Category Archives: Gay

R.I.P. Chris Harris

gay mafia, gay bostonRhode Island native Chris Harris, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family and close friends earlier this week on Wednesday, January 9, 2019.

For those who did not know Chris, he was an award-winning event producer, premier concert promoter, accomplished business owner and community organizer. He was co-owner of Club EGO in Providence, RI, and provided some of the best LGBTQ nightlife experiences in Providence & Boston. Chris was a pivotal leader in the LGBTQ community, an advocate of equality.

If you would like to pay your respects, visiting hours will be Monday, January 14th at 3:00 – 8:00pm at Russell J. Boyle & Son Funeral Homes, 331 Smith Street, Providence, RI, 02908. An EPIC ‘Celebration of Life’ event will take place on Tuesday, January 15th at 5:30pm at the Providence Biltmore Hotel, followed by a parade procession to the after party at Club EGO.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made online to the ‘Chris Harris Tribute Fund at the National LGBT Cancer Network’ at or by check mailed to Chris Harris Tribute Fund at the National LGBT Cancer Network, Hope Artiste Village, 1005 Main St. Suite 2137, Pawtucket, RI 02860. This fund will be used to establish a LGBTQ cancer prevention and education program in Rhode Island and beyond.

R.I.P. Chris – You will be missed.

Scruffy Sunday

threesome, menage a trois, gay men in bedI couldn’t help myself and had to post this photo when I saw it. I hope it brings a smile to your Sunday morning.

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Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunk, Tornyosi Krisztián, Hungarian manSay good morning to the very handsome Tornyosi Krisztián from Budapest.

Furry Friday

handsome, hunk, hairy guy, man candyThis week’s photo comes to you from the Facebook Group All Male Pics.

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What to do this weekend

handsome, cub, hairyNo plans for the weekend or still trying to figure out what is happening? Here is a list of about 20+ events and programs that might be worth checking out on your own or with friends.  There are several RPDR viewing parties on Friday at The Alley BarClub Cafe and Trophy Room.

If RPDR isn’t really your thing there is still plenty of options including the no attitude, fun dance party, FUZZ on Friday, Silver with guest DJ Susan Esthera at Blend on Saturday and *sip* w/DJ Brian Halligan & Dusty Moorehead on Sunday just to name a few. For more details check below.

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Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

RPDR All Stars 4 Viewing Parties are at The Alley BarClub Cafe and Trophy Room each Friday through March 1st in Boston 

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted this Friday with great music from DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Coronation XV: Vintage Hollywood the Golden Age of Glamour on Saturday come and celebrate the charitable works of The ICMA and support The Boston Living Center starting at 6PM in Boston’s Theater District

New Year, New Queer will host three local queer music acts followed by DJ Mili on Saturday night at the Milkyway in JP

Silver with Susan Esthera on Saturday at Blend will include diva dance anthems all night long with money raised to benefit Out in Tech in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

handsome guy, gay boston, what's happening in Boston, LGBTQ BostonGrunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Brunch of Queens includes food and show (or you can just show up for the divas) on Sunday at The Bell in Hand doors open at 11AM show starts at 12PM in Faneuil Hall 

Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday brunch starts at 1PM at Trophy Room on Sunday – all are welcome to enjoy the music and company of this friendly, social group in Boston

*sip* w/DJ Brian Halligan & Dusty Moorehead is back and will be playing classic disco and house vibes from resident DJ Brian Halligan on Sunday starting at 6PM at Jacques

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Beer Club Sundays heads over to Stoddards Pub on Sunday starting at 7PM all are welcome

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

OUT on Stage: The Series premieres Jan 17th

January can be a pretty bleak month in the Northeast; winter is raging, the holidays are over and your credit card statement from the holidays comes due. Dekkoo, a subscription-based streaming service dedicated to gay men is launching a new comedy series called OUT on Stage. 

The series will be hosted by Zach Noe Towers and will feature comics: Jonathan Rowell, Brendan Scannell, Casey Ley, Julian Michael, Iren Tu, Jared Goldstein, Raneir Pollard, Kyle Shire, Jordan Peas, Chris Bryant, Eric Hahn, Daniel Webb, Joe Dosch, Gloria Bigelow, Anthony Desamito, Janine Brito, and A.B. Cassidy.LGBTQ humor, queer comedyTo watch the series you do need to have a subscription to Dekkoo but look for an introductory offer on their homepage for their free trial offer. Learn more here,

Vintage gay

Peter Watson, Cecil Beaton, Robert Heber-PercyThe photo above shows Cecil Beaton, Oliver Watson and Peter Watson in the 1930s. Apparently these three raised more than a few eyebrows as they flaunted their disregard for social mores. It seems like this was tolerated to a point possibly due to their family’s wealth and influence. There is an interesting read about these men you can check out here.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at

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