Boston Pride events and parties this weekend

gay bostonThere is always a lot happening with Boston Pride but as is so often the case with life in Boston, you have to know where to look. Below are just some of the events that will be happening this weekend that you may want to check out.

FRIDAY

gay bostonStoplight Party dbar’s annual Stop Light Pride event is back. Find out who’s single this summer and who’s not. Wear the color that represents your relationship status. RED=Taken, YELLOW=Ask Me, Green=Single!

FUZZ on the eve of Boston Pride, we stand with our GLBTQ community of all ages, sizes, colors and beliefs. Get happy and be proud with FUZZ.

The Bitch Is Back Joe Posa as Joan Rivers  Female Impersonator and Tony Tripoli, Executive Producer of Fashion Police and the late Joan Rivers head comedy writer, bring their 90 minute show to Boston’s Club Café.

Call Me By Your Name Head over to the MFA Boston for a screening of the award-winning “Call Me By Your Name” (2017), directed by Luca Guadagnino.

SATURDAY

gay bostonBoston Pride Parade starts at 12PM and winds through the South End so pick your favorite viewing spot to watch the parade.

Boston Pride Concert hosted by Verna Turbulence and ‘Fast’ Freddy Murphy this runs from 12 – 6PM at the Boston City Hall stage

Chandler Street Block Party Returning again this year the Chandler Street block party runs from 1:30 – 7PM; main entrance is at Berkeley and Chandler

Epic Saturday at the HoB The largest party of the night is at the House of Blues (get your tickets ahead of time if you can) – doors open at 9PM

SUNDAY

Back Bay Block Party is a personal favorite event of mine and a fun way to end Boston Pride – the party starts at 1PM and runs til 9PM on St. James Street in the Back Bay

Official Closing Party starts at 9PM at The Grand Boston in the Seaport

Feel free to add any suggestions for other events / parties happening tonight in the comments section below for readers to learn more about what is going on.

Furry Friday

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together. I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

The R-rated riddle I shared last week was so popular that I thought I’d share another this week.

This week’s brain teaser:  
Every man has one. Some are big, some are small. It feels great when you blow it. What am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Boston Pride events and parties for Thursday

gay boston, boston pride, sweaty, hairy chest, furryThere is always a lot happening with Boston Pride but as is so often the case with life in Boston, you have to know where to look. Below are a few events happening tonight that you may want to check out.

gay boston, boston pridePride Night @ Fenway has become a Boston Pride tradition. This year’s game will be against the Detroit Tigers and there will be a special pregame Pride Party this year on the Right Field Roof Deck so head over early for a great pre-party.

gay boston, boston prideDOT Pride Party starts early at 7PM at Peggy O’Neil’s. Head over after work for a drink or two and to socialize with your neighbors. Enjoy specialty cocktails for charity, complimentary hors d’oeuvres, live performance, Drag Race (of course), and dancing into Pride weekend with DJ Stevie Psyclone!!

gay boston, boston prideBears Bare It All  is back again this year at Paradise in Cambridge starting at 9PM with a $10 cover. Check out the eight performers who bare it all for charity (and some applause).

boston pride, gay boston#YAASSS! It’s Pride all the fun starts when the doors open at 10PM. The Pride edition has a full line up including Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, Neon Calypso, Qya Cristal and special guests Honey Davenport, Jujubee, Destiny and Teasha all celebrating Boston Pride.

Feel free to add any suggestions for other events / parties happening tonight in the comments section below for readers to learn more about what is going on.

Swimsuit preferences

mens swimwearSummer in New England means long sunny and humid days, which is why Boston can feel all but abandoned as residents flee to the islands, Cape Cod, Newport and the coast of Maine. What all of these destinations share are great beaches which means many of you are probably shopping for a bathing suit.

I thought I’d share my two cents on different bathing suit styles and include links to some brands you may want to check out.

bathing suits for men, men's swimwearSwim Trunks or Shorts (not to be confused with the much longer inseam of the surf-inspired Board Shorts) is not that popular with most of my friends but is a cut I feel comfortable wearing. The cut can range anywhere from the mid thigh to just above the knee. I like the versatility of these cuts, and how forgiving they can be if your stomach happens to be more curved than flat.

men's bathing suits, men's swimwearSquare Cut Trunks are also another personal favorite cut which I think is flattering for most body types. I think these are also great because your tan line won’t be seen when you walk around town wearing shorts.

men's swimwear, men's bathing suitsBriefs a.k.a. Speedos are the skimpiest of cuts and very popular, although I have never been comfortable wearing this cut unless swimming competitively. Having said that, I am a big fan of other people wearing this cut.

Shopping for a bathing suit? Check out these brands which aggressively market themselves to the gay community.

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Do you have a preferred style to wear or a favorite brand? Share your thoughts in the comments section.

