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Saturday morning coffee
Enjoy your morning cup of joe (or whatever you may want to call these two).
Bonus fur
Enjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.
Get your tickets for Toys for Joys Boston on Friday, Dec. 8th
Toys for Joys Boston
The holiday season is upon us, which means that the TOYS 4 JOYS GIFT GALA is coming up so get your tickets before this (one of my favorite events of the year) sells out (capacity is 750).
On Friday, December 8th, TOYS 4 JOYS returns to The Revere Hotel’s – Liberty Hall to celebrate and collect thousands of donated toys. The evening’s event includes passed hors d’oeuvres, signature seasonal spirits, and dancing to Boston’s DJ Adilson under a state of the art light show.
Toys for Joys is at the Revere Hotel – Liberty Hall Friday, Dec. 8
TOY GIFT RULES
- Guests are asked to bring a minimum of 3 toys, with a minimum value $20-$25 per gift.
- All Toy Donations should be NEW and UNWRAPPED.
- Last Names that begin with A – M, please purchase toys for a GIRL.
- Last Names that begin with N – Z, please purchase toys for a BOY.
- Please bring one gift for each of the following age groups:
- Tots (3mo – 5yrs)
- Tweens (6yrs – 11yrs)
- Teens (12yrs – 18 yrs)
For more information about this year’s celebration and the wonderful committee that has made this one of Boston’s best holiday traditions can be found on their website at, toysforjoys.org.
Furry Friday
This is my idea of Black Friday.
What to do this weekend
It is the week of Thanksgiving in the U.S. so for many the weekend will start early (tonight) and for those not stuck in traffic or airports there is plenty to do, starting with several Thanksgiving Eve parties like the BLACKOUT Party at Club Cafe, 80s Thanksgiving Eve Party at dbar and Thanksgiving Eve Bash with Ivan Gomez & Adilson at ICON in the Theater District.
There is plenty to do by day that doesn’t involve going to clubs like checking out Boston Winter at Government Center which opens on Friday and runs through mid-January, the Faneuil Hall Hosting Tuba Concert and a bunch of brunches incuding Drag Me To Brunch (By Carrie Nation), Gay Men 50+ Meetup Brunch and Glam Brunch at Club Cafe.
Later in the weekend there are also some really fun parties like Grunt (GEAR NIGHT) at the Alley Bar and Dont Ask Dont Tell: DIVAS at Great Scott and So Hot Saturdaes: Turn Back Time at Peggy’s in Dorchester.
Thanksgiving Eve BLACKOUT Party (no cover) will have plenty of glow sticks to handout on Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston
Thanksgiving Eve at dbar is all night on Wednesday with DJ Jay Ine spinning 80s music in Dorchester
Thanksgiving Eve Bash with Ivan Gomez & Adilson Chris Harris Presents / Gay Mafia at ICON – doors open at 10PM in Boston
Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston
Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston
Boston Winter at Government Center opens for the second year in a row starting at 11AM and will remain open 7-days a week through Jan-14 in Boston
Annual Day-After Thanksgiving Guild Drag Bingo starts at 3:30PM (get your tickets!) at The Crown & Anchor in Provincetown
Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville
Silent Disco x City Hall Winter Market dance in virtual silence wearing our LED-lit wireless headsets from 6-10PM at Boston Winter Market in Gov’t Ctr.
Fascination Friday is Boston’s best Gear | Kink | Fetish night hosted the 1st and 4th Fridays of each month at Jacques
Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring a personal favorite local DJ, Begbick, at the Alley Bar in DTX
Men of Melanin Magic Takeover on Saturday at Machine with DJ Begbick starts at 10PM so you know the music will be awesome – arrive early
Grunt (GEAR NIGHT) this weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers has a gear dress theme the Alley Bar in DTX
Dont Ask Dont Tell: DIVAS features special guest DJ James Cerne at Great Scott starting at 10PM in Allston
So Hot Saturdaes: Turn Back Time the later the night gets the better the music so head to Peggy O’Neil’s on Saturday in Dorchester
Drag Me To Brunch (By Carrie Nation) on Sunday is hosted by Destiny Boston & Dee Dee De Ray – doors open at 11AM / shows start at 2PM in Boston
Gay Men 50+ Meetup Brunch is at Club Cafe on Sunday starts at 1PM (sign up is required) in Boston
Glam Brunch runs from 1-4PM at Trophy Room this Sunday with Severity Stone, Miranda Rights and DJ Ian Diver in Boston
Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston
Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston
Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston
Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston
Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.
This week on Instagram: dieuxdustade
In recent weeks the Dieux Stade Instagram account has gone quiet but as we turn to the holiday season and start to contemplate gifts for your gay friends, this annual calendar and making of video continues to be popular (for reasons so obvious and shallow they need no further explanation).
