Category Archives: Gay

Furry Friday

Say hello to my friend Joe Andrews. Joe grew up in a small town near where I lived and we met many years ago in Boston. He now calls Oakland, CA home and is pretty active on Instagram. You can check him out here.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party 8PM & Casual Friday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Wicked Pah & BLUF @6PM | DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

blend
THURSDAY: Taco Thursday w/ Pride Sports (come and get’em) 5PM-10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party w/ Harlow Havoc @8PM & SUPERNATURE w/ DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturday w/ music by Harlow Havoc @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch (reservations req’d, here)

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Bruins vs Rangers @7PM || Celtics vs Warriors @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Bar and kitchen open
SATURDAY: Celtics vs Raptors @5PM
NFL Playoffs Jaguars vs Chiefs @4:30PM || Giants vs Eagles @8PM
SUNDAY: Bruins vs Sharks 7PM
NFL Playoffs Bengals vs Bills @3PM || Cowboys vs 49ers @6:30PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: Dance your ass off w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY FUNDAY: Brunch (make reservation here) @11AM | Communi-Tea dance w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @4PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ DJ Bobby Knight @10PM
SATURDAY: Fruits by the Foot Queer Comedy Showcase @9:30PM || DJ Coleslaw @11PM
SUNDAY: Celebrate Drag Queen Lilly Rose birthday w/ DJ Begbick @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show hosted by Crystal Crawford
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Dee De Ray
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve! Thursday w/ DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: Legacy Saturday w/ DJ Alex Costa @10PM
SUNDAY:Hot Mess Sunday @Candibar @10PM

ManRay/Campus (NEW)
THURSDAY: Campus (19+) w/ DJ MaryAlice @10PM
FRIDAY: CHROME Goth Night (not gay) w/ DJ Chris Ewen @10PM
SATURDAY: HEROES w/ DJ Chris Ewen @9PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Bruins vs Rangers @7PM || Celtics vs Warriors @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Bar and kitchen open
SATURDAY: Celtics vs Raptors @5PM
NFL Playoffs Jaguars vs Chiefs @4:30PM || Giants vs Eagles @8PM
SUNDAY: Bruins vs Sharks @7PM
NFL Playoffs Bengals vs Bills @3PM || Cowboys vs 49ers @6:30PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events / Nights

THURSDAY: HomoErratic: Comedy Show at Club Cafe @7PM

THURSDAY: Shangela Fully Lit Tour very few seats remain at Wilbur @8PM

Thursday Night Pick Up Ice Skating

THURSDAY: Boston Pride Hockey Thursday Night Pick-Up Skate in Cambridge @9PM

THURSDAY: Thirsty Thursgay is at Game On! @9PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

ManRay Nightclub

THURSDAY: (NEW GAY NIGHT) Campus 19+ Nights at ManRay @10PM

FRIDAY: (NEW MONTHLY LESBIAN PARTY) Aura at the Crystal Ballroom / Davis Square @9PM

FRIDAY & SATURDAY: SIX: The Unauthorized Dragsical at Club Cafe @7:30PM

SATURDAY: (NEW LOCATION) HEROES at ManRay @9PM

SATURDAY: DJ Junior & DJ BTO at The Volcano Room in Revere @9PM

SUNDAY: SIP Tea Dance w/ DJ Brian Halligan at Cantab Lounge @6PM

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Biscuits & Belles Drag Brunch
Saturday at 11AM
Loretta’s Last Call

Rent: The Drag Brunch (SOLD OUT)
Saturday @11AM
Summer Shack

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

DragTease: Dua Lipa vs. Ariana Grande
Sunday @11AM
Lansdowne Pub

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

I love this photograph which suggests it dates back to the late 19th / early 20th century. Their synchonized pose with left legs crossed, hands in each others and pipes, cigarettes (or whatever that is) justting off to their left is picture perfect.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

LGBTQ Night Life Events announces new space for Boston’s queer women and non-binary LGBTQ+ community

LGBTQ Nightlife Events is a Boston-based organization hosts monthly and bi-monthly LGBTQ events including, Issa Vibe: QTBIPOC Mixers, O Baile Funk LGBTQ, Queer EMO Night Pity Party, and Sapphic Nights.

Earlier this month, the organizations shared that they had secured a dedicated space to host their parties and will be announcing more details about the new LGBTQ+ bar at their Sapphic Nights party on Saturday, January 28th at The House of Blues.

The space, Dani’s Queer Bar, will be open to all but dedicated to and for Boston’s queer women and non-binary LGBTQ+ community. For more information about this new queer venue you can attend their next party later this month and / or you can follow the Instagram account, Dani’s Queer Bar 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️.

Purchase Tickets to Sapphic Nights January 28th Party

About Sapphic Nights
Sapphic Nights is a bimonthly dance party that has been hosted at The Good Life, since at least the fall of 2021 when I first learned about it. The announcement of a new, dedicated space for LGBTQ Nightlife Events and their Saphhic Nights parties couldn’t be better timed since the host space for these parties, The Good Life, closed its doors in December 2022.

Men in kilts

I’m sure nobody will be surprised to learn this kilt was designed by Rufskin, a lifestyle brand designed for and marketed to the gay community.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

Thank you for stopping by and checking out this calorie free mancandy.