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Boston Gay Pride 1970 Source Spencer Grant || Getty Images

It is Boston Pride Week so I thought it appropriate to share this photo which was sent to me earlier this spring, depicting people marching in 1970 at one of Boston’s first pride parades. Following the Stonewall riots in NYC in the summer of 1969, the gay community in large cities around the US came together to flex their political muscle and make their voices heard.

These men and women paved the way for people like you and me and we are all in their debt. These are the people who I dedicate this weekly post. Their determination to live an authentic life inspires me and I hope they inspire you.

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Boston Pride events and parties for Wednesday

gay bostonThere is always a lot happening with Boston Pride but as is so often the case with life in Boston, you have to know where to look. Below are a few events happening tonight that you may want to check out.

gay bostonPride Beer Garden Takeover at Sam Adams Brewery Do you love beer? Head over to JP for this event from 6-9PM, but be sure to get your tickets ahead of time for $12. Tickets sold at the door are $15 – but your admission fee includes a free pint of Sam Adams draft of Love Conquers Ale or any of Sam Adams beers, a Boston Pretzel, Pride koozie and of course a lot of fun.

gay boston, boston prideEyes on Summer – Watchout Designs Trunk Show  James Bishai’s latest designs will be available for sale so you can look super trendy at Pride. The show runs from 6:30 – 9:30 PM at Cathedral Station

gay boston, gay prideBig Gay Wednesday Party at Club Cafe includes drag cabaret, karaoke and showtunes sing-a-longs with your hosts Jonathan Brett, Lili Whiteass, Violencia, QYA Cristal and Neon Calypso – no cover for this event.

Feel free to add any suggestions for other events / parties happening tonight in the comments section below for readers to learn more about what is going on.

This week on Instagram: boston.pride

gay boston, boston prideIt is Pride Week here in Boston so I thought I’d give the official Boston Pride Instagram handle a shout out and suggest you check it out. You’ll see plenty of photos from Pride this week, but if you look further back you’ll also see all the events and planning that takes place through out the year.

I’ve often been critical of Boston Pride (and I know I’m not alone here), but I have to also give this small group a lot of credit for navigating the bureaucracy associated with City Hall and doing their best each year to deliver a safe week of events and programming. I’d encourage anyone interested to get involved – I think fresh blood, new ideas and a willingness to help would greatly serve this group of dedicated volunteers.

Follow him on Instagram here, instagram.com/boston.pride.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

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Boston Pride events and parties for Tuesday

gay boston, boston prideThere is always a lot happening with Boston Pride but as is so often the case with life in Boston, you have to know where to look. Below are a few events happening tonight that you may want to check out.

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Annual Pride Lights Celebration This event celebrates and remembers those we have lost from HIV/AIDS and will take place at The Plaza at Boston Center for the Arts in the South End. The event starts at 7PM and is free and open to the public. All are welcome.

gay boston, boston prideDrag Divas Give Back 16 drag entertainers will be performing at Club Cafe at 7PM with proceeds raised going to the Boston Living Center. Tickets cost $20.

gay boston, boston prideShow Tune Tuesday Pride edition Every Tuesday dbar in Dorchester hosts Show Tune Tuesday. Check out dbar’s very special Pride edition tonight with VJ Ryan Grow, starting at 9PM.

gay boston, boston prideParadise Pride Party on Tuesday provides you with the opportunity to get out and dance all night long. There is a $5 cover charge, which goes to benefit Boston Pride. Doors open at 10 PM.

Feel free to add any suggestions for other events / parties happening tonight in the comments section below for readers to learn more about what is going on.

Bonjour Montréal

Sergio and I have booked a trip to Montreal that will coincide with Montreal Jazzfest 2018, which takes place next month. We’ve both been to Montreal before but have not visited the city in about 10 years so I’m looking for suggestions on places to go, sites to see and / or favorite restaurants. I’ll be doing a bit of research on my own, but I’ve come to rely on readers’ suggestions.

I’d love to hear from you about:
– Sites we should definitely visit
– Neighborhoods of interest
– Restaurant and dining suggestions

Feel free to leave suggestions / tips as comments on this blog post or you can reach out to me directly at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Temptation Tuesday

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Boston Pride events and parties for Monday

gay boston, BAGLYGrab your favorite pumps and head over to Club Cafe tonight for Boston Pride’s annual Heels for Hope party which starts at 7PM. This year marks the 5th anniversary. Ticket sales have been stronger than years past as the event has grown but if you’re lucky a few tickets may still remain.

Check their Facebook page for details: Heels for Hope 2018: Under a Big Top.

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Who’s looking for the Big Top?

Men in kilts

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What to do this week: Boston Pride

boston pride, gay prideBoston Pride has officially started. In lieu of posting my weekly “What’s Happening” post, I will be publishing a daily post featuring some of the official (and unofficial) Boston Pride events happening that evening.  I hope you enjoy this week – I will unfortunately be in NYC for work missing much of the fun.

To see the official listing of Boston Pride events this week visit,   bostonpride.org/calendar.