Category Archives: Gay

Men of Twitter

BosGuyEach Monday I post #MenOfTwitter profiles of men who catch my eye and whom I think you may enjoy following.  If so inclined, leave these guys a nice comment and start following them.

Men of TwitterAaronH89 – Aaron is a Boston native who is a second year law student so he’s got looks and brains (a potent combo). If he looks like a jock its because he played baseball until relatively recently when he injured his knee – dashing his dreams of a career in MLB. This handsome 20-something is as easy to chat with as he is on the eyes so start following and say hello to this shy Bostonian.

Men of TwitterHelloBlaine – Blaine is from Houston, Texas. This handsome techie is even more of a Twitter addict than me.  If you follow Blaine you’ll quickly learn that he loves men’s fashion and is interested in all things pertaining to health and fitness. Don’t be shy, Blaine is extremely friendly and easy to connect with on Twitter.

Check out past Men of Twitter postings.

LGBT Prom Tonight in Boston

LGBT YouthProm is a quintessential American right of passage that dominates teen movies and is part of the fabric of American culture.  Tonight more than 1,000 Boston area LGBT teens will come to dance and have fun at the nation’s oldest annual (and largest) LGBT Prom.

This tradition which started in 1981 is now held at Boston City Hall to accommodate the crush of teenagers who come to celebrate Prom with other gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender youth in a safe and accepting environment. Want to donate to BAGLY or learn more about this year’s prom which starts at 7PM tonight? Visit their website, www.bagly.org.

TGIF

Boston NightlifeWhat will you be doing tonight? There’s plenty happening here in Boston if you are looking for something fun to do. Here are a few suggestions you may not have thought of checking out.

Mr. Dick’s – Tobie Promotions makes it easy for you if you want to get out and shake your thang at Mr. Dick’s Night. Located in the Bijou night club at 51 Stuart Street in the Theater District. More info here.

Queer Fridays: Guilt – ChrisHarrisPresents.com hosts a large party just down the street from Mr. Dick’s in the Theater district at 75 Warrenton Street (across from the Blue Man Group Theater).

Pride: 40 Years of Protest & Celebration – The History Project shares images dating back to Vietnam-era protests through today’s massive June Pride celebrations. Tonight from 6PM – 8PM is the opening party and reception at the Boston Center for Adult Education in the South End. More information and tickets can be purchased here.

Cupcake The Musical – Not interested in hitting the bars? Check out the new musical, Cupcake, which is playing at Club Cafe. This is an original musical developed and produced locally which sounds like it serves up a few belly laughs.  Showtime tonight is at 8PM – call ahead to see if tickets are available or look to buy them online here.

Other shows in town worth checking out include The SpeakEasy Stage production of Xanadu playing at the Calderwood Pavilion on Tremont Street in the South End and The Lyric Stage production of Avenue Q.

Furry Friday

Furry FridayI believe this handsome young man is named Jonathan Smith.  I’m sure there are plenty who would like to be greeted by someone as handsome as Jonathan.

Past Furry Friday Posts

Mitt Romney: Beautiful liar

BosGuyBack in the 90s when Mitt Romney was campaigning against Senator Kennedy, he portrayed himself as a moderate Republican who would be an advocate for LGBT issues.

Bay Windows Mitt Romney Interview 1994

Looking at Mitt Romney’s actions since 1994, I would have to draw the exact opposite conclusion so I thought I’d dedicate this song to Mitt.

Happy Anniversary

BosGuyFor all the men and women who filed into Town Halls across the state of Massachusetts 8 years ago to become one of the first in our nation to marry, I would like to wish you a very happy anniversary.  I’m not exactly sure what tradition suggest you buy someone that year, but I’d like to share my thanks and sincere gratitude.

Should you know anyone who was married then and is celebrating their anniversary, please let them know how much I and I’m sure many who read my blog appreciate their bold step. I recall the hate groups that descended into Massachusetts and the terrible things they said.  The only positive I take from those memories was how nearly everyone in this State (even those who at the time were opposed to Same Sex Marriage) disavowed their tactics and rose up to let them know they were not welcome in this state.

Do you know your rights?

LGBT EqualityI’d like to thank Cole from The Maverick Men for sharing this.  The colorful radial chart shares which states in the US protect the rights of the LGBT community with respect to marriage, hospital visitation rights, adoption, employment, housing, hate crimes and schools.

The more colorful – the more your rights are protected (or to put it another way – the more they are guaranteed not to be taken away). The radial is dialed in on my home state, MA, which I’d like to point out is quite colorful.  How does your state fare? You may look at this more closely at The Guardian.

8th Anniversary of Same Sex Marriage

On May 17, 2004 Massachusetts became the first state in the United States to legalize same sex marriage. Eight years ago today more than 1,000 gay and lesbian couples streamed into city and town halls across the state seeking licenses to marry.

