Category Archives: Gay

What to do this weekend

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Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

I’d like to give a shout out to the South End Open Studios (Saturday and Sunday 11AM – 6PM). This is the first Open Studios event since the lockdown in 2020 and is free and open to the public. Check out the artists working in their studios, visit the galleries and enjoy the weekend event.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party followed by Trivia starting @7PM
FRIDAY: FUZZ w/ DJ Brent Covington & DJ Taffy @10PM
SATURDAY: visiting DJ Wayne Michael from A-House in Ptown @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ Twisted Gleam & host Penny Tentiary and Lilly Rose @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturday w/ DJ Andrea Stamas @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch w/ host Harlow Havoc @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins host the Oilers @7PM
FRIDAY: Watch the Celtics host the Bucks @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Devils @1PM & Celtics host the Cavaliers @8:00PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Patriots (5-4) host the Browns (5-4) @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Weekly dance party w/ music by Math3ca & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Join DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Throwback Tea Dance w/ Brian Derrick @5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: “Slay” Saturday (dress like royalty) w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Serve-Vivor LIVE! @8PM
SATURDAY: Basement Babes Burlesque @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SUNDAY: Comedy Open Mic Night @7PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Gay Mafia presents Furball w/ Shane Marcus (clothes check available) @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe in JP

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FRIDAY: Fuzz returns with DJs Brent Covington & Taffy at the Alley @10PM

SATURDAY: Tipsy Tea, Brunch & Drag Show @1PM (Reservations Req’d) at Ghost Pepper in Savin Hill

SATURDAY: Gay Mafia Boston presents Furball w/ Shane Marcus at Legacy @10PM

SATURDAY: GRUNT returns to The Alley Bar w/ special guest DJ Wayne Michael from the A-House @10PM

SATURDAY: Latin Night: Noche de Fuego at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

SUNDAY: Yoga w/ Chuck (GBTQ Men’s Day Retreat) from 10:30AM – 4PM

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence w/ DJ Brian Halligan Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing at 9PM

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Sex In The City
Sunday @11AM
Hosted by Burd Events at Laugh Boston

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

This Weekend in Provincetown

Thursday, November 11th Pilgrim Monument Lighting

Vintage gay

This week’s post, which happens to fall on Veteran’s Day, is in honor of all those gay servicemen and women who served so bravely even though they could not do so openly.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Men in kilts

I can’t help but wonder why the guy on the left appears to have a knife tucked into his right sock. Seems like an odd accessory for your wedding day.

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Monday morning mancandy

May this week mancandy post distract you from the fact that it is yet again a Monday morning.

Scruffy Sunday

Do you still have any clocks that are not connected to the Internet? Be sure to turn them back.

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Saturday morning coffee

How do you think Mostafa takes his morning coffee?

Furry Friday

Thank god it’s Furry Friday. Have a great weekend everyone.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

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Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party followed by Trivia starting @7PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SATURDAY: Underbear w/ DJ Taffy @9PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam & host Penny Tentiary @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturday w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Beyonce Brunch w/ hosts Harlow Havoc & Arabella the Goddess @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins host the Red Wings @7PM & Celtics play the Heat @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Maple Leafs @7PM & Celtics play the Wizards @8:30PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Patriots (4-4) host the Jaqguars (1-6) @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Weekly dance party w/ host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Join DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: Movie Night: Who’s That Girl @7:00PM & DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Tea Dance w/ DJ BEGBICK @5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: “Slay” Saturday w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SATURDAY: Comedy Underground @7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SUNDAY: Comedy Open Mic Night @7PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ SAINT & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: Gay Mafia presents DJ Ranny @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays w/ DJ Richie LaDue at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe in JP

FRIDAY: ROAR Bear Circuit w/ DJ Michael Giller at La Makina on Revere Beach

FRIDAY: HEROES IRL (18+) w/ DJ Chris Ewen at Sonia in Central Square @10PM

FRIDAY: Sapphic Nights w/ DJ Beba & DJ Icy Fevur and your host Lucy at Goodlife Bar @10PM

