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What to do this weekend

hairy chest, male torso, furryThis weekend is Ogunquit Bearfest but if that’s not your scene there is plenty happening locally including Harpoonfest on Friday and Saturday (for all you beer lovers). I’d also like to give a shout out to a new dance night called CALIENTE Fridays in Revere – if anyone goes let me know what you think.

Additionally, there is the usual line up of gay dance parties ranging from H E R O E S   in Central Square to DJ Aga plays Pride Anthems in Dorchester and a whole lot happening in between. On Sunday if you’re looking for something fun to do consider going to Brunch of Queens  at The Bell in Hand and / or Sunday “Retro” Tea Dance at Club Cafe. For a full list of options read more.

Harpoonfest returns again this Friday and Saturday from 5:30 – 7PM at Harpoon Brewery in the Seaport

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

S&M Comedy Night is Boston’s only S&M Stand up comedy show – come to Jacques Underground on Friday starting at 7:30PM with your hosts Mitzzy Anne & Stirling Smith in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Fridays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter is this Friday downstairs at Jacques – anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

gay bostonGrand Opening: CALIENTE Fridays is a new club night on Fridays people should check out if you live in East Boston, doors open from 10PM to 2AM in Revere

Watch Party: Noah’s Arc is hosted by the Men of Melanin Magic at The Alley on Saturday from 1PM – 5PM in Boston

Ogunquit Bearfest takes place this weekend – join everyone at Mainestreet on Saturday at 3PM for their Bear Tea in Ogunquit

DJ Aga plays Pride Anthems bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

90’s night at dbar join DJ Jay Ine on Saturday night as he spins all your favorite music from the 90s at dbar in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Photo courtesy of SoWa Open Market

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

2nd Annual BAKED Festival is in Central Square will  include 40 of the area’s top pastry chefs, independent bakers, food trucks and bakeries this Sunday from 11AM – 5PM

Brunch of Queens with Special guests Melinda and Verna is this Sunday at The Bell in Hand: doors open at 11AM and the show starts at 2PM

Sunday “Retro” Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

What to do this week: May 13 – 19

There is a ton of things happening this week. If you’re flying solo and looking for social events during the week, check out Opus Affair monthly cocktail party and Boston Gay Professionals Social both are fun monthly events that get a large crowd. For the full list of  20+ weekday events / programs below.

This weekend is Ogunquit Bearfest but if that’s not your scene there is plenty happening locally including Harpoonfest (for all you beer lovers), 90’s night at dbar and a new dance night called CALIENTE Fridays is in Revere.

gay bostonMONDAY – THURSDAY

Sister’s Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM – this week the Sister’s will be raising money for The Theater Offensive at Club Cafe in Boston

Opus Affair monthly cocktail party is open to all and is a fun evening – this month they will be celebrating their 11th birthday with the A.R.T.

Jazzy Mondays at the E’walk enjoy jazz music at the Elephant Walk South End the second Monday of each month from 6:30 – 9:30PM in the South End

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

gay boston, milky way cafeDirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Feminist & Queer Happy Hour welcomes all on Wednesday from 6-8:30PM at Remnant Brewing in Somerville

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Boston Gay Professionals Social is hosted by the MeetUp group by the same name this Thursday at Bastille Kitchen from 6:30PM to 9:00PM

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

gay bostonDudes -n- Drag Under the Big Top is a fun fundraiser hosted by FLAG Flag Football this Thursday at VENU Boston from 6-10PM

RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, and Club Cafe  each Thursday in Boston

Drag Race Thursday with Special Guest Honey Davenport is at Club Cafe; all the fun starts at 8PM

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

BRASH | Queer Party is hosted every fourth Thursday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

sexy guy, hairy chest, gay, hunkTHE WEEKEND

Harpoonfest returns again this Friday and Saturday from 5:30 – 7PM at Harpoon Brewery in the Seaport

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

S&M Comedy Night is Boston’s only S&M Stand up comedy show – come to Jacques Underground on Friday starting at 7:30PM with your hosts Mitzzy Anne & Stirling Smith in Boston

