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Restaurant review: Spoke Wine Bar

Located less than a five minute walk from the heart of Davis Square, Spoke Wine Bar first opened in 2013 but closed in 2016 before reopening under new management this spring with Eric Frier (Toro, Coppa, Ribelle) and Daniel Rodriguez (Uni, Clio) in the kitchen.

The restaurant serves “New American small plates”, and when I visited in August the menu was divided into three categories small, cold and hot with prices ranging from $5 – $23. My friend and I opted to sit at the bar which runs nearly the entire length of the restaurant and we were served by a friendly bartender who’s name unfortunately I never caught otherwise I’d be sure to give him a shout out for the excellent service we received.

We ordered four plates: one small, one cold and two hot plates to share, starting with smoked butter bean dip with sourdough bread ($8, shown above left) and the burrata served on a kohlrabi pesto with green strawberries and hazelnut ($15, shown above right).  The smoked bean dip was really delicious with the thickly sliced sourdough but the burrata plate was disappointing. When we cut into the cheese it failed to ooze into the bowl and neither of us enjoyed the flavor of the cabbage-pesto. To our server’s credit when he realized we didn’t care for the plate he immediately took it back and offered to deduct it from our tab.

Quinoa RisottoFortunately, our two hot plates were very satisfying, starting with the quinoa risotto ($16) shown above with summer vegetables and a ricotta salata. I was really surprised by how much I liked this plate and think the creative combination of flavors and complementing textures made this an excellent choice. Following the risotto the striped bass ($23) with mushrooms, kholrabi and big, leafy mustard greens, which added a dramatic pop of color along with flavor was another personal favorite.

spoke wine bar, davis square diningAlthough we were both satisfied after the three plates we dined on we were easily influenced to take a look at their dessert menu and quickly selected the rum crémeux ($10). It seems like crémeux are on many restaurant dessert menus, but for those unfamiliar with the name, think of a dense, creamy mousse almost the consistency of a pudding. This chocolate dessert was a decadent end to a delicious dinner and despite being small, was a great plate to share.

Spoke Wine Bar, Somerville dining, davis square
I really enjoyed my dinner at Spoke Winebar. The staff was friendly and more than competent, the menu was very creative and the space comfortable and pleasing to visit. Even though one of the plates wasn’t to our liking, I feel like I need to give bonus points to the staff for the way they responded. When a restaurant takes risks by combining different ingredients and flavors you have to respect the kitchen’s creativity. If we had a similar reaction to several plates, my opinion would probably change but everything else was so pleasing it is hard to fault the restaurant, considering how creative their entire menu is.

I wish the new ownership much success at Spoke Wine Bar and if you were to find yourself in Davis Square would certainly recommend this as an option. The restaurant is open Tuesday through Saturday (closed Sunday and Monday).

BosGuy Rating: 4 out of 5 stars, Awesome.

Spoke Wine Bar
89 Holland Street (Davis Square)
(508) 718-9463

Scruffy Sunday

handsome man in bed

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

man drinking coffee, handsome, hunkEnjoy your morning cup of joe (or whatever you may want to call him).

Saturday morning comic

gay cartoon, gay comic, James Asal Jr.

Click on this week’s comic strip to enlargegay comic, gay cartoon, James Asal Jr.ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Bonus fur

Hairy chest, leather

Enjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

Trophy Room Bear Brunch this Sunday 1-4PM

gay bostonCalling all cubs, bears & those that love them.  Trophy Room is teaming up with Mass Bears & Cubs to host their first ever Bear Brunch this weekend on Sunday, September 10th from 1-4PM. 

Reservations are available via OpenTable & walk-ins are welcome.

Furry Friday

underwear, handsome, hairy, hunk

Past Furry Friday Posts 

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser:
I have a thousand needles but I do not sew. Who or  what am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Gay Men’s Camping heads out of town for a weekend of camping on Friday at Wompatuck State Park in Hingham

Contemporary Queer Films of Mexico will be playing at the MFA through Sunday, September 10th in Boston

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders every Friday in Somerville

Opening Night: Men on Boats is at the SpeakEasy Stage at the Calderwood Pavilion and runs through October 7 in Boston

gay bostonFUZZ hosts their monthly dance party at the Alley in DTX on Friday starting at 10PM in Boston

The Coolidge After Midnight: The Warriors shows on Friday at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

