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Temptation Tuesday

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What to do this week: March 18 – 24

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There is a lot happening this week, starting with the AIDS Action fundraiser, Taste of the South End, which I cannot say enough about and would encourage you to attend. Additionally, this Thursday is Opening Night for Coppélia from the Boston Ballet and my friend Frankie Campofelice and Andy Lantz  perform their cabaret show Lush Life: Moving Pictures at 8PM in the Napolean Room at Club Cafe.

Later this weekend Cathedral Station is hosting something called Men Madness on Friday and  DONT ASK DONT TELL: The 100th Party sounds like a party not to miss. On Sunday you can celebrate Kris Knieval’s birthday with her Disco Dance Off Party at Club Cafe.

Taste of the South End

Taste of the South End is this Tuesday

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Taste of the South End often sells out so if you don’t have tickets you may want to reach out to find out if you can get tickets at the door to this incredibly fun tasting that features 40+ restaurants from the neighborhood

The Moth Story Slam is open to anyone with a 5 minute story to share on the night’s posted theme – this monthly open mic night is at 8PM at the Oberon

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Cambridge Center Foyer in Kendall Square

OUTBio March Event is a meet up for LGBTQ professionals in biotech who socialize and network at events throughout the year – if interested click on the link to join and for more details about this months program on Thursday

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The Gender Bending Fashion exhibit at the MFA is now open to the public and The Apparel Designers Network invites you to join them this evening to tour the exhibit together on Thursday, starting at 7PM

Boston Ballet’s Coppélia (Opening Night) it is opening night at the Boston Opera House – get your tickets before the production closes on March 31

Lush Life: Moving Pictures features Frankie Campofelice (vocals) and Andy Lantz (piano) on Thursday at 8PM in the Napolean Room at Club Cafe

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

SWEAT is hosted the fourth Friday of each month by Mr. New England Leather, Eric Alden, at Machine on Thursday starting at 10PM in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays presents: Sissy That Walk weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, Club Cafe and Trophy Room each Friday in Boston

Men Madness are you 30+? and want to enjoy March Madness while meeting other men? Join Fenway Health at Cathedral Station for a fun and informative night starting at 8PM in Boston on Friday

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

DONT ASK DONT TELL: The 100th Party come out and celebrate this milestone party at Great Scott in Allston

Blend Saturdays with DJ Aga bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

TheaterThe Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Brunch of Queens is this Sunday with special guest Vee Sukhard at the Bell and Hand – doors open at 11AM, drag show starts at 12PM in Boston

Kris Knieval’s Disco Dance Off Party DJ Susan Ethera will be playing all of Kris’ favorite music to celebrate her birthday starting at 6PM on Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

*sip* Tea Dance presents NEW DAD live set & b2b DJ set Cerne/Brodeur at Jacques on Sunday, starting at 6PM in Bay Village

Gay Beer Club Sundays is meeting this weekend at Backlash Brewery in Boston starting at 6PM

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Scruffy Sunday

St. Patrick's DayCouldn’t help myself and had to post this St. Patrick’s themed Scruffy Sunday.

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Saturday morning coffee

Skip the cream and sugar, I’ll take my coffee with a hint of abdominal definition.

Saturday morning comics

Adam and Andy cartoon, james asal jr.ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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Are you a fan of Adam & Andy? You can now purchase “Adam & Andy The Definitive Collection”, which includes comics from 2015 – 2018, selected classics, character profiles and is available in paperback or hardcover. You can purchase a copy by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Furry Friday

handsome, hunk, hairy man, sexy guy, muscular guy, man candyThis week’s gorgeous photo comes from the All Male Pics group on Facebook.

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. To mix things up, I’ve included a decidedly provocative riddle to see if you can come up with the correct answer. I’ll confirm answers later so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away.

This week’s brain teaser:  

All men have one, but it’s longer on some than others. The Pope never uses his, and a man gives it to his wife once they’re married.

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

pitts, arm pits, weekend funThere is a little bit of something for everyone this weekend. If you’re looking for an option to bars or clubs get tickets for the closing weekend of Lyric Stage Co’s production of The Little Foxes or check out the Preview Party for the 35th Annual Wicked Queer Film Festival on Saturday. The largest event this weekend will be 2019 South Boston St. Patrick’s Day Parade on Sunday.

