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Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunkEnjoy your morning cup of joe.

Bonus fur

male torso, hairy, furry, underwearThank you for stopping by to check out my blog and have a wonderful weekend.

Furry Friday

Furry FridaySince Boston’s Santa Speedo Run is tomorrow, I thought I’d inject this photo from a run a couple of years ago. When this photo was taken they had yet to run but were working up the liquid courage to run through the freezing streets of Boston for the 1 mile charity run.

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What to do this weekend

T4J

Toys for Joys is at the Revere Hotel on Friday, Dec. 8 (Do you have your tickets?)

As would be expected, there is a lot happening this weekend, but I’d like to give a shout out to a few events not to miss starting (with a personal favorite) 9th Annual Toys for Joys Gift Gala at the Revere Hotel on Friday.

Also happening this weekend: 18th Annual Santa Speedo Run Boston, Tremont 647’s Cookies and Cocktails  Saturday afternoon and on Sunday if you have the energy head to Sunday Tea Dance at Club Cafe.

Boston’s Santa Speedo Run is Saturday afternoon

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

9th Annual Toys for Joys Gift Gala (my favorite holiday party in Boston) starts at 7:30PM at the Revere Hotel – get your tix here – in Boston

Stephen Hogan’s 7th Annual Providence Teddy Bear Ball Toy Drive is at The Eagle starting at 9PM in Providence

Mainestreet Community Holiday Party begins at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

FUZZ is back at The Alley Bar starting at 10PM in Boston

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

18th Annual Santa Speedo Run Boston takes place along Boylston and Newbury Streets on Saturday in Boston

Cookies and Cocktails on Saturday afternoon will help you get in the holiday spirit from 3-5PM at 647 Tremont Street in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Gay Beer Club Runs the Yulefest 5k starting at 9:30AM in Harvard Square

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

 

Vintage gay

gay couple on the beach

I plucked this photo from the Kiki Beach IG account and aside from the two names scribbled on the bottom of the photo I don’t know much. I would venture a guess that this might date back to the 1940s simply by the look of the bathing suits Jeffrion and Felix are wearing. Anyone else able to venture a guess?

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Holiday gift idea: Warwick Rowers 2018 calendar

Are you and your friends planning a Yankee Swap or Secret Santa? Do you have a friend who is tough to buy for and you can’t spend a lot of money? Why don’t you consider the Warwick Rowers 2018 calendar?

At just under £10 you really only have to worry about ordering it in time to get here before your holiday party or gift swap.

For those who may be unfamiliar with the male rowers at the University of Warwick Boat Club, these men have been creating & selling calendars since 2009. Proceeds raised from the sale of their calendars, videos etc go to

  • Promote positive, inclusive and respectful attitudes towards people of all genders and sexualities through the content that they create
  • Fund university rowing and particularly to make rowing more accessible to a wider number of students
  • Ongoing development of Sport Allies, a registered charity with a mission to promote sport, and particularly team sport, as an inclusive and supportive route to personal growth for everyone

If none of that really matters, it doesn’t hurt that each year the young men are so damn good looking in that ‘guy-next-door’ sort of way. For their more revealing photos you’ll have to check them out online or better yet peruse their many products for sale, here.

What to do this week: December 4-10

T4J

9th Annual Toys for Joys is Friday, December 8 (Do you have your tickets?)

As would be expected, there is a lot happening this week. I’ve done my best to capture the events I know that are happening. I’d like to give a special shout out to several events not to miss starting (with a personal favorite) 9th Annual Toys for Joys Gift Gala at the Revere Hotel on Friday, December 8th.

Houseboi w/ Vicki Powell & Wednesday Westwood returns this week on Wedenesday, the LGBT Dodgeball Boston League starts and for Tom of Finland fans don’t miss a sneak screening of Tom of Finland BioPic on Thursday at Emerson’s Paramount Theater, courtesy of Wicked Queer.

