100th post and still going strong

Back on October 8, 2007 when I started this blog I had no expectations and thought that my desire to capture my thoughts on this blog might fade after a few weeks or months. I’ve never been one to maintain a diary and my lack of focus when it comes to working out or learning Portuguese would indicate I have limited discipline, but here I am with my 100th post nearly 9 months later. Who would have ever guessed – certainly not me.

Looking through my past posts, I’ve noticed that I generally comment on local happenings here in Boston, MA, pop culture, humorous videos that catch my eye, travels (as infrequent as they’ve become), sports, politics and the occassional rant. I’m still quite the novice when it comes to blogging, but I’ve enjoyed maintaining this and hope that the next 100 entries are as entertaining / gratifying for me as the first.

I’m Voting Republican


This is a quick video clip that pokes fun at many conservative policies that over the years have become synonymous with the Republican party (e.g. anti-choice, pro big business, etc). It is over the top, but I think that even my more conservative friends and family will get a chuckle out of this one.

The Greatest Sports Town in America

I’m not one for superstitions but in the past I’ve also hesitated to dwell on the recent good fortune that Boston sports fans have been able to revel since the New England Patriot’s ended the city’s championship drought in 2001, out of fear I might jinx the teams. However, last night’s blow out by the Boston Celtics over the Los Angeles Lakers has given me pause to consider how this most recent championship has helped re-shape the Boston sports fan’s psyche.

I’m not a die-hard sports fan, but collectively what these three teams have done (Patriots, Red Sox and Celtics) winning a total of 6 Championships in a span of 8 years must be a record. I have attended more celebratory parades in tribute to Boston teams winning championships than many cities have collected in their entire history.

Boston has always been a big sports town and maybe that is part of the recipe for their success. Fans and journalists alike are hard on the athletes and coaches and their scrutiny can be difficult to take especially when a team is not winning. However, since the start of the century, there has been a lot to be proud of and no doubt this will be looked back upon as the ‘Golden Age’ for Boston sports. I feel badly for Boston fans living from afar, because the intensity of the moment and the passion that is unleashed is powerful but temporary and if you are not here to appreciate it – you really are missing something special.

Happy Pride

Boston Pride week culminated today with the annnual parade and block party. In my opinion the block party is the best part of the week long celebration. Each year I find the parade to be very, very boring. The few floats that are in the parade lack color and flair. Boston’s pride parade is more about what churches and politicians are marching. Normally this makes it seem more like a protest than a parade but this week’s news of Governor Deval Patrick’s daughter coming out in Bay Windows article – “With Love and Pride” made this year’s parade different.

Recently I was told that Gov. Patrick made history last year when he became the first sitting Governor of any state to march in a Pride Parade. This year his wife and daughter joined him. I know there are many who are not impressed by Deval Patrick, but I am not one of them. I thoroughly respect Patrick’s commitment to supporting equality and not compromising in the face of adversity whether it is championing the right for all to marry or now showing that Governor or not – he stands by his lesbian daughter. Bravo Deval – you have my vote if you decide to run for re-election.

Pictures are courtesy of www.bostonist.com

Weekend in Newport

Last weekend we packed our bags and drove down to Newport, RI. Despite an ominous start with overcast skies and cooler than ordinary temperatures on Friday, the rest of the weekend was beautiful with temperatures in the 90s and plenty of sun. The pictures above are just a sampling of some of the beautiful mansions which dot the Newport coastline and much of the town.

I really like this seaside New England town which becomes a hub of activity from Memorial Day to Labor Day. Thousands flock to the town in the summer clogging the streets and filling the pubs and restaurants. It is one of those quintessential New England towns that is both fun and friendly despite the dour / boring image most people have of New Englanders.

C’est tres bon!

The 2008 French Open did not disapoint even if the finals for both men and women lacked the drama and intensity of the 2008 Australian Open. Both Nadal and Ivanovich dominated their adversaries. Nadal’s thumping of Federer was surprising in so much that I can never recall seeing a match where Federer lost 6-0 in a set. It is worth mentioning that with Nadal’s victory, he ties Bjorn Borg’s record of 4 consecutive wins at the French Open and barring any illness or injury it looks like a 5th consecutive win is likely in 2009 – Amazing.

Unfortunately, American’s had a disapointing showing at the 2008 French Open with only Rob Ginepri really showing any promise. By contrast, the French (all too often absent from their home tournament) showed in great numbers even with Australian Open finalist Tsonga out due to a knee injury. Indeed one of my favorite matches came in the semifinals when Gael Monfils gave Roger Federer a run for his money. I’ll continue to keep my eyes on Monfils who seems to cover the court with the same speed that distinguishes Nadal. Now if he can just learn to hit the ball like Rafael.

Now all eyes will turn to Wimbledon, a surface more friendly to Federer. However, both Nadal and Djokovic will be worthy adversaries looking to unseat Federer, and for the first time in recent memory, it looks distinctly possible that they just might. We will have to wait and see when the tournament begins in a few weeks time. Until then, I’ll continue to dream about travelling to visit and watch the fortnight of world-class tennis in person as opposed to on ESPN.

