Category Archives: Gay

2023 First Event is January 25 – 29, 2023

First Event is one of the largest and longest-running conferences for the transgender community in the world. Later this month the four-day conference which is open to all but designed for the transgender community, will host their annual conference at the Boston Park Plaza Hotel. This year’s conference includes great speakers, workshops, and professional training programs by day and fahsion shows and dance parties in the evening for the community to come together and celebrate.

For more information about this organization, the conference schedule (including a complete list of speakers), and how to register to attend this annual conference visit their website at firstevent.org.

Scruffy Sunday

Say good morning to the very handsome, Laz Alonso.

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Saturday morning coffee

Daniel Silva enjoying his morning cup of joe. Much thanks to Rob O from Seduced By The New blog for sharing this photo and introducing me to Daniel.

Furry Friday

Thank Gawd It’s Furry Friday (TGIFF).

Much thanks to Fearsome Beard for first sharing this. He makes for a great Furry Friday.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR Season Premiere viewing party 8PM & Casual Friday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Underbear w/ music by DJ Taffy @9PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

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THURSDAY: Taco Thursday w/ Pride Sports (come and get’em) 5PM-10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR Season Premiere viewing party @8PM & Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco brunch (reservations on Open Table)

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Celtics play Mavericks @7:30PM || Bruins play Kings @10:30PM
FRIDAY: RPDR Season Premiere
SATURDAY: Celtics play Spurs @6PM || Bruins play Sharks @10:30PM
SUNDAY: Patriots play Bills @1PM || Bruins play Ducks @8:30PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR Season Premiere viewing party @8PM & Gaga Night w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: Dance your ass off w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY FUNDAY: Brunch (make reservation here) @11AM | Patriots Game 1/2 price apps and sandwiches 12-6PM & ComuniTea w/ DJ Aga @4PM (new earlier time)

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FRIDAY: CLOSED
SATURDAY: CLOSED
SUNDAY: Miami Heat Tiki Bar & Tea Dance @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show hosted by Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny 8PM
SATURDAY: Reputation (from Semi Sweets Birthday Party) @7PM & 10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve! Thursday w/ DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Frenchy takes over for a second night10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays Thanksgiving edition at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Celtics play Mavericks @7:30PM || Bruins play Kings @10:30PM
FRIDAY: RPDR Season Premiere
SATURDAY: Celtics play Spurs @6PM || Bruins play Sharks @10:30PM
SUNDAY: Patriots play Bills @1PM || Bruins play Ducks @8:30PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Thirsty Thursgay is at Game On! @9PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

FRIDAY: HEROES (18+) w DJ Chris Ewen at Sonia @10PM

SATURDAY: Drag me to Candyland: Classic board game with a drag twist at the Crystal Ballroom @8PM

SATURDAY: MOTA X MYTHICAL Open Mic & Queer Mixer at Mota (Somerville) @9PM

SATURDAY: PU$$Y Pop – Queer Pop Party at Vera’s @10PM

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Lady Gaga Drag Brunch
Saturday @11AM
Summer Shack

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

DragTease: Burlesque Brunch
Sunday @11AM
Lansdowne Pub

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

This week’s photo was taken somewhere between 1958 and 1961 when Allen Ginsberg and Peter Orlovsky were romantically linked.

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2023 Gay ski weeks

Winter rendezvous

Each January I write about the various ski weeks and weekends that are organized here in New England and North America for those of you who love to take ski vacations. Below I’ve included a handful of such gay ski celebrations.

If you enjoy skiing and live in the Boston area, I’d also like to use this opportunity to give a shout out to OutRyders – New England’s largest gay ski club.

Aspen Gay Ski Week: January 15 – 21, 2023
This year AGSW celebrates its 46th year. This week long celebration is the biggest and longest running gay ski weekend. It has grown significantly over the years and it includes a ton of programming on and off the slopes.

Winter Rendezvous at Stowe, VT: January 18 – 22, 2023
This is New England’s largest (and longest running) gay ski week. Although you needn’t be a member to participate, Boston’s gay ski club, OutRyders, helps their members organize logistics if you’re interested in this event.

Whistler Pride & Ski Festival: January 22 – 29, 2023
This annual tradition which started in 1992 celebrates its 30th anniversary and will offer plenty to do. If you’re coming from the US you’ll be able to enjoy a nice price break with the favorable exchange rate.

Elevation Utah Gay Ski Week at Park City: February 22 – 26, 2023
While Utah isn’t exactly known as the most gay friendly place in America, this event continues to grow and gain popularity.

