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What to do this weekend

ChristmasThis weekend happens to be Holly Folly Weekend in Ptown, but if you’re staying in Boston head over to check out the 4th Annual SoWa Winter Festival, which runs through the weekend or enjoy a little holiday cultcha and get tickets to Boston’s naughtiest holiday tradition by seeing The Slutcracker  or if you love great music check out the Lyric Stage production of Breath & Imaginationwhich opens on Friday; of course there are plenty more options – just check out what I’ve shared below.

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Holly Folly weekend starts Friday

4th Annual SoWa Winter Festival is Friday through Sunday at the Power Station at 540 Harrison Avenue from 5-9PM in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

The Slutcracker (Opening Weekend) is one of Boston’s most wicked holiday traditions – if you’ve never been check it out – shows run through the holiday season at the Somerville Theatre

Breath & Imagination (Opening Night) is produced by the Lyric Stage Company and will run through December 23rd in the Back Bay

Fur-Turnity hosted by Mass Bears and Cubs is the 5th Friday of every month downstairs at Jacques – doors open at 9PM in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Blend Saturdays with DJ Aga bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

EXTRA Featuring Cynthia Lee Fontaine has a meet and greet with this former RPDR contestant starting at 11PM on Saturday with the full show to follow – doors at Machine open at 10PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

A John Waters Christmas (at Berklee Dec. 6th)

John Waters will be in Boston next Thursday on December 6th at the Berklee Performance Center. While there is no detail around the duration or content, one can assume John Waters will be candid, gross and hilarious – sometimes all three at the same time. Anyone who is a fan of Waters’ twisted sense of humor should rush to get tickets before the show sells out.

A John Waters Christmas
Thursday, December 6th – 8PM
Berklee Performance Center

What to do this week: November 26 – December 2

Temptation Tuesday, gay, shirtless, hunkThe 2018 holiday season is in full effect and while life can get quite hectic, take time to enjoy the time of year, make plans to go out with friends or perhaps meet and make new friends. There are a few events happening this week that I’d like to give a shout out to including this Tuesday’s Mass Bears and Cubs SocialWednesday check out the Gay Secrets of the MFA tours at 6:15PM and 8:00PM and on Thursday is a  GayDodgeball Pick Up Game.

This weekend happens to be Holly Folly Weekend in Ptown, but if you’re staying in Boston head over to check out the 4th Annual SoWa Winter Festival or enjoy a little holiday cultcha and get tickets to Boston’s naughtiest holiday tradition by seeing The Slutcracker (Opening Weekend).

Mass Bears Social is at Cathedral Station on Tuesday

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Boston Gay Men’s Book Club meets this Monday to discuss Kens a new release that has been described as a “queer take” on the movie Heather’s starting at 7PM at The Trident Booksellers & Cafe

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Ask & Tell: The History & Personal Stories of LGBTQ Veterans is brought to you by Speak OUT and The History Project on Tuesday from 6-8PM at the Boston Public Library in Copley

Mass Bears and Cubs Social check out this very social and equally friendly group of men on Tuesday at Cathedral Station from 7:30 – 9:30PM for food and drink in Boston

gay boston, jacques cabaret, boston drag sceneDrag Gauntlet Cycle 1 Finale: The 4 HorseWOMEN of the Gauntlet is from 7:30 – 930PM at Jacques Cabaret in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Secrets of the MFA courtesy of Oscar Wilde Tours is this Wednesday with two tours this week, starting at 6:15PM and one starting at 8:00PM

Siren Trivia is every Wednesday at 9PM at the Trophy Room bar in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Holly Folly Weekend kicks off on Thursday and runs through Sunday in Provincetown

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Cambridge Center Foyer in Kendall Square

Graffiti Retrospective: 1980 to 2018 hosted by The History Project on Thursday from 6-8PM at their space in the South End

Cocktails with Guys (New Member Mixer) this also happens to be their first mixer and all are welcome to join this friendly group on Thursday starting at 7PM at Wink & Nod in the South End

GayDodgeball Pick Up Game is this Thursday from 7:30 – 9PM in Dorchester (pick up game is just $5) – click the link for more details

