Category Archives: Gay

Why sexual orientation needs to be a protected class

David Mullins, Charlie Craig, Masterpiece Cakeshop, Jack Phillips, MASTERPIECE CAKESHOP v. COLORADO CIVIL RIGHTS COMMISSIONThe Satanic Temple, which blogger Joe My God pointed out doesn’t really believe in Satan but is an atheist organization with the mission to “encourage benevolence and empathy among all people” made news last week on a topic that might at first seem frivolous but has real-life implications if you are gay.

Lucien Greaves, co-founder and spokesperson for The Satanic Temple, has said if the U.S. Supreme Court decides (as it is expected to) that “religious freedom” is more important than civil rights, when they hear the case Masterpiece Cakeshop v. Colorado Civil Rights Commission No. 16-111 his organization has a devilishly clever plan to troll Masterpiece Cakeshop and others like them – but more on that later. First hear me out on why this is important to you.

What if the best surgeon in your city refused to treat you, citing religious freedom?

While I would normally suggest the couple find another  business (one who supports the LGBTQ community), let me point out that by allowing this discrimination, it poses a problem that goes far beyond its hypocrisy. Nobody believes for a minute that this argument would be tolerated if the cakemaker suggested he couldn’t make cakes for Jews, who for example, could easily be classified as opposing this owner’s religious views. However, I digress. The real issue here is by allowing one business to discriminate and not provide service to a gay couple based on their selective religious teachings means that other services could also make similar claims. Although it seems far fetched, what if the best surgeon in your city refused to  treat you to you based on his / her religious freedom beliefs? Don’t think it could happen? Don’t be so sure.

making sexual orientation a protected class is both important and relevant.

Although this court case has been described as  a matter of Free Speech vs. Civil Rights, I don’t see it that way. The fact that sexual orientation is not a protected class under the Civil Rights Act of 1964, (unlike race and religion) means there is a good chance (considering the makeup of the court) that refusing to serve anyone who is LGBTQ could be affirmed as a constitutional liberty.

For this reason, The Satanic Temple (TST) announced a plan for those who feel alienated by the privileged status religion holds over sexual orientation: Request your homophobic baker make a cake for Satan. While this hardly resolves the problem, perhaps it can drive home the point that discriminating based on what a person looks like, what they believe or who they are is always wrong and providing religious protections that infringe on the rights of minority groups is inherently a bad idea for everyone involved.

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What to do this week: October 2-8

gay sports, Boston Flag flag FootballHeading into a long holiday (Columbus Day) weekend, there is a lot happening in and around Boston including the Gay Bowl XVII, Ogunquit Bearfest and Ptown Soccer Classsic XXI (all of which start later this week and run through the weekend).

During the week there is still plenty happening including No Filter: BitchCraft at Jacques on Tuesday, Gay Bowl XVII Pep Rally at the Emerald Lounge on Wednesday and Comedy Night at Club Cafe on Thursday.

Over the weekend you can also check out First Fridays in SoWa, Guerrilla Queer BarFASCINATION Friday; on Saturday there is the big HRC New England Gala Dinner & Auction, the monthly Underbear party; and on Sunday check out Trophy Room’s Bear Brunch then head over to Club Cafe for their Sunday “Gen-X” Tea Dance.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

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No Filter: BitchCraft with special guest Severity Stone has a spooky witch theme for this monthly drag show party at Jacques starting at 10PM in Boston

Taco Tuesday is a fun way to socialize and eat on the cheap in the South End; first come, first serve – hosted every Tuesday at Tremont 647 in Boston

BRASH Weekly Queer Party is hosted every Tuesday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Bowl XVII Pep Rally takes place at the Emerald Lounge in the Revere Hotel on Wednesday starting at 7:30PM in Boston

Gay Bowl XVII kicks off on Thursday and runs through the weekend with sporting events in Metro Boston and social events in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting this Thursday from 6-9PM at the Panera Bread at Porter Square in Cambridge

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

MacBeth is being performed at The Oberon on Thursday, October 5 and Friday October 6 in Cambridge

Comedy Night at Club Cafe with your host Tricia Auld featuring local comics starting at 7PM in Boston

Ogunquit Bearfest kicks off on Thursday and runs through the weekend in Ogunquit

Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

THE WEEKEND

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Ptown Soccer Classic XXI starts Friday and runs through the weekend, including Welcome Party, Wigs & Heels Tea Dance, Soccer Balls Dance Party,  Dinner Banquet, and of course soccer in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

WickedQueer Cinema Club presents Heartstone at the Paramount Center – Emerson College on Friday from 7-10PM in Boston

Alan Cummings Sings Sappy Songs for one night only at the Sander’s Theatre at Harvard University, starting at 8PM on Friday

Guerrilla Queer Bar

Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) celebrates 10 years is this Friday

Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) is celebrating 10 Years! so come and join them on Friday at Hurricane O’Reilly’s starting at 9PM

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday and Saturday night in Ogunquit

Ocean State Classic Opening Party takes place at The Dark Lady on Friday in Providence

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

HRC New England Gala Dinner & Auction takes place at the Seaport Hotel & World Trade Center on Saturday in Boston

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Underbear is a monthly bear dance party (no cover and free clothing check) that has music from DJ Taffy at The Alley Bar in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Bear Brunch is hosted every second Sunday of the month at the Trophy Room bar from 1-4PM in Boston

Sunday “Gen-X” Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Columbus Day Sunday with DJ Ralphi Rosario from Chris Harris Presents at Royale in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

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Enjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

Furry Friday

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What to do this weekend

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Provincetown’s Mates Leather Weekend

This weekend Provincetown hosts the twenty-first Mates Leather Weekend, Boston hosts the Berklee Beantown Jazz Festival (Saturday only) and So Hot Saturdaes is hosting the city’s largest Disco Party on Saturday.

