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Furry Friday

Thank goodness it’s Furry Friday.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provinceton this weekend. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

UPDATE: Trophy Room in Boston has reopened. More information here.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ host Dave Sawyer at 8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ resident DJ BEGBICK at10PM
SATURDAY: GRUNT Underbear w/ DJ Taffy at 10PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke at 8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w music by Twisted Gleam at 10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays DJ Andrea Stamas at 10PM
SUNDAY: Mizery Loves Company Drag brunch at 11AM & Tea Dance w/ DJ Brian Derrick & Mizery at 4PM

Cathedral Station Open but no programming scheduled.

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM & DJ FrenchY at 10PM, show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM
SATURDAY:  DJ BEGBICK at 10PM
SUNDAY: Throwback Tea Dance w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone at 5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night – Give me back my mic w/ Ryan Grow at 8PM
SATURDAY: The category is… dance party w/ DJ Joe Bermudez at 10PM
SUNDAY: Tiki-themed patio tea dance w/ DJ Jay Ine at 4PM

Jacques CabaretProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! at 8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Jello Wrestling at 7:30PM & 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage at 7:15 & 10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ DJ Coleslaw at Legacy at 10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY at Legacy at 10PM
SATURDAY: The New Normal w/ DJ Las Bibas from Vizcaya at Legacy at 10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess w/ DJ Richie LaDue & Coleslaw at Candi Bar at 10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

LGBTQ+ nights & events

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller and host Lady German in Revere Beach.

FRIDAY: Drag Jello Wrestling Move over WWF, Jacques presents Jello Wrestling at 7:30PM & 10PM.

gay boston, kiki beach

SATURDAY: Kiki Beach If you’re unsure where the boys go on M Street Beach, check out the map on the Kiki Beach Boston Facebook Page, but when in doubt follow the good music and speedos.

SATURDAY: Flag Flag Football Beach Bowl is taking place up on Ogunquit Beach starting at 1PM. All are welcome to play or cheer on the players. More fun and refreshments will follow.

SATURDAY: Stonewall Sports Opening Party with DJ Richie LaDue Stonewall Sports teams up with Gay Mafia Boston to celebrate the Fall kickball season. All are welcome. Doors open at 6PM.

SATURDAY: Boston Striker Soccer Summer Social is at blend on Saturday at 7PM (all welcome).

SATURDAY: Pride Sports Boston Jersey Party is at Cathedral Station starting at 8PM. While this is intended for Kickball players to pick up their team uniforms, all are welcome.

SATURDAY: GRUNT Underbear returns this Saturday with DJ Taffy at The Alley.

SATURDAY: Noche De Fuego at La Makina Night Club at Revere Beach.

SUNDAY: M Street Beach TakeOver continues each Sunday from 10AM – 5PM.

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Mizery’s Loves Company Drag Brunch
Saturday @11:00AM at blend

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Monthly Drag Brunch
Sunday seatings @11:00AM & @1:00PM at Bambara’s Backyard Patio

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown gay bars & entertainment

Ptown

For more information about live entertainment in Provincetown this week (and all month) click here. Click the links below for more information about each bar.

A House – One of Provincetown’s most popular dance clubs.

Aqua Bar – Located at the Aquarium Marketplace, with views of the harbor.

Backstreet Club – Previously Club Purgatory will NOT reopen this summer.

Buoy Bar – Located on Commercial Street at The Boatslip. It is fabulous for people watching (esp after Tea).

The Club – Lea Delaria’s supper club includes live entertainment in the lounge.

Dive Bar – Weekend piano bar at The Crown & Anchor.

Harbor Lounge – Waterfront cocktail lounge in the East End.

Little Bar – Provincetown’s oldest bar.

Macho Bar – Provincetown’s longest running leather and denim bar.

Monkey Bar – Will NOT reopen this summer.

Paramount – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is Ptown’s largest dance club.

Porchside Lounge – Located at The Gifford House.

Provincetown Brewery – Popular brew pub on Bradford Street.

Shipwreck Lounge – Located at the Brass Key Guest House.

Tin Pan Alley – This restaurant has a lively piano bar that has a friendly crowd.

The Vault – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a leather / fetish bar.

Velvet Lounge – Dance club with DJ Mark Louque spinning each Friday.

The Wave Bar – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a fun video bar.

Missing a favorite bar / club in Provincetown? Share it in the comments section. If the status of these bars / clubs change, it will be noted.

Vintage gay

If you like my weekly vintage gay posts and are on Pintrest, I suggest you follow Jeff Stookey. His account collects vintage images that you are certain to enjoy. I want to thank him for reaching out and sharing his account. Who can say for sure if these men are friends or something more. Perhaps there is more than meets the eye to their relationship. Regardless it is a great photo from the late 20s.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Trophy Room reopens today @4PM

The Trophy Room which is located at 26 Chandler Street in the StayPineapple boutique hotel (formerly the Chandler Inn) in the South End will reopen today (Wednesday, August 4th) for the first time since closing in March 2020. Today’s “soft” opening is a promising sign, but the bar will initially only be open Wednesday through Sunday (closed Monday and Tuesday).

Below are several photos of the restaurant and bar. While closed, the management team took time to update the interior giving the space a whimsical “Alice in Wonderland” vibe. New, comfortable bar and high top chairs and flooring are varying shades of white, grey and black that contrast with the satin, chartreuse used in the dining room and lounge space.

