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Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

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Furry Friday

Anyone know who this handsome guy is? I’ve decided he and I need to be best friends.

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:  I am a fruit. If you take away my first letter, I am a crime. If you take away my first two letters, I am an animal. If you take away my first and last letter, I am a type of music. What am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Have a wonderful weekend in Boston. Below is a list of LGBTQ+ friendly events and parties. Scroll to the bottom to see a listing of drag brunch and tea dance parties this weekend. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & Dancing upstairs w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Big NRG dance party w/ DJ RPrice @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

blend
THURSDAY: Taco Thursdays with Pride Sports Boston start @5PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party w/ Harlow Havoc @8PM & Friday Feels w/ Twisted Gleam @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch 11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Patio and bar open – no programming scheduled
FRIDAY: Red Sox host Blue Jays @7PM
SATURDAY: Red Sox host Blue Jays @4PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM | Red Sox host Blue Jays @1:30PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica Latina w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Kink & Tease Tea Dance w/ DJ Voxel @6PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ VJ Bobby Knight @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturday w/ DJ Michael Giller @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch @11AM & Toga Tea at d w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Christmas in July @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray 
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays 1 Year Anniversary w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: FURBALL underwear party w/ music by the Perry Twins @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Bar open, no programming
FRIDAY: Red Sox host Blue Jays @7PM
SATURDAY: Red Sox host Blue Jays @4PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM | Red Sox host Blue Jays @1:30PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe @10PM

FRIDAY: Trans Women of Color Show at Jacques Cabaret @10PM

SATURDAY: Kiki Beach join your fellow gays for a kiki at M Street Beach – look for the men in speedos near the life guard chair (link above shows in a map where the kiki is at).

SATURDAY: SummaLuvin Boat Cruise hosted by Lesbian NightLife leaves from Seaport @1PM

SATURDAY: Christmas in July w/ Christmas Carol at Jacques Underground @8PM

SATURDAY: Boom Saturday Latin Night returns to the Volcano room @9PM

SATURDAY: Furball underwear party w/ music by The Perry Twins at Legacy @10PM

SUNDAY: Drag Queen Story Hour w/ Patty Bourrée at The Paseo in the Seaport @2PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

DRAGtacular Brunch
Saturday @12PM
Laugh Boston

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Tease Brunch
Sunday @11AM
Lansdowne Pub

Article 24 Drag Brunch
Sunday @12PM
Article 24 in Brighton

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

Much thanks to longtime reader Angel who shared this photo with me. I thought it would make for an ideal vintage gay post. Unsure when this may have been taken but guessing the 80s.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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Mass Bears and Cubs 2022 Boston Harbor Cruise

Sunday, August 7th Mass Bears and Cubs will host their annual Boston Harbor cruise on the new ship, The Music City Queen. The three hour harbor cruise includes an underbear dance theme with a ‘relaxed’ dress code and music by DJ Stevie Psyclone.

What: Mass Bears and Cubs Boston Harbor Cruise
When: Sunday, August 7th 4:00PM – 7:30PM
Where: Massachusetts Bay Lines at 60 Rowes Wharf

Tickets to this annual party on the harbor have gone on sale. Make plans with your friends and purchase tickets today. For more information and to purchase tickets visit the link shared below.

Mass Bears and Cubs Boston Harbor Cruise

Caption this photo

This doesn’t seem to be a wise move on this guy’s part, but it does make for a particularly rich photo to caption. Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption in the comment section, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Pete’s Meats”

Book review: The Woman in the Library

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Australian author, Sulari Gentill, has written a murder mystery that was published earlier this year called The Woman in the Library. Sulari has an easy writing style that I enjoyed, and if you like murder mysteries, I’d suggest putting this on your reading list. It is well written and has a creative twist.

