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What to do this week: July 3 – 9

Bear Week, Ptown, Provincetown

Provincetown’s Bear Week starts Saturday, July 8th

The week starts off with a bang with 4th of July celebrations here in Boston and the Circuit in full swing in Provincetown for Independence Week but starting next weekend Bear Week kicks off ensuring that there will be no shortage of pre-Bear Week parties here in Boston and plenty to keep you busy through Sunday.

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Boston’s biggest show, Boston Pops Fireworks Spectacular is Tuesday, July 4th

MONDAY – WEDNESDAY

Boston Pops concert (no fireworks) on Monday is basically the dry run for the performance on the 4th; gates open at 5PM and concert starts at 8PM in Boston

Men’s Mary Monday Mandarin Meetup is a social group for gay men who will get together on Monday at 6:30PM at Mary Chung Restaurant in Cambridge

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Cards Against Humanity is played on Monday nights at The Alley Bar starting at 8PM in Boston

Show Girls Weekly Talent Show is hosted each Monday by Ryan Landry and guests each Monday at the A-House in Provincetown

Boston Pops concert & Fireworks is a Boston tradition every 4th of July taking place down along the esplanade in Boston

Movies on the Greenway presents: Twister is from The Coolidge Theater on Tuesday at the Greenway between Milk & India Streets in Boston

Taco Tuesday is a fun way to socialize and eat on the cheap in the South End; first come, first serve – hosted every Tuesday at Tremont 647 in Boston

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Bingo with Tiki Bronstein takes place at the A-House starting at 9:30 every Wednesday in Provincetown

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Free yoga sessions take place on the Boston Common each Thursday

THURSDAY

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Free Summer Yoga takes place each Thursday through August 31st at the Frog Pond on the Common starting at 6PM

Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Thump! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

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Before hopping on the Ptown ferry they come to The Alley for an insanely fun night

FRIDAY

Sail from Padanaram to P’Town Boston’s gay ‘cruising club’ sets sail from Dartmouth, MA to Provincetown

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip parties start up this weekend with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

SoWa First Fridays allows you to peruse galleries and artist studios in the South End from 5 – 9PM in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Movie Night: Captain America is part of the Boston Harbor Hotel’s “Movie by Moonlight” series showing each Friday this summer at Rowes Wharf in Boston

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Unofficial Bear Week dance party takes place the Friday before Bear Week each year at The Alley Bar (arrive early it will be packed) in Boston

Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) from the Welcoming Committee will take over another “straight” bar in the area – location TBA later this week

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: The Brood shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

Purgatory’s underwear party during Bear Week starts at 9:30

SATURDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Bear Weekend: Pre-Tea Cocktails at P-Town Marina is hosted by Boston’s gay ‘cruising club’ starting at 3:30 in Provincetown

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Bear Week Underwear Party starts at 9:30 at Club Purgatory in Provincetown

Muscle Bear Party with DJ DJ Thiago Oliveira starts at 10PM at Paramount at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

The Coolidge After Midnight: Videodrome starring Keanu Reeves shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

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Hot Mess Sundays is at Candibar is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

SUNDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance starts at 4PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Bear Week Boat Sunset Cruise the music starts at 4PM and the boat pulls out to the harbor at 5PM in Provincetown

Bear Week: Leather & Chrome starts at 9PM at Purgatory in Provincetown

Bear’s Clasic Disco starts at 10PM at the A-House in Provincetown

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

New study ranks best LGBT cities in the world

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San Francisco ranked 10th in Nestpick’s 100 best gay cities in the world

On the 48th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, Nestpick, a Berlin-based online housing platform, has issued a list of the 100 best LGBT cities in the world. For a city to rank strongly they focused on the following criteria: LGBT dating scene, nightlife, open minded citizens, and low levels of hate crime.  They also looked at national laws that impact lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, such as the right to get married or adopt children.

Based on Nestpick’s findings the top five cities are: Madrid, Amsterdam, Toronto, Tel Aviv and London. New York City (9th) and San Francisco (10th) are the highest rated US cities. Below is the full list of US cities that made the cut.

US City Rankings
9. New York City
10. San Francisco
24. Austin
27. Miami
36. Portland (OR)
40. Los Angeles
45. Chicago
52. Boston
55. Seattle
58. Las Vegas

poem, poetry, casual encountersAmerican cities that didn’t make this list, that surprised me are:  Atlanta, Dallas, Fort Lauderdale, New Orleans and Washington, D.C. but that is largely based on nightlife and maybe the other metrics used made them drop off the list.

