Category Archives: Gay

Saturday morning coffee

It is Labor Day Weekend in the U.S., and I want to wish everyone a very relaxing Saturday and holiday weekend.

Furry Friday

Thank god it’s Furry Friday.

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ host Dave Sawyer at 8PM
FRIDAY: UNDERBEAR returns w/ DJ Taffy at10PM
SATURDAY: DJ BEGBICK at 10PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke at 8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w music by Twisted Gleam at 10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Andrea Stamas at 10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch starts at 11AM

Cathedral Station Open but no programming scheduled.

Club CafeProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry starting 8/16
THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM & DJ FrenchY at 10PM, show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: Join DJ Stevie Psyclone w/ special guest YAVIN at 10PM
SATURDAY: Join DJ Begbick at 10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Tea w/ DJ Begbick at 5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night – Give me back my mic w/ Ryan Grow at 8PM
SATURDAY: The category is… dance party w/ DJ Jay Ine at 10PM
SUNDAY: Come As You Are (no theme) tea dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez at 4PM

Jacques CabaretProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! at 8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays: Denali Live w/ RA’JA O’Hara at Legacy at 10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ Richie LaDueat Legacy at 10PM
SATURDAY: FURBALL w/ DJ J Warren at Legacy at 10PM
SUNDAY: White Party w/ DJ Abel at Royale at 10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

LGBTQ+ nights & events

THURSDAY: Wicked Retro Night is back at DBco – enjoy Dorchester Brewing Co’s beers and your favorite retro video games.

FRIDAY & SATURDAY: Matt Yee Sing-a-long entertainer and comedian brings his outrageous sing-a-long to the Napoleon Room at Club Cafe from 7PM – 10PM. Reservations required – be sure to specify Napoleon Room upper as location when selecting available times for your reservation.

FRIDAY: Queer People of Color (QPOC) Night Out at 7PM – Register on Eventbrite.

FRIDAY: HEROES (18+ Night) returns to Sonia at 9PM in Central Square.

FRIDAY: Boudoir Group Therapy is at the Union Tavern in Union Square Somerville starting at 9PM

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller and host Lady German in Revere Beach.

gay boston, kiki beach

SATURDAY: Kiki Beach If you’re unsure where the boys go on M Street Beach, check out the map on the Kiki Beach Boston Facebook Page, but when in doubt follow the good music and speedos.

SATURDAY: GAY BASH’D Returns DETIOX Live is at The Sinclair starting at 9:30PM Tix Required and this will sell out so get’em while they last.

SATURDAY: FURBALL returns to Boston w/ DJ J Warren at Legacy Boston at 10PM

SATURDAY: Latina Night: Noche de Estrallas comes to La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach.

SUNDAY: M Street Beach TakeOver continues each Sunday from 10AM – 5PM.

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Beyoncé vs Britney Drag Brunch
Saturday @11:00AM – 1:30PM at House of Blues

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12PM – 4PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown gay bars & entertainment

For more information about live entertainment in Provincetown this week (and all month) click here. Click the links below for more information about each bar.

A House – One of Provincetown’s most popular dance clubs.

Aqua Bar – Located at the Aquarium Marketplace, with views of the harbor.

Backstreet Club – Previously Club Purgatory will NOT reopen this summer.

Buoy Bar – Located on Commercial Street at The Boatslip. It is fabulous for people watching (esp after Tea).

The Club – Lea Delaria’s supper club includes live entertainment in the lounge.

Dive Bar – Weekend piano bar at The Crown & Anchor.

Harbor Lounge – Waterfront cocktail lounge in the East End.

Little Bar – Provincetown’s oldest bar.

Macho Bar – Provincetown’s longest running leather and denim bar.

Monkey Bar – Will NOT reopen this summer.

Paramount – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is Ptown’s largest dance club.

Porchside Lounge – Located at The Gifford House.

Provincetown Brewery – Popular brew pub on Bradford Street.

Shipwreck Lounge – Located at the Brass Key Guest House.

Tin Pan Alley – This restaurant has a lively piano bar that has a friendly crowd.

The Vault – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a leather / fetish bar.

Velvet Lounge – Dance club with DJ Mark Louque spinning each Friday.

The Wave Bar – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a fun video bar.

Missing a favorite bar / club in Provincetown? Share it in the comments section. If the status of these bars / clubs change, it will be noted.

Vintage gay

I love this week’s photo for two reasons. First, I can’t help but think these guys look so happy and relaxed together but also because I love when there are photographs with a car. Automobiles can help date when a picture was taken. Anyone out there recognize this car and able to guess when the picture may have been taken?

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Men in kilts

I’m so incredibly distracted by this week’s photo from David Vance it is ridiculous.

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Monday morning mancandy

Although I never watched the reality show, Survivor, I’m assuming there are plenty of people who do (or have) and will recognize this former contestant, Michael Yerger, who appeared on the show in 2018. He makes for the perfect piece of mancandy and I hope you find this a pleasant distraction.

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

Not sure of having coffee while in a pool but to each their own.

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provinceton this weekend. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ host Dave Sawyer at 8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK at10PM
SATURDAY: DJ BEGBICK at 10PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke at 8PM

blend
THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w music by Twisted Gleam at 10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes “LGBTQ Artists” w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch starts at 11AM

Cathedral Station Open but no programming scheduled.