Opening Night: WarholCapote opens at the A.R.T. on Saturday and runs through October 13th in Cambridge

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party every Saturday is at Paradise in Cambridge

The Coolidge After Midnight: Repo Man shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Boston, Back Bay

Open Newbury is happening again on Sunday from 10AM-6PM the street will be closed to automobiles to become Boston’s busiest promenade for the day

Bear Brunch head to the Trophy Room on Sunday for their first Bear Brunch with Mass Bears & Cubs from 1-4PM in Boston

Drag me to brunch from the Carrie Nation Cocktail Club is hosted by Destiny Boston and Dee Dee De Ray from 2-4 in the West End in Boston

gay kickball, boston gay sports leagueVarsity Gay League (VGL) kickball starts Sunday 2-5PM on the Boston Common – be sure to register first – in Boston

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Beer Club will meet at the Trophy Room at 7PM (all are welcome) in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

AAA Girls Tour comes to Boston Oct. 1

Willam Belli, Alaska Thunderfuck, Courtney ActWillam Belli, Alaska Thunderfuck and Courtney Act are touring this fall as The AAA Girls and they will be coming to Boston and performing at Machine or as Ryan Landry refers to it, “The Ramrod Performing Arts Center”.

General admission prices are roughly the cost of 2 martinis, $39 but ridiculously expensive packages that allow you special access and photos are also available for the FANatic.  The tour is also stopping at 14 other cities. Tickets for all their North American shows are available now at www.aaagirls.net.

Vintage gay

Shown above are Hollywood elite Tab Hunter and Anthony Perkins. The two kept their relationship a secret as both were in the closet when they met in the early 1960s. Below is a smiling photo of Tab from the 1950s. With his all American good looks it’s no wonder he was such a box office success.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Boston gay bars

gay bostonWith each new academic year, tens of thousands move to Boston for the first time. Unfortunately, Boston’s reputation for having a crappy nightlife if you are gay is painfully true but that doesn’t mean there are no gay bars or places to go.

Below is a list of venues that are currently active and worth checking out.

BOSTON GAY BARSLGBTQ boston bars, gay nightlife boston

Below is a listing of the remaining gay bars in Boston and Cambridge that I know about. Apologies for any bars I may have overlooked.

Boston Eagle 520 Tremont Street (South End) is not a leather bar despite its name. Often referred to as the Dirty Bird, this is one of Boston’s oldest running gay bars and mostly attracts an older crowd. Typically busiest after 12:30 / 1:00 on Friday and Saturday nights.

Cathedral Station 1222 Washington Street (South End) is Boston’s gay sports bar. The large space gets most crowded on summer evenings when their patio is open and during big sporting events when many come to watch. Cathedral also offers free parking (a rarity in Boston).

Club Cafe 209 Columbus Ave (South End / Back Bay) is Boston’s most popular gay bar. While its Napoleon Room has cabaret music, most come to socialize at the front bar or to dance. Mostly attracts a 20 and 30-something crowd.

dbar 1236 Dorchester Ave (Dorchester) Boston’s first gay bar in Dorchester attracts a younger crowd typically from the Savin Hill n’hood. They feature fun theme nights like Show Tune Tuesday and seasonal Tea Dances.

Jacques Cabaret 79 Broadway Street (Bay Village) is Boston’s only drag bar with shows 7-days a week as well as the location for a bi-monthly kink / fetish party called Fascination.

Machine / Ramrod 1254 Boylston Street (Fenway / Kenmore) Once upon a time Ramrod was Boston’s best leather bar bot those days are no more. Upstairs is Rarmrod and downstairs is the dance club, Machine: dancing, drag and more are options on different days.

Paradise 180 Mass Ave (MIT/Central Sq in Cambridge) is a two level dance club that also hosts drag shows and has go go boys. Their biggest night is typically Saturday when Chris Harris hosts Saga Saturdays.

Peggy O’Neill’s 1312 Dorchester Ave (Dorchester) is a pub that has also transitioned into a gay bar to serve the growing gay population in the neighborhood. Their biggest nights are Thursdays and Saturdays when they host dance parties.

The Alley 14 Pi Alley (Downtown Crossing) is located down a pedestrian alley and is a favorite for Boston Bears and Cubs. Special monthly parties like FUZZ offer dancing but this is typically more of a bar than a disco with trivia nights, pool tables and darts.