It’s no coincidence that the world’s most exciting cities have a strong LGBT community, contributing much to the dynamism, openness and prosperity which defines locations such as Madrid, Amsterdam and Berlin”, Ömer Kücükdere, Managing Director of Nestpick.

To review the complete list of city rankings or to read more about their methodology visit, nestpick.com/best-lgbt-cities.

What to do this weekend

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Tea Dance at The Boatslip is crazy busy for 4th of July Week

It is a busy weekend with pre-4th of July celebrations taking place everywhere you look so there is no excuse to stay at home.

In addition to all the events happening in Boston, the Circuit hits Provincetown, starting today adding even more options to the mix and Ogunquit has parties every night with two performances from Hedda Lettuce at Mainestreet, but don’t worry, you won’t be heading out of town, Kiki Beach is back again this Saturday and UnderBear and Saga are just a few of the many options available to you.

gay bostonTHURSDAY

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Free Summer Yoga takes place each Thursday through August 31st at the Frog Pond on the Common starting at 6PM

Pride was a Riot: Stories of Love, Loss, Community, & Rebellion is hosted by the History Project starting at 6PM at the Boston Living Center in Boston

Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

50 Shades of Bey offers a night of original choreography performed to a selection of the Queen Bey’s bootylicious catalog at the Oberon in Cambridge

Independence Week Kick Off Party is at The Paramount at The Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Wicked After Dark is a special one-night-only cabaret featuring WICKED cast member, Tregoney Shepherd, helps raise money for local charity Community Servings as well as Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS! starting at 10PM at Club Cafe in Boston

Summer Camp at Ego dance party starts at 9PM in Providence

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Thump! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

Great date night option: Watch Notting Hill outside at Rowes Wharf tonight

FRIDAY

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip parties start up this weekend with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

JAWS the movie at Lawn on D is a free showing of the classic filmed on Martha’s Vineyard with the park opening at 5PM in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Movie Night: Notting Hill is part of the Boston Harbor Hotel’s “Movie by Moonlight” series showing each Friday this summer at Rowes Wharf in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Independence 2017 with DJ Ben Baker is a huge dance party at The Crown and Anchor’s Paramount dance club in Provincetown

PECS kicks off the 4th of July Parties at A-House in Provincetown

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: Master’s of The Universe shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

gay ogunquit, mainestreetSATURDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Kiki Beach takes over part of M Street Beach in Southie starting at 12PM in Boston

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Underwear Party is every Saturday night starting at 9:30 at Club Purgatory in Provincetown

Opening Night: Hedda Lettuce performs starting at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

4th of July Saturday night dance party with Boston’s DJ Ranny is at Mainestreet tonight only in Ogunquit

Independence 2017 with DJ Danny Verde is a huge dance party at The Crown and Anchor’s Paramount dance club in Provincetown

Underbear monthly gay dance underwear party starts at 10PM at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

The Coolidge After Midnight: Willow starring Keanu Reeves shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Crown and Anchor, Independence, ProvincetownSUNDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

TRADE Pool Party at The Crown starts at 12PM during Independence Week in Provincetown

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance starts at 4PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Hedda Lettuce performs tonight, starting at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Dance Party with Betty Who is at Town Hall in Provincetown

VICE ROOM with DJ Wayne G dance party at The Crown and Anchor’s Paramount dance club in Provincetown

4th of July Sunday night dance party with Boston’s DJ Steve Sidewalk is at Mainestreet tonight only in Ogunquit

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Gay Men’s Book Club: Gary In Your Pocket

Next month Boston’s Gay Men’s Book Club meets on Monday, July 24th in the Back Bay at Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe on Newbury Street. If you are looking for something to read and interested in meeting gay men in a more social setting that doesn’t involve a gym or a bar, this may be just the group for you.

This month the group is reading Gary In Your Pocket. The book is about Gary Fisher and was edited by Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick after Gary passed away from AIDS at the age of 32 in 1994. Gary Fisher was a gay African American man who enjoyed writing and drawing and was a dedicated diarist. He was born on June 19, 1961 in Bristol, PA, and he attended the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill from 1979-1983 where he studied English and creative writing.  

