Temptation Tuesday

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BAGLY’s Heels for Hope tickets now on sale

boston pride, BAGLY, gay bostonTickets for one of my favorite Boston Pride events, Heels for Hope 2018, are now on sale and this year’s theme “Under a Big Top” makes me think this year’s event is going to be the best on yet. Show Heels for Hope some love and get your tickets today.

Get Your Tickets for Heels for Hope Here!

All the fun takes place at 7PM on Monday June 4th at Club Cafe. Proceeds to to supporting The Boston Alliance of LGBTQ+ Youth (BAGLY).

Previous Heels for Hope Parties

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First Year: Heels for Hope 2014 at Boma

2nd Annual Heels for Hope at Cathedral Station

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3rd Annual Heels for Hope 2016 at Cathedral Station

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4th Annual Heels for Hope at Club Cafe

 

Men in kilts

no peeking under the kiltI recently learned that there is a window cleaning and house washing service called Men In Kilts (www.meninkilts.com) in the Boston area. The company is based in Canada. Visit their website to see if they are in your city. I’m dying… I’d love to have these guys clean the windows of our condo complex.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

What to do this week: May 28 – June 3

hairy chestThis week I’ve identified more than 50 events ranging from free entrance into the MFA Boston and ICA Boston (today) Memorial Day to the return of Kiki Beach. I’d like to give a shout out to the following events happening during the work week including Gay Secrets of the MFA Tour on Wednesday and the screening of Hurricane Bianca 2: From Russia with Hate on Thursday at the Alley.

This weekend, I want to start with a shout out for 1st Annual Provincetown Pride which runs through the weekend, Super Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) Pride Edition on Friday, Boston Gay Men’s Chorus presents TOGETHER with shows on Saturday & Sunday and of course on Sunday the 33rd Annual AIDS Walk & Run Boston

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MFA Boston and ICA Boston are open and FREE on Memorial Day

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Secrets of the MFA Tour this reoccurring tour of the MFA routinely sells out  so grab tickets for this 2-hour tour on Wednesday at the MFA in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Cambridge Center Foyer in Kendall Square in Cambridge

Cabaretfest runs from Wednesday, May 30 – Sunday, June 30 in Provincetown

Sports Night at Peggy’s  is every Wednesday night at Peggy O’Neil’s pub in Dorchester

Atomic Karaoke AIDS Walk Fundrasier with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Shorts from the Open Theatre Project (Final Weekend) runs from May 24th through June 2nd at Club Cafe

Hurricane Bianca 2 come watch Bianca del Rio’s new movie, Hurricane Bianca 2: From Russia with Hate, Thursday@ 8PM at the Alley

BRASH | Queer Party is hosted every fourth Thursday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays weekly party each Thursday at Club Cafe in Boston

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AIDS Walk & Run is Sunday, June 3rd on the Boston Common

THE WEEKEND

1st Annual Provincetown Pride as crazy as it might sound – Ptown is celebrating their first Pride festival this weekend

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Absolut Takes Over Pride with Free Slider Bar Absolut presents “Take a Bite Out of Pride Weekend” with a complimentary slider bar at the Shipwreck Lounge Friday and Saturday in Provincetown

You Can’t Take It With You (Closing Weekend) is at the Provincetown Theater with the final show on Saturday, June 2 in Ptown

Dina Martina (Opening Weekend) summer performance, “Crème de la Dregs”, is at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

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Super Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) Pride Edition starting at 9PM at the Hong Kong in Cambridge

Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every Friday and Saturday at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

XO Fridays kick off the weekend with resident DJ Stevie Psyclone – No Cover before 11PM at Club Cafe in Boston

La Boum // Queer Dance Party // First Fridays is at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

High Heel Dash for Charity takes place Saturday morning at 9AM af Faneuil Hall Marketplace in Boston

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2018 Summer kick off, Saturday June 2

Return of Kiki Beach for a 3rd season, taking over part of M Street Beach on Saturday starting around 11ish – look for Speedos and listen for the music

Big Gay Dance Party takes place on Saturday from 5:30 – 8:30PM in Union Square Somerville

Jodi Kantor and Andrew Sullivan in Conversation: After Weinstein – Sold Out! starts at 7PM in the Hawthorne Barn in Provincetown

Boston Gay Men’s Chorus presents TOGETHER Celebrate pride with music from Broadway to the movies; from folk & spirituals to pop – shows are at 8PM on Saturday and 3PM on Sunday at Jordan Hall in Boston

Grunt – Underbear Edition is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

H E R O E S Saturday (New Venue) Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Oberon Theater Donkey Show

Donkey Show is every Saturday at the Oberon

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience – a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

33rd Annual AIDS Walk & Run Boston takes place on Sunday at the Boston Common in Boston

Gay Beer Club runs the AIDS Walk & Run 5k join Boston’s always sociable Gay Beer Club as the group raises money for AIDS Action and joins the annual 5k run on Sunday morning

SoWa Open Market is open every Saturday 10AM – 4PM

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Back to the 90s Brunch is at Trophy Room starting at 11AM in Boston

Brunch of Queens at The Bell in Hand Pride Edition is Sunday from 11AM – 2PM, you can purchase tickets for brunch and the drag show or just the drag show at The Bell & Hand in Boston

Mass Bears and Cubs Annual Boston Harbor Cruise is from 5:30 – 9PM on Sunday, leaving from Bay State Cruise Company in the Seaport

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

2018 Boston Pride Guide available now

Boston Pride GuideEarlier this month Boston Pride released their digital version of the 2018 Boston Pride Guide.  The Pride Guide includes information on all the official Boston Pride events and programs as well as over 20 articles on a wide range of topics of direct relevance to our diverse LGBTQ community.