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

SWEAT is hosted by Mr. New England Leather, Eric Alden, at Machine on Thursday starting at 10PM in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays presents: Sissy That Walk weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston

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The Slutcracker opens this weekend and runs through December

THE WEEKEND

4th Annual SoWa Winter Festival is Friday through Sunday at the Power Station at 540 Harrison Avenue from 5-9PM in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

The Slutcracker (Opening Weekend) is one of Boston’s most wicked holiday traditions – if you’ve never been check it out – shows run through the holiday season at the Somerville Theatre

Fur-Turnity hosted by Mass Bears and Cubs is the 5th Friday of every month downstairs at Jacques – doors open at 9PM in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Blend Saturdays with DJ Aga bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

gay boston, cynthia fontaine, machine bostonEXTRA Featuring Cynthia Lee Fontaine has a meet and greet with this former RPDR contestant starting at 11PM on Saturday with the full show to follow – doors at Machine open at 10PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Saturday morning coffee

superman, handsome, hunkApparently even Superman needs a little boost to get started in the morning.

What to do this weekend

gay bostonStill suffering from a food coma? Head out to one of these dance parties this weekend and burn off some of those calories. FASCINATION Friday is back this weekend as is MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy on Saturday in a new venue at the Middle East. On Sunday enjoy the music of James Cerne at LEFTOVERS Tea Dance Presented by *sip* at Jacques.

gay bostonAnnual Day After Thanksgiving Drag Bingo Skip the mall and shop small in Ptown and then have a ball at DRAG BINGO from 3:30-5:30 at the Crown and Anchor in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

The Decades Dance Party at dbar celebrates the 2000s starting at 10PM on Saturday (no cover) in Dorchester

muscle otter bear daddy, gay bostonMOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy returns on Saturday at the Middle East in Central Square in Cambridge

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Queer Boston Board Gamers meet up on Saturday from 1 – 6PM for the reopening of Lucky Goblin in Quincy

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Brunch of Queens is on Sunday starting at 11AM at the Bell In Hand in Boston

james cerne, jacques, gay bostonLEFTOVERS Tea Dance Presented by *sip* is at Jacques underground on Sunday from 6-10PM with DJs James Cerne, Adam F and Bricklayer

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Take CMI’s annual LGBT travel survey

travel tipsCommunity Marketing Insights 23rd Annual LGBT Travel survey is live and they are looking for members of the LGBT community to share with them your travel preferences. The survey will remain open through Saturday, December 15th.

Your responses are all kept anonymous and aggregated to better understand LGBT traveler trends and preferences.  It took me a little more than 5 minutes to fill out the survey

www.LGBTQsurvey.com 

About CMI: In 1992, Thomas Roth and David Paisley conceived of the idea of forming a marketing research company to help companies and brands better understand the emerging LGBTQ community and include it as a viable market segment.  More than 25 years later, CMI is no the world’s leading and most-respected LGBTQ research firm.

What to do this week: November 19-25

For all of you who may be traveling home to see family for the Thanksgiving holiday, I want to wish you a safe and relaxing trip. For all of you flying into Boston or who will be staying in town, I wanted to share with you where to go and what you can do if you need some space from all that family time.

There is no shortage of options on Wednesday “Thanksgiving Eve” so if you’re looking to get out and socialize or get a jump on all those holiday calories by burning them off on the dance floor check out one of these parties, Thanksgiving Eve Black Out Party at CC, dbar 90’s Thanksgiving Eve2 Gay 2 Function drag party is 18+ at Machine and Thanksgiving Eve Bash at Icon. On Thanksgiving night your best bet is to head over to CC for #YAASSS! Thanksgivingwith DJ BEGBICK.

gay boston, dj begbickMONDAY – THURSDAY

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Opus Affair Monthly Cocktail Social is hosted by this friendly social group of young professionals on Monday at City Winery (all are welcome) at 6PM

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

gay boston, milky way cafeDirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

dbar 90’s Thanksgiving Eve will have you dancing to your favorite songs from the decade, starting at 10PM in Dorchester

2 Gay 2 Function 18+ Daniel Franzese from Mean Girls hosts this annual Drag Show which has a Mean Girls theme at Machine on Wednesday in Boston 

gay mafia, gay boston, iconThanksgiving Eve Bash is hosted by the Gay Mafia at ICON on Wednesday, starting at 10PM in Boston