Trophy Room 26 Chandler Street (South End) is the former home of Boston’s gay bar, Fritz,  and is located on the first floor of the Chandler Inn. The bar is a cross between a gay sports bar and bistro that gets a cross-section of all ages and is popular with guys in the Back Bay and South End.

This week on Instagram: TheBearNakedChef

Adrian De BerardinisI first started writing about Adrian De Berardinis a.k.a. “The Bear Naked Chef” back in 2015 when he launched a short-lived YouTube cooking show where he made (mostly) Italian meals wearing an apron and little else. I actually made a couple of his meals and was sorry when the series stopped several months later.

Adrian has been keeping himself busy, and is currently planning to host a Roman culinary experience in October that will be filled with cooking lessons and exploring the region (you can learn more about this on his IG account if interested). Despite the fact that he is no longer sharing cooking videos on YouTube he continues to post handsome photos of himself, which in and of itself makes following Adrian worth following on Instagram.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BLO4MkKjxud/?taken-by=thebearnakedchef

Follow him on Instagram here, instagram.com/thebearnakedchef.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

baseball sports humorMuch thanks to @danfromboston for sharing this photo from the Detroit Tigers baseball game. Hopefully the image above and my suggested caption below inspires you to share a caption or two of your own. Bonus points to anyone who can make me laugh with their caption.

Give me back the baseball

Making friends: Boston’s LGBTQ social groups

With the influx  of so many new residents at the start of each academic year, I like to update and share this post each September. If you are new to the area or looking to meet more people outside of a bar setting the groups listed below might be a good first step.

Boston Gay Men’s Chorus is one of New England’s largest and most successful community-based choruses.  Auditions are later this week!

Boston Gay Men’s Books Club is monthly book club on MeetUp featuring literature by and about gay men. This month’s book is Insignificant Others by Stephen McCauley. They will meet on Monday, September 19 at 7PM at Trident Booksellers on Newbury Street in Back Bay.

Dignity Boston is a progressive, inclusive community of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Catholics and their allies. All are invited for liturgy and social every Sunday at 5:00 PM, St. Stephen’s at 419 Shawmut Avenue, Boston.

Fenway Health has been working to make life healthier for the LGBT community for more than 40 years; the Fenway and AAC are always looking for volunteers.

Gay Beer Club is a Boston based organization that produces events and gatherings for members of the gay community.

Gay For Good mobilizes the LGBT community to interact with the greater community by volunteering their time with different monthly activities.

Gay Men 50+ Club is for gay men and their male friends who wish to meet monthly for brunch and enjoy good conversation.

Gays for Patsy is a country western dancing club that holds events each month. Beginners are encouraged to join.

Hispanic / Black Gay Coalition HBGC is one of few non-profit organizations in Boston dedicated to the unique and complex needs of the Black, Hispanic and Latin@ LGBTQ community.

History Project is a volunteer-driven organization established in 1980 that focuses on preserving the history of Boston’s LGBT community to make it accessible to future generations.

Jamaica Plain and Roslindale Men’s Group is a social group for gay men living in, near and around JP & Rozzie that organize dinners and events regularly.

Keshet Boston is a grassroots organization working for the full inclusion of LGBT Jews in Jewish life, offering community events for LGBT Jews in Greater Boston.

Men of Melanin Magic is a social group in the Boston metropolitan area for those who identify as queer men of color.

New England Gay Men Camping is a social outdoor group for gay men who meet and plan local camping trips. Their next outing is later this week in Hingham at Wompatuck State Park.

Opus Affair is probably best known for their monthly cocktail party hosted at local restaurants  to raise money for local arts organizations. Next cocktail party is Tuesday, September 19th at Vanderbilt Kitchen & Bar in downtown.

OUTbreath offers a safe space for those who identify as queer, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning to come together to explore the practice of meditation and support each other in community.

Queer Boston Board Gamers is a friendly LGBTQ meet up group that connects every other Thursday (mostly in Cambridge) to play board games.

The Welcoming Committee is a young, social group who organize activities to broadening the spectrum of gay life here in Boston and beyond.

Yankee Cruising Club was founded over 25 years ago to bring LGBT boaters together to meet, make friends and most importantly get out on the water.

Apologies if I have overlooked any area gay organizations in the area.  Feel free to add information for any such group in the comments section of my blog.