Damn Proud of Massachusetts

In eight short years six other states CT, IA, NH, NY, VT, WA (and the District of Columbia) have all recognized this as a civil right and legalized same sex marriage.  More recently, President Obama spoke out in favor of Same Sex Marriage when he told ABC News last week that he (and Michelle Obama) support the right of gays and lesbians to marry.

If dictionaries used pictures

Boston GuyI’d have this guy’s photo under the word “adorable”.

Suddenly it makes sense

Racquetball I’m more of a tennis enthusiast, but after seeing a few photos of the very handsome Rocky Carson, one of the best racquetball players in the US, I’m starting to get a deeper appreciation for this odd sport.

Look past the funny eye wear and try not to chuckle too much at the irony of men in tight spaces whacking the crap out of their little blue balls and you too may gain a sudden appreciation.

Elections matter

LGBT ObamaLast week President Obama made news when he added another first to his Presidency, becoming the first sitting U.S. President to support same sex marriage.  Cold calculated political move or something he genuinely believes (probably both but I don’t care).

In the days following his  announcement, Obama has raised more than $21 million.  Despite the fact that the economy remains the top issue for nearly all Americans, I can’t help but feel that Obama’s support has significantly increased the excitement for his base.  In recent days Obama has also indicated that he doesn’t believe the Defense of Marriage Act is constitutional.  These latest comments come only months after Obama repealed Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.

Be sure to register to vote and help to support President Obama. Should Romney win, The Defense of Marriage Act will not be repealed and it is likely Don’t Ask Don’t Tell will be brought back.

Your Vote Matters

Mayor Bloomberg speaks out against Amendment One

“At our nation’s founding, African-Americans were held in bondage. Those without property could not vote. Catholics could not hold office. Women could not vote or hold office. And homosexuality was, in some places, a crime punishable by death. 

Throughout our history, each and every generation has expanded upon the freedoms won by their parents and grandparents. Each and every generation has removed some barrier to full participation in the American dream. That work is not over. Far from it… Last week’s referendum banning same-sex marriage shows just how much more work needs to be done to ensure freedom and equality for all people.”

Michael Bloomberg, Mayor of New York City, comments at the University of North Carolina Chapel Hill commencement.

Rhode Island to recognize out-of-state Same Sex Marriages

Rhode Island Governor Lincoln Chafee signed an executive order today that recognizes same sex marriages performed in other states. The Governor’s actions gives gay couples the same rights as heterosexual ones when it comes to health insurance and a slew of other benefits.

Rhode Island’s only two border states, Massachusetts and Connecticut already recognize same sex marriage and since the state is so small it is assumed that many Ocean State residents may cross the border to marry until the time comes that Rhode Island takes that final all important step of not just recognizing but performing same sex marriages. Chafee’s executive order now makes Maine the only state in New England not to either recognize or allow same sex marriages.

Men of Twitter

Each Monday I post #MenOfTwitter profiles of men who catch my eye and whom I think you may enjoy following.  This week there is a definite Boston theme.  If so inclined, leave these guys a nice comment and start following.  If you’d like to follow me on twitter, you can find me @BosGuy. Below are this week’s #MenOfTwitter.

Boston BalletJamesBruceWhite – A.K.A. James Whiteside, is a native of Connecticut but lucky for us here, he’s been dancing in Boston since 2002.  He became a Principal Dancer with the Boston Ballet back in 2009 and happens to live in Boston’s South End (my hood).  I’ve never seen James in person but its not for lack of looking around.  Who knows perhaps our paths will cross, but til then one can still watch James perform and of course, follow him on Twitter.

RichardDustin – Dustin is the communications guru at a non-profit I once upon a time worked at, The AIDS Action Committee of Massachusetts.  Dustin is a Georgia native who found his way up here to Boston and is now fully focused on Tweeting about the upcoming AIDS Walk Boston.  Have questions about how you can get involved or participate in this year’s AIDS walk? Follow this personable and handsome 20-something.

Republicans vote to restrict rights of gay servicemen and women

BosGuyWhile it seems the Democratic Party’s leadership is doing its best to try and treat everyone equally under the law, some Republicans in the House Armed Services Committee in the US House of Representatives are intent on doing there utmost to legalize discrimination and to marginalize the LGBT servicemen and women.

The Armed Services Committee approved an amendment to the National Defense Authorization Act that would ban military bases from hosting marriages or “marriage-like ceremonies” between same-sex couples.  The Republican panel members also approved language to protect military personnel from reprisals for expressing “their moral principles and religious beliefs… concerning the appropriate and inappropriate expression of human sexuality.”  You can read the full story as reported on the blog, TheHill.com.