Over the weekend head to Boylston Street on Saturday to watch 18th Annual Santa Speedo Run Boston then warm up drinking a hot toddy or two at Tremont 647’s Cookies and Cocktails  Saturday afternoon

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Tom of Finland biopic sneak screening is on Thursday at the Paramount

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Art Exhibition: Frank paints dudes on Monday starting at 6PM at Sister Sorel a live model and will auction it of to a local charity in Boston

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting on Wednesday from 6-9PM at the Panera Bread at Porter Square in Cambridge

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Houseboi w/ Vicki Powell & Wednesday Westwood starts at 10PM on Wednesday at The Midddlesex in Cambridge

OutRyders Holiday Party is on Thursday starting at 6:30 at The Alley in DTX in Boston

Winter Trunk Show James Bishai will showcase his latest merchandise for sale at Sister Sorel on Thursday starting at 6:45 in Boston

LGBT Dodgeball Boston League starts at 7PM on Thursday at the Holland Community Center in Dorchester

Bi+Mic: Poetry, Storytelling + Comedy Open Mic is Thursday starting at 7PM at the Bisexual Resource Center in Boston

Tom of Finland BioPic (Boston Sneak Screening) this film will open in Cambridge next week but join Boston’s Wicked Queer Film at Emerson College’s Paramount Theater on Thursday at 7PM

Beat Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Saturday, Dec 9th is Boston’s 18th annual Santa Speedo Run

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

9th Annual Toys for Joys Gift Gala (my favorite holiday party in Boston) starts at 7:30PM at the Revere Hotel – get your tix here – in Boston

Stephen Hogan’s 7th Annual Providence Teddy Bear Ball Toy Drive is at The Eagle starting at 9PM in Providence

Mainestreet Community Holiday Party begins at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

FUZZ is back at The Alley Bar starting at 10PM in Boston

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

18th Annual Santa Speedo Run Boston takes place along Boylston and Newbury Streets on Saturday in Boston

Cookies and Cocktails on Saturday afternoon will help you get in the holiday spirit from 3-5PM at 647 Tremont Street in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Gay Beer Club Runs the Yulefest 5k starting at 9:30AM in Harvard Square

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

handsome, man in bedPrevious Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

guy in onesie, pajamas, handsome, cute guyThis guy manages to make these ever so practical pajamas (for those of us in colder climates) look damn cute. I also really like his ribbon rimmed coffee mug, which seems appropriate following World AIDS Day.

Bonus fur

man taking bath, musclesEnjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

Furry Friday

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What to do this weekend

The holiday season is in full swing and that means there are a lot of events and opportunities to get out. Holly Folly weekend starts on Friday in Provincetown.

There are also several World AIDS days events taking place on Friday in Boston and Provincetown including a World AIDS Day event at The State House and Strike a Pose For World AIDS Day at MIT.

There also happen to be a number of parties that you may want to check out including the opening of Boston’s bawdy holiday spectacular, a.k.a. the SlutCracker, which opens on Friday; Boston’s fetish party FASCINATION Friday; The Alley Bar’s weekly dance party, Grunt; and The Trophy Room’s first Boibutter Brunch on Sunday – just to name a few.

World AIDS Day hosted by AIDS Action Committee and Senator Julian Cyr and Representative Jack Lewis invite you to the 7th Annual World AIDS Day from 12PM-2PM at The State House

Holly Folly weekend is an annual tradition that has fun events all weekend, starting on Friday in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

SOWA First Fridays kicks off at 5PM – come out to SoWa and sip some wine while meeting artists and gallery owners on Friday in Boston

Strike a Pose For World AIDS Day join the MIT Program in Women’s and Gender Studies to view Strike a Pose on Friday at 7PM at MIT List Visual Arts Center in Cambridge

SlutCracker (Opening Night) runs from Dec 1-31 at the Somerville Theatre in Davis Square

Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) is this Friday (location to be determined) starting at 9PM in Boston

