Category Archives: Gay

Saturday morning coffee

I normally take my coffee black, but I think I’d like to start taking it with Diego Rodriguez Doig. Unsure about the drink he has in front of him but the extra cup in front would work just fine for me. Have a great day and enjoy the weekend.

Furry Friday

Thank god it’s Furry Friday. Have a great weekend everyone.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Men of Melanin Magic & Gay Mafia Boston host Bussdown Fridays @Legacy

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party at 7PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK at10PM
SATURDAY: Underbear with DJ Taffy at 9PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke at 8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc at 8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam and host Penny Tentiary at 10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Aga at 10PM
SUNDAY: Pop Brunch: Britney Spears w/ host Harlow Havoc starts at 11AM

Cathedral Station Watch Buccaneers play the Patriots Sunday at 8PM

Club CafeProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry starting 8/16
THURSDAY: Dance Party w/ host Mizery at 10PM, show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: Dance Party w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM
SATURDAY: DJ BEGBICK at 10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Tea Dance w/ DJ BEGBICK at 5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night – Give me back my mic w/ Ryan Grow at 8PM
SATURDAY: Flannel Frenzy Dance Party w/ DJ Joe Bermudez at 10PM
SUNDAY: Fall tea dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez at 4PM

Jacques CabaretProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! at 8PM
FRIDAY: Serve-Vivor at 7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SATURDAY: Basement Babes: Burlesque Takeover at 7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Silky Nutmeg Ganache & Mixologist Rob Botelho at 10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY at 10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Ranny at 10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candi Bar at 10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

LGBTQ+ nights & events

THURSDAY: Gays Against Guns (GAG) Meeting takes place on Zoom starting at 7PM.

THURSDAY: (NEW GAY NIGHT) That Very Thursday w/ music by DB SWEETS from The Glitter boys starting at 9PM at The W Hotel Boston

THURSDAY: Queeraoke Thursdays is back at Midway Cafe in JP every Thursday at 10PM

FRIDAY & SATURDAY: Diva Royale Drag Show Upstairs at Hennessey’s starting at 7:30PM

FRIDAY: HEROES (18+) with DJ Chris Ewen in Central Square at Sonia at 10PM

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller and host Lady German at La Makina on Revere Beach

SATURDAY: Chandler Street Block Party w/ music by Alex Costa co-hosted by Boston Alliance for Gay Sports (BAGS) and Trophy Room is from 12PM – 6PM Click the link to purchase tickets in advance

SATURDAY: Roderick Ferguson presents Man Overboard is at Club Cafe at the Moonshine Club from 7:30-8:30 PM

The Alley in Boston, gay Boston

SATURDAY: Underbear with DJ Taffy returns to The Alley this Saturday at 9PM

SATURDAY: Latin Night is at the Volcano Room at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

SATURDAY: Rocky Horror Picture Show starts at 11:59PM at the Coolidge Corner Theater in Brookline Click the link to purchase tickets

SUNDAY: Bears, Brews & Boys is hosted at Dorchester Brewing Co. alongside Pride Sports Boston from 4PM – 8PM

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12PM – 4PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

Brunch, Paint, and Drag
Sunday 3PM – 8 PM
Boston Urban Pride hosts at Fort Hill Bar & Grill

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown This Weekend

MLW Ptown, fetish, rubber, latex
Mates Leather Weekend comes to Provincetown Sept 30 – Oct 4

Thursday – Sunday, September 30 – October 4th is Mates Leather Weekend For more information about events and programming for MLW XXIV visit matesleatherweekend.com.

Vintage gay

This photo comes from the now defunct GayTwogether blog on Typepad. I love how dapper these two look as they pose looking off to their right. Any thoughts on when this may have been taken based on their clothing and hairstyle?

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Men in kilts

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Monday morning mancandy

May this week’s mancandy post distract you from the fact that it is Monday.

Mr. Boston Bear / Cub applications due Oct 4

Mr. Boston Bear / Cub competition: October 15 – 17, 2021

This year both the winner and runner-up for the titles of Mr. Boston Bear and Mr. Boston Cub will earn cash prizes ($500 and $250 respectively). The competition weekend is a friendly, fun annual event that begins on Friday, October 15th with a meet and greet at the Alley. The competition is held the following evening and victory celebrations on Sunday include brunch and the Bear Tea Dance at Club Cafe to close out the weekend of celebrations.

