Boston is one of the US youngest cities

The Boston Globe is reporting that the latest US Census shows that Boston has the highest ratio of 20 to 34 year olds among large US cities. With more than 1/3 (35%) of the city’s residents falling into this age range. This represents an 11% jump from the figure reported one decade before.

Interestingly, the large number of young men and women living in Boston does not translate into having a great nightlife. As a matter of fact, my theory is that Bostonian conservatism combined with a large university population has contributed to many of the city’s laws that restrict public drinking and require bars to close at 2AM.

However, this demographic does provide a lot of energy and vitality to the city which is evident whenever you walk around the streets of Boston. Other cities with high ratios of 20 to 34 year olds include: Austin and Washington D.C., Seattle, and San Francisco.

Boston becomes a bear den

Tonight only, Boston becomes a bear haven as this happy-go-lucky group of gay fur balls fly into town. Saturday morning they will board the ferries to Provincetown (weekly rentals on the Cape run from Saturday to Saturday).

Many come from far away locations making a one night stay in Boston necessary. Actually through late August going out in Boston on Friday nights is a bit surreal. Most of the local gays pack there bags early and leave for either the Cape (meaning Provincetown) or the coast of Maine (meaning Ogunquit)so there always seems to be a disproportionate number of guys from out-of-town on Fridays. If you are interested in learning more about Bear Week in Provincetown, link here.

Woof

I’ve got the music in me

Yesterday I was working out with my trainer at the Boston Sports Club SouthEnd when movement out of the corner of my eye distracted me from the ridiculous ab routine Stu had concocted to try and tire me. Glancing over my left shoulder, I saw an attractive guy in his mid-20s shaking his money-maker. The little jig made me laugh, but I applauded his energy as he sat back down on the bench to continue with his work out.

Through out the evening his dance routine continued between reps, while waiting in line for water and even walking from one spot to the next. It was always the same albeit fairly involved. The dance moves seemed to invigorate him and entertain everyone in the gym. I turned to my trainer between stifled laughs and said “only in the SouthEnd”. I’m pretty sure he was aware of the attention and enjoyed it as much as I appreciated the distraction between sets.

I’m hopeful I’ll be seeing more of twinkletoes (my nickname for the handsome young man) and if I’m lucky, I’ll even break out my phone to try and tape one of his routines. On the off chance anyone reading this works out at the BSC SouthEnd, have you seen this guy before? Do you know him?

Happy BosGuy

Provincetown sights

Provincetown is blessed with beautiful dunes and gorgeous beaches. It is also amazingly quaint in its own way with beautiful homes, tiny streets and paths that lead to beautiful gardens with ocean views. However, this isn’t that kind of post. The sights listed are a sampling of some of the people who caught my attention this past weekend.

Some of these people I had the opportunity to chat with and enjoyed meeting. Others I just admired from a distance. I have included more images of “the sights” from Provincetown in a video I created which is in the following post.

I hope you enjoy the sights.

A very sexy Daddy taking in the rays
Reality TV guy, Reichen (didn’t seem v. interested in his new BF)
Late Tea Dance – Really just an excuse to keep dancing
Shirtless men… need I say more?
Me and Mo Rocca posing pretty

Provincetown: Independence Week

Provincetown is located at the very tip of Cape Cod in Massachusetts. This out of the way place where land greets the North Atlantic has long been a home for the gay community. Although in recent years, more heterosexual couples and families have started visiting, the town remains proudly gay in the summer months especially when the queer community comes to vacation en masse.

Starting this past weekend Provincetown opened its arms wide to welcome 40,000+ men and women. Although the 4th of July holiday is now over, thousands remain thru Saturday celebrating and enjoying the beaches, shopping, restaurants, shows (yes there’s quite a few) and nightlife. In all my travels, I’ve never found its equivalent and so if you’ve never had the opportunity, I’d encourage you to consider a visit. Following Independence Week, Saturday July, 9th, more will come for Bear Week. This combined with Carnival Week (August 13-20) are the three busiest for Provincetown. Below I’ve included a quick (and SFW) video of some of the fun and people I met this past weekend in Provincetown. More pictures will follow.

Have yourself a great 4th of July

Men Of Twitter

I’m a fan of Twitter. I love how quick and easy it is to use and connect with people. Another perk is what I’ll refer to as the “Men of Twitter” since there are so many handsome guys. Adding to their attraction is the fact they only talk in 140 characters.