Gay Men’s Book Club
Monday, July 24th at 7PM
At Trident Booksellers & Cafe

There goes the gayborhood

south end, gay bostonJust ahead of New York City Pride, which took place this past weekend, The New York Times published, Scott James article, “There Goes The Gayborhood” and shared it in the Pride 2017 section of the Sunday Times.

News that neighborhoods like Greenwich Village and The Castro are no longer quite as gay as they once were isn’t news (not for gay men anyway), but I couldn’t help but read the article to hear what Scott James had to say on the matter. James writes, “These changes are due in large part to the increased expense that comes with the rising popularity and gentrification of many inner cities. But growing acceptance, legally and societally, of the L.G.B.T.Q. community is also responsible.

Many of these ‘gayborhoods’ like Boston’s South End were neglected urban areas that had rapidly depopulated from “White Flight” and faced more than their share of economic hardships. The LGBTQ community in the 1960s, 70s and 80s claimed these spaces because much like these parts of the city, homosexuals were perceived as dangerous and undesirable. The irony is that as gayborhoods these communities flourished and in most major cities these former enclaves for the LGBTQ community are now so gentrified they have become a hollow shell of their former self.

None of this is news to the gay community and the underlying economic forces that are driving this trend aren’t going away. However James writes that efforts are also underway to provide a small oasis of LGBTQ pride to neighborhoods that in the past may not have been as well known for their tolerance of gay men; as the LGBTQ community move to other parts of the city. The fact that Dorchester now has gay bars would have been inconceivable in the 80s and 90s, but now, Savin Hill, probably has more gay men moving to it than the traditional gay enclave (the South End) in Boston. What does this mean for our gay community? Time will tell.

Check out Scott James article in the New York Times here.

What to do this week: June 26 – July 2

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The Circuit hits Provincetown this week for 4th of July – Parties start on Thursday

It is a busy week so there is no excuse to stay at home. Below are 50 different events ranging from free movies you can see outside to free workouts.

In addition to all the events happening in Boston, Provincetown’s Independence Week parties start on Thursday adding even more options to the mix, but don’t worry, if you can’t get to Ptown Kiki Beach is back again this Saturday to takeover part of M Street Beach in Southie.

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Bear and Cub Social is at Cathedral Station on Tuesday, June 27th

MONDAY – WEDNESDAY

Boston Gay Men’s Book Club meets on Monday to discuss Search for My Heart by Larry Kramer starting at 7PM at the Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Show Girls Weekly Talent Show is hosted each Monday by Ryan Landry and guests each Monday at the A-House in Provincetown

LGBT Networking Luncheon is at The Globe in Copley Square starting at 12:30PM on Tuesday in Boston

Taco Tuesday is a fun way to socialize and eat on the cheap in the South End; first come, first serve – hosted every Tuesday at Tremont 647 in Boston

Dragathon: Season 9 Boston Takeover (Ticket information here) featuring Nina Bo’Nina Brown, Shea Couleé, Valentina, Eureka O’Hara, Aja, Sasha Velour, Peppermint, Alexis Michelle, and Trinity Taylor. Hosted by JuJubee! is at House of Blues on Tuesday starting at 7PM in Boston

Bear and Cub Social is at Cathedral Station on Tuesday, starting at 7:30PM in Boston

Movies on the Greenway presents: Twister is from The Coolidge Theater on Tuesday at the Greenway between Milk & India Streets in Boston

Beatriz at Dinner @ Kendall Sq. Cinema is hosted by the Boston’s Gay Men Movie Group and they will be meeting at 6:45 to see the new movie from Salma Hyek in Cambridge

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Energy Barre Cardio Dance Party is a free 1 hour cardio dance class from 6-7PM in Faneuil Hall Marketplace in Boston

Bingo with Tiki Bronstein takes place at the A-House starting at 9:30 every Wednesday in Provincetown

THURSDAY

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Free Summer Yoga takes place each Thursday through August 31st at the Frog Pond on the Common starting at 6PM

Pride was a Riot: Stories of Love, Loss, Community, & Rebellion is hosted by the History Project starting at 6PM at the Boston Living Center in Boston

Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

50 Shades of Bey offers a night of original choreography performed to a selection of the Queen Bey’s bootylicious catalog at the Oberon in Cambridge

Independence Week Kick Off Party is at The Paramount at The Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Wicked After Dark is a special one-night-only cabaret featuring WICKED cast member, Tregoney Shepherd, helps raise money for local charity Community Servings as well as Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS! starting at 10PM at Club Cafe in Boston