If you’d like to learn more about the competition and contestant requirements, visit the online application site. You can also learn more about the Mass Bears & Cubs – one of Boston’s friendliest group of guys you’ll meet by visiting, facebook.com/MassBearsAndCubs.

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

Strong and black. Exactly how I like my coffee.

Furry Friday

Thank god it’s Furry Friday. Have a great weekend everyone.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ host Dave Sawyer at 8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK at10PM
SATURDAY: DJ BEGBICK at 10PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke at 8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ your host Harlow Havoc at 8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ DJ Andrea Stamas and host Penny Tentiary at 10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes Disco Theme w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch starts at 11AM

Cathedral Station Open but no programming scheduled.

Club CafeProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry starting 8/16
THURSDAY: Weekly Dance Party w/ your host Mizery at 10PM, show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: Special Guest DJ Brian Derrick at 10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick at 10PM
SUNDAY: Throwback Tea Dance at 5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night – Give me back my mic w/ Ryan Grow at 8PM
SATURDAY: Weekly Dance Party w/ DJ Joe Bermudez at 10PM
SUNDAY: Ladies tea dance w/ Women’s Flag Football and DJ Joe Bermudez at 4PM

Jacques CabaretProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! at 8PM
FRIDAY: Serve-Vivor at 7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SATURDAY: Basement Babes: Burlesque Takeover at 7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Ginger Minj at Legacy at 10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays Unity Party w/ music by Natural Vibes & FrenchY at Legacy at 10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Chris Cox at Legacy at 10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candi Bar at 10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

LGBTQ+ nights & events

THURSDAY: Bay State Stonewall Democrats virtual pre-convention party starts at 6:30PM

THURSDAY: Dudes-N-Drag FUNdraiser for FLAG Flag Football at VENU starts at 7PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke Thursdays is back at Midway Cafe in JP every Thursday at 10PM

THURSDAY: (NEW GAY NIGHT) That Very Thursday w/ music by DB SWEETS from The Glitter boys starting at 9PM at The W Hotel Boston

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller and host Lady German at La Makina on Revere Beach

SATURDAY: NEW Brunch Up Your Life at Harp & Bard drag brunch at 11AM w/ music by BEGBICK and hosted by Men of Melanin Magic and Stonewall Sports Boston

SATURDAY: Boom Saturdays at the Volcano Room at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

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SUNDAY: AIDS Walk & Run is this Sunday at 11AM at Carson Beach

SUNDAY: Queer Me Out w/ Big Freedia at the W Hotel Boston starting at 1:30PM

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Wizard of Oz Drag Brunch
Saturday @11:00AM – 1:30PM at House of Blues

Brunch Up Your Life
Saturday 11AM @ Harp & Bard
Music by BEGBICK
Hosted by Men of Melanin Magic and Stonewall Sports Boston

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Lulus Monthly Drag Brunch
Sunday 11AM – 3PM
Hosted at Lulus in Allston

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12PM – 4PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown This Weekend

Thursday – Sunday, September 23-26th is the annual Tennessee Williams Festival For more information about this year’s shows, conversations and programming visit twptown.org.

Vintage gay

I may have posted this photo previously because it looks vaguely familiar. Anyone care to guess where this may have been taken? The attire and mustaches make me think this was taken possibly in Europe but I haven’t a clue as to where or when this week’s picture was taken.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Rocky Horror Picture Show at The Coolidge Oct 2

Tickets will sell out for the Rocky Horror Picture Show playing at The Coolidge in Brookline at 11:59PM on Saturday, October 2nd so make plans with friends and get your tickets ASAP.

Note the Coolidge’s vaccination policy: All visitors are required to show proof of full vaccination or a negative COVID test (within 72 hours) for all screenings and events at the Theatre. Visit coolidge.org/safety to learn more.

Men in kilts

Michael Stokes is masterful at creating very distracting photos.

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Monday morning mancandy

Looks like this guy may be running late. Hopefully he is working from home.