La Boum’s Queer Holiday Party hosts a Madonna dance party on Friday starting at 10PM at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Boston Gay Men’s Chorus: Believe holiday concert is Saturday at the Town Hall in Provincetown

Provincetown Murder Mystery is on Saturday at 8PM at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Magnum Saturdays: Where The Wild Things Are is at dbar on Saturday starting at 10PM in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Boibutter Brunch this is the first of many more boibutter brunch parties at Trophy Room from 1-4PM (hosted the 1st Sunday of each month) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

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I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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How Gabe Kapler’s body image helped gay male sports fans

Boston Red SoxI wanted to highlight an article about body image and feeling comfortable in your own skin after reading an article earlier this month on the OUT Sports blog which featured former Red Sox outfielder and the next manager of the professional baseball team, Philadelphia Phillies.

Gabe “The Babe” Kapler (as I often referred to him) was featured in the blog’s post, Why new Phillies manager Gabe Kapler was important to gay male sports fansWhile I don’t know if I agree with all their points, I do agree that Gabe has an amazing body and has always been happy to pose shirtless. In an age where athletes continue to train to build endurance and avoid injury, Kapler was the rare professional baseball player with a great physique who liked to show it off.  While he is happily married with two teenage children, if my memory serves me correct he was a great advocate for his wife when she spoke out about domestic violence (something she had to contend with in a previous relationship) in addition to being socially accepting of LGBTQ issues.

What to do this week: Nov 27 – Dec 4

Steve Grand, ChristmasBe sure to get out and enjoy one or more of these select events that I’ve shared below. There is a little bit of something for everyone. This week Hillary Clinton comes to Boston for one night, but if politics isn’t your thing you can check out the Mass Bears and Cubs Bear & Cub Social at Cathedral Station, Atomic Karaoke at Club Cafe and Queer Boston Board Gamers later this week.

Holly Folly weekend starts on Friday in Provincetown (but more on that later this week), several World AIDS days events take place on Friday including Strike a Pose For World AIDS Day and a World AIDS Day at The State House. For some bawdy humor check out the SlutCracker which opens on Friday and runs through December 31. Lastly close your weekend by attending the first Boibutter Brunch at Trophy Room on Sunday.

Hillary Clinton comes to Boston this week (Tuesday, Nov. 28)

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Bear & Cub Social hosted by Mass Bears and Cubs on Tuesday starts at 7:30PM at Cathedral Station in Boston

Hillary Clinton LIVE Hillary Clinton comes to Boston for one night on Tuesday at the Boston Opera House starting at 7:30PM in Boston

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Panera Bread at Porter Square in Cambridge

Boston Gay Men’s Cocktail Social is hosted by Boston Gay Single Men’s Meetup group on Thursday from 6:30-9:30PM location TBA

BAGLY Reunite 2017 tickets are $25 and 100% of the proceeds go to BAGLY; the event is Thursday from 6-9PM on Thursday at Club Cafe

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

THE WEEKEND

Holly Folly weekend starts on Friday and runs through Monday in Provincetown

World AIDS Day hosted by AIDS Action Committee and Senator Julian Cyr and Representative Jack Lewis invite you to the 7th Annual World AIDS Day from 12PM-2PM at The State House

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Strike a Pose For World AIDS Day join the MIT Program in Women’s and Gender Studies to view Strike a Pose on Friday at 7PM at MIT List Visual Arts Center in Cambridge

SlutCracker (Opening Night) runs from Dec 1-31 at the Somerville Theatre in Davis Square

La Boum’s Queer Holiday Party hosts a Madonna dance party on Friday starting at 10PM at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Boston Gay Men’s Chorus: Believe holiday concert is Saturday at the Town Hall in Provincetown

Provincetown Murder Mystery is on Saturday at 8PM at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Boibutter Brunch this is the first of many more boibutter brunch parties at Trophy Room from 1-4PM (hosted the 1st Sunday of each month) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.