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SATURDAY: Underbear w/ DJ Taffy returns to The Alley Bar w/ free clothes check @9PM

SATURDAY: Latin Night at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

SUNDAY: La’Diva Monet The Fantasia Impersonator Day Party w/ Urban Pride at Fort Hill Bar & Grill @3PM

SUNDAY: Randy Rainbow: The Pink Glasses Tour comes to Le Chevalier Theater for 2 shows @3PM & @7PM

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Penitence Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing at 9PM

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

This Weekend in Provincetown

Saturday, Nov 6th – Provincetown Food & Wine Festival

Vintage gay

The photograph above is of gay men sunbathing in the 1950s at Bournemouth beach in England. It is one of several photos of men from the 1940s and 1950s about life in rural Wales at that time and how it has changed. The article written by the BBC in 2019 (read it here). The article focuses on Reg and George who lived in rural Wales. From their photos and stories, it is clear they built a life that while not totally open and often closeted was not devoid of love and happiness either.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Boston Pride Shuts Down: What’s the deal?

Boston Pride

Reverend Irene Monroe has penned an article in the new issue of Boston Spirit Magazine, “Why Shut Down Boston Pride?” (I’d love to include a link but at the time I wrote this Boston Spirit’s website still didn’t have the article online. How is that even possible? But I digress.)

The well written article starts back in June 2020 when Boston Pride hired two consultants to help them address the growing chorus of criticism that Linda DeMarco (President) and the Boston Pride Board was too secretive, inhospitable to new ideas or suggestions, and increasingly tone deaf – especially to the trans and non-white LGBTQ+ members of our community. For many, Boston Pride’s mishandling of and the resulting tepid response to the murder of George Floyd had become a tipping point.

The goal of engaging the consultants was to help Boston Pride transform – empowering and engaging different members of the community as well as to help refocus and reaffirm Pride’s commitment to all of Boston’s LGBTQ community. What happened instead was the President of Boston Pride and the Board unilaterally stepped down and abruptly dissolved the organization. The work, the relationships and the fifty years of history associated with the organization was essentially deleted, leaving many in the community (yours truly included) wondering W-T-F?

Rev. Monroe wrote, “As our community reels from the shock of Boston Pride disbanding, questions remain unanswered around the organization’s finances.” I hate to think like that but it would be naive not to recognize how much money Boston Pride must have recieved in corporate sponsorships. But thus far Linda DeMarco and the Board have remained tightlipped, unwilling to talk to anyone, including Rev. Monroe.

The last response Rev. Monroe received from DeMarco was a few weeks ago via email where she said, “it has been a difficult time with closing down Boston Pride and all that goes with it, but we did it for the betterment of our community and for the future of our leaders.” I find that response difficult to take at face value. I know that Linda and the Boston Pride members have dedicated many hours to helping grow Boston Pride with the hope that they can empower and give voice to the LGBTQ community, but this last chapter of Boston Pride leaves a bitter taste and seems foul.

What’s Next?

It doesn’t seem like any one voice or direction has emerged from the ashes thus far. Time will tell what will happen as members of Boston’s LGBTQ community come together, but I can say that in light of the news that has come out about Boston Pride since its dissolution, it is hard for me to miss the organization.

Men in kilts

Vince Alexander is a UK-based model who looks good in (or out of) pretty much anything he models.

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Monday morning mancandy

May this week mancandy post of the ever so handsome, Dane Peterson, distract you from the fact that it is yet again Monday morning.

Varla Jean Merman comes to Club Cafe

This fall Varla Jean Merman has taken her popular summer show in Provincetown, Little Prick, on tour. She is currently wrapping up a successful tour on the West Coast and will be coming to Boston to perform for two nights at Club Cafe on Friday and Saturday, November 19th & 20th.

Be sure to get your tickets, because Varla’s shows will sell out.

Scruffy Sunday

Since it’s Halloween, I’m going to suggest he is more of a treat than a trick, although many of you might prefer he be the latter. Have a wonderful day.

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Saturday morning coffee

As much as I loved Linda Richman on SNL, this is my idea of coffee talk.