H E R O E S  Retro dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Fridays of each month from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter is this Friday downstairs at Jacques – anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

gay bostonGrand Opening: CALIENTE Fridays is a new club night on Fridays people should check out if you live in East Boston, doors open from 10PM to 2AM in Revere

Ogunquit Bearfest takes place this weekend – join everyone at Mainestreet on Saturday at 3PM for their Bear Tea in Ogunquit

DJ Aga plays Pride Anthems bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

90’s night at dbar join DJ Jay Ine on Saturday night as he spins all your favorite music from the 90s at dbar in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

2nd Annual BAKED Festival is in Central Square will  include 40 of the area’s top pastry chefs, independent bakers, food trucks and bakeries this Sunday from 11AM – 5PM

Brunch of Queens with Special guests Melinda and Verna is this Sunday at The Bell in Hand: doors open at 11AM and the show starts at 2PM

Sunday “Retro” Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

What to do this weekend

hunk, gay bostonThere is a lot going on this weekend. If tickets still are available, go check out Boston Night Market 2019: Spring Edition this weekend. Due to all the rain last weekend, this week will be “Opening Weekend” for SoWa Open Market.

If you’re looking to go out and enjoy some great music check out the monthly party, FUZZ at The Alley or head to CC for their weekly party Anthem Fridays or head to Blend in Dorchester for FO-MO Fridays. On Saturday the Men of Melanin Magic takeover of Machine; Silver at BLENDis a dance party for mature audiences and the men who like them; Grunt is at The Alley and Mass Bears and Cubs host their monthly Sunday Brunch at Trophy Room.

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Boston Night Market 2019: Spring Edition is this Friday from 4-11PM (note that you need tickets to get into this event in Gov’t Center and last year’s event did sell out)

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Rucks & Tucks – Spring Lip Sync Battle is this Friday from 7-9PM at Club Cafe so come down and cheer on your favorite rugby players as they lip sync

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted the second Friday of each month with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Silver at BLEND takes place the second Saturday of every month – this is a dance party for mature audiences and the men who like them – doors open at 10PM at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

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Men of Melanin Magic takeover of Machine head to the Fenway for the Men of Melanin Magic takeover upstairs at Machine, starting at 10PM

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Break the Chains queer dance party: Evan Greer album release is this Saturday at Make Shift Boston in the South End

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch is back again this Sunday at Trophy Room starting at 1PM so come down and meet this friendly group of guys

sip this month’s edition of *sip* with DJ Brian Halligan includes a performance by Vee Sukhard at Jacques on Sunday from 6-10PM in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Gay dodgeball registration is now open

Boston’s Gay Dodgeball League summer registration is now open. A welcome pick up game (open to all) will be on Thursday evening, June 27th. If you’re interested in joining feel free to RSVP here. The season will begin, starting July 11th and will run through August 22nd with the championship games on Thursday, August 29th.  All Games will be played on Thursday evenings from 7:00PM-9:30PM​ at the Holland Community Center.

You can learn more about Boston’s Gay Dodgeball League by visiting their website at gaydodgeball.com/boston.html

Boston – GayDodgeball Summer 2019 Registration

If you don’t live in Boston but are interested in dodgeball, leagues also exist in Atlanta, Austin, Columbus, Dallas, Denver, Fort Lauderdale, Houston, Jacksonville, Kansas City, Las Vegas, Oklahoma City, Orlando, Portland, Seattle, St. Louis and Tampa.

Heels for Hope tickets are now on sale

BAGLY, Boston Pride

Heels for Hope is Monday, June 3rd at Club Cafe

Tickets for this year’s Heels for Hope have gone on sale (get’em here). This year’s event takes place on the Monday of Boston Pride Week, June 3rd at Club Cafe.

Presale tickets which are available starting today, are $30 and will get you a free drink courtesy of Ketel One botanicals.  This year’s big raffle prize are two tickets to see Margaret Cho’s show in Provincetown and a night at the Boatslip so bring some extra cash for the raffle. All your money goes to a great local charity.

