Scruffy Sunday

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Scruffy Sunday

Much thanks to the Fearsome Beard blog for sharing this photo earlier this summer. I thought it makes for quite the seductive Scruffy Sunday post. What do you think?

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

Enjoy your morning cup of joe.

Furry Friday

handsome, hunk, gorgeous man

Thank Gawd It’s Furry Friday (TGIFF)

Past Furry Friday

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:  What is a ghost’s favorite dessert?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of LGBTQ+ events and parties happening this weekend. Scroll to the bottom of this post to see a listing of drag brunches. Have an event you want included? Email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Friday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Big Disco NRG w/ DJ RPrice @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

blend
THURSDAY: UK RPDR w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM & Music by Harlow Havoc @10PM
FRIDAY: SUPER NATURE w/ music by DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ, Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch (reservations on Open Table) @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Bruins play Ducks @7PM
FRIDAY: Celtics play Heat @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Wild @1PM & Celtics play Magic @7PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Andrea Stamas @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Tea w/ DJ Aga @6PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ DJ Bobby Knight @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturday w/ DJ Begbick @10:30PM
SUNDAY: Brunch (reservations on Open Table) @11AM | Carvings & Cocktails $30 (includes pumpkin, carving tools, cocktail and small bites) @12PM | Drunken Pumpkin Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: Music by GSP at Legacy @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Bruins play Ducks @7PM
FRIDAY: Celtics play Heat @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Wild @1PM & Celtics play Magic @7PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Halloween Horror Movie Night – Carrie at Club Cafe @7PM

THURSDAY: Boston Queer Comedy Dating Show w/ HIDEOUT Comedy @8PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

FRIDAY: Heroes (18+) IRL w/ DJ Chris Ewen is at Sonia @10PM

SATURDAY: 25th Annual Lesbians & Friends LGBTQ Dance at Club Cafe @6PM

SATURDAY: PITY Party Queer EMO Night at Union Tavern @9PM

SUNDAY: A Sister’s Drag Tag Sale at Club Cafe @2PM

SUNDAY: Gay Beer Club social at Narragansett Beer Co. 4PM – 7PM

SUNDAY: Vogue Nights w/ Men of Melanin Magic at Icon @7PM

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Hocus Pocus Drag Brunch
Saturday @11AM
Summer Shack

Hollow Queens Drag Brunch
Saturday @12PM
Laugh Boston

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

Heels N Mimosas: Screamin Queens
Sunday @11AM
Premiere Broadway

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

Thoughts on when this photo may have been taken? I love the intimacy of their pose. Who can say what their story was but I can tell you I have have a slight crush on the guy on the left. He has beautiful eyes.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

SpeakEasy Stage presents ENGLISH

This Friday, The SpeakEasy Stage of Boston opens with their second production of the 2022/23 season, ENGLISH. The play has received numerous accolades and is described by the New York Theater guide as, “a stunning play about hope, belonging, and desire.”

Set in an English language class in a suburb of Tehran, the student’s teacher, Marjan, insists they speak “English Only!” as she struggles to prepare them for their Test of English as a Foreign Language (TOEFL). The implications and opportunities for the students can be life changing if they pass this exam but of course it isn’t all that simple or straightforward with one student set on derailing the lesson plan.

ENGLISH
October 21 – November 19, 2023
More Info Here

As someone who has struggled to learn a second language off and on over the years, I can relate to the challenge as well as the humor that comes from mispronounciations, mistakes, and misunderstandings, and I look forward to seeing this show which runs from October 21 – November 19, 2022.

Make plans with friends to see this production or make it a date night, but be sure to get your tickets.

Caption this photo

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption in the comment section, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

Tonka truck strap on.

The Kartal Boston in South End opens Thursday

The highly anticipated and long awaited opening of The Kartal (the former home of Boston Eagle) will have a soft opening on Thursday.

The Kartal is the first cocktail bar to open in the South End in a long time, and it’s my hope is that this cozy space can be a friendly place for Boston’s gay community to come together. The Kartal will not be marketed as a gay bar but then again neither was Stella, 647 Tremont, or Boston Chops and yet due to their patronage they became unofficial gay bars of Boston.

The new owners are quite familiar with the bar’s history and they have carefully chosen everything from the name to unique decorations and design with its past in mind. For example, the name of the bar, The Kartal, comes from the Turkish word for eagle. Additionally, when you visit, check out the newly tiled mosaic entry. It depicts a two-headed eagle with the dates 1981 and 2021, noting the 40 years the Boston Eagle operated at 520 Tremont Street. The two-headed eagle also symbolizes both the the original and “new” eagle.

I’m sure I’ll be writing more about The Kartal in the future, after I’ve had a chance to stop by and enjoy a cocktail or two. Over the coming weeks, I hope you will also stop by to enjoy a drink and check out the new space. After you visit, let me know what you think.

The Kartal
520 Tremont Street (South End)
Open daily from 5PM – 2AM

Head of the Charles Regatta

HOCR

The Head Of The Charles Regatta (HOCR) is a Boston area tradition that dates back to 1965 and has evolved into a massive, international rowing competition that draws nearly 11,000 athletes and 400,000 spectators, making it the largest rowing event in the world.

HEAD OF THE CHARLES REGATTA OCT. 21-23, 2022

The 2022 HOCR takes place this Saturday and Sunday. Sadly, I’ll be out of town and will miss this fun, annual event. If you’ve not been to this premiere rowing events, head down to the Charles River to cheer on these amazing athletes and enjoy all the activity around the regatta.

The organizers have created a great website that includes more information about the races, maps and FAQs. You can learn more by visiting the official HOCR website, www.hocr.org.

Temptation Tuesday

Say hello to Bulgarian fitness model, Vladislav Gerasimov. This isn’t the first time I’ve posted a photo of him. He was a mancandy post last October (check him out here).

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

Yikes, this high stepping guard shows a bit more than my pg-13 blog can share. Let’s just say the original photograph shows a third leg.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

Much thanks to Fearsome Beard blog for posting earlier this year

Nothing Gold Can Stay

Boston Public Garden
Boston Public Garden, Source: Decodollop blog

Each October, I’ve been faithfully posting this poem since 2009. I love how accessible Frost’s poem is – even to those who claim they “don’t get poetry”. Inspired by the fall foliage of New England, Frosts’ words weave a visual that is easy to follow.

The underlying meaning of this poem also reminds me to make the most of each day and to try and take nothing for granted – a good message for all of us.

Nature’s first green is gold
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf’s a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.

This poem, which was first published in the Yale Review in 1923, would go on to win the Pulitzer Prize for poetry in 1924. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.