However, if you’re looking to get out, grab a drink or two and possibly go dancing there is plenty to do. Here are a few options: MFA “Gender Bending Fashion” Late Nites, H E R O E S  and  S&M Comedy Night on Friday.

If you’re looking for an excuse to get out of town, head down to Provincetown on Friday for Bears out of Hibernation 2019, which runs through Sunday.

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Bears out of hibernation weekend starts Friday in Provincetown

Bears out of Hibernation 2019 starts this Friday and runs through Sunday in Provincetown – for detais check their Facebook page

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

MFA “Gender Bending Fashion” Late Nites is this Friday from 8PM – 2AM be sure you have tickets before you head to the museum as this usually sells out and the lines can get pretty long if you’re not smart about when you go

RPDR Season XI Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, Club Cafe and Trophy Room each Friday through March 1st in Boston

S&M Comedy Night is hosted the third Friday of every month is Boston’s only S&M Stand up comedy show – come to Jacques Underground starting at 7:30PM with your hosts Mitzzy Anne & Stirling Smith in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party is this Friday from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Wicked Queer Film

Preview Party for the 35th Annual Wicked Queer Film Festival is at Post 390 this Saturday from 12-3PM (tickets req’d) in Boston

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Mayhem Saturdays – Spring Fling at Blend join DJ Aga and the fabulous bartender and organizer of all things good, Luis, at Blend this Saturday

Feeling Lucky St. Patrick’s Day Party is at dbar on Saturday with DJ Jay Ine, starting at 10PM in Dorchester

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

South Boston St. Patrick’s Day Parade starts at 1PM

2019 South Boston St. Patrick’s Day Parade the one-time notorious anti-gay parade is now open to all and will be marching through Southie on Sunday starting at 1PM

Sunday Bear Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

More news about gay urban enclaves

According to recent research by the University of British Columbia, which was published last week in Pink News, gay and lesbian spaces in cities are dispersing and diversifying rather than disappearing.

The study finds that only 12% of LGBTQ Americans older than 18 years of age currently live in gay enclaves “gayborhoods” in major cities and more than 70% (72% to be precise) have never lived in a ‘gay neighborhood’. In many cities same sex couples with children are choosing to live in more suburban settings. Provincetown, MA, North Hampton, MA and Boston’s Jamaica Plain neighborhood where called out as top postcodes for lesbians (no surprise to anyone familiar with these places). However, top postcodes for gay men remain the largest gay, urban neighborhoods like The Castro and West Hollywood. But trends suggest that while the traditional “gayborhood” is changing it is reflecting a diversity that better represents the make up of the United States.

We will see what ultimately happens to the few remaining gay enclaves, but a diversifying neighborhood where gay individuals, couples and families call home and are both vocal and visible seems like a better alternative to disappearing.

Vintage gay

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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This week on Instagram: benjohnstondesign

ben johnstonBen Johnston is a Toronto-based illustrator / designer from Cape Town, South Africa. He has done extensive work with recognizable brands like Nike, Google, Lululemon, Virgin and more. If you are not familiar with him you can learn more about the artist and his work by visiting his website at, benjohnston.ca.

Check out his work which is proudly displayed on his active Instagram account and consider following him if you like what you see. I love his work and always know his designs the minute I see them in my feed without needing to see the handle. I hope you like his work as much as I do.

Follow this account on Instagram here, instagram.com/benjohnstondesign.

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Wicked Queer Preview Party: Saturday, March 16

Wicked Queer Film Festival Preview Party

Boston’s annual LGBTQ film festival – better known as the Wicked Queer Film Festival – is hosting a preview party this Saturday, March 16th at Post 390 in the Back Bay. If you’re a fan of independent film you should really check out this festival which is among the longest running LGBTQ film festivals in the country.

Wicked Queer FilmWicked Queer Preview Party
Saturday, March 16 12PM – 3PM
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The preview party will showcase this year’s festival schedule, show trailers and have plenty of delicious food courtesy of Post 390. All proceeds raised will go towards supporting the film festival and LGBTQ filmmakers.

Temptation Tuesday

jock, handsome, junk, blueI can’t believe it but this week marks my 350th Temptation Tuesday post. This remains one of my most popular posts (no surprise). Much thanks to everyone who checks out this post each week.

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