The novel begins with an email from Leo, a fan, to an author named Hannah – an Australian author who is writing a new novel – but more on Leo and Hannah later. In the opening chapter, we are introduced to our main character and narrator, Winifred “Freddie” Kincaid, a writer who has recently relocated from Australia to Boston thanks to a fellowship. We find her procrastinating in the Boston Public Library’s (BPL) Reading Room (shown above). She is suffering from an acute case of writer’s block, and rather than focusing on her novel, she is mostly looking at the ceiling and wondering about the three people sitting at the communal desk where she is seated: Freud Girl, Heroic Chin, and Handsome Man. When suddenly there is a blood curdling scream from somewhere in the library.

When security asks everyone to remain in the library, while a search is conducted, the four pass time chatting and learning more about each other. When they are allowed to leave they decide to grab a coffee in the library’s Map room and the opening chapter concludes, “And so we go to the Map Room to found a friendship, and I have my first coffee with a killer.” From this point forward, we know what Freddie’s new novel will be about.

In the days that follow, the four form an unlikely bond, and friendships develop. As the story unfolds, we come to learn more about each person – their history, personality, motivation – and realize not is all as it seems. As the mystery unfolds Sulari weaves a story within the story, with the correspondence Leo shares with Hannah. Initially his emails provide helpful comments about places in Boston that Hannah is describing and American vernacular, but as the novel proceeds Leo’s interest in the book escalate. I won’t go into anymore detail, other than to share this was a really fun read and one that I would recommend.

If you’re interested in purchasing this book and open to supporting local bookstores, try one of the links I’ve shared. You’ll be able to order it online in just a couple of clicks. Alternatively, you can check your local library for a copy of this book. Here is a link to the BPL copy for The Woman in the Library.

Brookline Booksmith in Coolidge Corner
Harvard Bookstore in Harvard Square
Porter Square Bookstore in Porter Square
Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe in Back Bay

Temptation Tuesday

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Men in kilts

Much thanks to Chad who posted this photo of a fireman showing off his kilt. It was initially posted on the Men in Kilts Facebook group back in the early spring.

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Monday morning mancandy

#Distracting

Monkeypox: What you need to know

Earlier this week the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) announced it would order 2.5 million more JYNNEOS doses – the vaccine for Monkeypox. The agency said it would also make an additional 131,000 doses available to states and jurisdictions to address the recent Monkeypox outbreak. The first case reported in the US was here in Boston at Mass General Brigham hospital on May 18, 2022, but since that time outbreaks have been reported in 43 states.

UPDATED AUG 5, 2022:
New Guidance from CDC including how to lower risk during sex, what to do if a new or unexplained rash (or other symptoms) appear, and how to lower your chance of exposure at places like raves, parties, clubs, and festivals: Updated CDC Guidance.

New York has the most confirmed cases with just under 500 cases as of July 15th. Massachusetts has 51 confirmed cases by July 15th. You can see how many reported cases are in your state using the CDC 2022 U.S. Map and Case Count.

Fenway Health has set up an excellent site to address questions about Monkeypox, that includes a fact sheet, information on how the virus is spread, symptoms to watch for, and treatment. And this week The Boston Globe published an excellent article about how Provincetown has mobilzed in response to the outbreak for those interested in learning more read, Inside Provincetown’s ‘Herculean’ effort to save the summer from monkeypox.

Vaccination eligibility
If you live or work in Massachusetts and are interested in getting the JYNNEOS vaccine, you will need to meet the CDC’s current eligibility criteria, prioritizing those who are most at risk of exposure to an individual with monkeypox. This includes:

Known contacts identified by public health via case investigation, contact tracing, and risk exposure assessments (this may include sexual partners, household contacts, and healthcare workers); as well as
Presumed contacts who meet the following criteria:
+ Know that a sexual partner in the past 14 days was diagnosed with monkeypox
+ Had multiple sexual partners in the past 14 days in a jurisdiction with known monkeypox

How to obtain a vaccine
The Massachusetts Department of Public Health intends to expand eligibility as more doses become available. You can follow the latest updates including how (and where) to make a vaccination appointment on the MassGov webpage set up to address questions about Monkeypox.

Where I can get the Monkeypox vaccine
The state of Massachusetts currently has more than a dozen vaccination sites but considering the increasing concern and spread of the virus bookmark this page as more sites may be added.

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

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