Heels for Hope at Club Cafe
Monday, June 3rd || 7:00 PM – 11:00 PM
Learn more and get your tickets here

heels for hope is a gay fund raiser in BostonBRAVO! Last year Boston’s well-heeled supporters raised more than $10,500 for BAGLY, a youth-led, adult-supported organization committed to social justice and advocating for programs, policies, and services for LGBTQ youth.  Let’s see if we can set a new record and raise even more money this year.

What to do this week: May 6 – 12

Last week a new play from SpeakEasy Stage opened called, School  Girls; or, The African Mean Girls Play, and later this week the Lyric Stage opens with a Sondheim musical, Pacific Overtures, which opens on Thursday and runs thru June 16th. Also opening on Thursday is the Boston Ballet’s production of CinderellaBut in my opinion the toughest ticket to get in town this week will be opening night of the Spring Pops season with special guest Bernadette Peters.

If you’re looking for options that are more social in nature, check out one of the 35 events or programs I’ve compiled below.

I’m currently reading this book and find it fascinating. Meet local author Russ Lopez at his book signing & release party on Monday at Cathedral Station at 6PM

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Hub – Book Release Party head over to Cathedral Station on Monday starting at 6PM to get a copy of local author Russ Lopez latest book which chronicles the history of Boston & Provincetown’s LGBTQ community from colonial to present day – I’m currently reading this book and find it fascinating and you will too

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter every first Monday of the month upstairs with a kooky theme where anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Opening Night of the Spring Pops season join special guest Bernadette Peters, conductor Keith Lockhart and the Boston Pops on Wednesday at Symphony Hall in Boston

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Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, and Club Cafe  each Thursday in Boston

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

THE WEEKEND

Boston Night Market 2019: Spring Edition is this Friday from 4-11PM (note that you need tickets to get into this event in Gov’t Center and last year’s event did sell out)

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Rucks & Tucks – Spring Lip Sync Battle is this Friday from 7-9PM at Club Cafe so come down and cheer on your favorite rugby players as they lip sync

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted the second Friday of each month with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Silver at BLEND takes place the second Saturday of every month – this is a dance party for mature audiences and the men who like them – doors open at 10PM at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Men of Melanin Magic takeover of Machine head to the Fenway for the Men of Melanin Magic takeover upstairs at Machine, starting at 10PM

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

pecs, hairy chestGrunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Break the Chains queer dance party: Evan Greer album release is this Saturday at Make Shift Boston in the South End

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch is back again this Sunday at Trophy Room starting at 1PM so come down and meet this friendly group of guys

sip this month’s edition of *sip* with DJ Brian Halligan includes a performance by Vee Sukhard at Jacques on Sunday from 6-10PM in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunkSay good morning to the very handsome Philip Fusco enjoying a cup of joe.

What to do this weekend

muscle bearThis is Opening Weekend in Ptown so look for The Boatslip to host their 1st Tea Dance on Friday. If you’re staying in Boston consider checking out Don’t Tell Boston (Newbury Street) on Friday or if you want to do something a bit more social check out TWC’s Guerrilla Queer Bar or SoWa First Fridays.

This Sunday is the first SoWa Open Market of the Season on Sunday from 10-4PM and later in the afternoon head over to dbar for their FLAG Flag Football Cinco de Mayo / Tea Dance Mashup starting at 5PM. For the full list of activities see the post below.