On Sunday be sure to check out the SoWa Open Market (it closes for the season at the end of October) and later in the afternoon is Club Cafe’s Sunday Tea Dance, starting at 6PM.

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

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Uniforms and Cigars Mates Leather Weekend party is on Friday at The Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: When A Stranger Calls shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

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Berklee Beantown Jazz Festival is an excellent (and free) outdoor music festival that takes place in the South End on Saturday from 2PM – 6PM in Boston

Boston Fashion Week Kick Off Party by a Maven’s World starts at 7PM at Royale in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

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So Hot Saturdaes: Disco Party starts at 9PM and will fill to capacity so arrive early at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

The Coolidge After Midnight: Peeping Tom starring Keanu Reeves shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Gay Beer Club Runs the Oktoberfest 5K at 9:30 in the morning on Sunday in Cambridge

Drag Tag Sale is from 1PM – 6PM at Jacques Cabaret on Sunday in Boston

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Club Cafe Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Vintage gay

This week I have a photo of Pierre et Gilles, Pierre Commoy and Gilles Blanchard, French artists and romantic partners.  The photo which may have come from a photo booth likely dates back to the 1980s, which many readers of this blog may protest being referred to as “vintage”. The creative duo first met back in Paris in 1976 and have been producing work together ever since.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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RuPaul’s Drag Race: Werq the world tour

Earlier this fall I shared that RuPaul’s Drag Race: Werq the World Tour would be coming to Boston on Friday, October 27th and now that we are one month away from the tour pulling into Boston I wanted to let you know the show is sold out. That doesn’t mean tickets won’t be available from scalpers but if you are determined to go your best bet might be heading to New York City where rumor has it that a few tickets remain for their show the night before.

For more information visit RuPaul’s Drag Race: Werq the world tour.

Men in kilts

 With the Will & Grace reboot starting this Thursday on NBC I couldn’t help but share this photo of Will (a.k.a Eric McCormack) for this week’s post.

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What to do this week: September 25 – October 1

There is a lot happening this week in and around Boston. Aside from the usual weekly events and parties during the work week I’d like to give a shout out to BAGLY and their annual Out for Youth fundraiser on Wednesday.

If you’re looking forward to Karen & Jack, perhaps better known as Will & Grace, Cathedral Station is hosting a viewing party on Thursday. Following NBC’s season premiere head over to to see Betty Swallows perform at Jacques at 10:30PM.

This weekend Provincetown hosts the twenty-first Mates Leather Weekend, Boston hosts the Berklee Beantown Jazz Festival (Saturday only) and So Hot Saturdaes is hosting the city’s largest Disco Party on Saturday.

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Bears and Cubs dinner social is Tuesday at Cathedral Station

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Royal Bingo with Mizery and the Imperial Court of Massachuesets (ICMA), Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Bears and Cubs Social is at Cathedral Station on Tuesday, with a dinner social starting at 7:30PM in Boston

Showtune Tuesday starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting up on Wednesday from 6-9PM at the Panera Bread at Porter Square in Cambridge

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

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BAGLY’s Out for Youth is Thursday at the Aquarium

BAGLY presents: Out for Youth at the New England Aquarium raises much needed $ for LGBTQ youth so grab tickets ($100) and show your support for the event which starts at 6PM on Thursday in Boston

Mates Leather Weekend kicks off on Thursday and runs through the weekend concluding Sunday in Ptown

To Kill A Mockingbird shows at the MFA Boston, Thursday starting at 7PM

Will & Grace viewing parties (EVERYWHERE) but here are a couple of local viewing parties: Cathedral Station w/ HRC MaineStreet (OGT)

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Betty Swallows hits the stage at Jacques at 10:30PM on Thursday in Boston

Mr. New England Leather in Provincetown

Mates Leather Weekend is in Provincetown

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: When A Stranger Calls shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Berklee’s Beantown Jazz Festival is this Saturday

Berklee Beantown Jazz Festival is an excellent (and free) outdoor music festival that takes place in the South End on Saturday from 2PM – 6PM in Boston

Boston Fashion Week Kick Off Party by a Maven’s World starts at 7PM at Royale in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

gay boston, peggy o'neil's

So Hot Saturdaes: Disco Party starts at 9PM and will fill to capacity so arrive early at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

The Coolidge After Midnight: Peeping Tom starring Keanu Reeves shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Gay Beer Club Runs the Oktoberfest 5K at 9:30 in the morning on Sunday in Cambridge

Drag Tag Sale is from 1PM – 6PM at Jacques Cabaret on Sunday in Boston

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

man in bed, hairy, handsome, hunkEliad Cohen looks like he is quite happy in the morning. This is a photo from his instagram account when he was in Sao Paulo Brazil.

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Saturday morning coffee

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Bonus fur

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Enjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.