Saturday morning coffee

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Saturday morning comics

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ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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5th annual Heels for Hope will be on Monday, June 4th

BAGLY, Boston PrideMark your calendars because one of the best events the week of Boston Pride, Heels for Hope, has announced that the 2018 event will take place at Club Cafe Monday, June 4th.

I’ll be sad to miss this year’s event – I will be in NYC for a far less fabulous work event, but I hope you will attend the event and head over to Dorothy’s Boutique on Mass Ave and pick up a new pair of pumps to celebrate.

You can stay up to date on all the latest news regarding this year’s event by liking the Heels for Hope Facebook page. If you don’t have a Facebook account or rarely visit it, no worries as you know I’ll be writing about the event to keep you up to date, HeelsForHopeBoston.

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Furry Friday

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BosGuy brain teaser

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Each Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser:  I start with M and end with X. I have a never ending amount of letters. What am I?

HINT: This may be more difficult for Millennials and Gen-Z to figure out.

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

There is a lot happening this weekend in Boston including a new underwear dance night from Mass Bears & Cubs called “Bears Underground” that will take place the second Friday of each month downstairs at Jacques.

If you’re looking for something a little more cultural, it is Opening Night for the Boston Ballet on Friday night  and there is no shortage of great local theater shows.

Lastly there are two very worthy events that raise funds for our community that you may want to attend to show your support. The first is the Fenway Health 25th Anniversary“Men’s Event” on Saturday night and the second is the much less formal, Nunch: The Nun Brunch 2018 , hosted by the  Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence on Sunday at Club Cafe.

Fenway Health Men’s Event is Saturday, March 10th

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Gendersoup: Cruising & Consent is free discussion for anyone who likes to attend on Friday from 6-8PM in Cambridge

Parts In Suite (Opening Night) is on Friday and features the ballet’s latest production at the Boston Opera House in Boston

Bears Underground is a new underwear dance party taking place the second Friday of each month downstairs at Jacques in Boston

Foxy Presents: Wayne Manor Come out to The Oberon for this Batman-themed masquerade party with performances in Cambridge

FUZZ Celebrate this monthly dance party as they celebrate 3 years of FUZZ on Friday night at The Alley Bar in Boston

gay bostonGrunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Fenway Health “Men’s Event” will take place on Saturday starting at 6PM at the Boston Copley Marriott

Latin Friday is upstairs at Machine every Friday starting at 10PM in Boston

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Strapped is a bimonthly dance party with DJ Jim Clerkin at Machine in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

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Nunch: The Nun Brunch 2018 Come join the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and their fabulous celebration on Sunday from 11am-2pm where they honor this year’s non-profit beneficiaries – at Club Cafe in Boston

Bear Brunch is back at The Trophy Room once again starting at 1PM in Boston

*sip* is on Sunday and this week includes the return of Dusty Moorehead-Malletti as guest performer at Jacques starting in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Zeitgeist Stage presents: Steve

Zeitgeist Stage, Mark Gerrard, bosartsLast weekend I was able to see, Steve, a play from Boston’s Zeitgeist Stage. The show’s simple staging and cast of six makes the small theater seem even more intimate. When I arrived I didn’t know quite what to expect, and I was pleasantly surprised by the witty writing, which is chalk-full of Broadway musical zingers and references.

The play centers on Steven, a former Broadway chorus boy and waiter turned stay-at-home dad, who finds his relationship on the rocks. While fingers are pointed and accusations are made, friends close to the couple become entwined in the drama. The show has several funny moments and a surprisingly touching ending that left my friend who came to the show with me a tad misty eyed.

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Actors Alex Jacobs, Jenny Reagan, and Mike Nilsson in Zeitgeist Stage Company’s production of STEVE by Mark Gerrard || Photo credit: David J. Miller

The play runs for 100 minutes and does not have an intermission. This is a great show to see with friends and fortunately tickets remain. All shows take place here in the South End at the Plaza Black Box Theater at the Boston Center for the Arts. Performances run through March 24th Wednesday thru Sunday and are a very affordable, so go check it out and let me know what you think.

Get Your Tickets To See Steve

Vintage gay

gay coupleNo idea when or where this photo was taken but I love the safari hat (is that what it is called) in the guys hand and it makes me wonder where these two guys were canoodling (and when). Any guesses?

