Category Archives: Gay

Temptation Tuesday

Anyone know who this handsome temptation is?
He certainly lives up to the name of the post.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

This kilt-in-action photograph was taken by Christopher Bowen, an award winning Glasgow based photographer who specializes in human and canine portraits, commercial, sports and fitness images.

He also knows how to show off a kilt. If you’d like to learn more about Christopher, visit his website at christopherbowen.com.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

Yup, it’s Monday again.

Scruffy Sunday

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

G4G Boston volunteering opportunities

Over the years, I’ve promoted a variety of volunteering opportunities organized by Gay For Good Boston. G4G is a national organization with chapters in 15+ cities across the United States.

You can learn more about this fabulous organization and meet some of the active members at their Fall Social later this week on Wednesday, October 12th. You must register to attend (more info provided in the link below).

Wednesday, October 12 | 5:30pm – 7:30pm
Mix and Mingle with free food, drinks and music!
Boston G4G Chapter Fall Social

Symphony Community Garden, Boston, MA

The Boston chapter is particularly active and provides people with an opportunity to meet and socialize while volunteering. It’s a great way to give back and meet some wonderful people. Below are programs for the month of October. These volunteering programs fill quickly so if you see a volunteering opportunity that appeals to you, click through to learn more.

If these opportunities are now full and not accepting volunteers, or if the timing isn’t quite right for you but you’d like to know about future volunteering opportunities, join their mailing list here.

Upcoming Volunteering Events

Thursday, October 13 | 5:30pm – 10pm
Laugh for Literacy at the Braille Gala
The National Braille Press

at the Artists for Humanity EpiCenter, Boston, MA

Saturday, October 15 | 9am – 12pm
Plant and Pick at the Farm
Holly Hill Farm in Cohasset


Saturday, October 22 | 8am–12pm
Distribute Food to a Community in Need
St. Luke’s Food Pantry in Chelsea

Thursday, October 27 | 2pm – 6pm OR 6pm – 10pm
Get Gala Ready and help get this Gala Ready!
GLAD Spirit of Justice Gala

at the Park Plaza Hotel, Boston MA

Saturday morning coffee

Enjoy your morning cup of joe.

Furry Friday

Thank Gawd It’s Furry Friday (TGIFF)

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of LGBTQ+ events and parties happening this weekend. Scroll to the bottom of this post to see a listing of drag brunches. Have an event you want included? Email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: Meet contestants of Mr. Boston Bear & Cub Competition @8PM and stick around to see DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Mr Boston Bear & Cub Competition @9PM and hang out after for Tremors w/ DJ Scott Helms @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

blend
THURSDAY: UK RPDR w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ, Drag Queen Harlow Havoc @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch (reservations on Open Table) @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: No games – Kitchen & Bar open
FRIDAY: Celtics play Hornets (preseason game) @7PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Devils (preseason game) @7PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM | Patriots play Lions @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Tea w/ DJ Andrea Stamas @6PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ DJ Bobby Knight @10PM
SATURDAY: Studio54 w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch (reservations on Open Table) @11AM & Tea at d w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: The sexy DJ Dan Slater returns to Legacy @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: No games – Kitchen & Bar open
FRIDAY: Celtics play Hornets (preseason game) @7PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Devils (preseason game) @7PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM | Patriots play Lions @1PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

Connecting and talking about things taboo: History of queer and sex culture

THURSDAY: Tongue & Cheek at Aeronaut Brewing Company @7PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

FRIDAY: HEROES (18+) at Sonia @10PM

SATURDAY: Miss Richfield 1981 returns to at Club Cafe @8PM

SATURDAY: Mass Bears & Cubs – Mr. Boston Bear & Cub competition at Alley Bar @9PM

SATURDAY: 1 Year Anniversary Furball Party at Legacy @10PM

SUNDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Review: 90’s Music at Jacques Cabaret @3PM

SUNDAY: Gay Beer Club meets at the Cambridge Brewing Company @6PM

SUNDAY: The Runway Witch Fashion Show at The Crystal Ballroom @7PM

SUNDAY: Gay Mafia Boston presents 3 DJs at 2 Clubs
DJ Dani Brasil @Legacy || DJ Richie Ladue & DJ Frenchie @CandiBar

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Stranger Things: Drag Brunch
Saturday @11AM
Summer Shack (Back Bay)

DRAGtacular Brunch: Britney vs. Christina
Saturday @12PM
Laugh Boston (Seaport)

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

Rihanna Drag Brunch w Men of Melanin Magic
Sunday @11AM
Lansdowne Street (Fenway)

Haunted Drag Brunch
Sunday @12PM
Article 24 (Allston)

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

This photo looks vaguely familiar. I’m unsure if I’ve previously posted this before so apologies if it is a repeat. The guy on the left looks as if he’s vaguely annoyed with his boyfriend but the intimacy is still there – with his hands on his knees. Who knows, what he might be thinking about but I know I’d find it hard to concentrate with someone kissing my neck.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

LGBTQ+ Job Fair on October 12th

The Massachusetts LGBT Chamber of Commerce is a non-profit comprised of LGBT-owned businesses and the Commonwealth’s largest, most innovative, and profitable corporations. They routinely host events designed to cultivate inclusive relationships and help to drive economic impact.

Next week the Massachusetts LGBT Chamber of Commerce is hosting a free job fair on Wednesday, October 12th at Suffolk University. Representatives from their partner companies will feature open positions, share how their company supports and welcomes LGBTQ+ employees, and answer any questions you may have.

LGBTQ+ JOB FAIR
Wednesday, Oct 12
4:00PM – 7:00PM

NYC LGBTQ Film Festival

Whether you live in Hell’s Kitchen or in Hell, Michigan (yeah that’s an actual town), you can watch this year’s NYC LGBTQ Film Festival which runs from October 13 – 25th. The hybrid festival will include more than 130 new LGBTQ+ stories, special events and panel discussions.

A few movies that have caught my eye include Lance Black’s film Mama’s Boy (live viewing on opening night), My Policeman which is based on a book by Bethan Roberts that I reviewed recently (you can read my book review here), and Keep the Cameras Rolling: The Pedro Zamora Way, but there are many more which you can peruse, here.

If you love independent / LGBTQ+ film, you should check out this year’ NYC LGBTQ Film Festival. This year’s virtual all access streaming pass (10/13 – 25) is $95. For more information about the festival and streaming pass click the link below and enjoy.

2022 NYC LGBTQ Film Festival

Temptation Tuesday

This isn’t the first time – nor will it be the last time that the handsome French fitness model, Fabian Sassier, is likely to be seen on this blog. I don’t know anything about him but I do know he makes for a great Temptation Tuesday.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

Much thanks to longtime reader Angel from northern Spain who shared this photo. No idea when or where this might have been taken.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

I think Mondays are better with Keegan Whicker, don’t you?

Miss Richfield 1981 comes to Club Cafe

Next weekend Miss Richfield 1981 comes to Club Cafe to perform her popular Cancel Cultured Pearls show on Friday and Saturday. If you didn’t get a chance to see her while she was in Provincetown this summer, this is your chance. Don’t delay purchasing tickets because these shows will sell out.

Tickets are $35.00 and are already on sale. Make plans with friends and get your tickets while they last.

Miss Richfield 1981
Friday & Saturday, Oct 7 & 8 at Club Cafe
Doors open at 7:30PM || Show starts at 8:00PM
Get Your Tickets Here!