2018 Boston Pride is June 1- 10, 2018

You may access the digital version of the Guide by clicking here. Printed copies of the Guide are currently being distributed to over 500 locations around New England and will be available at major Boston Pride events. To find a drop location near you, visit bostonpride.org/guide.

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

sexy guy in a onesie, handsome, hunk, hairy guy with coffeeI think I’d enjoy my Saturday mornings a lot more with this guy (and a cup of coffee of course).

Saturday morning comics

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ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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Last week’s Comic Strip

Enjoy the holiday weekend

If you live in the US, you probably are looking at a long holiday weekend and with temperatures in Boston predicted to hit the high 80s on Saturday, it could well be the first beach weekend of the summer.

However you celebrate this weekend, I hope you have fun. Thank you for stopping by my little corner of the internet.

Furry Friday

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser:  

Five sisters are at home with each other.
The first sister is styling her hair.
The second sister is playing chess.
The third sister is dancing in the living room.
The fourth sister is exercising.
What is the fifth sister doing?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

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There is plenty happening in Boston, Ogunquit and Ptown for Memorial Day Weekend. If you’re looking for an alternative to the bar scene it happens to be opening weekend for Boston Ballet’s La Sylphide, but if you’re interested in something a little less traditional check out Gay Shorts from the Open Theatre Project at Club Cafe. Up in Ogunquit the Dueling Drag Divas are back at Mainestreet and in Ptown both  Miss Richfield 1981 and  Thirsty Burlington performs All Things Cher shows open this weekend.

For those of you looking to go dancing check out FASCINATION FridayTea Dance in OGTSo Hot Saturdaes Decades PartyH E R O E S SaturdayDont Ask Dont Tell: Eleganza and the biggest party of all, Military Ball 2018 with ABEL; are all happening – just to highlight a few dance party options.

If socializing with a drink in hand is more your speed check out Rooftop Cocktails with Boston’s LGBTQ & Friends Meetup or Boston Ironsides Harpoon Brewery Beer Tasting.

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Military Ball at Royale this weekend

Gay Shorts from the Open Theatre Project (Opening Weekend) runs from May 24th through June 2nd at Club Cafe

Figawi Race Weekend with Yankee Cruising Club join New England’s largest LGBTQ Boat Club in Hyannis and Nantucket for this New England classic

Rooftop Cocktails with Boston’s LGBTQ & Friends Meetup starts at 5PM on Friday atop the uber cool Revere Hotel roof deck in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston Ironsides Harpoon Brewery Beer Tasting is on Friday from 7-8:30PM, be sure to get your tickets in advance ($15) in Boston

Motion Friday Dance Party kicks off Memorial Day Weekend on Friday at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

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Dueling Drag Divas are back this year performing every  Friday Saturday at 9:30PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Tea Dance in OGT join your friends on the deck at Mainestreet Saturday with  DJ Andrea Stamas in Ogunquit

Miss Richfield 1981: Born Again (NEW VENUE) no longer at The Crown, catch Miss Richfield at the Pilgrim House this summer starting this weekend

Thirsty Burlington performs All Things Cher Memorial Day Weekend at the Crown and Anchor in Provincetown

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

H E R O E S Saturday (New Venue) Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

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This weekend check out DADT Eleganza

Dont Ask Dont Tell: Eleganza monthly queer dance party in the heart of Allston – for more info about the dress check out their FB page – the party starts at 10PM at Great Scott in Boston

So Hot Saturdaes Decades Party returns this Saturday at Peggy O’Neil’s starting at 10PM in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Head to Carrie Nation Cocktail Club on Sunday at 2PM

Drag Me to Brunch hosted by Destiny Boston and Dee Dee De Ray on Sunday from 2-4PM at Carrie Nation Cocktail Club

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sip is hosting a special Memorial Day weekend edition with guest DJs debuting in Boston – the fun tea dance at Jacques on Sunday goes from 6-10

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Annual White Party starts at 9PM on Sunday at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Military Ball 2018 with ABEL takes place at Royale every Sunday of Memorial Day Weekend in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Get Lei’d with Boston Ironsides rugby team

sports, humorGET LEI’D WITH BOSTON IRONSIDES ON FRIDAY

Are you sticking around Boston for Memorial Day weekend? Boston Ironsides (Boston’s all-inclusive rugby team) is hosting a FUNdraiser at the Harpoon Brewery in the Seaport this Friday from 7-8:30PM.
Tickets are just $15 and provide you with the chance to get lei’d by an Ironsides rugger, beer, music and an entry into their limbo contest for a shot at their grand prize. Hawaiian attire is encouraged so break out those hideous shirts and head over to the Harpoon Brewery this Friday.

All funds raised from this event will go towards the Ironsides 2018 Bingham Cup fund. Click here for more details about the Boston Ironsides Harpoon event.

Vintage gay

gay history, gay couples from the pastI dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Brown University and SMASH LABS LGBTQ study

SMASH LABS is a research group at Brown University, and we’re currently recruiting gay and bisexual men for several ongoing studies, some of which you can do from home.

SMASH LABS studies will pay you for your time (anywhere from $50-$270, depending on the time commitment involved). To learn if you’re eligible for any of their studies, click the link below to take a short survey and they will be in touch with details.

SMASH LABS STUDIES