Ptown Opening Weekend 2019 starts on Friday with the seasons first Tea Dance and much more all happening in Provincetown

Boatslip 1st Tea Dance it is opening weekend in Provincetown and the Boatslip is hosting their first tea dance of 2019

SoWa First Fridays galleries and artist studios in SoWa open their doors to the public the first Friday of each month starting at 5PM in Boston

Screening of parTy boi is a documentary that focuses on the effects of crystal meth addiction in relation to the LGBTQ community of color – showing on Friday starting at 5PM at Fenway Health

11th Annual Red Ribbon Party starts on Friday at 5PM at The Front Porch in Ogunquit

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Don’t Tell Boston (Newbury Street) starts at 7:30PM on Friday – the exact location of the comedy pop-up is provided once you’ve purchased tickets – note this event sells out regularly

Guerrilla Queer BarGuerrilla Queer Bar is a monthly take over of a straight bar – the first Friday of each month – organized by The Welcoming Committee this is typically a fun night out – all are welcome

La Boum Queer Dance Party is hosted the first Friday of each month starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JP

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques this Friday starting at 10PM in Boston

Paul Oakenfold comes to Royale in Boston on Friday, starting at 10PM

H E R O E S  Retro dance party is this Friday from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Annual Kentucky Derby Party is at The Habor Lounge Saturday afternoon in Provincetown

Boston – Bases & Faces  is a Drag Contest this Saturday at Club Cafe from 7-10PM for Boston Based Athletes who want to represent their team in a Drag Race for the crown to win Ms GayKickball Boston 2019!

Legacy Dance Party with Alex Acosta is this Saturday starting at 10PM

Blend Saturdays “Cinco De-GUY-O party bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Theater

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt – Underbear is a dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers – clothes check available, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy with DJ Corey Craig is this Saturday at the Middle East in Central Square

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market It is opening weekend for the 2019 SoWa Open Market season – the market will be open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

FLAG Flag Football Cinco de Mayo / Tea Dance Mashup starts at 5PM at dbar on Sunday in Dorechester

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

What to do this week: April 29 – May 5

There is a lot happening the first week of May. Here are a few programs I’d like to give a shout out to, starting with the Mass Bears and Cubs Social on Tuesday, Latino Wednesdays at Legacy has Miss Vanjie and on Thursday check out Boston Spirit Magazine Networking Night at the Marriott Boston Copley then head over to the Stoli Key West Cocktail Classic Tour at Club Cafe. 

This is Ptown Opening Weekend so look for The Boatslip to host their 1st Tea Dance of the Season. If you’re staying in Boston consider checking out Don’t Tell Boston (Newbury Street) on Friday or if you want to do something a bit more social check out TWC’s Guerrilla Queer Bar or SoWa First Fridays.

This Sunday is the first SoWa Open Market of the Season on Sunday from 10-4PM and later in the afternoon head over to dbar for their FLAG Flag Football Cinco de Mayo / Tea Dance Mashup starting at 5PM. For the full list of activities see the post below.

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Did you know every Thursday is free pool night at Cathedral Station

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

No Filter You can catch #NoFilter this Monday upstairs at Jacques from 10PM-12AM in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

An Evening With The Clintons has sold out but perhaps you might know a friend going who has an extra ticket if you’d like to catch Bill & Hillary in Boston

Mass Bears and Cubs Social is this Tuesday from 7:30 – 9:30PM at Cathedral Station – all are welcome to join this friendly social mixer

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Quingo a.k.a. Queer Bingo is on Wednesday starting at 6PM at Turtle Swamp Brewing in JP

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Miss Vanjee, RuPaul Drag Race

Latino Wednesdays at Legacy with Miss Vanjie is this Wednesday starting at 10PM in Boston

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

History of Boston & Provincetown LGBTQ community is the topic of local author, Russ Lopez, most recent book (which I’m currently reading) – join the author as he reads excerpts from his new book, The Hub of the Gay Universe: An LGBTQ History of Boston, Provincetown, and Beyond, at The History Project on Thursday at 6PM – RSVPs required

Boston Spirit Magazine LGBTQ Executive Networking Night is at the Marriott Boston Copley Place Ballroom from 6 to 9PM in Boston

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

Stoli Key West Cocktail Classic Tour – Boston is from 8-11PM on Thursday at Club Cafe

RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, Club Cafe and Trophy Room each Thursday in Boston

FUSE LGBTQ dance party is this Thursday at Bill’s in the Fenway hosted by the Men of Melanin Magic and Mr. Boston Bear 2019