Elevation Mammoth Gay Ski Week: March 15 – 19, 2023
The Elevation Ski Week brand started here at Mammoth Mountain and attracts mostly a west coast crowd.

If there is a gay ski week or weekend celebration I’ve overlooked that you would like to share, please leave the name, date and web link in the comments section so people can learn more.

Shangela: Fully Lit Tour comes to Boston Jan 19

After a successful stint on the latest season of Dancing With The Stars, drag queen Shangela announced her Fully Lit Tour. The 11-city comedy and cabaret show kicks off in a couple of weeks when she comes to Boston on Thursday, January 19th at the Wilbur in Boston’s Theater District.

If you’re looking for a fun night out with friends, make plans and get your tickets before she sells out. Tickets are currently on sale and can be purchased in-person at the theater or online here.

In addition to Boston, Shangela’s Fully Lit Tour will also be coming to the following cities later this winter.

Jan 20: Washington DC, Warner Theatre
Jan 21: New York City, Town Hall
Jan 26: Los Angeles, The Wiltern
Jan 27: San Francisco, Castro Theatre
Feb 01: Orlando, Dr. Phillips Center – Steinmetz Hall
Feb 02: Raleigh, Meymandi Concert Hall
Feb 03: Philadelphia (Glenside), Keswick Theatre
Feb 04: Pittsburgh (Munhall), Carnegie of Homestead Music Hall
Feb 09: Dallas, Majestic Theatre
Feb 10: Austin, Paramount Theatre

More details about the Fully Lit Tour

Temptation Tuesday

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Men in kilts

I swiped this photo from Instagram. It was taken in Provincetown this past summer by @bearinabeecostume during the Mr. New England Leather Weekend in November.

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Monday morning mancandy

Wake up and get to work. It’s the first Monday morning of 2023. Happy New Year.

Scruffy Sunday

It’s the first Sunday of 2023. I hope you have a wonderful year full of health, humor and hugs.

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Furry Friday

It’s the final Friday of 2022. Make the most of it. 

Past Furry Friday

What to do this (New Year’s Eve) weekend

It is the final weekend of 2022 and that means there will be lots of parties, events and programming throughout the weekend. Below you’ll find who is DJ’ing at Boston’s gay clubs as well as special gay nights, parties and drag brunches. However you spend your weekend, I hope you have fun. I also want to wish you a very happy and healthy 2023.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Friday with DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: NYE Party w/ DJ Denis Champagne Toast at 12 & buffet at 12:30PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

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FRIDAY: New Year’s Feels w Twisted Gleam and Harlow Havoc @10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes: Glitter & Gold w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Hangover Brunch w/ Harlow Havoc (make your reservation here) @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Celtics play Mavericks @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Bar open til 2AM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Sabres @1PM
SUNDAY: Patriots play Dolphins @1PM || Celtics play Nuggets @8PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: NYE Party w/ DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch (make your reservation here) @11AM & Hang Over Tea w/ DJ Aga @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show hosted by Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny & Dee Dee de Ray 8PM
SATURDAY: Happy New Year’s Party w/ host Teashaboo 8PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve! Thursday w/ DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: NYE w/ music by Marcus Shane @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Celtics play Mavericks @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Bar open til 12AM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Sabres @1PM
SUNDAY: Patriots play Dolphins @1PM || Celtics play Nuggets @8PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

FRIDAY: Qwanzaa-themed BussDown Fridays w/ DJ Frenchy at Legacy @10PM

SATURDAY: Beyoncé Rooftop Drag Show + NYE Party at Moxy Doors open @7:30PM

SATURDAY: LesbianNightLife NYE Party at the Crystal Ballroom Doors open @9PM

SATURDAY (18+): HEROES NYE w/ DJ Chris Ewen at Sonia Doors open @9PM

SATURDAY: Hollywood Glam NYE Party w/ DJ Andrea Stamas at dbar @10PM

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SUNDAY: New Year’s Hang Over Tea with DJ Aga at Club Cafe (NEW TIME) @4PM

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Mariah Carey Drag Brunch: All I Want For Christmas Is You
Saturday @11AM
Summer Shack

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

New Year’s Hangover Brunch
Sunday @12PM
Dorchester Brewing Co.

Bad Bunny Drag Brunch
Sunday @12PM
Summer Shack

New Year’s Drag Tease Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Lansdowne Pub

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

What a lovely intimate photograph of two men relaxing quietly together in the sun. This is something I’d love to be doing with Sergio but the winters in New England are long and unless we hop on a plane, it will be several months before we can do this here in Boston.

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