Category Archives: Gay

Acceptance trend of gays and lesbians is dramatic

Keen News Service reported last month that Americans are becoming “dramatically” more accepting of gay men and lesbians, according to a new report from a well respected, long-running social survey.  This is hardly surprising and why I get so angry with politicians, religious leaders and others who fan the flame of homophobia despite a growing divide between their twisted morality and what I’d refer to as common sense and common decency. Some of the key findings that should make the GLBT community and their allies feel good include:

In 2010, 46% surveyed supported same-sex couples marriage and 40% opposed; this shows a significant change from just over a decade ago in 1998 when only 11% supported this and 68% opposed it.

In 1973, 70% surveyed said same sex relations were “always wrong.” This rose to a high of 75%  in 1987 and 1988, but fell to 44% in 2010.

Only 32% of those under 30 felt sexual relations between same-sex adults was “always” or “almost always” wrong, versus 69% of those over 70.

If you would like to read the article in full, visit it online here.

David Gandy

I call this picture “Gandy Candy”

I’ve posted this picture of David Gandy before but I think it bears repeating. I know it has certainly brightened my day and hope Gandy Candy has the same effect on you.

Many LGBT patients feel alienated by their health providers

Massachusetts is a more progressive part of the US and a relatively safe haven for the LGBT community so I was surprised to read The Boston Globe article on Monday, LGBT patients search for healing; an excellent article which features the Fenway Health Clinic.

Researchers say that LGBT people are more likely to experience a variety of health problems…The reason is largely that they don’t seek health care for fear of being stigmatized in the doctor’s office.

The article is illuminating because living here it is easy to assume such problems don’t exist.  It also made me wonder if a place like MA which is welcoming to the LGBT community can still be frightening then what are the implications for those living in more isolated and intolerant places?

Despite the seriousness of the subject, I suppose I’m quite proud that The Boston Globe committed resources to report this story and it made me wish more mainstream media would follow suit.

What are your thoughts?

Men of Twitter

Each Monday I post #MenOfTwitter profiles of men who catch my eye and whom I think you may enjoy following. As always, suggestions for profiles to feature are welcome. If you’d like to follow me on twitter, you can find me @BosGuy. Below are this week’s #MenOfTwitter. Leave them a nice comment and start following them.

KeithStiles – This handsome guy with healing hands lived in Boston until just a few years ago before he packed up and left for NYC. Keith is a licensed massage therapist so he’s got great hands to go with his handsome face and killer body. He previously worked with Cirque du Soleil and traveled with the troupe for six years.  Want to learn more about this handsome guy, check out his website stilesmassage.com  #HealingHands

Kevinism – Kevin is a fascinating guy who lives in West Hollywood.  He happens to have a passion for helping others and making the world a better place. He does this by dedicating much of his time to his friend’s non-profit, Handing out Hope, and managing events for ImpulseGrp.org which is dedicated to promoting safe sex.  Want to learn more about Kevin? He has a lovely blog you may enjoy, kevinism.com. #CuteCalifornian

BakerByDesign – A.K.A. Chris is a native New Englander who recently moved to Boston after spending the last 7 years in Providence.  He recently decided to make a career change and follow a lifelong passion by becoming a pastry chef.  He is taking an intensive one-year program at The Cambridge School of Culinary Arts and is looking to get more experience in the food industry – anyone looking for a talented guy who happens to also be a bit easy on the eyes? #CuteChef

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Hey Sailor…

Did you know that starting today the Charlestown Navy Yard will host the  USS Stephen W. Groves?

Size queens are certain to mutter under their breathe that they’ve seen bigger if they visit the destroyer, but you tell them to be quiet.  Should you see sailors walking around Boston do ask and let’s hope they will tell.  Okay – I’ll behave now and stop with all the double entendres.

If interested, the USS Stephen W. Groves will be open for public tours on Saturday from 1pm-4pm, Sunday from 10am-4pm and Monday from 10am-4pm.

Men of Twitter

Each Monday I post #MenOfTwitter profiles of men who catch my eye and whom I think you may enjoy following. As always, suggestions for profiles to feature are welcome.

If you’d like to follow me on twitter, you can find me @BosGuy. Below are this week’s #MenOfTwitter. Leave them a nice comment and start following them.

CSalvatore – This Pennsylvanian, Chris, now resides in Los Angeles and is making a living as a singer and actor. In 2005 he lived out by me and studied vocal performance at Berklee College of Music in Boston but he moved away a year later to attend The New York Conservatory for Dramatic Arts where he studied acting. Last year Chris released two albums titled ‘Dirty Love’ and ‘The Sound Of This Beat’. You can read more about Chris and listen to some of his music on his Reverbnation page. #RolickinRocker

SerbianDejan – A.K.A. Dejan is originally from Chicago but now calls Boston home.  This busy guy is currently working two jobs and going to school for another degree.  He also has a blog for his Subway Series (you know you’re in Boston when you hear the metro referred to as a ‘subway’).  This guy is the real deal and as handsome in person as he is in his photo – and friendly to boot.  #SexySerbian

MancBoy87 – is a 20-something named Nick Bolton, who currently lives in Manchester UK.  Nick is currently unemployed and is contemplating a move to London. (Good news for the men of London and bad news for the guys of Manchester.) His twitter account is somewhat inspired by what he refers to as his “quarter life crisis”. Among Nick’s passions include environmental issues and volunteering for a charity called Otesha (@Oteshauk) who organise cycling tours and teach people about small changes they can make to help the environment such. #GoodLookinGreenie

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ARTcetera 2011

Every weekend in the fall there are large fundraising events but ARTcetera an event which raises funds for the AIDS Action Committee (AAC) always stands out.  The event started in the 1980s as a way for local artists and gallery owners to respond to the AIDS crisis which was ravaging the Boston arts community, and over the years it has developed into one of the largest art auctions in all of New England.

The charity fundraiser which was traditionally held in October on even numbered years took a temporary hiatus in 2010 so the AAC could rethink the program and breathe new life into the event.  Bryan Rafanelli and his events team did a beautiful job transforming The Castle and the new venue was a welcome change.

Below is a quick 3-minute video from the event which sold out and drew a record crowd of 800 supporters and art enthusiasts. ARTcetera 2011 is expected to raise more than $700,000 for the AIDS Action Committee of Massachusetts. Expand to full-screen for best viewing.

Dot Out Tea Dance at dBar

DotOUT’s 4th Annual Summer Solstice Tea Dance at dBar in Dorchester was on Sunday, June 27th from 4pm – 8pm.

The proceeds from the Tea Dance went to DotOUT – a grassroots, member driven organization committed to the ideals of acceptance, inclusion, fairness, and equality.

Several hundred members of the GLBT community came out to enjoy the good music, tasty beverages and to mingle with friends. While I was not able to capture pictures of everyone who attended, I wanted to post a few photographs that Sergio took for me. Thank you to all for your patience if you posed for one of the pictures.

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