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Get your tickets to Boston Ballet’s Parts In Suite

The Boston Ballet’s spring season is opening later this week with Parts In Suite, a program of works by three very prolific choreographers. For those who may not be as familiar with ballet, programs like Parts In Suite provide an excellent introduction. This particular evening at the ballet will show three different styles that may challenge preconceptions you may have about modern ballet and impress you with the Boston Ballet’s grace and athleticism.

The program opens with Jorma Elo’s Bach Cello Suites and a live musical
accompaniment by cellist Sergey Antonov. In Creases marks the Company’s debut in a work by New York City Ballet Resident Choreographer Justin Peck. And lastly, we get to enjoy the ongoing with William Forsythe, when the Boston Ballet presents the Company premiere of hisPas/Parts 2018.

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Rory Hohenstein dances Justin Peck’s In Creases Photo by Cheryl Mann, courtesy The Joffrey Ballet

Parts In Suite runs March 9–April 7, at the Boston Opera House. Tickets are currently on sale so don’t delay and come out to support Boston’s arts community.

More information and tickets here!

This week on Instagram: gaypopbuzz

handsome, hunkThis is the Instagram account of a gay blog I like to read periodically which has  penchant for posting photos like the one above so it isn’t exactly a deep account if you get my drift but it is definitely going to liven up your feed if you’re looking for some pg-13 posts to add to your feed.

My only knock on the account is that it lacks any kind of diversity (race, body, etc…) but considering a lot of their photos have worked their way into some of my weekly mancandy blog posts I probably shouldn’t throw too many stones.

Follow him on Instagram here, instagram.com/gaypopbuzz.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

three men in a tub, funny, fun, humorHopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up a caption or two of your own. Leave a witty or funny caption as a comment for this post, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

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Boston’s FLAG flag football

sports, sports humor, football, gayEach Tuesday I feature a different LGBTQ club or organization to help connect gay men living in the Boston area. One such group you may not know about is the oddly named, FLAG flag football.

This recreational football club plays on Saturday mornings and welcomes everyone regardless of your skill level. The league continues to grow and has more than 24 teams and 300 participants. Aside from playing flag football the organization is very social, hosting informal parties, meeting at local bars and volunteering their time. Some of the guys have also enjoyed making videos which I’ve happily shared here on my blog –  like this one from several years back.

If you’re interested, note that spring registration is next Monday, on March 12. For more information visit their website at flagflagfootball.com, reach out to them on their Facebook page or email, registration@flagflagfootball.com.

I want to feature the LGBTQ groups and organizations that help people connect and enrich Boston’s gay life. If you’d like to have your club / team featured, please email me at bosguymail@gmail.com or via FB messenger.

New dance party “Bears Underground” at Jacques

Bear Tea Dance, gay bostonMass Bears and Cubs is hosting a new dance party this Friday at Jacques. The dance party will be hosted downstairs at Jacques the second Friday of every month. Bears, cubs and the men who love them are welcome to come and  dance to music from DJ Chris Racine, the resident DJ of Crown & Anchor & Fireman’s Ball in Provincetown during Bear Week.

The dance party starts this Friday, March 9th at 8PM but closes early at Midnight. There is a $10 cover at the door. Mass Bears and Cubs will be on hand to host  a clothes check so you can dance in your underwear.

Temptation Tuesday

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Taste of the South End is March 20th

Taste of the South End

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AIDS Action Taste of the South End
Tuesday, March 20, 2018  ||  Tickets start at $150.00
Boston Center for the Arts, 6:00 – 9:00 PM

This is easily the best tasting event of the season and one any foodie should not miss. Sergio and I have been attending this event for so long I can’t recall when we started going but it is truly one of my favorite charity events to attend.

A partial list of participating eateries includes Aquitaine bar á Vin Bistrot, Area Four, Banyan Bar + Refuge, Bar Mezzana, Barcelona South End, Blackbird Doughnuts, Boston Chops, Cinquecento Roman Trattoria, Five Horses South, Flour Bakery + Cafe, Formaggio Kitchen South End, Frenchie, Gaslight Brasserie, Haley House Bakery Cafe, Lion’s Tail, Masa, Metropolis Café, Meyers + Chang, MIDA, Petit Robert, The Elephant Walk South End, Stephi’s on Tremont, PICO, The Gallows and Mistral.

Tickets have been on sales since late last year so if you’ve yet to purchase your tickets don’t delay since the event generally sells out before the night of the event. For more information visit tasteofthesouthend.org.