Thanksgiving Eve Black Out Party is at Club Cafe starting at 10PM on Wednesday in Boston

Siren Trivia is every Wednesday at 9PM at the Trophy Room bar in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

#YAASSS! Thanksgiving with hosts Penny Tentiary & Yune Neptune, guest and resident DJ BEGBICK on Thursday from 10PM-1AM at Club Cafe in Boston

THE WEEKEND

Annual Day After Thanksgiving Drag Bingo Skip the mall and shop small in Ptown and then have a ball at DRAG BINGO from 3:30-5:30 at the Crown and Anchor in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

The Decades Dance Party at dbar celebrates the 2000s starting at 10PM on Saturday (no cover) in Dorchester

muscle otter bear daddy, gay bostonMOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy returns on Saturday at the Middle East in Central Square in Cambridge

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Queer Boston Board Gamers meet up on Saturday from 1 – 6PM for the reopening of Lucky Goblin in Quincy

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Brunch of Queens is on Sunday starting at 11AM at the Bell In Hand in Boston

james cerne, jacques, gay bostonLEFTOVERS Tea Dance Presented by *sip* is at Jacques underground on Sunday from 6-10PM with DJs James Cerne, Adam F and Bricklayer

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Saturday morning coffee

daddy, mature men, hairy, furry, handsome, hunkWho wouldn’t be happy to have this handsome guy bring you a coffee in bed?

What to do this weekend

There is plenty happening in and around Boston this weekend. For those of you heading to Ptown for the  6th Annual Mr. New England Leather Weekend have fun and for those of you slapping on your tuxedo to attend the 37th Annual HRC dinner on Saturday night have a lot of fun.

For the rest of us, here are some eventss that I think you may enjoy. If you’re looking for fun outside of a bar check out Find Your Tribe: Short Film Program hosted by Wicked Queer & Boston Jewish Film Festivals on Saturday at the MFA in Boston on Friday. Alternatively if you need a good laugh head over to Penny 4 Ya Thoughts?  at Jacques for some painfully funny dating stories.

There are a ridiculous number of dance parties (check’em out below), but as a child of the 80s I have to give a shout out to dbar’s Decades Dance Party featuring music of the 1980s on Saturday. On Sunday go check out Destiny at Carrrie Nation Cocktail Lounge for their Drag Me To Brunch party.

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6th Annual Mr. New England Leather Weekend is back at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown with the title winner will go on to compete at International Mister Leather (IML) in Chicago in May 2019

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Penny 4 Ya Thoughts?  watch your favorite local comedians share their worst dating stories. In between the show, we swipe on Tinder (Grindr, Bumble, etc.) to help a comedian AND an audience member find a match. Hosted by comedian and dating expert Penny Oswin – this Friday from 7:30 – 10PM in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Stuffed Bear – PreThanksgiving Tea Dance is from 4-8PM on Saturday at Mainestreet up in Ogunquit

37th Annual HRC New England dinner is one of the largest LGBTQ fund raising events in New England and this year will be no exception with 1,000 people expected to attend on Saturday in Boston

Find Your Tribe: Short Film Program hosted by Wicked Queer & Boston Jewish Film Festivals on Saturday at the MFA in Boston

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

The Decades Dance Party features the music of the 1980s Can you feel the retro vibe? 80s music will be playing all night at dbar with DJ Jay Ine, on Saturday startinga at 10PM in Dorchester

gay bostonDONT ASK DONT TELL: Dollywood w/ Special Guest Holly Water is this Saturday at Great Scott (doors open at 10PM) in Allston

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Night Out at Blend with DJ Aga is on Saturday starting at 10PM in Dorchester

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Babes Brunch starts at 1PM at the Trophy Room in Boston

Drag Me To Brunch Drag yourself to Carrie Nation Cocktail Club and check-out what all the buzz is about  starting at 11AM; the drag show runs from 2pm-4pm(ish) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Boston Gay Men’s book club is reading Kens

Boston Book Festival, BBFHeterosexuality is so last season in Raziel Reid’s book, Kens, which was published this past September.