Each Monday I post #MenOfTwitter profiles that catch my eye and whom I think you may enjoy following. As always, suggestions for profiles to feature are welcome and if you’d like to follow me, you can find me at@BosGuy. Below are a few more #MenOfTwitter you may want to follow.

NobeMaxMia Is there a bigger flirt on Twitter? I’m not sure. Max’s tweets are of the naughty variety so you’ve been forewarned.Having said that, Max is very engaging and easy to talk to on Twitter.

CuteLiberal Guess who this guy voted for in the last election? This bi-coastal guy mixes political tweets with witty thoughts such as, “Alexander the Great & Richard the Lion-Hearted were both gay. Remember that the next time somebody calls you a #faggot” You’ll love following this guy.

MITguy01 Since when are guys who go to M.I.T. sexy? Chris certainly doesn’t resemble the stereotypical geeky, awkward MIT student.He too keeps his tweets smokin’ hot with sexual innuendo so beware.

BTW, if you like this post, retweet it. If you love it follow @BosGuy.  Link here to see past #MenOfTwitter.


South End cheap eats

The South End is not a restaurant district, but it certainly has many options for Foodies and in my opinion some of Boston’s most interesting dining establishments. Unfortunately, it may cost you more than $50 to have a meal if you don’t know where some of the South End’s best cheap eats are located.

I thought I’d make a list of a few cheap eats that do this neighborhood proud. I only considered restaurants that are open for dinner and have table service.

ADDIS RED SEA is an authentic Ethiopian restaurant located in the heart of the neighborhood on Tremont Street. Ethiopian cuisine is surprisingly flavorful and a bit exotic at least by my standards. Main dishes range in price with most falling between $8-$15; sharing dishes will make a stop here even more affordable.

ANCHOVIES is nestled discretely on Columbus Avenue and it serves up good home style Italian-American cooking. Main dishes for dinner all come with bread and a house salad and range from $12-$15.

Columbus Cafe is located on the corner of Columbus Ave and Claremont Park. The cozy restaurant and bar also has a small street side patio for al fresco dining. The menu is filled with comfort food all reasonably priced with main dishes ranging from $11-$19.

ORINOCO is a rustic Venezuelan restaurant on Shawmut Avenue, just a few blocks up from Mass Ave. Their coooking nicely blends flavors I normally associate with Latin American and the Caribean cooking. If you are lucky, you can snag a seat outside at one of the few tables they have. Main dishes range from $8-$19.

PICCO Just across the street from ADDIS RED SEA is the Pizza & Ice Cream Co. (PICCO). The menu is mostly pizza, sandwiches and pasta. This place has a large patio that also provides excellent people watching. Main dishes range from $8-$14. For an even cheaper option; split a large pizza and delicious dessert. (I like the brownie sundae.)

What are some of your favorite cheap eats for dinner?

4th of July weekend starts today

How will you celebrate and enjoy the long weekend if you live in the US?

Ptown state of mind

For those who may have to work and for those of you who do not celebrate US Independence, I promise to relax, drink and dance enough for all of you.

Restaurant Review: : Zócalo Back Bay

Zócalo, a Mexican restaurant recently opened in space previously occupied by Stix. The restaurant can accommodate 50+ inside but has a large patio for al fresco dining for lunch or dinner. Zócalo is owned by chef Erwin Ramos who also owns the very successful, Olé Mexican Grill in Cambridge.

Over the past year, Boston has seen several new Mexican restaurants open. Boston has not embraced Mexican cuisine and until recently, I could only name 2-3 Mexican restaurants in the area. So take my review with a grain of salt because my exposure to Mexican cuisine is limited at best. I’ve noted that the reviews of this new restaurant are very mixed, but my experience was pleasant from start to finish.

Dinner at Zócalo including an appetizer, main dish and dessert (no drink or tip included) will cost approximately $30.00 – $35.00 per person. Main dishes range from $17.00-$23.00.

Before our meal, I started with a delicious martini at the downstairs bar. My friends all indulged in a variety of margaritas; of which the passion fruit seemed the best. The service, starting with the bartender and including the patient waitress who helped us with our meal, was good from start to finish. While waiting for the main dishes to come out it was suggested we order sides of guacamole and salsa. These proved to be my favorite part of the meal. If dinner is not an option, grabbing some drinks and delving into the oversized portions of guacamole or homemade salsa is a great alternative.

