans tomorrow evening? Why don’t you head over to dbar in Dorchester to enjoy ShowTune Tuesday. This weekly event is celebrating it’s 10th anniversary.

Congratulations to the entire dbar staff for making ShowTune Tuesdays such a fantastic success and giving all of us a place to go and enjoy ourselves.

ShowTune Tuesday at dbar turns 10

Men in kilts

shirtless men in kilts

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What to do this week: September 18 – 24

This week’s highlights include dbar’s ShowTune Tuesday (10 year anniversary celebration), the Boston Firefighters calendar kick off party and Bear Trivia Night.

This weekend Fascination returns on Friday. Boston looks to set a new world record for largest human peace sign on Saturday morning on the Boston Common and later that afternoon is the Phantom Gourmet Food Festival. On Sunday check out the SoWa Open Market and Club Cafe’s Back to Basics Tea Dance which starts at 5PM on Sunday.

Boston Firefighter calendar kick off party is Thursday

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Broadway Gives Back: Heartbreak Hotel is on Monday, starting at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Queerness before “Queer”: LGBTQ Language in Historical Context hosted by The History Project on Tuesday in Boston

Taco Tuesday is a fun way to socialize and eat on the cheap in the South End; first come, first serve – hosted every Tuesday at Tremont 647 in Boston

Opus Affair monthly cocktail social is on Tuesday and open to everyone and will take place at Vanderbilt Kitchen & Bar in downtown Boston

Poolside Movie Nights at Ink Block: The Social Network is Tuesday starting at 8:30PM at The Ink Bock pool  in Boston

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Showtune Tuesday celebrates 10 years this Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

BLAQ T  Socioeconomic class in the QTPOC Community  meets the third Thursday of every month 7-9PM to bring visibility to the experiences that GBTQ men of Color go through in Boston

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

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Bear Trivia Night at The Alley

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Boston Firefighters Calendar Launch Party is at Royale starting at 8PM in Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

jacques cabaret, gay bostonTHE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Fascination Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: Rolling Thunder shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in BostonBoston

World’s Largest Human Peace Sign  all are welcome to join on the Boston Common starting at 10AM to set world record at 11AM in Boston

Phantom Gourmet Food Festival is on Saturday from 12-4PM on Lansdowne and Ipswich Streets in the Fenway

Water Fire Full Lighting is happening at 6:30PM in downtown Providence

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Dont Ask Dont Tell a monthly queer dance party this Saturday starting at Great Scott in Allston

The Coolidge After Midnight: I Spit on Your Grave  shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Sunday Brunch with Gay Men 50+ is a Meet Up group for mature gay men to connect, chat and enjoy brunch starting at 1PM at Club Cafe on Sunday

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Dragapolooza Paint Party + Drag Show Charity Fundraiser is from 4:30 – 9PM at Jacques Cabaret

An Evening with Tom Goss who will be performing starting at 6PM at First Parish Dorchester

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

handsome man in bed

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Saturday morning coffee

man drinking coffee, handsome, hunkEnjoy your morning cup of joe (or whatever you may want to call him).

Bonus fur

hairy

Enjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

Furry Friday

handsome, hairy, hunk, furry

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What to do this weekend

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Gay Men’s Camping heads out of Boston this weekend

Gay Men’s Camping Group will leave for Wompatuck State Park in Hingham to camp over the weekend

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston Freedom Rally is one of the nation’s largest and longest running cannabis events and runs through the entire weekend on the Boston Common in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

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Boyfriends pays tribute to Rihana on Friday

Boyfriends presents Rhianna is a fun monthly dance party hosted at the Milky Way Lounge on Friday in JP

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

American Field Pop Up is Saturday and Sunday from 11AM – 6PM at the Innovation & Design Building in the Seaport, Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

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Saga Saturdays Block Party Boston’s biggest gay dance party on Saturday at Paradise heads outdoors for a massive block party in Cambridge

LGBT Kickball Boston America’s Finest Kickball League kicks off on Sunday at 8AM at Joe Moakley Field in Dorchester

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

5 to 9 opens next Thursday

boston theater, fringe theater, gay theater, gay bostonAfter a very successful run in Provincetown this summer, 5 to 9 comes to Boston for 4 shows only! September 21st, 22nd, 23rd & 24th at MACHINE. It’s the family-friendly  tell-all of three of Trump’s secretaries and how they get even with the petulant president. You can purchase tickets at the link below.

Tickets for 5 to 9

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Truman Capote, Jack DunphyThis week I’m featuring an endearing photo of one of America’s best 20th century authors, Truman Capote, in a rare shot with his longtime partner, Jack Dunphy. The photo was taken shortly after WWII in Rome, 1949 – a year after they met.  The second photo shows the modest headstone where the two men remain buried in Southampton, NY.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Happy Hump Day

It is now the afternoon on Wednesday and for those of you who work Monday – Friday you have safely made it through 50% of the work week. How excited are you for Friday afternoon?

What to do this week: September 11 – 17

handsome, hunk, hairyThere is a lot happening throughout the week but this weekend has a lot of events you’ll want to check out including American Field Pop Up at the Design Center, the 31st South End Open Studios and the 28th Annual Boston Freedom Rally which takes over the Boston Common.

If you want to get out and dance this weekend there is plenty as well with the monthly gay party in Somerville on Tuesday, BRASH, up in Salem is the LGBTQ Happy Hour (North Shore) that runs late, on Friday there is the monthly dance party in JP, Boyfriends (feat. music of Rihanna) and a HUGE block party at Paradise in Cambridge with Saga Saturdays.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Boston 1945 – 2015 Book Release Party join me at our friend’s book release party from 6-8PM on Monday at Cathedral Station in Boston

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Queens Dinner is an uplifting twist to a girl’s night out as we “transition into our best selves” with a workshop led by guest speaker, Life Coach Clara Angelina Diaz, entertainment and food at Darryl’s Corner & Kitchen 6-9PM in Boston

Taco Tuesday is a fun way to socialize and eat on the cheap in the South End; first come, first serve – hosted every Tuesday at Tremont 647 in Boston

BRASH Weekly Queer Party is hosted every Tuesday with DJ Colby Drasher at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Mike Kelly Fundraiser is on Wednesday for his bid to become District 2 City Counselor from 8-9PM at the Trophy Room in Boston

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

LGBTQ Happy Hour (North Shore) is Thursday at 6PM at Opus in Salem

Boys Night Out (Back to School Ed.) monthly men of color (and  their friends) cocktail social is hosted by  M3 and starts at 7:30PM at the Liquid Art House in the Back Bay

Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Thump! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

THE WEEKEND

Gay Men’s Camping Group will leave for Wompatuck State Park in Hingham to camp over the weekend

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston Freedom Rally is one of the nation’s largest and longest running cannabis events and runs through the entire weekend on the Boston Common in Boston

Boyfriends presents Rihanna is a fun monthly dance party hosted at the Milky Way Lounge on Friday in JP

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

South End Open Studios take place this Saturday and Sunday rain or shine in more than 200 artist studios throughout the South End in Boston

American Field Pop Up is Saturday and Sunday from 11AM – 6PM at the Innovation & Design Building in the Seaport, Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Block Party Boston’s biggest gay dance party on Saturday at Paradise heads outdoors for a massive block party in Cambridge

LGBT Kickball Boston America’s Finest Kickball League kicks off on Sunday at 8AM at Joe Moakley Field in Dorchester

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.