Summer Camp at Ego dance party starts at 9PM in Providence

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Thump! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

Mainestreet, gay ogunquitFRIDAY

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip parties start up this weekend with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

JAWS the movie at Lawn on D is a free showing of the classic filmed on Martha’s Vineyard with the park opening at 5PM in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Movie Night: Notting Hill is part of the Boston Harbor Hotel’s “Movie by Moonlight” series showing each Friday this summer at Rowes Wharf in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

PECS kicks off the 4th of July Parties at A-House in Provincetown

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: Master’s of The Universe shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

Ptown Independence 2013

Tea Dance at The Boatslip is crazy busy for 4th of July Week so get there early

SATURDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Kiki Beach takes over part of M Street Beach in Southie starting at 12PM in Boston

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Underwear Party is every Saturday night starting at 9:30 at Club Purgatory in Provincetown

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Underbear monthly gay dance underwear party starts at 10PM at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

The Coolidge After Midnight: Willow starring Keanu Reeves shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Provincetown

Trade starts at 12PM at The Crown & Anchor

SUNDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

TRADE Pool Party at The Crown starts at 12PM during Independence Week in Provincetown

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance starts at 4PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Matt Rettemund’s Esquire article on Playgirl

matthew rettenmundMatthew Rettenmund (a.k.a. the blogger behind boyculture blog) has an article in Esquire Magazine about the rise and fall of Playgirl Magazine. I wanted to give him a shout out and share with you his article since he is such a good friend to this blog, actively promoting many of my posts.

Check out Matt’s article in Esquire magazine here.

Dot OUT Summer Tea Dance at dbar is today

dbar, gay bostonC’mon down to dbar for Dot OUT’s annual summer solstice tea dance. They havve DJ Begbick spinning your favorite music from 4-8PM.

For more information about today’s Tea  Dance, click here.

Saturday morning coffee

abs, muscles, handsome, hunk, man drinking coffeeEnjoy your morning cup of joe (or whatever you may want to call him).

What to do this weekend

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Glam Drag Bingo Brunch at Trophy Room starts at 12:30 PM

This weekend is packed with a wide range of events so pick a few and get out. Some of the things available include free yoga on the Boston Common, the 4th Annual Donna Summer Roller Disco party at Gov’t Center, Boston JerkFest & Rum Tasting, Trophy Room’s Glam Drag Bingo Brunch and DotOUT’s summer tea dance at dbar.

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Free Yoga on Boston Common every Thursday through August

THURSDAY

Provincetown Portuguese Festival runs Thursday through Sunday in Provincetown

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Free Summer Yoga takes place each Thursday through August 31st at the Frog Pond on the Common starting at 6PM

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Thump! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

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Donna Summer Tribute Roller Disco at Gov’t Center starts at 6PM

FRIDAY

Peabody Essex Museum (PEM) is open and free to the public today from 10AM-5PM thanks to the Highland Foundation’s Free Fun Fridays in Salem

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip parties start up this weekend with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

4th Annual Donna Summer Roller Disco Celebration takes place at City Hall by the Government Center T station from 6-10PM in Boston

Boston JerkFest Rum Tasting is tonight at the Ben Franklin Technology Institute from 6:30PM – 9PM in Boston (Click here for a GroupOn)

Pride Kick-Off Sunset Cruise hosted by Rainbow Times leaves from Pickering Wharf starting at 7PM in Salem

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques from 9-12 every 2nd Monday and every 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: Lethal Weapon shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

gay bostonSATURDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Boston JerkFest Food Festival and Rum Tasting is at the Ben Franklin Technology Institute from 11AM – 8PM in Boston (Click here for a GroupOn)

North Shore Pride Parade & Festival starts at 12PM on the Salem Common in Salem

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Paula Poundstone performs at the Wilbur Theatre starting at 8PM in Boston

Underwear Party is every Saturday night starting at 9:30 at Club Purgatory in Provincetown

So Hot Saturdaes: Burning Vogue Ball is at Peggy O’Neill’s starting at 10PM

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

The Coolidge After Midnight: Full Metal Jacket shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

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Dot OUT summer Tea Dance at dbar starts at 4PM

SUNDAY

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Central Flea includes goods from Boston Art and Vintage to Afro-punk and Salvage, Food Trucks to Fair Trade from 11AM -5PM in Central Sq Cambridge

Glam Brunch Bingo is back this weekend from 12:30-3:30PM at The Trophy Room in Boston

Gay Men 50+ MeetUp is meeting for brunch at Club Cafe at 1PM (RSVPs Required!) in Boston

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance starts at 4PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

DotOUT’s Summer Tea Dance starts at 4PM at dbar in Boston

Beers, Boards & Besties combines having drinks and playing games with The Welcoming Committee starting at 5PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Manscaping

handsome, hunkI’ve suddenly developed an appreciation for yard work.