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

men having coffee togetherTHE WEEKEND

Ptown Opening Weekend 2019 starts on Friday with the seasons first Tea Dance and much more all happening in Provincetown

Boatslip 1st Tea Dance it is opening weekend in Provincetown and the Boatslip is hosting their first tea dance of 2019

SoWa First Fridays galleries and artist studios in SoWa open their doors to the public the first Friday of each month starting at 5PM in Boston

Screening of parTy boi is a documentary that focuses on the effects of crystal meth addiction in relation to the LGBTQ community of color – showing on Friday starting at 5PM at Fenway Health

11th Annual Red Ribbon Party starts on Friday at 5PM at The Front Porch in Ogunquit

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Don’t Tell Boston (Newbury Street) starts at 7:30PM on Friday – the exact location of the comedy pop-up is provided once you’ve purchased tickets – note this event sells out regularly

Guerrilla Queer Bar is a monthly take over of a straight bar – the first Friday of each month – organized by The Welcoming Committee this is typically a fun night out – all are welcome

La Boum Queer Dance Party is hosted the first Friday of each month starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JP

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques this Friday starting at 10PM in Boston

Paul Oakenfold comes to Royale in Boston on Friday, starting at 10PM

H E R O E S  Retro dance party is this Friday from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

Anthem Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Annual Kentucky Derby Party is at The Habor Lounge Saturday afternoon in Provincetown

Boston – Bases & Faces  is a Drag Contest this Saturday at Club Cafe from 7-10PM for Boston Based Athletes who want to represent their team in a Drag Race for the crown to win Ms GayKickball Boston 2019!

Legacy Dance Party with Alex Acosta is this Saturday starting at 10PM

Blend Saturdays “Cinco De-GUY-O party bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt – Underbear is a dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers – clothes check available, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

MOBD Muscle Otter Bear Daddy with DJ Corey Craig is this Saturday at the Middle East in Central Square

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Open Market It is opening weekend for the 2019 SoWa Open Market season – the market will be open every Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

FLAG Flag Football Cinco de Mayo / Tea Dance Mashup starts at 5PM at dbar on Sunday in Dorechester

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

What to do this weekend

temptation tuesday, handsomeGays for Patsy host their annual Spring Stomp Hoedown in Ptown and Boston plays host to the Japan Festival on the Boston Common this Saturday and Sunday. The Fenway Institute and Good Vibrations host sex trivia night on Friday called Sexpardy and DONT ASK DONT TELL: Virgin Nights 4 is just one of more than a half dozen gay dance parties.

Early in the day on Saturday is the PrEP Brunch hosted at AIDS Action Committee in JP. On Sunday there are a handful of drag brunch parties and tea dances, but I’d like to give a shout out to this week’s ‘sip’ on Sunday which will be hosting Hanky Panky: A Flagging Party to benefit the History Project.

gay bostonGFP Spring Stomp – A Hoedown is hosted by Boston Queer Country Social all weekend in Provincetown – no dance experience is required

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Sexpardy: Back by Popular Demand The Fenway Institute and Good Vibrations challenge you to test your knowledge of all things sex related. Bring a team of up to six and answer questions themed around sex, ranging from sex toys to historical sex facts and everything in between on Friday at 6PM

The Booty Hole Chats: Part Two is an open and frank discussion about exploring anal health and how to treat your booty right on Friday, starting at 7PM at Club Cafe

La Boum Queer Dance Party is hosted the first Friday of each month starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JPs this Friday at Great Scott in Allston – first timers are encouraged to take to the stage in drag in search of fame

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Japan Festival Boston 2019 is this Saturday and Sunday on the Boston Common – check out performances and authentic Japanese cuisine

Boston pride, gay bostonBig Gay Bar Crawl is this Saturday at Faneuil Hall from 1-8PM – all money raised will be donated to the Boston Pride Community Fund

Disco Bear Tea join DJ Aga at Mainestreet from 4-8PM in Ogunquit

BAGLY & The NBC presents: The 6th Annual Awards Ball – Game Over is this Saturday from 7PM-12AM with emcees Athena Vaughn & Tarik St.Clair in Back Bay

