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This week on Instagram: massbearsandcubs

This week I wanted to feature a relatively new Instagram handle for Mass Bears and Cubs. This social group of men have a big event coming up with their annual Boston harbor cruise on Sunday, June 9th. You can find out more about it here.

Even if the harbor cruise isn’t your thing, I encourage you to learn more about this warm, friendly group who organize social programs through out the month.  You can also keep up with them by following their Instagram handle.

You can follow Brenton on Instagram here, instagram.com/massbearsandcubs.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

Since it is Pride Week here in Boston, I thought I’d share this rather engaging photograph I snapped from a few years back at an earlier Boston Pride Week.  Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up a caption or two of your own. Leave a witty or funny caption as a comment for this post, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Strike a pose and Vogue”

Mass bears and cubs Boston harbor cruise is this Sunday

gay bostonLast chance to get your tickets to the Mass Bears & Cubs annual harbor cruise on Sunday, June 9th.  Boarding begins at 5:30 and departs at 6PM sharp.

Scan the QR Code above or purchase your tickets ($40) here.

Temptation Tuesday

gay BostonIt is Pride Week here so in honor of this week I thought I’d share a photo from Boston Pride’s annual Sunday block party in the Back Bay from a few years ago.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

kilted brosSince it is the start of Pride month, I thought this would be an appropriate post. I believe I’ve shared this previously. The kilt is from the kilted bros, and you can purchase it from their website, here.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

What to do this week: Boston Pride edition

This week’s post will be focused on and dedicated to Boston Pride themed events taking place around the city. I’d like to encourage you to make plans to go out and be visible and have fun, supporting the many programs taking place. Below is partial listing of Boston Pride events taking place.

Boston Pride, gay boston, BAGLYMONDAY

Out Professional Executive Networking (OPEN) hosts a networking event at Red Lantern from 6-9PM.

Queer Me Out at the W Hotel with Carmen Carrera from 6:30 – 9:00PM to talk about transgender rights.

Heels for Hope is the annual BAGLY fundraiser that takes place this year at Club Cafe, starting at 7PM – If you’ve procrastinated you can buy your tickets there.

Stonewall 50 Community Forum at Faneuil Hall with special guests Raffi Freedman-Gurspan, former Obama White House Aide and Director of External Relations for the National Center for Transgender Equality; and Amy Hoffman, Author of An Army of Ex-Lovers:  My Life at the Gay Community News and veteran of the early LGBTQ Civil Rights Movement in Boston starting at 7PM.

gay boston, boston prideTUESDAY

Pridelights takes place this year at Blackstone Square Park with your lovely host, Verna Turbulence – come down to the park for the tree lighting ceremony and entertainment starting at 6PM.

Trivia Eleganza Extravaganza hosts a very gay trivia night at Club Cafe starting at 7PM – all are welcome.

ShowTune Tuesday hosts a very special Pride edition starting at 9PM with VJ Ryan Grow at dbar.

WEDNESDAY

QUINGO (Queer Bingo) is pretty much exactly how it sounds and will take place at Turtle Swamp Brewery in JP starting at 6PM

Atomic Karaoke: Pride Edition! is at Club Cafe starting at 10PM

Pride Puerto Rican Invasion! is at Legacy in the Theater District – doors will open at 10PM

THURSDAY

Pride Book Reading from local author (as well as my friend and neighbor) will be reading excerpts from his most current book, The Hub of the Gay Universe: An LGBTQ History of Boston, Provincetown and Beyond at the Boston Public Library – in the Commonwealth Room starting at 6PM

Machine’s Final Pride Kick Off (18+) with pop-up performances from some of your favorite local drag queens and karaoke with Rob Botelho

Yaasss Pride with special guest, Naomi Smalls from RuPaul’s Drag Race for Yaasss Pride! She will be performing alongside your Yaasss girls, Alana Thicc, Penny Tentiary and Yune Neptune. DJ Begbick – doors open at 10PM

FRIDAY 

Joe Posa as Joan Rivers, “Back & Bitter Than Ever”! performs at Club Cafe for one night only

Blend & Fields Corner Main Street Dorchester PRIDE is back for its third celebration starting at 8PM at Blend

Boudoir: a Sultry Underground Queer Dance Party for Boston Pride heartfelt expression of music, dance, performance and atmospheric gratutitude to the queer community of Boston to honor the annual feast of PRIDE – two tiers of tickets available for this party that starts at 9PM

Super GQB: Pride Edition is at The Good Life in downtown starting at 9PM

MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy Boston Pride is in Cambridge at the Middle East, doors open at 9PM

H E R O E S Friday June 7: PRIDE Edition takes place right around the corner from MOBD at Sonia and will be playing 80s New Wave

dbar Pride Stop Light Party is always a lot of fun so stop by and be mindful of the color codes: Single – Ask Me – Taken

Machine’s Final Pride Blowout with Adore Delano this will be Ramrod/Machine’s final Boston Pride celebration so join them with special guest Adore Delano to celebrate starting at 10PM

Chandler Street Block Party, gay bostonSATURDAY

Boston Pride Parade starts at 11AM in Copley Square before it winds through the South End – but take your time this parade is always running late

Boston Pride Concert at Government Center will include the likes of Todrick Hall, Robin S. and Beth Sacks from 12-6PM

Chandler Street Block Party starts after the parade finishes and runs til 7PM – all money raised goes to benefit the AIDS Action Committee of Massachusetts

DONT ASK DONT TELL: FLUX ft. Pissy Pussy *Queer Pride 2019*is back with another amazing party at Great Scott in Allston starting at 10PM

Visceral / PRIDE dance night that takes the audience on a journey through the sensuous and daring sounds of techno and beyond at The Lower Level

Legacy Pride with Yvie Oddly is in the Theater District – doors open at 10PM

Epic Saturdays *Pride 2019 Main Event* takes place at the House of Blues with the doors opening at 9PM — this party will sell out

gay bostonSUNDAY

Taste The Pride at Stella’s Celebratory Gay Pride Brunch on Sunday June 9th. We will be featuring LVP (Lisa Vanderpump) Rosé

Boston Pride Back Bay Block Party starts at 1PM but won’t get busy until later in the afternoon – definitely make plans to stop by and enjoy this party

Spill the Tea W Boston’s Tea Dance keeps the party going for those looking for an alternative to the large block party in Back Bay from 4-9PM at the W

Mass Bears and Cubs Harbor Cruise leaves at 6PM so make sure you don’t arrive fashionably late otherwise you’ll miss out on all the fun and great music

*sip* PRIDE EDITION w/DJ Brian Halligan X Garden Club & DUSTY takes place downstairs at Jacques starting at 6PM

Pride Retro Tea begins at 6PM at Club Cafe

Pabllo Vittar Live in Concert the famous Brazilian drag queen will be performing at Royale – doors open at 8PM

Wicked Huge Pride Party Finale is at Candibar – doors open at 9PM

New South End restaurant Black Lamb to open this summer

south end dining, Heather Lynch, Colin Lynch

Heather and Colin Lynch of Bar Mezzana, Shore Leave, No Relation, and the soon-to-open Black Lamb brasserie on Tremont Street in the South End

The team behind the popular restaurants Bar Mezzana and Shore Leave / No Relation will be opening a third restaurant in the South End called Black Lamb in the space previously occupied by Stephi’s on Tremont Street, that closed earlier this year.

Located at 571 Tremont Street in the heart of the South End, Black Lamb is described as an “American brasserie” and will serve lunch, dinner, and weekend brunch. Although there are few details about the new restaurant, plans are for it to open later this summer.

You can follow their progress on their IG account, @blacklambbos.  More information about Black Lamb from EaterBoston here.

Scruffy Sunday

handsome, cute guy, bed headInserting a little scruff into your Sunday morning. Enjoy the rest of your day.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

modus vivendi, niko wirachman, handsome, hunkToday’s coffee comes courtesy of Modus Vivendi being worn by the handsome German model, Niko Wirachman who is both a model and actor now living in London.

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Click on this week’s comic strip to enlargeClick here if you would like to see  the previous Adam & Andy

SpeakEasy Stage presents The View Upstairs

bosarts, boston theaterSpeakEasy Stage Company is closing out their 2018 – 2019 season with the musical, The View Upstairs, which opened on Thursday, May 31 and will run through June 22 at the Calderwood Pavilion in the South End.

The musical, which coincides with Boston Pride and Pride Month, is based on the real-life events of the 1973 arson attack at the UpStairs Lounge, a gay bar in New Orleans. The musical centers on Wes, a young fashion designer from 2017, who buys an abandoned building in the French Quarter and finds himself transported to the UpStairs Lounge, a vibrant seventies gay bar. As this forgotten community comes to life, Wes embarks on an exhilarating journey of self-exploration that spans two generations of gay history. Featuring a gritty, glam rock score and a tight-knit ensemble of unforgettable characters, The View UpStairs asks what has been gained and lost in the fight for equality, and how the past can help guide us through an uncertain future.

The View Upstairs
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Want to know more? Read The Boston Globe’s review of The SpeakEasy production and it’s impact on us today in Byrne’s article, In revisiting a tragedy, ‘The View UpStairs’ opens a window to ’70s gay culture.

Furry Friday

hairy man wearing white underwear

Past Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser: 
How can someone go for 7-days without sleeping?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Make the most of the summer by meeting up with friends and going to one or more of these events or parties. I’d like to give a shout out to everyone who helped organize and make possible Provincetown’s 2nd annual Pride Weekend, the  Tennessee Williams Festival Gala on Saturday which Ms. Kathleen Turner will be at and of course, this Sunday is the 34th Annual AIDS Walk & Run Boston.Provincetown Pride Weekend starts on Friday and runs through Sunday

Tea Dance at the Boatslip starts at 4PM each Friday in Provincetown – start your weekend off with some great music, views of Ptown harbor and a cold drink

The View Upstairs (Opening Weekend) SpeakEasy Stage presents this new play about a gay bar in New Orleans French Quarter in the 1970s – get tickets while the show runs through June 22 at the Calderwood in the South End

The Booty Hole Chats: Part Three Join us for Part Three of the Booty Hole Chats, on Friday from 5-7PM at AIDS Action in JP where we explore anal health. These chats are free and open to the public, and food will be served. Questions? Please contact William Graves at 857.313.6576.

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston Gay Men’s Chorus presents: God Save The Queens with performances on Friday, Saturday and Sunday in beautiful Jordan Hall – Get your tickets today

Don’t Tell Boston (Financial Dist) Takeover! Showtime is 7:30 on Thursday at a location in downtown (exact location provided after tickets purchased – learn more about this guerrilla comedy night sweeping Boston and the US here) These shows sell out so get your tickets early

Revolution: It’s Time hosted by Jim Murray Events is downstairs at the Middle East in Central Square – check out this new monthly gay dance night – doors open at 9PM on Friday

Dueling Drag Divas are back this summer at Mainestreet in Ogunquit performing each Friday and Saturday at 9:30PM (Tix required)

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

Aladdin Night at Caliente Friday Nights East Boston and North Shore Gays… Check out this new gay night this Friday at Wonderland in Revere and let me know what you think about this new venue

Club Cafe, gay boston DJAnthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Gelato Festival America: Boston 2019 is Saturday and Sunday at Eataly Boston – I’ve never been to this and would love to hear from anyone who goes to check it out – note that you do have to purchase tickets to attend

Drag Queen Story Hour returns on Saturday from 11AM to 121PM at the Jamaica Plain Boston Public Library branch 

Boston Pride’s: High Heel Dash for Charity This year everyone is encouraged to come dressed as a super hero in heels – Saturday starting at 2PM at the Bell in Hand Tavern

Ptown’s Tennessee Williams Festival Opening Gala on Saturday kicks off the week long celebration and this year features a conversation with Kathleen Turner – tickets still remain – in Ptown

Pride Party at PEM is this Saturday get your Pride on with the legendary Ana Matronic of Scissor Sisters and host of Dance Devotion on BBC Radio 2 all the fun starts up in Salem at 7PM and runs til Midnight

Don’t Tell Boston (Newbury Street) Takeover!  Has 2 locations on Saturday: Takeover Show 1 and Takeover Show 2 Showtimes are 7:30 on  (exact location provided after tickets purchased – learn more about this guerrilla comedy night sweeping Boston and the US here) These shows sell out so get your tickets early

Blend Saturdays with DJ Aga bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

UnderBear is a monthly dance party with no cover and a clothes check, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

34th Annual AIDS Walk & Run Boston come down to the Hatch Shell on Sunday to show your support and reach out to encourage friends to do the same – all money raised goes to the very worthy AIDS Action Committee

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

DotOUT Summer BBQ Party is this Sunday starting at 4:30PM at Cedar Grove Gardens 

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

DateMyFriend.PPTX is back again at Aeronaut Brewery on Sunday evening starting at 7PM – each pitch followed up by an audience Q&A

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Don’t Tell Boston (Cambridge) Takeover! Showtime is 8:30 on Sunday the exact location is provided after tickets purchased – learn more about this guerrilla comedy night sweeping Boston and the US here) These shows sell out so get your tickets early

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Heels for Hope is next Monday, June 3rd

Boston Pride, gay bostonTickets for this year’s Heels for Hope are on sale (get’em here). This year’s event takes place next week on the Monday, June 3rd at Club Cafe.

If you purchase tickets ahead of time you can get a free drink courtesy of Ketel One botanicals so get your tickets before this event sells out. The money goes to the very worthy not-for-profit, BAGLY.

Heels for Hope at Club Cafe
Monday, June 3rd || 7:00 PM – 11:00 PM
Learn more and get your tickets here

If you need to pick up a new pair of pumps, support local businesses and head over to Dorothy’s Boutique on Mass Ave, the shop specializes in selling shoes for “big girls” and all sorts of other tempting accessories.