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Saturday morning coffee

Enjoy your morning cup of joe (or whatever you’d like to call him).

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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Click here if you would like to see the previous Adam & Andy

Furry Friday

Thank god it’s Furry Friday. Have a great weekend everyone.

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:  What has many keys but can’t open a single lock?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ host Dave Sawyer at 8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK at10PM
SATURDAY: DJ BEGBICK at 10PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke at 8PM

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THURSDAY: Pride Sports Social w/ music by Twisted Gleam at 8PM
FRIDAY: Super Nature w/ DJ Brian Derrick at 10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Aga at 10PM
SUNDAY: Mizery Loves Company Drag Brunch & Munch make your reservations 11AM-4PM

Cathedral Station Open but no programming scheduled.

Club CafeProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry starting 8/16
THURSDAY: DJ FrenchY at 10PM, drag show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: Push Play: Lil Nas X at 8:30PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM
SATURDAY: DJ FrenchY at 10PM
SUNDAY: 🐻 Bear Tea w/ DJ Brian Derrick starts at 5PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke Night – Give me back my mic w/ Ryan Grow at 8PM
SATURDAY: Ultra Violet dance party w/ DJ Mascari at 10PM
SUNDAY: “Fall Ball” tailgate tea dance w/ FLAG Flag Football and DJ Joe Bermudez at 4PM

Jacques CabaretProof of COVID-19 vaccination required for entry
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! at 8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Kylie Sonique Love at Legacy at 10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY at Legacy at 10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Ranny at Legacy at 10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candi Bar at 10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

LGBTQ+ nights & events

THURSDAY: Broadway Trivia Hosted by Justin McCoubry at Club Cafe entry fee is $15 / person with a maximum of 6 people per team.

THURSDAY: Queeraoke Thursdays is back at Midway Cafe in JP every Thursday at 10PM

THURSDAY: (NEW GAY NIGHT) That Very Thursday w/ music by DB SWEETS from The Glitter boys starting at 9PM at The W Hotel Boston

FRIDAY: Push Play – Club Cafe Plays the entire Montero Album by Lil Nas X starting at 8:30PM

FRIDAY: HEROES (18+ Night) returns to Sonia at 9PM in Central Square.

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller and host Lady German at La Makina on Revere Beach

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SATURDAY: Kiki Beach If you’re unsure where the boys go on M Street Beach, check out the map on the Kiki Beach Boston Facebook Page, but when in doubt follow the good music and speedos.

SATURDAY: Patty Bourrée’s monthly cabaret returns to Jacques Underground doors open at 7:30PM and the show starts at 8:00PM

SATURDAY: Boom Saturdays comes to the Volcano Room at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

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SUNDAY: Fall Ball Tailgate Tea Dance w/ music by DJ Joe Bermudez at dbar starting at 4PM

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SUNDAY: Boston Gay Men’s Book Club meets at 5PM in the Public Garden to discuss this month’s read, The Street Kids by Pier Paolo Pasolini (all are welcome regardless of whether you’ve read this month’s novel)

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Mean Girls Drag Brunch
Saturday @11:00AM – 1:30PM at House of Blues

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Mizery Loves Company Drag Brunch
Sunday 11AM – 4PM at blend Dorchester

Brunch of Queens
Sunday @11AM at Hard Rock Cafe

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12PM – 4PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown This Weekend

National Gay Pilots Association “Cape Cod Classic”

Friday – Sunday, September 17-19th is the annual Cape Cod Classic a fun tradition that brings hundreds of gay pilots to Provincetown for a weekend of fun events. For more information about this fun and friendly group visit NGPA.org.

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LGBTQ Car Club Provincetown Invitational

Saturday, September 18 is the LGBTQ Car Club 25th Provincetown Invitational at the Pilgrim Monument and Provincetown Museum Saturday, September 18th from 10am to 1:30pm.  Admission is free. For more information visit yankeelcc.com.

Vintage gay

I found this photo of William Dorsey Swann (1858 – 1925) online and was intrigued to learn more. Swann who was born into slavery is an American gay liberation activist, and the first person in the US to lead a queer resistance group. He is the first known person to self-identify as a “queen of drag”. Below is a write-up I also found about this amazing man who was way ahead of his time.

In 1888, one of first recorded and widely-publicized arrests in the United States for gender impersonation took place at an event in the home of William Dorsey Swann, a Black man.  Less than a mile from the White House, Swann and twelve other Black people were arrested and charged with vagrancy after police raided a secret drag dance he was hosting. The following day the headline in the Evening Star read “Colored Men in Female Attire.” Swann — the queen of the ball — was himself “arrayed in a gorgeous dress of cream-colored satin,” but unlike the others, he ran frantically toward the officers in a vain attempt to keep them from entering the two-story residence in northwest Washington, D.C. They were ordered to pay a bond or serve 30 days in jail, and their names were published in the local papers the next day for all the city to read. A year prior, in January 1887, another such dance was also raided. This one had featured both white and Black invitees — and several of the same people had been arrested, including Swann.