If you’re curious to see what the 2018 calendar has in store for you, peruse the images of this year’s professional rugby players who have agreed to pose.
Follow him on Instagram here, instagram.com/dieuxdustade.
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Modus Vivendi Glamour Line
Just in time for the holiday season, Modus Vivendi has released their Glamour Line inspired by the Glam rock style invented in the 70s in the UK. Regardless of the inspiration, the collection contains so many sequins you can make the case that they are festive enough to wear at December’s Underbear party at The Alley.
While the Glamour tanktop and low cut brief shown above aren’t my personal style, a magician on the next Atlantis Cruise or their ‘helper’ might love it.
My aesthetic runs more to the Modus Vivendi Dali line (specifically their boxers) shown below. BTW, I’m a medium – just in case you wanted to send me a pair. I prefer strong graphic prints to sequins for my underwear.
What to do this week: November 20-26
It is the week of Thanksgiving in the U.S. and while many will be driving, taking trains or flying to return home to Boston to spend time with family, there is plenty to do if you want to also connect with friends, while in the area.
The weekend starts early with a bunch of Thanksgiving Eve parties including the BLACKOUT Party at Club Cafe, 80s Thanksgiving Eve Party at dbar and Thanksgiving Eve Bash with Ivan Gomez & Adilson at ICON in the Theater District.
Later in the week check out Boston Winter at Government Center which opens on Friday and runs through mid-January, Grunt (GEAR NIGHT) at the Alley Bar and Dont Ask Dont Tell: DIVAS at Great Scott featuring special guest DJ James Cerne. On Sunday Drag Me To Brunch (By Carrie Nation) and Trophy Room’s monthly Glam Brunch also take place.
Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester
Pre-Holiday Meal with the Men’s Group of Jamaica Plain, Roslindale and W. Roxbury is Monday (limited seating) in Boston
Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston
ALL-STAR Mondays: Semifinals doors open at 10PM and no cover if you arrive before 11PM at Machine in Boston
Pilgrim Monument Annual Lighting is Tuesday 5-7PM in Provincetown
Liberations (music and poetry) music and poetry of lesbian, queer and feminist artists on Tuesday from 7-10PM at AREA near Central Sq in Cambridge
Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester
Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston
Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston
Thanksgiving Eve BLACKOUT Party (no cover) will have plenty of glow sticks to handout on Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston
Thanksgiving Eve at dbar is all night on Wednesday with DJ Jay Ine spinning 80s music in Dorchester
Thanksgiving Eve Bash with Ivan Gomez & Adilson Chris Harris Presents / Gay Mafia at ICON – doors open at 10PM in Boston
Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston
Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston
Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence
Thump! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester
Saturday night be sure to check out So Hot Saturdaes at Peggy’s in Dorchester
THE WEEKEND
Boston Winter at Government Center opens for the second year in a row starting at 11AM and will remain open 7-days a week through Jan-14 in Boston
Annual Day-After Thanksgiving Guild Drag Bingo starts at 3:30PM (get your tickets!) at The Crown & Anchor in Provincetown
Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville
Silent Disco x City Hall Winter Market dance in virtual silence wearing our LED-lit wireless headsets from 6-10PM at Boston Winter Market in Gov’t Ctr.
Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit
Fascination Friday is Boston’s best Gear | Kink | Fetish night hosted the 1st and 4th Fridays of each month at Jacques
Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring a personal favorite local DJ, Begbick, at the Alley Bar in DTX
Grunt (GEAR NIGHT) this weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers has a gear dress theme the Alley Bar in DTX
Dont Ask Dont Tell: DIVAS features special guest DJ James Cerne at Great Scott starting at 10PM in Allston
So Hot Saturdaes: Turn Back Time the later the night gets the better the music so head to Peggy O’Neil’s on Saturday in Dorchester
Drag Me To Brunch (By Carrie Nation) on Sunday is hosted by Destiny Boston & Dee Dee De Ray – doors open at 11AM / shows start at 2PM in Boston
Gay Men 50+ Meetup Brunch is at Club Cafe on Sunday starts at 1PM (sign up is required) in Boston
Glam Brunch runs from 1-4PM at Trophy Room this Sunday with Severity Stone, Miranda Rights and DJ Ian Diver in Boston
Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston
Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston
Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston
Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston
Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.
Saturday morning coffee
Enjoy your morning cup of joe (or whatever you may want to call these guys).
Bonus fur
Enjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.
Vintage gay
This week’s photo dates to the early 1970s when gay activists Scott Smith (left) and Harvey Milk (right) dated. They met in NYC in 1969, but by the early 1970s they were living together in San Francisco. If you’re not familiar with the work Harvey Milk and his partner did for our community in the 1970s, I highly recommend watching the 2008 movie MILK, which earned an Oscar for best original screen play and best actor.
I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.
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