What to do this week: June 19 – 25

Sunday, June 25th is the annual Dot OUT summer Tea Dance at dbar

This week there are nearly 50 different events and programs happening in Boston, Provincetown, Ogunquit and Providence.  A few highlights include: Opus Affair’s monthly cocktail social, the Provincetown Portuguese Festival, the 4th Annual Donna Summer Roller Disco Party, the 4th annual JerkFest & Rum Tasting as well as the DotOUT Summer Tea Dance at dbar.

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Opus Affair monthly cocktail social is Monday, June 19th || Photo by Kyle Hemingway

MONDAY – WEDNESDAY

Opus Affair monthly cocktails take place this Monday at Brick & Mortar in Central Square starting at 6PM in Cambridge

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

Broadway Gives Back: Mamma Mia starts at 8PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Auditions for the American Tribal Love Rock Musical: Hair will take place on both Monday & Tuesday starting at 7PM at Club Cafe in Boston

Taco Tuesday is a fun way to socialize and eat on the cheap in the South End; first come, first serve – hosted every Tuesday at Tremont 647 in Boston

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

South End Summer Solstice Neighborhood Party starts at 5:30PM in Blackstone Square in Boston

Bi+Guys/z Social Night are meeting Wednesday from 6:30 – 9:30PM at Cathedral Station in Boston

Bingo with Tiki Bronstein takes place at the A-House starting at 9:30 every Wednesday in Provincetown

Ptown

The Provincetown Portuguese Festival is June 22-25

THURSDAY

Provincetown Portuguese Festival runs Thursday through Sunday in Provincetown

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Free Summer Yoga takes place each Thursday through August 31st at the Frog Pond on the Common starting at 6PM

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

Thump! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

gay bostonFRIDAY

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip parties start up this weekend with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

4th Annual Donna Summer Roller Disco Celebration takes place at City Hall by the Government Center T station from 6-10PM in Boston

Boston JerkFest Rum Tasting is tonight at the Ben Franklin Technology Institute from 6:30PM – 9PM in Boston (Click here for a GroupOn)

Pride Kick-Off Sunset Cruise hosted by Rainbow Times leaves from Pickering Wharf starting at 7PM in Salem

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques from 9-12 every 2nd Monday and every 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: Lethal Weapon shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

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SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Boston JerkFest Food Festival and Rum Tasting is at the Ben Franklin Technology Institute from 11AM – 8PM in Boston (Click here for a GroupOn)

North Shore Pride Parade & Festival starts at 12PM on the Salem Common in Salem

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Paula Poundstone performs at the Wilbur Theatre starting at 8PM in Boston

Underwear Party is every Saturday night starting at 9:30 at Club Purgatory in Provincetown

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

The Coolidge After Midnight: Full Metal Jacket shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

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SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Central Flea includes goods from Boston Art and Vintage to Afro-punk and Salvage, Food Trucks to Fair Trade from 11AM -5PM in Central Sq Cambridge

Boston JerkFest Food Festival and Rum Tasting is back for a 5th year at the Ben Franklin Technology Institute from 11AM – 8PM in Boston (Click here for a GroupOn)

Glam Brunch Bingo is back this weekend from 12:30-3:30PM at The Trophy Room in Boston

Gay Men 50+ MeetUp is meeting for brunch at Club Cafe at 1PM (RSVPs Required!) in Boston

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance starts at 4PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

DotOUT’s Summer Tea Dance starts at 4PM at dbar in Boston

Beers, Boards & Besties combines having drinks and playing games with The Welcoming Committee starting at 5PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

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Saturday morning coffee

hunk, muscles, man drinking coffeeI wonder if his coffee mug is accurate. I’d like to test this out.

What to do this weekend

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There is a lot happening in the area, including Rhode Island Pride which takes place in Providence this weekend. To see their full calendar of events check out, prideri.com. In addition to Pride in the Ocean State, there is plenty happening including Kiki Beach, a Boyfriends tribute to Madonna, followed by a Beyoncé brunch and the return of Sleaze at The Alley just to name just a few events.