The hours of operation will change over time but initially will be Wednesday – Saturday from 4PM – 12AM and Sunday 12PM – 8PM. The management team is planning to host one drag event each week but that is contingent upon several variables. Brunch will be served all day on Sunday.

Stop by and check out the newly redesigned Trophy Room.

Men in kilts

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Monday morning mancandy

May this week’s post distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning. 

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

Everyone say hello to ROC gymnast, Artur Dalaloyan, who looks like he is really enjoying his cup of coffee. Much thanks to Joe from The Closet Professor for sharing this week’s photograph. Looking at him you’d never guess he’s the Dad of two children. Maybe that’s why he needs coffee in the morning.

Furry Friday

Thank goodness it’s Furry Friday.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

dbar patio tea dances in Dorchester

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provinceton this weekend. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ host Dave Sawyer at 8PM
FRIDAY: Resident DJ BEGBICK at10PM
SATURDAY: Guest DJ Reginald Johnson at 10PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke at 8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party w/ Harlow Havoc at 8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w Penny Tentiarya & Lily Roseat at 10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes Leggings Party w DJ Stevie Pysclone at 10PM
SUNDAY: Disco brunch at 11AM

Cathedral Station Open but no programming scheduled.

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM & DJ FrenchY at 10PM, special show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick at 10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Tea Dance w/ DJ Begbick at 5PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke Night – Give me back my mic w/ Ryan Grow at 8PM
SATURDAY: The category is… dance party at 10PM
SUNDAY: Tea & Toga patio tea dance w/ DJ Susan Esthera at 4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! at 8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by Destiny at 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by Dee Dee de Ray at 10PM
SUNDAY: Christmas in July at 3PM – 6PM & Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ DJ Coleslaw at Legacy at 10PM
FRIDAY: NEW GAY NIGHT Bussdown Fridays “Montero Madness” w/ DJ FrenchY at Legacy at 10PM
SATURDAY: The New Normal w/ DJ Andrea Stamas at Legacy at 10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess w/ DJ Richie LaDue & Coleslaw at Candi Bar at 10PM

Trophy Room will be reopening for business in August.

LGBTQ+ nights & events

THURSDAY: LesbianNight Life Moonlit Pool Party starts at 8PM in Randolph (at the former R.C.C.)

THURSDAY: Pride Sports Boston “Free Agent” Social starts at 8PM at The Andi in South Bay

FRIDAY: Join DJ Michael Giller and Lady German at the Volcano Room in Revere Beach.

gay boston, kiki beach

SATURDAY: Kiki Beach If you’re unsure where the boys go on M Street Beach, check out the map on the Kiki Beach Boston Facebook Page, but when in doubt follow the good music and speedos.

SATURDAY: Extravaganza Night w/ DJ Junior at La Makina Night Club at Revere Beach.

SUNDAY: M Street Beach TakeOver continues each Sunday from 10AM – 5PM.

SUNDAY: T-Dance with DJ Alex Nova & Santiago House at La Makina in Revere.

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown gay bars & entertainment

Ptown

For more information about live entertainment in Provincetown this week (and all month) click here. Click the links below for more information about each bar.

A House – One of Provincetown’s most popular dance clubs.

Aqua Bar – Located at the Aquarium Marketplace, with views of the harbor.

Backstreet Club – Previously Club Purgatory will NOT reopen this summer.

Buoy Bar – Located on Commercial Street at The Boatslip. It is fabulous for people watching (esp after Tea).

The Club – Lea Delaria’s supper club includes live entertainment in the lounge.

Dive Bar – Weekend piano bar at The Crown & Anchor.

Harbor Lounge – Waterfront cocktail lounge in the East End.

Little Bar – Provincetown’s oldest bar.

Macho Bar – Provincetown’s longest running leather and denim bar.

Monkey Bar – Will NOT reopen this summer.

Paramount – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is Ptown’s largest dance club.

Porchside Lounge – Located at The Gifford House.

Provincetown Brewery – Popular brew pub on Bradford Street.

Shipwreck Lounge – Located at the Brass Key Guest House.

Tin Pan Alley – This restaurant has a lively piano bar that has a friendly crowd.

The Vault – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a leather / fetish bar.

Velvet Lounge – Dance club with DJ Mark Louque spinning each Friday.

The Wave Bar – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a fun video bar.

Missing a favorite bar / club in Provincetown? Share it in the comments section. If the status of these bars / clubs change, it will be noted.

Vintage gay

This week’s vintage gay photo comes from the Twitter account @oldmasc. Just a heads up if you want to click on the link – this is a NSFW Twitter account so don’t say I didn’t warn you! Thanks to the note at the bottom of the photo we can clearly see that the photograph was taken in 1936. Does anyone recognize where this may have been taken? When I zoom in on the image I cannot make out the boardwalk signs but I’m wondering if anyone has a guess.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Men in kilts

This week’s photo comes from the Facebook group, Men who like men in kilts. If you’re a fan of my weekly Men in Kilts post and you have a Facebook account you may want to consider joining this friendly group.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

May this week’s post distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning. 

Scruffy Sunday

Meet this week’s Scruffy Sunday couple. I stumbled upon them on the IG account @Intergaycial. Piero and Randy met on Tinder in Milan last year and have been inseparable since then. Click on the link to the IG account for more adorable photos of these two men. I thought this photo made for the perfect Scruffy Sunday post. WDYT?

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

Much thanks to Seduced by the New for sharing this video from Instagram. I’ve never shared a video for this weekly post, but exceptions can be made.