The book has been described as a gay Heathers meets Mean Girls. Kens is a about the three Kens of Willows High who rule the school and Tommy Rawlins who so desperately wants to be accepted by the Kens. This is a funny and provocative story about identity and acceptance.

Boston’s Gay Men’s Book Club will meet Monday, November 26th at The Trident Cafe & Booksellers on Newbury Street in the Back Bay to dish on this novel. All are welcome. For more information click on the link below.

Boston Gay Men’s Book Club
Kens by Raziel Reid
Monday, November 26th at 7PM

If you’re open to supporting local bookstores, try one of the links I’ve shared below, which takes you right to the book’s page so you can order it online in just a couple of clicks!

razel reidBrookline Booksmith in Coolidge Corner
Harvard Bookstore in Harvard Square
Papercuts JP in Jamaica Plain
Porter Square Bookstore in Porter Square
Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe in Back Bay

 

What to do this week: November 12 – 18

There is a lot happening in and around Boston so be sure to make plans with friends. As usual, I’d like to give a shout out to a few events / programs happening this week. During the work week I’d like to give a shout out to The Moth Story Slam on Tuesday, Gay Bowling Night at Lucky Strike Lanes on Wednesday, Boys Night Out at Southern Proper as well as A night of music with Frankie Campofelice at Club Cafe (both on Thursday night). 

This weekend is the 6th Annual Mr. New England Leather Weekend in Ptown, 37th Annual HRC dinner is on Saturday in Boston and while there are a bunch of parties taking place I’d like to give a special shout out to dbar’s Decades Dance Party featuring music of the 1980s on Saturday.

Men of Melanin Magic, gay boston, gay men of colorMONDAY – THURSDAY

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

The Moth Story Slam is open to anyone with a 5 minute story to share on the night’s posted theme – this monthly open mic night takes place the third Tuesday of every month starting at 8PM at the Oberon

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

The T: Potluck of Questions hosted by the Men of Melanin Magic Wednesday from 7-9PM at Northeastern University to ask questions about queer and trans men of color

Gay Bowling Night at Lucky Strike Lanes is hosted by Guy Social Boston and takes place on Wednesday starting at 7PM (details about the program are included on their FB page) in Boston

Rucks & Tucks: Boston Ironsides Lip Sync Battle is at Club Cafe this Wednesday, starting at 7PM so come down and cheer on your favorite ruggers as they lip sync for their lives all to help raise $ for their rugby team

Siren Trivia is every Wednesday at 9PM at the Trophy Room bar in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Cambridge Center Foyer in Kendall Square in Cambridge

MOVIE: The Royal Tenenbaums will be showing at 7PM on Thursday at the Coolidge to help get you in the holiday spirit 

Boys Night Out is hosted by the Men of Melanin Magic on Thursday starting at 8PM at Southern Proper – this is a friendly social and all are welcome and encouraged to come out and join this group for a drink and conversation

A night of music with Frankie Campofelice performs at the Napolean Room at Club Cafe on Thursday, starting at 8PM (the last performance sold out so get your tickets in advance)

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays presents: Sissy That Walk weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay men, Provincetown

Mr. New England Leather Weekend in Provincetown

THE WEEKEND

6th Annual Mr. New England Leather Weekend is back at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown with the title winner will go on to compete at International Mister Leather (IML) in Chicago in May 2019

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Penny 4 Ya Thoughts?  watch your favorite local comedians share their worst dating stories. In between the show, we swipe on Tinder (Grindr, Bumble, etc.) to help a comedian AND an audience member find a match. Hosted by comedian and dating expert Penny Oswin – this Friday from 7:30 – 10PM in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Saturdays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Stuffed Bear – PreThanksgiving Tea Dance is from 4-8PM on Saturday at Mainestreet up in Ogunquit

37th Annual HRC New England dinner is one of the largest LGBTQ fund raising events in New England and this year will be no exception with 1,000 people expected to attend on Saturday in Boston

Find Your Tribe: Short Film Program hosted by Wicked Queer & Boston Jewish Film Festivals on Saturday at the MFA in Boston

