Category Archives: Gay

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“Tres Amigas”

Men in kilts

It has been a while since I last posted a photo of Finlay Wilson. Always in a kilt and in some sort of crazy yoga pose, I feel like I could easily post a photo of him every week. You can find out more about Finlay on his website, finlay-wilson.com.

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Monday morning mancandy

This is what I like to call “gymspiration”.

Scruffy Sunday

Looks like these two are ready to start their morning. Have a great day.

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Saturday morning coffee

Much thanks to Michael for sending me this week’s Saturday morning coffee. You can find the unedited version of this photo, which is too explicit for my pg-13 blog on the NSFW Twitter account @meninloveza.

Furry Friday

Say hello to American born actor, Sachin Bhatt. He makes for a wonderful Furry Friday.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston. Support these gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

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FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party w/ Harlow Havoc @8PM & Friday Feels w/ Twisted Gleam @10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdae Wig Party w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Pop Star Brunch feat Miley Cyrus hits w/ host Harlow Havoc 11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Red Sox play Blue Jays @3PM | Bruins play Sabres @7PM
FRIDAY: Red Sox play Orioles @7PM | Bruins play Maple Leafs @7PM
SATURDAY: Red Sox play Orioles @7PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM | NBA Playoffs: Celtics host Bucks @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: TRL w/ DJ Begbick & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Andrea Stamas @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Tea w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @6PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ VJ Ryan Grow @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch @11AM & Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray 
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: Dance Party w/ Mexican Producer & DJ Isaac Escalante @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Red Sox play Blue Jays @3PM | Bruins play Sabres @7PM
FRIDAY: Red Sox play Orioles @7PM | Bruins play Maple Leafs @7PM
SATURDAY: Red Sox play Orioles @7PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM | NBA Playoffs: Celtics host Bucks @1PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: The Larger Conversation: The Lens of Black & Queer Photography at The Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum @7PM

THURSDAY: Queer Qomedy Hour with Sam Morison at White Bull Tavern Comedy Club @8PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe @10PM

FRIDAY: Queer Comedy Lab (an improv experience) at Jacques Underground @7PM & 9:30PM

SATURDAY: Stonewall Dragtacular Competition (fundraiser) at Legacy @6:30PM

SATURDAY: Boom Saturday Latin Night returns to the Volcano room @9PM

SUNDAY: Bears, Brews & Boys w/ DJ Aga at Dorchester Brewing Co @4PM

SUNDAY: Leather Penitence leather / fetish attire is strongly encouraged doors open @9PM at Phoenix Landing

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Biscuits & Belles Drag Brunch
Saturday @12PM
Loretta’s Last Call on Lansdowne St.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Thank You Very Brunch w/ host Cherry Lemonade
Sunday @12PM
Castle Island Brewing Co. – Southie

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

Much thanks to the Twitter account @oldmasc for initially sharing this fantastic photo. I’m assuming this dates back to the 1970s or early 1980s. Can anyone offer insight on when you think this was taken?

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Men in kilts

Photo of Eric Murdoch a.k.a. “the Tartan Viking” who you can also follow on IG here.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

It’s a twinky Monday.

Scruffy Sunday

Say good morning to Paul Wagner.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

Anyone know who this coffee enthusiast is?

Furry Friday

Thank God It’s Furry Friday, and thank you to Fearsome Beard blog for posting this handsome guy. Anyone recognize him and know who he is?

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston. Support these gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Special PAX East Trivia Night @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR Finale viewing party @8PM & DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: PAX East closing party: Drag Show followed by music by DJ Scott Helms @8PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

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FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party w/ Harlow Havoc @8PM & Friday Feels w/ Twisted Gleam @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch 11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Red Sox play Blue Jays @1:30PM | Bruins play Penguins @7PM
FRIDAY: Red Sox play Rays @7PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Rangers @3PM | Red Sox play Rays @6PM | Celtics play Nets @7:30PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM | Red Sox play Rays @1PM | Bruins play Canadiens @7PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: TRL w/ DJ Begbick & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Tea w/ DJ Aga @6PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ VJ Ryan Grow @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturday Obsession a Fetish w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch @11AM & Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray 
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: Furball Glow Underwear Dance Party w/ DJ Isis Muritech @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Red Sox play Blue Jays @1:30PM | Bruins play Penguins @7PM
FRIDAY: Red Sox play Rays @7PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Rangers @3PM | Red Sox play Rays @6PM | Celtics play Nets @7:30PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM | Red Sox play Rays @1PM | Bruins play Canadiens @7PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Drag Bingo w/ The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence at Aeronaut Cannery @6PM

THURSDAY: Wicked Queer & Bright Lights show Flee with Professor Yassir Munif @7PM

THURSDAY: PAX East GAYmer Trivia & Social at The Alley @8PM

THURSDAY: Viva Selena! Drag Show at Club Cafe @8PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe @10PM

SATURDAY: PAX East GAYmer After Party at The Alley @8PM

SATURDAY: Catalog – Rihanna w/ host Kandi Dishe at Jacques Underground @8:30PM

SATURDAY: Boom Saturday Latin Night returns to the Volcano room @9PM

SATURDAY: Pity Party, Queer EMO Night at Union Tavern @9PM

SUNDAY: Leather Penitence leather / fetish attire is strongly encouraged doors open @9PM at Phoenix Landing

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Dragtacular Brunch
Saturday @12PM
Laugh Boston

Brunch For Your Life w/ Men of Melanin Magic
Saturday @12PM
Harp & Bard

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Brunch of Queens
Sunday @11AM
Bell in Hand Tavern

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

Ray Struble (left) and Brian McNaught (right) are Catholic midwesterners who first met in Boston and started dating in 1976. The two were active members of the national gay Catholic group, Dignity, where Brian served as the organization’s social director. Brian has gone on to write twelve books on diversity training and LGBTQ+ issues.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos