Yearly Archives: 2012

Book review: Winnie-the-Pooh

Over the holidays I donated a lot of books that had been collecting dust at my place to my local library.  In the process of cleaning house (so to speak), I stumbled upon my copy of Winnie-the-Pooh by A.A. Milne with decorations by Ernest H. Shepard.

I used the down time this past week to read the book again, which can be read from cover-to-cover or as consecutive short stories about Christopher Robin, Pooh and all his friends.  I forgot how much I loved the illustrations and the stories (okay – I’ll admit I skipped through a few of the stories deferring to some of my favorites like In Which Pooh Goes Visiting and Gets Into a Tight Place).  I can’t think of a better book to start the year reading and would strongly recommend adding this to your personal library.  Apologies for those who have completely switched to eBooks because I’m not sure the nostalgia and appreciation for Milne’s famous bear will translate.

Restaurant review: Mela

Once upon a time if you wanted to eat Indian in Boston you had to go to the Back Bay, which is home to more curry houses than any other neighborhood.  Fortunately a few years ago a successful local management company that owns several Indian restaurants in Boston opened Mela in the South End.

Mela consistently cooks flavorful dishes at a reasonable price.  Dinner including an appetizer, main dish and dessert (no drink or tip included) will cost $20.00 – $25.00 per person.  However, if you are like me temptations like Samosas and Naan will lead you to order more than you can eat and result in bringing home extra food. Mela recently added a limited organic menu featuring locally sourced ingredients, which I didn’t try on this visit but wanted to mention.

Tomato & Coconut soup – $5.00  and  Vegetable Samosa – $4.00

For our main dishes we ordered chicken tikka masala, a tandori-style plate cooked in rich tomato cream sauce.  We also ordered baingan bhartha which is a house specialty that includes baked eggplant with onion, garlic, ginger and spices.  Both meals were extremely satisfying and flavorful.  Not depicted below is the large bowl of jasmine rice which accompanies all entrees.

Chicken Tikka Masala $15   and   Baingan Bhartha $13

Mela is open for lunch as well as dinner and is relatively easy to get a table except during peak hours on weekends when a reservation are recommended.

Mela is in the South End at 578 Tremont Street  Tel: (617) 859-4805

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Why Massachusetts drives Conservatives crazy

Massachusetts has long been viewed (and probably rightfully so) as one of the most liberal states in the nation.  Social activists, academia, and politicians from Massachusetts have been a strong and consistent voice for the Left in a nation that is increasingly center Right.

We’re thinking of having a Massachusetts rally at some point in New Hampshire, sort of a please don’t turn America into Massachusetts” – Newt Gingrich, December 2011

Conservatives nash their teeth and say “Massachusetts” as a pejorative, and the current Republican Presidential candidates are no exception.  But all kidding aside, what is it that bothers Conservatives?  Here’s a quick look at some of the things that I think makes my state one to be emulated rather than ridiculed.

Massachusetts unemployment rate (while still too high) has consistently remained well below the national average (currently the Massachusetts unemployment rate is 7%).  While this isn’t the lowest – for states with a sizable population (5 million or more) only Maryland, Minnesota and Virginia have lower unemployment rates. (Source)

No matter how you measure it, Massachusetts has one of the healthiest populations with one of the lowest rates of obesity and fewest smokers.  In 2006, we became the first (and only) state to mandate universal healthcare so all residents have access to health insurance. (Source)

Despite claims MA is destroying American families (MA was the first state to legalize same sex marriage in 2004), we have the lowest divorce rate in the US (1.8% per 1,000 people).  (Source)

Massachusetts is one of the wealthiest states in the country (by the way that means we have less people as a percentage of our population relying on welfare and other social programs  Conservatives seem to hate so much). (Source) It also happens to be one of the few states to see childhood poverty rates drop last year. (Source)

One reason Massachusetts may be so wealthy is because as a percentage of the population, more people in our state hold a college degree than any other (not including Washington D.C.), making our state’s population one of the most highly educated in the US. (Source)

Massachusetts has its share of problems and has made terrible mistakes in the past, but we are learning from them and leading the nation by many measures.  So the next time you hear a Conservative bashing Massachusetts, pause and ask them what exactly about the quality of life we have here bothers them so much.

BosGuy is a cry baby

I really am quite the cry baby.  My firm generously closed offices early on Friday, December 23rd and only re-opened this morning, Tuesday, January 3rd. Its been a wonderful week relaxing and spending time with family and friends, but this morning when I awoke early, I couldn’t help but stifle a little bit of a tear that it was all over.  Yes, I’m most definitely a cry baby.

Gay For Good Boston chapter

With the holidays now behind us and 2012 full of potential, I wanted to tell you about a local chapter of a national organization called Gay for Good (G4G). Originally started in L.A. in 2008, there are now chapters in Boston, Chicago, Orange County, Pittsburgh, San Diego and San Francisco.

G4G organizes monthly volunteering opportunities that allows men and women the chance to give back to their local community and meet people.  To find out more about these opportunities you only need to register on their website gayforgood.org or you can check them out on facebook, Gay For Good Boston.

With many of us making resolutions to get more involved, give back and or meet more people I wanted to let you know about this great group.  Some of the volunteering opportunities the Boston chapter arranged in 2011 included: Rosie’s Place, Boston Healthcare for the Homeless and Community Servings, Franklin Park Zoo, Greater Boston Food Bank, Cradles to Crayons and Toys for Joys.  Below are photos from 2011 activities, which typically occur on weekends. After volunteering many often go out, adding a nice social aspect to the organization that allows you to further meet the members of this group.

 

Men of Twitter

Each Monday I post #MenOfTwitter profiles of men who catch my eye and whom I think you may enjoy following. As always, suggestions for profiles to feature are welcome. If you’d like to follow me on twitter, you can find me @BosGuy. Below are this week’s #MenOfTwitter.

If so inclined, leave them a nice comment and start following on Twitter.

Bertomio – I’ll admit it was for purely superficial reasons that have everything to do with Rob’s (BTW that’s his name) appealing profile picture that I started following.  This hunk who hails from The City of Brotherly Love has called Gotham home for the past 5 years. Two of his many passions include music and his black pug, Riley. And although he didn’t say so, he has a great sense of humor.  Check out his profile which no doubt was inspired from a line from  a Julia Roberts film (can you name it?) “I’m just a boy, standing in front of the twitterverse, asking it to love me.” #GAWJUS

DrMwba – Marcelo lives in New Jersey with his partner of 5.5 years.  He joins a list of past Men of Twitter who hail from Brazil, further perpetuating the stereotype that men from this South American country are easy on the eyes.  Originally from Rio de Janeiro,  Marcelo first came to the US to get his PhD in Public Health after finishing Dental school and residency. So he’s smart as well as good looking.  Lucky for us he never returned home and now you are likely to find Marcelo with his partner at their beach house in Rehoboth Beach, DE on weekends so if you visit the area be on the look out for this handsome Carioca and be sure to say “Oi“. #DELICIA

BTW if you like this post, retweet it. If you love this post, follow me, @BosGuy. Want to read more? Link here to see past #MenOfTwitter postings.

New Year’s resolutions that aren’t losing weight

With many people using the start of the new year as an excuse to return to the gym and focus on personal fitness and their health in general, getting space to stretch or snagging a treadmill to run off that excess weight may prove difficult.  Additionally, sticking to those New Year’s resolutions can be tricky for many people.

The Huffington Post published a great article today entitled New Year’s Resolutions That Aren’t Losing Weight.  Some of the suggestions (if followed) probably would result in losing weight and living a healthier 2012.  Just pick 2-3 of the suggestions and see if you can make it part of your routine.

1  Prioritize Sleep – make it a point to get 7 – 9 hours each night

2  Improve Posture – this can help your joints and will ease muscle aches

3  Take Vacations – time away from work and having something to look forward to is key to your health

4  No Soda – everyone knows these are not good for you (even the no calorie diet sodas are bad for your health)

5  Breathe – take a few moments to take a few deep breathes; it’ll relax you

6  Stop Snacking – duh, this is just common sense

7  Wash Your Face – wash up before going to bed (esp. for those wearing make-up) your skin will thank you

8  Try Yoga – as few as 10 minutes a day will reduce stress and can help your posture (see #2 as to why this is a good thing)

9  Bike or Walk – make this a part of your routine each week

10  Sorry – only say it if you really mean it; words matter

You can read the full article from the Huffington Post, here.

 

Room Service video

Although there is no nudity, this is most definitely NSFW (not safe for work). However, I do think its funny and thought I’d share the video which is chalk full of gorgeous men.

The UK video is entitled, Room Service: The Sex Tape Part 2, and it includes London DJ, Jodie Harsh. Still not sure if its his mix that is playing through out the video, but I do love the music accompanying the over-the-top clip.  Thanks to Ministry of Pleasure blog for bringing this to my attention.