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

gay bostonThe Decades Dance Party features the music of the 1980s Can you feel the retro vibe? 80s music will be playing all night at dbar with DJ Jay Ine, on Saturday startinga at 10PM in Dorchester

DONT ASK DONT TELL: Dollywood w/ Special Guest Holly Water is this Saturday at Great Scott (doors open at 10PM) in Allston

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Night Out at Blend with DJ Aga is on Saturday starting at 10PM in Dorchester

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Babes Brunch starts at 1PM at the Trophy Room in Boston

Drag Me To Brunch Drag yourself to Carrie Nation Cocktail Club and check-out what all the buzz is about  starting at 11AM; the drag show runs from 2pm-4pm(ish) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Saturday morning coffee

men in bed, handsome, hunk, gay coupleThink of this as a virtual double shot of espresso to get you going this morning.

What to do this weekend

ass, hhd, hump day, man in blue speedoLots happening this weekend in and around Boston. Movie nights, dance tracks and comedy shows all take place. Mainestreet in Ogunquit is hosting their annual Military Ball in honor of Veteran’s Day weekend.  If you’re looking for something a little closer to home check out on Friday, FUZZ ,  on Saturday, Silver at BLEND (will be donating a portion of the proceeds from the door to AIDS Action) and on Sunday, Miss Boston Comedy Queen 2018 (will raise $ for The Theater Offensive). 

For everyone who loves winter sports and enjoys skiing and snowboarding, check out the OutRyders Season Opening Party on Friday after work at Cathedral Station.

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OutRyders season opening party is this Friday – all are welcome

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

OutRyders Season Opening Party is open to anyone who likes skiing / snowboarding and will take place on Friday from 7-9PM at Cathedral Station

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted the second Friday of each month with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

MOVIE: The Fly (1986) will show starting at 11:59PM on Friday at the Coolidge as part of their Movies After Midnite series in Brookline

Silver at BLEND takes place the second Saturday of every month – the party this Saturday will share a portion of the door proceeds with AIDS Action – doors open at 10PM at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

gay ogunquitMilitary Ball dance party is this Saturday at Mainestreet so bring your favorite camouflage and head up to in Ogunquit

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Thirst Trap Brunch hosted by Men of Melanin Magic on Sunday at Bill’s Bar on Lansdowne Street from 12-4:30PM in Boston

Bears and Cubs brunch is this Sunday at Trophy Room, starting at 1PM in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Miss Boston Comedy Queen 2018 will have you laughing in your seats while proceeds go to benefit The Theater Offensive so come down to Jacques on Sunday starting at 6PM in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

What to do this week: November 5 – 11

hunk, gay bostonFall is in full swing and Thanksgiving is just two weeks away so make the most of these next few weeks before the holiday season starts and life gets crazy. Make time to see friends at one of the 30+ events and parties shared below.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester

Queer Boston Board Gamers are heading over to Aeronaut Brewing Co. on Monday at 6PM to play board games and enjoy some tasty beverages

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Cards Against Sobriety hosted every Monday night at the Alley join your friends for a fun game of Cards Against Humanity starting at 8PM in Boston

#NoFilter Monday: Time Traveler’s Guide Boston’s best drag night takes a trip through time this week at Jacques on Monday starting at 10PM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

gay boston, gay dorchesterShowtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Secrets of the MFA courtesy of Oscar Wilde Tours runs again this week starting at 6:15PM so get your tickets before it sells out

Siren Trivia is every Wednesday at 9PM at the Trophy Room bar in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Believe it or Naughty: A burlesque of lore and legend is at The Oberon on Thursday night in Cambridge

#Yaasss Thursdays presents: Sissy That Walk weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted the second Friday of each month with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Silver at BLEND takes place the second Saturday of every month – this is a dance party for mature audiences and the men who like them – doors open at 10PM at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

gay ogunquitMilitary Ball dance party is this Saturday at Mainestreet so bring your favorite camouflage and head up to in Ogunquit

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Miss Boston Comedy Queen 2018 will have you laughing in your seats while proceeds go to benefit The Theater Offensive so come down to Jacques on Sunday starting at 6PM in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Saturday morning coffee

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Have a great morning guys and much thanks to ED for reaching out last month and suggesting this photo for the weekly Saturday morning coffee post.