Blend Saturdays bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

gilead, co-pay cardPrEP Brunch Heard about PrEP? Want to learn more? Join AIDS Action Committee on Sunday for PrEP Brunch at their office space in JP

Brunch of Queens! with special guest Teashaboo starts at 11AM on Sunday with Karisma, Kris Knievil and birthday girl Amanda Play at the Bell in Hand in Boston

Mexican Street Food Festival New England Open Markets  present our first outdoor celebration of the season – “Mexican Street Food Festival” on Sunday from 11AM – 5PM

Drag Me to Brunch 2nd Anniversary Show hosted on Sunday from 2-4PM by Destiny Boston and Dee Dee de Ray, with special guest performers on Sunday at Carrie Cocktail Nation

Queer and Trans Figure Drawing starts at 2PM every 4th Sunday of the month at the Dorchester Art Project (click the link for more details)

Hanky Panky: A Flagging Party bring your hankies to this annual dance party that helps raise money for the very worthy History Project on Sunday starting at 6PM downstairs at Jacques

Sunday Retro Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays with Silky Ganache is at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Hanky Panky dance party Sunday, April 28th

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The History Project has returned with their second annual Hanky Panky party on Sunday afternoon at the *sip* dance party at Jacques Underground.

On Sunday, April 28th join The History Project, guest DJ Jimmy DePre and performer Sham Payne as they bring back the hanky code – the color-colded signaling system gay men used in the 1970s and 1980s. Funds raised will go to support the work that The History Project does, preserving LGBTQ history and sharing it with our community.

hanky code, gay word of the day, gay slangSunday, April 28, 2019
6:00 to 10:00 PM
Jacque’s Underground
Tickets are required!

Men in kilts

Jesse Berman, Jesse Jackman, handsome, hairy gay porn starLooks like Dirk has Jesse trying on some kilts in their kitchen in JP. Both Jesse and Jack look great in kilts but I have to credit Jack into getting Jesse to wear kilts out because prior to dating, I don’t know if I ever saw Jesse in a kilt.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

What to do this week: April 22 – 28

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Lots happening this week like Tech is Blooming (sponsored by Out In Tech) on Wednesday at Club Cafe; RPDR Viewing Parties (see below for where); and it’s singlet night at  SWEAT on Thursday at Machine. 

Gays for Patsy host their annual Spring Stomp Hoedown in Ptown; Boston plays host to the Japan Festival on the Boston Common this Saturday and Sunday. The Fenway Institute and Good Vibrations host sex trivia night on Friday called Sexpardy and DONT ASK DONT TELL: Virgin Nights 4 is just one of more than a half dozen gay dance parties. Early in the day on Saturday is the PrEP Brunch hosted by and at AIDS Action Committee in JP. If you happen to be up in OGT be sure to check out their Saturday afternoon Disco Bear Tea. On Sunday there are a handful of drag brunch parties and tea dances but I’d like to give a shout out to this week’s ‘sip’ on Sunday which will be hosting Hanky Panky: A Flagging Party to benefit the History Project.

Gay Karaoke: Tuesday at Jacques || Wednesday at Club Cafe || Sunday at The Alley

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Threads and Alterations: Looking and Feeling Your Best is Fenway Health’s annual clothing drive / swap fashion event from 6-8PM on Tuesday on the 9th Floor – for more details click the link

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Tech is Blooming: Queer Professional Social hosted by Out In Tech is this Wednesday from 6-9PM at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Rosè Kick-Off Party is a fun annual spring party hosted at Stella so come down and have a glass of wine to toast spring on Thursday from 5-7PM

TransCEND Presents T-Social learn more about TransCEND and Fenway Health’s Trans Health Department while relaxing with your friends at Club Cafe from 6-9:30PM on Thursday

RuPaul Drag Race viewing parties, gay bostonRPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, Club Cafe and Machine each Thursday in Boston

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

BRASH | Queer Party is hosted every fourth Thursday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Gay Bash’d w/ Pinche from Dragula S1 dance party at the Milky Way Lounge on Thursday in JP

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

SWEAT Singlet Night is hosted by Mr. New England Leather, Eric Alden, at Machine on Thursday starting at 10PM in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

THE WEEKEND

GFP Spring Stomp – A Hoedown is hosted by Boston Queer Country Social all weekend in Provincetown – no dance experience is required

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Sexpardy: Back by Popular Demand The Fenway Institute and Good Vibrations challenge you to test your knowledge of all things sex related. Bring a team of up to six and answer questions themed around sex, ranging from sex toys to historical sex facts and everything in between on Friday at 6PM

The Booty Hole Chats: Part Two is an open and frank discussion about exploring anal health and how to treat your booty right on Friday, starting at 7PM at Club Cafe

La Boum Queer Dance Party is hosted the first Friday of each month starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JPs this Friday at Great Scott in Allston – first timers are encouraged to take to the stage in drag in search of fame

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM

DJ Stevie Psyclone, Club Cafe, gay bostonXO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Japan Festival Boston 2019 is this Saturday and Sunday on the Boston Common – check out performances and authentic Japanese cuisine

Big Gay Bar Crawl is this Saturday at Faneuil Hall from 1-8PM – all money raised will be donated to the Boston Pride Community Fund

Disco Bear Tea join DJ Aga at Mainestreet from 4-8PM in Ogunquit

BAGLY & The NBC presents: The 6th Annual Awards Ball – Game Over is this Saturday from 7PM-12AM with emcees Athena Vaughn & Tarik St.Clair in Back Bay

Blend Saturdays bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

PrEP Brunch Heard about PrEP? Want to learn more? Join AIDS Action Committee on Sunday for PrEP Brunch at their office space in JP

Brunch of Queens! with special guest Teashaboo starts at 11AM on Sunday with Karisma, Kris Knievil and birthday girl Amanda Play at the Bell in Hand in Boston

Mexican Street Food Festival New England Open Markets  present our first outdoor celebration of the season – “Mexican Street Food Festival” on Sunday from 11AM – 5PM

Drag Me to Brunch 2nd Anniversary Show hosted on Sunday from 2-4PM by Destiny Boston and Dee Dee de Ray, with special guest performers on Sunday at Carrie Cocktail Nation

Queer and Trans Figure Drawing starts at 2PM every 4th Sunday of the month at the Dorchester Art Project (click the link for more details)

Hanky Panky: A Flagging Party bring your hankies to this annual dance party that helps raise money for the very worthy History Project on Sunday starting at 6PM downstairs at Jacques

Sunday Retro Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays with Silky Ganache is at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Saturday morning coffee

naked, hunk, hairy, handsomePardon the strategically cropped Saturday Morning Coffee post.

Development plans to replace Boston’s Ramrod / Machine will include LGBTQ-theater

Last November I published this blog post, which got more than a little attention,  Boston’s gay club Ramrod / Machine days are numbered. Last week more information was shared about the development project that is aiming to bulldoze the two-story building later this fall to build a private dorm.

Last week Universal Hub published that the British company building private dorm buildings filed formal plans for a 15-story, 533-bed dorm, replacing the building that houses a number of businesses including one of Boston’s last full-time gay bars, Machine / Ramrod. Someone must have mentioned that the pending demolition has struck a nerve with some in the community because they are planning to include a 6,000-square foot, 120-seat theater to be turned over to a non-profit group that will be centered on the LGBTQ community.

The Boylston Black Box will embrace the long-standing LGBTQ heritage of the Project Site. Since the 1970s, the Project Site has served as the location of various LGBTQ entertainment venues, including ‘The 1270’, ‘Quest’, ‘RamRod’, and ‘Machine’. These entertainment venues have been emblematic LGBTQ spaces and have often served – directly and indirectly – as a base for the LGBTQ community in the Fenway neighborhood.

Could this be the new home for Ryan Landry and his Gold Dust Orphans?