Category Archives: Gay

Men in kilts

Photo Credit: Christopher Bowen photography

This week’s photo is from Scottish photographer, Christopher Bowen. The talented photographer has a number of photos of men in kilts, fitness models and animals – esp dogs. You can follow him on Instagram at @christopherbowenphoto.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

It’s a double dose of Mancandy to help you get through this morning.

Scruffy Sunday

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Mass Bears and Cubs competition

Mass Bears and Cubs wants you!

The annual Mass Bears and Cubs competition to name this year’s Mr. Boston Bear and Cub will take place next month in October and interested contestants should sign up now.

The competition provides contestants with the opportunity to make new friends, meet and interact with the greater community, showcase their talents, express their interests, show their support for the LGBTQ+ and Bear community. Mr. Boston Bear/Cub earns the opportunity to proudly represent Mass Bears and Cubs over the coming year and serves as the “MBC Ambassador” to Boston’s LGBTQ+ community.

This year the winner of Mr. Boston Bear and Mr. Boston Cub will earn $500 in cash prizes with the first runner up also winning $250. For more details about Mass Bears and Cubs competition and to register as a contestant visit the link below.

MASS BEARS AND CUBS COMPETITION INFO & REGISTRATION
Registration Deadline: Friday, September 30th

Saturday morning coffee

This week’s post is for all of you who take your coffee with a twink.

Furry Friday

Past Furry Friday

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of LGBTQ+ events and parties happening this weekend. Scroll to the bottom of this post to see a listing of drag brunches. Have an event you want included? Email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM followed by FUZZ w/ DJ Taffy & Brent Covington @10PM
SATURDAY: Oldies w/ DJ Denis @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

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THURSDAY: Taco Thursdays w/ Pride Sports Boston @5PM
FRIDAY: RPDR w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM followed by Friday Feels w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Pop Star Drag Brunch (reservations on Open Table) @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: No games but bar and kitchen open
FRIDAY: Red Sox play Orioles @7PM
SATURDAY: Red Sox play Orioles @5PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM | Red Sox play Orioles @1PM | Patriots play Miami @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca “Bad Bunny” after party w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Tea Dance w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @6PM

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FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ DJ Bobby Knight @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch (reservations on Open Table) @11AM & Tea at d w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: Willkommen sexy German DJ Ben Bakson @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: No games but bar is open
FRIDAY: Red Sox play Orioles @7PM
SATURDAY: Red Sox play Orioles @5PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM | Red Sox play Orioles @1PM | Patriots play Miami @1PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Boy George & Culture Club are at Chevalier Theater

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

THURSDAY: SAPPHIC NIGHTS – PAJAMA PARTY at GoodLife @10PM

FRIDAY: BPL Reading the Rainbow: LGBTQ Book Group online @4PM

FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ Frenchy Featuring Javonte Rose at Legacy @10PM

SATURDAY: Drag cabaret with Donatella Fermata at Club Cafe @4PM

SATURDAY: QTBIPOC Queer Mixer is at Union Tavern starting @9PM

SUNDAY: Lesbian NightLife Monthly Tea Dance at DBCo @4PM

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

The Return of Drag Brunch
Saturday @12PM
Lamplighter Brewing Co.

Dragtacular Brunch: Taylor vs Ariana
Saturday @12PM
Laugh Boston

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

This week’s vintage gay post comes from the @oldmasc Twitter account. According to the post this photo was taken at the NYC Piers in 1978. This was a very popular place for gay men to meet and connect prior to the AIDS epidemic. I can’t help but wonder what ever may have become of him.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Making friends: Boston LGBTQ social groups

With the influx  of so many new residents at the start of each academic year, I like to update and share this post. If you are new to the area or looking to meet more people outside of a bar setting, the groups listed below might be a good first step. 

If you don’t see relevant or up-to-date information in the links shared below, contact me, and I can help find a contact for that group to learn more. 

BAGLY is a youth-led, adult-supported social support organization committed to social justice, and creating, sustaining and advocating for programs and policies for gay youth (volunteers are always welcome).

Boston Gay Men’s Chorus is one of New England’s largest and most successful community-based choruses.  Auditions will be held January 19 and 23, 2022.

Boston Gay Men’s Books Club is monthly book club on MeetUp that focuses on literature by and about gay men. Their next MeetUp is on 9/19 at the BPL to discuss Virology by Joseph Osmundson.

Boston Gaymers is a thriving gaymer community, that holds various in-person and virtual events to bring together members and to have fun.

Boston Lesbigay Urban Foundation creates safe spaces for events to help build lasting relationships by breaking the cycle of disfunction in marginalized communities and helping to make medical and mental health awareness a priority to help lift up the black / brown / latino LGBTQ+ inner city community. 