Available evidence hints that queens intentionally changed the locations of their parties in order to evade law enforcement. Through informants, detectives were keeping an eye on Swann and the others. On New Year’s Eve of 1895, after the men had successfully eluded the authorities for years, the police abruptly walked into Swann’s home to disrupt a gathering that had only just begun. The officers arrested the host, charging him with keeping a disorderly house. Three black guests were also taken in and charged with vagrancy, while three white guests faced no charges but were summoned as “witnesses.”

Swann was found guilty and sentenced to 10 months in jail. The judge, who said Swann’s home had become a “hell of iniquity,” told the court he wished he had had the power to impose a 10-year sentence instead.

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I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Tennessee Williams festival returns to Provincetown September 23 – 26, 2021

TENNESSEE WILLIAMS & CENSORSHIP

September 23 – 26, 2021

The 16th annual Tennessee Williams festival returns to Provincetown later this month with live performances that explore the theme of censorship. Four controversial plays by Williams are featured alongside a host of other events that include interactive performance-lectures; a play written in the 17th century here in Massachusetts called The Witch; a play by Mae West called Sex that was shut down for obscenity; and much much more.

For more information about this year’s performances visit 2021 Tennessee Williams Festival Performances and to purcahse tickets, merchandise or to learn more about the festival click the button below.

Caption this photo

Much thanks to my friend and BosGuy.com reader, Jim L. for sharing this photo with me. I know I used this caption last week too but I thought it worked for this photograph. Hopefully, it inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption in the comment section, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Call me maybe?”

Pride Sports Boston grass volleyball season begins next week and will run through October 20th with playoffs the week of October 27th with teams playing one game each week.

Tomorrow, Pride Sports Boston will be holding open play for anyone interested. Details are included below and there is more information on the Facebook event page.

Grass Volleyball Open Play
(All Welcome – No Cost)

Wednesday, Sept. 15th || 7:30 – 10:00 PM
Doherty Playground at 1545 Dorchester Ave.

Temptation Tuesday

Handsome New Yorker and model, Phil Fusco, is always tempting.

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Men in kilts

Dapper dresser

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Monday morning mancandy

Anyone know who this handsome man is? He makes for a fantastic piece of mancandy, and I’m curious if he has an IG or Twitter account.

Boston theater companies new fall shows

Each September I like to share the upcoming crop of live theater performances by Boston Theater comanies. The past 18-mos has been especially hard on Boston’s theater companies and I would really like to encourage everyone to show their support for these local companies who don’t enjoy the same level of financial support as the national touring shows that come to our Theater District.

While this list is not exhaustive, it does share in-person shows this fall from some of my favorite local theater companies. Attending these local shows is far more affordable than the national tours and they can make for an excellent date night or evening out with friends.

SpeakEasy Stage || The Sound Inside (Sept 24 – Oct 16)

In the seventeen years since she was last published, novelist Bella Baird has almost completely isolated herself from the world. But things change when she meets Christopher – a brilliant but enigmatic student in her creative writing class at Yale. As their friendship deepens, their lives and the stories they tell about themselves become intertwined in unpredictable ways, leading to a shocking request. Intensely intimate and deeply moving.

Lyric Stage Co. || Be Hear Now (Sept 24 – Oct 17)

Bari, a misanthrope who has returned to her hometown of East Cooperville, NY as she struggles to finish her thesis on nihilism. Working at a local fulfillment center, her despair has reached new heights When Bari begins experiencing emotions she never has felt before, she begins to have a different outlook on life. And when she discovers that the cause of these feelings may be killing her, Bari is forced to ask if she wants to go back to a life of nothing.

Central Square Theater || Queens Girl in the World (Sept 30 – Oct 31)

This Motown-infused story of Jacqueline Marie Butler, a Black teenager coming of age in the 1960s. Her joys, challenges, and heartbreak play out against the backdrop of the civil rights movement as she journeys from her familiar Queens neighborhood to a progressive, predominantly Jewish private school in Greenwich Village. Queens Girl in the World is a funny, heartfelt tour de force solo show with one actor portraying over a dozen characters.

Huntington Theater || Witch (Oct 15 – Nov 14)

This fiendishly funny new play follows an alluring devil named Scratch as he arrives in the country village of Edmonton, and he promises to make the darkest dreams of its locals come true in exchange for their souls. When he meets Elizabeth Sawyer, she should be the easiest to convince — she’s an outcast, branded as a witch for years. So why does she resist Scratch’s deal? This subversive, inventive work is a free adaptation of a 1621 Jacobean comedy recreated with a modern sensibility, and is “devilishly clever and deliciously laugh-packed”.

American Repertory Theater || MacBeth in Stride (Oct 23 – Nov 14)

WORLD PREMIERE – A dazzling theatrical event created and performed by Obie Award-winning artist Whitney White with a live band, Macbeth In Stride examines what it means to be an ambitious Black woman through the lens of one of Shakespeare’s most iconic characters. The first of White’s five-part series commissioned by A.R.T. excavating the women from Shakespeare’s canon, the production uses pop, rock, gospel, and R&B to trace the fatalistic arc of Lady Macbeth while lifting up contemporary Black female power, femininity, and desire.

NOTE: Proof of vaccination is required to attend many of these perrformances!

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