Club CafeProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry starting 8/16
THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM & DJ FrenchY at 10PM, show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: Join DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM
SATURDAY: Join DJ Brian Derrick at 10PM
SUNDAY: Throwback Tea Dance w/ DJ Brian Derrick at 5PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke Night – Give me back my mic w/ Ryan Grow at 8PM
SATURDAY: The category is… dance party w/ DJ Jay Ine at 10PM
SUNDAY: Snowstorm Speedo patio themed tea dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez at 4PM

Jacques CabaretProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! at 8PM
FRIDAY: Basement Babes: Burlesque Takeover at 7:15PM & 10PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays: Denali Live w/ Mystique Summers at Legacy at 10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY at Legacy at 10PM
SATURDAY: All Stars Under the Stars Block Party w/ DJ Richie LaDue at Legacy at 10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess w/ DJ Richie LaDue & Coleslaw at Candi Bar at 10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

LGBTQ+ nights & events

THURSDAY: PRIDE Boston hosts Dodgeball (Open Play) at Garvey Park in Dorchester starting at 7:30PM ($5) all are welcome to come down to play.

THURSDAY: LesbianNIghtLife hosts Single & Social at the Anchor Boston in Charlestown, starting at 7PM (tickets required).

FRIDAY: Boston Drag Extravaganza at Club Cafe starts at 7PM – doors open at 6PM (proof of vaccination req’d for entry).

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller and host Lady German in Revere Beach.

gay boston, kiki beach

SATURDAY: Kiki Beach If you’re unsure where the boys go on M Street Beach, check out the map on the Kiki Beach Boston Facebook Page, but when in doubt follow the good music and speedos.

SATURDAY: Latina Night: Noche de Estrallas comes to La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach.

SUNDAY: M Street Beach TakeOver continues each Sunday from 10AM – 5PM.

SUNDAY: Bears & Brews returns to DBco. this Sunday starting at 4PM.

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

The Real Housewives Drag Brunch
Saturday @11:00AM – 1:30PM at House of Blues

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12PM – 4PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown gay bars & entertainment

For more information about live entertainment in Provincetown this week (and all month) click here. Click the links below for more information about each bar.

A House – One of Provincetown’s most popular dance clubs.

Aqua Bar – Located at the Aquarium Marketplace, with views of the harbor.

Backstreet Club – Previously Club Purgatory will NOT reopen this summer.

Buoy Bar – Located on Commercial Street at The Boatslip. It is fabulous for people watching (esp after Tea).

The Club – Lea Delaria’s supper club includes live entertainment in the lounge.

Dive Bar – Weekend piano bar at The Crown & Anchor.

Harbor Lounge – Waterfront cocktail lounge in the East End.

Little Bar – Provincetown’s oldest bar.

Macho Bar – Provincetown’s longest running leather and denim bar.

Monkey Bar – Will NOT reopen this summer.

Paramount – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is Ptown’s largest dance club.

Porchside Lounge – Located at The Gifford House.

Provincetown Brewery – Popular brew pub on Bradford Street.

Shipwreck Lounge – Located at the Brass Key Guest House.

Tin Pan Alley – This restaurant has a lively piano bar that has a friendly crowd.

The Vault – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a leather / fetish bar.

Velvet Lounge – Dance club with DJ Mark Louque spinning each Friday.

The Wave Bar – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a fun video bar.

Missing a favorite bar / club in Provincetown? Share it in the comments section. If the status of these bars / clubs change, it will be noted.

Vintage gay

These two certainly make for a handsome couple. I love how the guy on the right rests his chin on the shoulder of the other man. One reason I like these posts is I love to make up stories in my head about who the people are or imagine what they might be thinking when they are being photographed. In this case, I can’t help but think they look so happy and relaxed together in the photo. Anyone care to guess when this may have been taken? I’m at a loss.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

ManRay nightclub eyes October opening

ManRay owner, Don Holland, says this time ManRay will really reopen

ManRay (on gay nights Campus) was a popular fetish bar that operated near Central Square from 1985 – 2005. It closed fifteen years ago to make way for condominiums, but last week the local newspaper, Cambridge Day, reported that the popular nightclub appears poised to reopen – not far from the club’s original location. The newspaper reported that ManRay owner, Don Holland, was awarded a liquor license by Cambridge and a 2:00AM closing time for 40 Prospect Street. The space was previously used by Improv Boston but has been empty since they vacated in November 2020.

This is not the first time rumors have swirled about a reopening of this popular bar. Back in 2013 I wrote about how the bar would reopen later in the summer, but that never happened. This time, the space seems to be a better fit and the paperwork with the city of Cambridge appears to be in order. The only question on my mind is if the much loved club reopens, will Campus (gay nights) also return.

Stay tuned. I’l let you know when there is more to share.

Men in kilts

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Monday morning mancandy

Alex Crockford is a CrossFit trainer from the U.K. 

I think he makes for a fantastic Mancandy Monday post. What do you think?

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

Much thanks to Seduced by the New for making me aware of this photo, which is perfect for the weekly Saturday morning coffee post.