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ICA Free Thursday Nights is a great option if you want to get out but your budget limits your options (from 5-9PM weekly) in Boston

Karaoke Thursday is held each week downstairs at Machine in Boston

Sondheim on Sondheim takes place at Symphony Hall in Boston

Third Thursdays is a casual social hosted by the Gardner Museum each month starting at 5:30 PM in Boston

Martha Graham Cracker does Boston The world’s tallest and hairiest drag queen and her band are come to the Oberon starting at 7:30PM in Cambridge

Turnt! Thursday is hosted every Thursday starting at 10PM at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

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Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders on Friday  in Somerville

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

Show Your Pride is a special party at Mainestreet this weekend to kick off Pride month around the country and in Ogunquit

Big Daddy is for all you silver foxes and the men who love them at the A-House in Provincetown

Pop Rocks Karaoke is every Friday starting at 10PM at dbar in Dorchester

Boyfriends: Madonna is a monthly gay dance party that starts at 10PM and with music from DJ Brent Covington at The Milkyway in Jamaica Plain

RI Pride Block Party is at Ego starting at 8PM in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnite: Robocop shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM in Brookline

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Beyoncé Brunch starts at 11AM at the 6B Lounge in Beacon Hill in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday through the end of October in Boston  

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Underwear Party is every Saturday night starting at 9:30 at Club Purgatory in Provincetown

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Sleaze: Pride Hangover Edition is a monthly party with no cover charge starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in Boston

So Hot Saturdaes is Boston’s no-attitude gay dance party hosted every Saturday at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

Rhode Island Pride: When We Rise it is Pride Weekend in Rhode Island and the bars will be hopping all night in Providence

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party on Saturday at Paradise in Cambridge

UNITE Saturdays is the weekly dance party every Saturday that starts at 10PM at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera in Boston

The Coolidge After Midnite: Predator shows at The Coolidge starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

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SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday through the end of October in Boston  

Kiki Beach hosts their first takeover of M Street Beach in Southie starting at 11AM(ish) between the Community Health Center and the first bus shelter – look for  all the speedos and listen for all the great music

Tea Dance at the ‘Slip with DJ MaryAlice from 4-7PM at the Boatslip in Provincetown

Sunday Tea Dance starts at 4PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Bears Tea Dance takes place the third Sunday of each month at Club Cafe, starting at 5PM in Boston

These Old Broads Drag Show hosted by Jacqueline DiMera at The Colosseum starting at 6PM in Providence

Countdown to RI Pride: Lube Wrestling is hosted by Kira Stone and Jacqueline DiMerastarts at 9PM at EGO in Providence

Pajama Party Sunday with DJ Denis spinning your favorite music from the 80s, 90s and now is every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Washington D.C. Pride and the National Equality & Pride March

This weekend Sergio and I visited our friends David and Mark (shown above). Once upon a time these two wonderful men lived in Boston but they moved away and now Washington D.C. is now their home. The opportunity to see our friends, experience D.C. Pride for the first time and participate in the National Equality & Pride March on Sunday, June 11th made for a fantastic weekend. I’m also happy to say we weren’t the only ones from Boston; nearly everywhere we went we saw guys from Boston participating in D.C. Pride and the march. Washington DC Pride, gay DCDavid and Mark were the consummate hosts. We were able to enjoy the D.C. Pride parade from 17th Street for an hour or so before going to their friend Rodrigo’s beautiful condo which had a very large roof deck affording great views of the parade and also happened to have a table full of cold adult beverages.

D.C. Pride was really excellent and was the perfect appetizer for the main course (so to speak), the National Equality & Pride March, the following day.  I might be biased, but I thought Sergio had the best t-shirt of the entire march. Below Sergio’s photo are two nice guys who also gave me a good laugh with their Absolutely Fabulous inspired t-shirts. Gay DC, National Equality & Pride MarchGay DC, National Equality & Pride MarchGay DC, National Equality & Pride MarchFollowing all our marching the group above which are all friends of David and Mark from D.C. and Charlotte did what all gay men do best on a Sunday afternoon – we went to brunch. Our trip was capped off with a very relaxing dinner at another friend’s home in a leafy neighborhood of D.C. All told the weekend was an amazing time and while I have no idea how many people marched on Sunday, it was a wonderful experience we will remember.

Happy Pride