Boston Prime Timers is a social organization of mature gay and bisexual men and their friends who join together for educational, support, and social activities.

Boston Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence an areligious Order of Queer, Clown Nuns who pledge to promulgate joy and to eliminate stigmatic guilt by volunteering, activism, entertaining, and educating people.

Boston Sober Gay Sundays is a private FB group that organizes social events for people who identify as sober in the LGBTQIA+ community. Learn more about the group, members, and activities they organize by requesting to join the group.

Dignity Boston is a progressive, inclusive community of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Catholics and their allies.

Fenway Health has been serving the local LGBT community for more than 40 years; the Fenway and AAC are always looking for volunteers.

Gay Beer Club is a Boston based organization that produces events and gatherings for members of the gay community.

Gay For Good mobilizes the LGBT community to interact with the greater community by volunteering their time with different monthly activities.

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Gays for Patsy is a country western dancing club that meets weekly on Sundays at the Calvary Church, 300 Mass. Ave. 6:30-8:30 pm. The first hour is for beginners.

History Project is a volunteer-driven organization established in 1980 that focuses on preserving the history of Boston’s LGBT community to make it accessible to future generations.

Keshet works to ensure the full equality of all LGBTQ Jews and their families. The group also create spaces in which all queer Jewish youth feel seen and valued and work to advance LGBTQ rights nationwide.

LGBT Elders of Color is a local group that conducts outreach to isolated LGBT older adults of color who build community through events, creative programs.

Mass Asian & Pacific Islanders (MAP) is a group that provide health counseling & support, referral & screening services, as well as general health promotion and advocacy for APIs in the Boston metro area and beyond.

Mass Bears & Cubs is a non-profit corporation, organized to provide and promote an inclusive LGBT+ community through charitable fund raising and other community events.

Men of Melanin Magic is an active social group for those who identify as queer men of color. They host an annual Men of Color Weekend in Provincetown and co-host Bussdown Fridays with Gay Mafia Boston at Legacy each Friday night.

Mountain Tops if you like to get out and hike, check out this gay hiking group in Boston that organizes trips and hikes regularly.

Naked Yoga for Men Naked Yoga For Men has been meeting since January 2000. For most of its history it has met twice per week.

Non-Scene Gay Friends of Greater Boston is a place for the LGBTQ+ community to hang out, make friends, explore Boston, and have fun doing a wide variety of activities typically separate from the gay bar “scene.”

Opus Affair while not exclusively a LGBTQ+ organization, it draws many from the community and is probably best known for their monthly cocktail parties to help raise money for local arts organizations.

OUTbreath offers a safe space for those who identify as queer, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning to come together to explore the practice of meditation and support each other in community.

Queer Boston Board Gamers is a friendly LGBTQ+ meet up group that connects regularly to play board games.

Yankee Cruising Club brings LGBTQ+ boaters together to meet, make friends and most importantly get out on the water. You don’t need to have a boat to join – just a passion for boating.

Apologies if I have overlooked any gay organizations in the area. Add information in the comments section or reach out to me, and I’ll be happy to add your group to this list.

Caption this photo

sports humor, humor

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption in the comment section, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“How you can tell who is left & right handed”

Boston gay sports clubs / teams

At the start of each academic year, tens of thousands of people move to Boston for the first time.  Whether you are new to Boston or just looking for an excuse to be more active and make friends, joining one of the many LGBTQ+ sports teams and clubs can help you do both.

Some sports leagues welcome beginners while others are more competitive (most are the former – not the latter). Additionally, some of these teams / leagues are seasonal so even though this post has gone live in early Fall, not every league is in session at the moment. Look through the list of 2+ dozen sports leagues and see which one is right for you.

If you don’t see relevant or up-to-date information on the league’s / team’s Facebook page, contact me, and I can provide you the name and email of the contact for that group for you to learn more. Alternatively, another great resource is the Facebook group, B.A.G.S. (Boston Alliance of Gay Sports) – check’em out.

Apologies if I have overlooked any area gay clubs or sports leagues.  Feel free to add information for any such group in the comments section of my blog

Temptation Tuesday

Say hello to this handsome, gay Aussie, Ryan Greasley. I’ve followed him on Twitter for a while now but this is the first time I’ve posted a photo of the fitness model. Hope he can distract you from the fact that the 2022 Summer season is now over. I hope you had fun.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

I’m certain I’ve shared this previously, but I think it’s worth a repost. WDYT?

If you’re in the US, I hope you’re enjoying the Labor Day holiday weekend.

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Monday morning mancandy

Pierre Vuala

It is Labor Day in the US and the holiday weekend signals the end of the 2022 summer season. I hope you had a wonderful summer and if you have today off from work – I hope you have a relaxing day.

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Scruffy Sunday

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