For my main I opted for the chile rellenos. I thought the two roasted poblano peppers were very good. One was stuffed with cheese, spinach, raisins and almonds and the other with braised pork. The dinner also comes with a side of black beans and plantains, which strangely, I did not care for. The cheese on the beans tasted off and the plantains were too tough.

Chile Rellenos – $19.95

If you are looking to try someplace different or have a hankering for Mexican cuisine, give this place a try. The inside is very nice, the staff was friendly and in good weather you can make use of their oversized patio. Should you go, let me know your thoughts.

Zócalo is located at 35 Stanhope Street (617) 456-7849
Reservations not required but strongly recommended
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Ban the bun

Tom Brady (a.k.a. Mr. Gisele Bunchen) is as easy on the eyes as his supermodel wife is beautiful. However, even a man with killer looks can appear like a complete tool as Tom Brady shows in the above photo.

Today’s Boston Herald has a funny article called, Hey, Tom Brady! Bun there, done that. The picture is from the newspaper’s site. They include some humorous examples of other famous ‘hair buns’ which you may enjoy checking out.

The Herald writes “perhaps it is yet another hairstyle that his wife, Gisele Bundchen, has pulled out of her lady repellent arsenal. If the femme headband didn’t keep the gals away, the heady Cinnabun is downright lethal!” Too funny for sure.

This is him!

Dan Savage poignant “It Gets Better Campaign” came about because of a grim reality regarding how marginalized gay and lesbian kids feel and the bullying that further isolates them. This past weekend, I was reminded of the happier side of Dan Savage’s campaign – the part that addresses “The Better”…

There is a young man (18 years old to be exact) who lives in my complex. At first glance he looks like a tough city kid. His Boston accent, stocky build which mimics his gigantic father and cigarette permanently hanging from his lips makes him look anything like his friendly, easy-going personality. This kid (let’s call him Adam), comes from a solid blue collar, take no crap kind of family. We’ve been neighbors for a few years now and while I don’t know his whole story, I do know that he’s gay.

As far as I was aware, he was closeted (maybe he still is). However, the other day he told me with quite a bit of pride that his boyfriend was coming to visit him. I was happy for him and told him so, but it wasn’t until I saw him later this weekend that I realized how happy. On Sunday afternoon as my partner and I were driving through the courtyard we looked up and saw Adam with a friend. When Adam recognized us he lit up and started shouting as loud as he could pointing to the other young man. “This is Him!” I think he must have said it 2-3 more times at the top of his lungs. He was so excited and proud. And seeing this young, tough-kid from Boston all excited to be with his boyfriend and be shouting it for all the world to hear made me think you know what Dan Savage is right, it does get better. And if you’re lucky like Adam – you don’t have to wait that long to realize it.

Men of Twitter

I’m a fan of Twitter. I love how quick and easy it is to use and connect with people. Another perk is what I’ll refer to as the “Men of Twitter” since there are so many handsome guys. Adding to their attraction is the fact they only talk in 140 characters.

Each Monday I post #MenOfTwitter profiles that catch my eye and whom I think you may enjoy following. As always, suggestions for profiles to feature are welcome and if you’d like to follow me, you can find me at @BosGuy.

Below are a few more #MenOfTwitter you may want to follow.

GreggyBennett – I first started following this guy because I thought he had the best smile I’d seen in a long time. I continue to follow Greg because he makes me laugh. For example his recent tweet “Proud of my roommates for embracing different spellings of the word “Work”. Weeerk. Woooork. Weeerque.” How can you not enjoy following Greg?

Neily82 – This young Londoner looks so dapper. Is it just me or does he bear a resemblance to Adam Levine of Maroon5 fame? Neil is an interesting guy to follow and he joins a growing legion of Londoners that I am both crushing on slightly and enjoying following on Twitter.

MCase513 – Michael is an architectural designer who lives in Boston (lucky for Boston, eh?). He tweets regularly about life and pop culture. However, his most interesting tweets are his witty responses to conversations he has with people on Twitter. Trust me, you’ll enjoy following Michael.

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Link here to see past #MenOfTwitter.