Off to Newport

Friday afternoon I am heading to Newport, RI and the forecast looks promising with lots of sun and warmth. I first visited Newport in May of 1991 when several of my friends were graduating from college. Sixteen of us crammed into two hotel rooms, and we spent a couple of nights carousing and making fools of ourselves, enjoying the last few weeks we would all be together before they graduated. A few years later, my uncle hosted his wedding reception in downtown Newport. I still have fond memories of the wedding, reception and the brunch on the following morning. More recently, I visited Newport with my family in 2006 for a weekend in May. Despite these visits and a handful of day trips to Newport, I still have never done the Cliff Walk so I am going to make a concerted effort to do this on Saturday. We’ll see if it actually happens, because I’m a terribly lazy traveller.

Obama claims nomination

Tonight Barack Obama made history by claiming the Democratic Party’s nomination. His speech was more moving than any I have heard with the possible exception of his speech at the 2004 DNC in Boston.

He is clearly an orator who can articulate his message and motivate masses. These skills will be essential to his campaign as he moves forward and faces John McCain in the general election, but I believe in Obama’s message of change and say, “Yes we can”.

Boston AIDS Walk – Sunday, June 1, 2008

Sunday, June 1st, the AIDS Action Committee of MA will hold the 22nd annual Boston AIDS Walk. The event is extremely important for the agency for several reasons. First, the event raises a significant amount of unrestricted donations that allows the agency to do much needed work that the Federal and State Governements will not fund because they are politically unpopular. Second, by coming together and walking people make a statement and raise awareness.

Consider making a donation to the AIDS Action Committee. Once upon a time, I volunteered and later worked at the agency and I can vouch personally that the organization’s focus on education and prevention are both noble and effective. If you would like to make an online donation, you can link here.

John & Ellen

Happy Memorial Day and Bienvenue au Roland Garros

It is Memorial Day weekend and everyone has left the city for the coast to celebrate the long weekend. This is when Cape Cod and other coastal communities officially kick-off the summer season. Places like Provincetown, MA and Ogunquit, ME will be packed as everyone makes a dash to the coast to enjoy the sun and warmth.

I’m in town spending much of my Sunday watching the first day of tennis at the French Open. It was several months ago in late January that I commented on the exciting two weeks of tennis at the Australian Open. Since then, I have waited patiently for the start of what I like to refer to as ‘Grand Slam Season’. The slow courts of Roland Garros have not disapointed providing several excellent first round matches. Two weeks from now a champion will be named, and I can guarantee that I will have be watching.


This afternoon my grandmother passed away surrounded by her children at her home. It is never easy to say good bye to someone who you love, but her health has been in steady decline and the goal in recent months had been to make her as comfortable as possible.

I am one of the luckier grandchildren because my cousin AJ and I were the first two grandchildren on my mother’s side and for almost 4 decades my grandmother was a constant figure contributing her own verses to each chapter of my life.

I have mentioned my Grandmother in a couple of entries most recently in my entry “One more party with Nana” but also after an emotinal visit with her at the hospital last December, “Visit with Nana in the Hospital“. Time will pass but my grandmother (just like her husband) will always live in my heart and mind. Happy memories of time spent with them at the family home in Winchester and visits to their condo in FL will always be with me.

Cell phones for soldiers is a charity that recently caught my attention and I thought it was a great idea that I would make note of on my blog. Started in April 2004 by then 13 year old Brittany and her 12 year old brother Robbie in Norwell, MA, the program sends old or unused cell phones to members of the military serving in Iraq and around the world so they can talk to family members and loved ones.

This program is ingenious. It helps people who are far from family stay connected and it gives people an opportunity to recycle and reuse technology that would otherwise be discarded or unused. If you would like to learn more about the program or Brittany and her brother Robbie, link here ~ www.cellphonesforsoldiers.com.

I’ve mailed in my old cell phone and would encourage you to do the same.

Mayors Against Illegal Guns

There are few causes I have felt more marginalized by and passionate about then gun control. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the right to bear arms, but what that means exactly differs when you talk to people. The Nation’s leading gun lobby, NRA, does not like having intelligent discourse and looks at any efforts to regulate the sale of guns as an infringement on individual rights.

The NY Times had an article in today’s paper about a group called “Mayors Against Illegal Guns”. This group has used each of the Presidential Candidates own words from past speeches to create a bi-partisan effort to close “gun loopholes” and prevent the sale of guns to convicted criminals. Seems like a no brainer to everyone except the NRA and their most ardent supporters. Take a look at the clever advertisement.

Be all that you can be

I am a fairly organized individual and at work I have always been able to manage my time very effectively, but when it comes to applying that same level of discipline in my personal life I feel like I fail miserably.

I am pretty good about making sure that my house is tidy and errands are done, but anything beyond clearing clutter, doing the wash and filling my refrigerator seems to be beyond me; despite having loads of spare time and virtually no responsibilities (as compared to my parents at my age).

Lately I’ve been frustrated by my on-again / off-again commitment with the gym and my complete failure to set aside time to study Portuguese. Both activities are important goals that I have repeatedly set for myself. I know if these were activities that were core to my job I would have a six pack and be bilingual but applying that same discipline in my personal life is a real challenge for me. I also realize that these struggles are not unique to me but it does not make me feel better or help motivate me to know that there is a country of underachievers and excuse makers. I would love to have someone invent a motivational pill that would help me “be all that I can be” to borrow a slogan from the U.S. military.