Scruffy Sunday

Time to wake up and get out of bed. Have a great day.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

ManRay reopens in Cambridge tonight

ManRay will bring back their weekly Campus gay night each Thursday

ManRay, was a fun, popular bar in Central Square that opened in 1983 and closed in 2005 to make space for a new condominium development. Each Thursday ManRay became “Campus” and catered to the LGBTQ+ community. It was on a Thursday night in January 1999 that I met my partner at Campus.

I was sad to see this bar close and in the years that followed I repeatedly (hopefully) wrote about rumors that it would reopen. I first wrote about it in 2013 and again last summer. Each time the rumors while credible resulted in nothing but resounding silence as the rumored date of opening would come and go. Imagine my surprise when last night, seemingly out of the blue, The Boston Globe publishes, ManRay, legendary Cambridge nightclub that closed in 2005 will reopen Saturday.

According to Vanyaland, which initially broke the story about ManRay’s reopening, the venue will follow a similar weekly schedule that the original nightclub hosted from Wednesday to Saturday, with a nightly curfew of 2 a.m. and an age entry policy of 19+ at the door. Wednesday will resurrect the goth party Crypt; Thursday revisits the Campus gay night; Friday returns its fetish-themed industrial night; and Saturday celebrates Heroes, DJ Chris Ewen’s new wave and electro party that was previously held at nearby Sonia.

The new space will also have a stage to accommodate bands and artists (perhaps a new drag show or two could be in its future or a new home for Ryan Landry and his misfit performers – who can say), but Ewen said in Vanyaland that ManRay’s main purpose will be to provide people with a nightclub they can come to and enjoy.

ManRay / Campus
40 Prospect Street | Central Square
www.manraynightclub.com

Saturday morning coffee

Enjoy your morning cup of joe.

Furry Friday

Jens Belacqua, jensdefries

Thank Gawd It’s Furry Friday (TGIFF).

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party 8PM & FUZZ w/ DJ Bruce Derfler and Brent Covington @10PM
SATURDAY: Dance your ass off with music by DJ Wayne Michael @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

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THURSDAY: Taco Thursday w/ Pride Sports (come and get’em) 5PM-10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party w/ Harlow Havoc @8PM & Friday Feels w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Mizery Loves Company Drag Brunch (reservations req’d, here)

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Bruins vs Kraken @7PM || Celtics vs Nets @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Bar and kitchen open
SATURDAY: Celtics vs Hornets @7PM || Bruins vs. Islanders @7:30PM
NFL Wild Card Seahawks vs 49ers @4:30PM || Chargers vs Jaguars @8PM
SUNDAY: NFL Wild Card Dolphins vs Bills @1PM || Giants vs Vikings @4:30PM
NFL Wild Card Ravens vs Bengals @8PM
MONDAY: Bruins vs Flyers @1PM || Celtics vs Hornets @1PM
NFL Wild Card Cowboys vs Buccaneers @8PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: Dance your ass off w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY FUNDAY: Brunch (make reservation here) @11AM | Bear Tea long underwear party w/ DJ Aga @4PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ DJ Bobby Knight @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturday w/ DJ Coleslaw @10PM
SUNDAY: Kiki Tea w/ DJ Andrea Stamas @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show hosted by Crystal Crawford
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Dee De Ray
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve! Thursday w/ DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: FurBall w/ DJ Hector Fonseca @10PM
SUNDAY: MLK Sunday w/ DJ Ben Bakson at Club Royale @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Bruins vs Kraken @7PM || Celtics vs Nets @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Bar and kitchen open
SATURDAY: Celtics vs Hornets @7PM || Bruins vs. Islanders @7:30PM
NFL Wild Card Seahawks vs 49ers @4:30PM || Chargers vs Jaguars @8PM
SUNDAY: NFL Wild Card Dolphins vs Bills @1PM || Giants vs Vikings @4:30PM
NFL Wild Card Ravens vs Bengals @8PM
MONDAY: Bruins vs Flyers @1PM || Celtics vs Hornets @1PM
NFL Wild Card Cowboys vs Buccaneers @8PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Koris Drag Race – Doors open @6PM show starts @7PM at Club Cafe

THURSDAY: History Project Presents Homo Novus Zoom event @7PM

THURSDAY: Thirsty Thursgay is at Game On! @9PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

SATURDAY: Issa Vibe Boston QTBIPOC at Vera’s in Somerville @10PM

SATURDAY: Pity Party – Queer EMO Night at Union Tavern in Somerville @9PM

SUNDAY: Day Retreat for Men: Movement, Meditation & Mindfulness, Yoga w/ Chuck (Tix Req’d)

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Selena Drag Brunch
Saturday @11AM
Summer Shack

DRAGtacular Brunch: I love the 90s!
Saturday @12PM
Laugh Boston

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

DragTease: Burlesque Brunch
Sunday @11AM
Lansdowne Pub

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

I haven’t a clue when these two guys may have cuddled up next to each other to pose for this photograph. I’m wondering if anyone can date this based on their attire?

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Temptation Tuesday

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

Anyone know who this handsome guy is? What a piece of mancandy and hope this makes you smile.